What in the fuck are you talking about?

[TwoShots]

People can forget and forgive but death is so freaking permanent.

[TheMechanik365]

I have ccw & carry, but I agree with everything you said. Anyone carrying needs professional training, regular practice, & good sense. You should never pull your weapon to bluff, or to try & intimidate your way out of a situation that bad judgement got you in. I am among those that would rather be judged by 12 than carried by 6, but I would also rather give up my wallet than kill someone. For me it is the very last resort if I believe my LIFE is in jeopardy, NOT my wallet, honor, or dignity. I hope everyone stays safe out there, and be smart.

Sounds great in theory, until you're in a courtroom facing considerable jail time, the disdain of your significant other, being disowned by your kids and being a pariah in the community.

There are some things worse than death...

[Gator1961]

I have ccw & carry, but I agree with everything you said. Anyone carrying needs professional training, regular practice, & good sense. You should never pull your weapon to bluff, or to try & intimidate your way out of a situation that bad judgement got you in. I am among those that would rather be judged by 12 than carried by 6, but I would also rather give up my wallet than kill someone. For me it is the very last resort if I believe my LIFE is in jeopardy, NOT my wallet, honor, or dignity. I hope everyone stays safe out there, and be smart.

I just got my CCW about a year ago and I must admit I rarely carry. . . Never while in the hobby. Just have not yet gotten used to having a firearm on me or really even in close proximity. I really try to stay out of bad situations and definitely listen to my spidey senses as much as possible. . . An ounce of prevention. . .

I really got a lot out of this discussion. Thanks to all who contributed. Good advice.

Gator.

[IT Guy]

I have ccw & carry, but I agree with everything you said. Anyone carrying needs professional training, regular practice, & good sense. You should never pull your weapon to bluff, or to try & intimidate your way out of a situation that bad judgement got you in. I am among those that would rather be judged by 12 than carried by 6, but I would also rather give up my wallet than kill someone. For me it is the very last resort if I believe my LIFE is in jeopardy, NOT my wallet, honor, or dignity. I hope everyone stays safe out there, and be smart.

First and foremost I have had my CCW for going on 8 years now. I carry a lot of places, but I also make sure to not carry a lot of places where having a gun is more of a liability than a safeguard.

Just walk yourself through a quick scenario: You get robbed and either brandish or give up the money. Me, I give up the money. A few hundred isn't worth a potential shootout to me. That's some dumb ass cowboy shit. But let's say you brandish. They either back down or call your bluff. If it's the former you're good. But if it's the latter either you need to kill someone, or they're going to kill you. So it's important to understand that when you're pulling a gun either the other guy backs down or someone dies. Over a few hundred bucks.

So let's say you're the victor here. You're going to jail. That isn't up for debate. As pointed out below legal carry becomes illegal the second you commit another crime. And let's not pretend like you can chat your way out of this like you would if you're pulled over with a girl in the passenger seat. The cops will want to know why you're there and how you know the victim / girl. They're going to take a look at your phone records. There's no getting around the fact that they will find out you were seeing a prostitute and that someone ended up dead. So now you're already committing a crime, and you're faced with prosecutors that know you showed up to see a hooker with a piece. AT BEST it is your word vs the girl. There aren't a lot of scenarios where you come away from this without serving time.

So I don't carry. Because a few hundred dollars isn't worth it to me. More importantly I don't see the sort of low rent girls where this might be a problem. We all have different standards and means but you have got to understand when you're visiting these $150/ hr girls in mediocre apartments, or worse shitty motels, you're asking for trouble. Staying safe is less about making sure you got a gun on you and more about not being an idiot about where you go and who you see. Sure I might pay a premium but I never once worried about getting robbed.

[CuriousGeor]

First and foremost I have had my CCW for going on 8 years now. I carry a lot of places, but I also make sure to not carry a lot of places where having a gun is more of a liability than a safeguard.

Just walk yourself through a quick scenario: You get robbed and either brandish or give up the money. Me, I give up the money. A few hundred isn't worth a potential shootout to me. That's some dumb ass cowboy shit. But let's say you brandish. They either back down or call your bluff. If it's the former you're good. But if it's the latter either you need to kill someone, or they're going to kill you. So it's important to understand that when you're pulling a gun either the other guy backs down or someone dies. Over a few hundred bucks.

So let's say you're the victor here. You're going to jail. That isn't up for debate. As pointed out below legal carry becomes illegal the second you commit another crime. And let's not pretend like you can chat your way out of this like you would if you're pulled over with a girl in the passenger seat. The cops will want to know why you're there and how you know the victim / girl. They're going to take a look at your phone records. There's no getting around the fact that they will find out you were seeing a prostitute and that someone ended up dead. So now you're already committing a crime, and you're faced with prosecutors that know you showed up to see a hooker with a piece. AT BEST it is your word vs the girl. There aren't a lot of scenarios where you come away from this without serving time.

So I don't carry. Because a few hundred dollars isn't worth it to me. More importantly I don't see the sort of low rent girls where this might be a problem. We all have different standards and means but you have got to understand when you're visiting these $150/ hr girls in mediocre apartments, or worse shitty motels, you're asking for trouble. Staying safe is less about making sure you got a gun on you and more about not being an idiot about where you go and who you see. Sure I might pay a premium but I never once worried about getting robbed.

[TwoShots]

Also, your CWP is for "lawful" citizens to protect themselves from predators while engaging in lawful activities. Trying to convince a judge and or jury that you had a right to carry a weapon while breaking the law (engaging in the unlawful act of prostitution) is what's called a conundrum.

That's the point I was trying to bring when I asked about the legalities of bringing a ccw into an illegal activity. I had ccw in 2 countries and in both a legal ccw becomes illegal if the ccw holder is engaged in committing a crime.

So the question is, would you like to be judge by 12 or carried by 6? I rather try to not put me in that predicament.

[Corvette704]

There is no right or wrong answer. To each his own.

Whatever makes you comfortable. In my several years of mongering, I've never been robbed (Knock on wood), never been approached by unseemly characters and never felt like I needed a weapon.

Having said that, I know that the possibility of that happening is all too real. However, I also believe that carrying a gun into that situation (seeing a prostitute) can cause more harm than good. I know many of you are banking on just brandishing it will ward off the evil. But what if it doesn't and you have to pull the trigger? What probably would've been you just being out of a couple hundred bucks, now has the police involved and now you have some splainin to do.

Whether you carry or not, the best self defense is awareness and trusting your gut. Do your due diligence. Read this board for reviews. Google photos and numbers. If the place looks shady or the situation seems shady, trust your big head.

Also, your CWP is for "lawful" citizens to protect themselves from predators while engaging in lawful activities. Trying to convince a judge and or jury that you had a right to carry a weapon while breaking the law (engaging in the unlawful act of prostitution) is what's called a conundrum.

Imagine being in court and the prosecutor is telling the jury, the pos that tried to rob you wouldnt be dead if Mr. X (you) hadnt brought a gun while knowingly committing a crime... The way this society despises guns and prostitution, youd be lucky if they didnt throw the book at you...

Again, I'm not telling anyone to carry or not to carry. Every sane person should have the right to choose. However, there are many things to consider when introducing weapons into any situation...

BTW, I have my CWP and carry everywhere I'm LEGALLY allowed.

This is the best comment on this subject.

[TheMechanik365]

There is no right or wrong answer. To each his own.

Whatever makes you comfortable. In my several years of mongering, I've never been robbed (Knock on wood), never been approached by unseemly characters and never felt like I needed a weapon.

Having said that, I know that the possibility of that happening is all too real. However, I also believe that carrying a gun into that situation (seeing a prostitute) can cause more harm than good. I know many of you are banking on just brandishing it will ward off the evil. But what if it doesn't and you have to pull the trigger? What probably would've been you just being out of a couple hundred bucks, now has the police involved and now you have some splainin to do.

Whether you carry or not, the best self defense is awareness and trusting your gut. Do your due diligence. Read this board for reviews. Google photos and numbers. If the place looks shady or the situation seems shady, trust your big head.

Also, your CWP is for "lawful" citizens to protect themselves from predators while engaging in lawful activities. Trying to convince a judge and or jury that you had a right to carry a weapon while breaking the law (engaging in the unlawful act of prostitution) is what's called a conundrum.

Imagine being in court and the prosecutor is telling the jury, the pos that tried to rob you wouldn’t be dead if Mr. X (you) hadn’t brought a gun while knowingly committing a crime... The way this society despises guns and prostitution, you’d be lucky if they didn’t throw the book at you...

Again, I'm not telling anyone to carry or not to carry. Every sane person should have the right to choose. However, there are many things to consider when introducing weapons into any situation...

BTW, I have my CWP and carry everywhere I'm LEGALLY allowed.

[John HandCock]

Everyone has to make that decision. Only carry if you absolutely know you can use it. If your not sure leave it home.

To the guy who got robbed with a knife to chest a gun wouldn't have helped you there. Would have been same result except the robber would have had a new toy to pawn or sell.

I see the words common sense and we're in charge here. My common sense tells me not to go into bad areas, into a house with lots of people there or any place that makes me feel unsafe. As far as being in control guys have 2 heads. If the little head is leading you into bad situations then you have no control or common sense.

Again everyone right to decide what's best for them and don't let the little head put you in bad situations.

[RodneyWrc8]

Sorry, but no I do not feel the need to carry a weapon. When that becomes the case I can promise you I will be completely done. Kinda stinks you need to bring a weapon with you in order to feel safe. This isn't the Wild West.

I respect yours or anyone else's right to carry or not. You may have seen a post I shared on here about a bad experience I once had, I shared this just for pure enlightenment to my own bad experience not to try and change minds and hearts on carrying a gun contrary to what some of these other morons on here might believe. Again much respect to anyone that chooses what's best for them! Good luck and be safe out there.

[RodneyWrc8]

I'm definitely with you. Some guys don't like to carry and I am not here to judge. I carry for my reasons, not preaching it's the only way. A secure monger wouldn't be worried about another's choice. Guys are going to do what's in there best interest. Who am I to judge? Those who write with all this passion seem to have something to gain? But I'm not a damn bit persuaded. Some guy accused me of embellishments, I admire muthafackaz that have solved all their own problems and now want solve mine 😂. Before you try to use my post exercise a depleted ego, think about this? Do your thing and let me do mine. I won't shed a tear if high pimp does a beat down on ya, seems like you know what your doing, right?

PAL, I have shared this for everyone, how you or anyone else takes it that's on you or them. Your damn right I will do what I need to protect myself from these thug ass bastards or anyone if need be. For the record I wasn't using anyone's post, I just seen where someone started a ridiculous thread and decided to share my OWN bad experience to the forum. One more thing, maybe you've never encountered such a bad experience but for us that have we wouldn't shed a tear for you if it did as you have stated. Have a nice day!!

[TwoShots]

Go back to the main Charlotte page and look at the massage parlors and indie massager threads.

A few questions here though, what do you thing about doing out call at a motel? I know it adds to the cost but seems safer. Also what is the AMP scene?

[RodneyWrc8]

Same street? Yup they were together. I have been robbed a few times over the years while out mongering. Everything from a gun to my head to a knife on my back to a a few thugs threatening me. Thank God I was able walk away each time. Because of this I have stuck more to the AMP scene. When I see someone shot at the no hotels I often wonder if the victems are mongers and set up. It wasn't like this 10-15 years ago. But now these thugs and drugged out women will do anything to make a buck. I don't pick up street walkers anymore. I don't go to hotels anymore. And I do not go to bad neighbor hoods. I have had enough. Of that shit. I value my life more then getting my dick wet inside a demon infested hoe.

A few questions here though, what do you thing about doing out call at a motel? I know it adds to the cost but seems safer. Also what is the AMP scene?

[Corvette704]

I thought I would share something with all these anti-gun people. I was once robbed at knife point while on a dream visit, me and my date had entered the room and she ask me if I would go over to the WH-next door to get her something to eat, I say okay and on the way back to the room is when this thug scumbag mutha-fuck comes from out of the dark and sticks a knife to my chest demanding my wallet. I was shocked pissed and scared all in one. I thought really hard about just slugging the guy but something in me says this bastards not alone and I WAS RIGHT! He goes and gets into a truck on the passengers side. I made it to my car and chased them down and got the tag number, went back to the motel and called the police. Three weeks later they caught this scum and he confessed to everything and only served two years.

To this day I don't if I were setup by my dream date or not, I actually had seen her many times before and had a great time. I did see her more after this too and she denied that she had set me up. Funny thing is though, this guy had a street address on the police report where I picked up my date, you tell me? Like I said I had seen her many times before with no issues?

So, do I wish I had gun back then, hell yea I do! Nowadays you need one just to go to the damn mailbox. So knock off this anti-gun shit please!!

Same street? Yup they were together. I have been robbed a few times over the years while out mongering. Everything from a gun to my head to a knife on my back to a a few thugs threatening me. Thank God I was able walk away each time. Because of this I have stuck more to the AMP scene. When I see someone shot at the no hotels I often wonder if the victems are mongers and set up. It wasn't like this 10-15 years ago. But now these thugs and drugged out women will do anything to make a buck. I don't pick up street walkers anymore. I don't go to hotels anymore. And I do not go to bad neighbor hoods. I have had enough. Of that shit. I value my life more then getting my dick wet inside a demon infested hoe.

[Titlicka]

I thought I would share something with all these anti-gun people. I was once robbed at knife point while on a dream visit, me and my date had entered the room and she ask me if I would go over to the WH-next door to get her something to eat, I say okay and on the way back to the room is when this thug scumbag mutha-fuck comes from out of the dark and sticks a knife to my chest demanding my wallet. I was shocked pissed and scared all in one. I thought really hard about just slugging the guy but something in me says this bastards not alone and I WAS RIGHT! He goes and gets into a truck on the passengers side. I made it to my car and chased them down and got the tag number, went back to the motel and called the police. Three weeks later they caught this scum and he confessed to everything and only served two years.

To this day I don't if I were setup by my dream date or not, I actually had seen her many times before and had a great time. I did see her more after this too and she denied that she had set me up. Funny thing is though, this guy had a street address on the police report where I picked up my date, you tell me? Like I said I had seen her many times before with no issues?

So, do I wish I had gun back then, hell yea I do! Nowadays you need one just to go to the damn mailbox. So knock off this anti-gun shit please!!

I'm definitely with you. Some guys don't like to carry and I am not here to judge. I carry for my reasons, not preaching it's the only way. A secure monger wouldn't be worried about another's choice. Guys are going to do what's in there best interest. Who am I to judge? Those who write with all this passion seem to have something to gain? But I'm not a damn bit persuaded. Some guy accused me of embellishments, I admire muthafackaz that have solved all their own problems and now want solve mine 😂. Before you try to use my post exercise a depleted ego, think about this? Do your thing and let me do mine. I won't shed a tear if high pimp does a beat down on ya, seems like you know what your doing, right?