Seeking Arrangements

[Bran001]

Yellow bluee https://www.seeking.com/member/7ef27...6-ca34c128d617.

Was talking with this one and their messages were strange. Definitely foreign, fake?

Did not answer any questions while talking and wanted to video chat. I declined, I do not video chat as it is not secure and can be used for blackmail.

They said bye, so make your own conclusions. I offered to talk on the phone or any other mode and app.

They refused, only video chat.

I won't do video chat prior to meeting. I've had a couple of POT SB's 'require' it. Nope! It's risky enough sharing photos. It's "to show you're serious. " I put that up there with sending them funds to "show I'm serious. " Nope!

[Herow]

So over the years I have had a handful of girls tell me they arent online when they clearly are. Most claim that the app logs them in even when they don't open it. I say this is complete BS! Case in point, if you have girls in your favorites list they are in a certain order when you view. Wait 5 minutes and the order most likely changes. This is due to the fact the when a girl initiates an action like opening or responding to a message her profile refreshes and she pops back to the top of the Favorites list.

I am curious about what you guys think about this.

Unless they explicitly logout, which only happens sometimes on the website and basically never on the phone, it shows them as logged in. It shows them as logged in for a quite a while after they close the website without explicitly logging out. Why? Because it's better business for SA to have it seem like there are more active people. If you are using SA to stalk the activity of someone, prepare to be disappointed. If they show up as logged in and claim they haven't been on for a few days, that's probably bullshit.

[JohnTies]

Fun Boston Girl no link as I blocked her. Not sure what her deal is, either a pro or trouble maker.

Messaged a couple times back and forth, then she sends me she is looking for something very casual. Meet up for a few nsa ppm dates, see if it turns into something regular.

I block her instantly as that crap will get you kicked off.

[JohnTies]

Yellow bluee https://www.seeking.com/member/7ef27...6-ca34c128d617.

Was talking with this one and their messages were strange. Definitely foreign, fake?

Did not answer any questions while talking and wanted to video chat. I declined, I do not video chat as it is not secure and can be used for blackmail.

They said bye, so make your own conclusions. I offered to talk on the phone or any other mode and app.

They refused, only video chat.

[JohnTies]

Another time waster.

Michellehots https://www.seeking.com/member/ffe64...b-0549b6fcf7a6.

This one is fake I believe from how her profile is written.

Messaged and they told me they are not meeting anyone as they are moving to Florida. LOL.

[PaulRew]

So I told this women I was looking for something casual. Her reply was that she was too, and proceeded to say she just wanted someone to add fun to her life, to make her laugh, wine her and dine her and take her on vacations. Yeah, that's totally casual lady. Oh, but she's "not looking for a relationship. " Hilarious.

https://www.seeking.com/member/7846a...a-4f91ff2460ab

She just joined and may hit a sweet spot for many of us. She is getting CRUSHED with messages and she is getting a big head. We talked yesterday morning and she was all in for a real date. Fast forward 8 hours and she tells me I need to " Earn it".

Yeah, get the fuck out with that LOL. In two weeks she will be back to normal or gone.

[TheList00]

So I told this women I was looking for something casual. Her reply was that she was too, and proceeded to say she just wanted someone to add fun to her life, to make her laugh, wine her and dine her and take her on vacations. Yeah, that's totally casual lady. Oh, but she's "not looking for a relationship. " Hilarious.

https://www.seeking.com/member/7846a...a-4f91ff2460ab

Thanks I was going to message her myself, looked like a hot MILF for someone 46 but if casual to her means no sex I'm good.

[XBostonBoyX]

Where are the escorts on Reddit?

There aren't any escort / sex for money subs per se however sometimes there are opportunities in the general r4 r subs.

[Patriarchist]

So I told this women I was looking for something casual. Her reply was that she was too, and proceeded to say she just wanted someone to add fun to her life, to make her laugh, wine her and dine her and take her on vacations. Yeah, that's totally casual lady. Oh, but she's "not looking for a relationship. " Hilarious.

https://www.seeking.com/member/7846a...a-4f91ff2460ab

[Red Star 819]

Does she offer BBFS?

I honestly don't know. She didn't give any indication that she would be down for that, and she even asked me to stop by the store before I came and grab some condoms. So from what I can tell, she's all about using condoms.

[Rome400]

LOL this chick made a post on Reddit for $100 BJ's last year on Reddit, post got taken down but I got her info beforehand.

Where are the escorts on Reddit?

[Bran001]

Like Bran states SA is the best for quality and volume. However these girls are higher end also. I've have gotten lucky on all of the sites but if you're only paying for one SA is the best especially if you are near Boston because of the sheer volume. I'm in NH so the pickings are a lot less and it's more difficult to find a non flaker. I do like a single mom and have had one in my stable for a while but she has been a challenge lately because she moved back to her parents house. I found her on FB. It's all about the odds and eventually you can get one to stick.

I haven't seen my single mom fwb (found her on CL prob 5 years ago) since Feb, as her daughter (about 10 yrs old) is home all the time now with her. No school, no camp, no play-dates.

[Joe1223]

Looking to get back into the game, only action this year has been with an UTR but that has been very inconsistent. I had some leftover credits on Secret Benefits and have been trying to strike up some leads but I have been fruitless so far. Has anyone had any luck there or should I switch over to Seeking?

Like Bran states SA is the best for quality and volume. However these girls are higher end also. I've have gotten lucky on all of the sites but if you're only paying for one SA is the best especially if you are near Boston because of the sheer volume. I'm in NH so the pickings are a lot less and it's more difficult to find a non flaker. I do like a single mom and have had one in my stable for a while but she has been a challenge lately because she moved back to her parents house. I found her on FB. It's all about the odds and eventually you can get one to stick.

[Bran001]

Hmm I do like the single moms! I just don't go for the 'pro's' -- might have to check out SB again.

Checked out SB just now. Definitely for me a step down from SA. An older / chubbier / lower-rent (meaning, not the students from well-off families who nevertheless need rent or student loan help) crowd. But there probably are some hidden gems in there. It costs $60.00 to initiate conversations with 10 women. Not a great value as for $90.00 you're unlimited on SA for a month.

[Bran001]

The two attract a slightly different population (although some women are definitely on both). SA is more upscale and many more college kids. Lots of GPS on Seeking, but also plenty of fun to be had. I would say that there are upwards of 3 x the sheer numbers on Seeking. So your odds are higher. That being said, I have found some gems on SB. Single moms abound, trying to eke out a few extra dollars and there go I. If I only had enough money for one and not both, however, the choice would be SA because of the plentiful choices.

Hmm I do like the single moms! I just don't go for the 'pro's' -- might have to check out SB again.