"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[BraveJohn]

I have a hard rule, I never meet a girl unless they send me a specific picture. Just a simple selfie standing in front of a mirror, holding up a certain number of fingers. Or have them jot my name on a piece of paper and hold that up. It accomplishes a few things. First off, that they are who they say they are. Can't tell you how many women I've chatted with for hours, but when you ask for that pic, they ghost you. It means they arent real. Second, It gives me a realtime pic of what they look like. And third, it lets me know they actually want to meet most of the time. If they arent willing to send a simple pic, how would you think they could do the dirty with me? If they balk at the picture, I just bail. No sense wasting any more time. If you use this method, your success rate will be much higher.

This is a good tactic.

[SoonerFan72]

What's your process for verifying them?

I have a hard rule, I never meet a girl unless they send me a specific picture. Just a simple selfie standing in front of a mirror, holding up a certain number of fingers. Or have them jot my name on a piece of paper and hold that up. It accomplishes a few things. First off, that they are who they say they are. Can't tell you how many women I've chatted with for hours, but when you ask for that pic, they ghost you. It means they arent real. Second, It gives me a realtime pic of what they look like. And third, it lets me know they actually want to meet most of the time. If they arent willing to send a simple pic, how would you think they could do the dirty with me? If they balk at the picture, I just bail. No sense wasting any more time. If you use this method, your success rate will be much higher.

[Duke Raoul]

Cocoxo20.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4e81b...8-9522a6dfdd71.

CocoDanger.

https://www.seeking.com/member/75707...0-79671d21d844

[Duke Raoul]

I use fake pics of a guy that looks a lot like me. So much so, I'd say 75% don't even notice. Now I do send them a real pic before we actually meet, but usually not until I've verified they are real, and have a good feel that we will actually be meeting. I've seen 5 girls on there that I know in real life, so there is no way I use my real pics. But at the same time, I'm not using some cologne models pics to try and lure in the ladies. Almost every girl has been understanding, I've only had one or two that bitched about it. Never tell them they are fake on SA, only in text.

What's your process for verifying them?

[Duke Raoul]

I use fake pics of a guy that looks a lot like me. So much so, I'd say 75% don't even notice. Now I do send them a real pic before we actually meet, but usually not until I've verified they are real, and have a good feel that we will actually be meeting. I've seen 5 girls on there that I know in real life, so there is no way I use my real pics. But at the same time, I'm not using some cologne models pics to try and lure in the ladies. Almost every girl has been understanding, I've only had one or two that bitched about it. Never tell them they are fake on SA, only in text.

Problem is, I can't find a pic of a guy that looks a lot like me, or even a little really.

[SoonerFan72]

Do any of you put pics of yourself on your profile? I'm reticent to do it myself, but so many of the girls won't even give you the time of day if you don't.

I use fake pics of a guy that looks a lot like me. So much so, I'd say 75% don't even notice. Now I do send them a real pic before we actually meet, but usually not until I've verified they are real, and have a good feel that we will actually be meeting. I've seen 5 girls on there that I know in real life, so there is no way I use my real pics. But at the same time, I'm not using some cologne models pics to try and lure in the ladies. Almost every girl has been understanding, I've only had one or two that bitched about it. Never tell them they are fake on SA, only in text.

[Isodt]

Do any of you put pics of yourself on your profile? I'm reticent to do it myself, but so many of the girls won't even give you the time of day if you don't.

Read back on the forum a bit. Ozy gave some tips to me on this.

[Duke Raoul]

Do any of you put pics of yourself on your profile? I'm reticent to do it myself, but so many of the girls won't even give you the time of day if you don't.

[Duke Raoul]

Chatting with this brand new SB. Anyone got intel on this one?

https://www.seeking.com/member/69bca...6-d954477e71f0

[AllTheTime]

It's disgusting how much disposable income they're willing to just waste with no return. They have no value of a dollar, just disrespecting the American dollar.

Then they run so much mental gymnastics to try and justify their simpish ways. Claiming to "save time" instead of money.

But most of them are wasting time and money, along with their dignity. Some men are just pathetic.

First, let's be honest. Vast majority of people think anyone paying anything for sex is pathetic, so glass houses?

Sending cash before services rendered or even in the same location is risky, no matter what the industry; that's a separate thing. But there's nothing wrong with choosing quality and / or reliability over inexpensive. I've yet to see a girl on, say, STG, I'd want to be with for free, much less an arrangement. The problem today is not spending extra $$$ for better quality; it's that the extra dollars don't translate into that (particularly in terms of reliability).

[Parrot Scope]

Just check every 2 weeks in the escort review threads. Dumb asses send cash app deposits before meeting every fucking time. Then they talk about, I can't believe I got ripped off. Ahh duh. You just sent money to a person whom you never met before in your damn life. What did you think was gonna happen. Ah duh. I don't think anyone should post any more warnings about any of these chic's. Just let dumbasses continue to be dumb asses and send $250 cash app deposits for a chic's room. LOL. They got infinite money to burn.

It's disgusting how much disposable income they're willing to just waste with no return. They have no value of a dollar, just disrespecting the American dollar.

Then they run so much mental gymnastics to try and justify their simpish ways. Claiming to "save time" instead of money.

But most of them are wasting time and money, along with their dignity. Some men are just pathetic.

[Bobt45]

They are fake, they look pretty decent. She isn't happy with them, wants to redo them.

The last I heard from her was she needed $ 4 or else she'd feel like a "cheap *****". I told her thanks but no thanks. I don't even want to give her $ 3.

[SoonerFan72]

She has bolt ons.

They are fake, they look pretty decent. She isn't happy with them, wants to redo them.

[Bobt45]

I like bigger girls if they aren't fat. (Well, really, I like many kinds of girls, including bigger ones.) What I don't really like are bolt-ons. From her picture, I suspect she may be sporting a pair of store bought boobs. Are they real or fake?

She has bolt ons.

[NewAnonymousName]

https://www.seeking.com/member/44f25...0-b33dedbde1db

I've been with Cammie, she is legit. As others have said, she is a big girl. She carried it well though, she doesn't have a big gut or anything. If she lost 20, she would be smoking hot. That being said, the main even was decent. She was cool to chat with, but had a little too much of a business feel to the meeting. She is down on her luck for now, she lost her job due to Covid. Not sure I'd see her again, but I also wouldn't tell someone not to.

I like bigger girls if they aren't fat. (Well, really, I like many kinds of girls, including bigger ones.) What I don't really like are bolt-ons. From her picture, I suspect she may be sporting a pair of store bought boobs. Are they real or fake?