NoVA SugarBabies

**FogHorn1** · 08-07-20 11:27

Originally Posted by Pathfinder04 [View Original Post]

It has to do with not being an asshole. No one is saying you can't do it, you can yell at employees who want to make you wear masks, and refuse to tip waiters too, but an asshole is an asshole is an asshole. I prefer to be decent to people. Most of these girls have problems already and often not their faults, they aren't pieces of fish.

(And before you say, that's not what I said, you agreed "1000%" with someone who said rules of common decency don't apply).

You're entitled to your opinion for sure, I have no problem with that. And I wasn't going to say "that's not what I said" I know exactly what I said and I stand by it. I don't think it makes me an asshole to not be taken advantage of by someone who doesn't look like their pics and who has misrepresented (lied) about themselves. Guys that allow that make it difficult for those of us who don't. That's, in part, what leads to GPS and these ladies continue the cycle of taking advantage of men who would treat them well, sans the lies.

**DWinthrop** · 08-07-20 09:43

Originally Posted by RegularJoe1985 [View Original Post]

Are you going to say to the girl after you've invited inside, gotten naked, to get out because you don't like her boobs for whatever reason?

Yes. 100%.

I'm not going to pay to f* someone I don't find attractive.

**RegularJoe1985** · 08-07-20 07:57

This one seems BSC crazy. Texts all over the place. She has no idea what she is looking for.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b5399...8-ea25a12084b7

Avoid or play along. As you wish.

**Shinshi** · 08-07-20 01:56

Originally Posted by FogHorn1 [View Original Post]

Agreed, 1000%.

Call me crude but for me it's no different than ordering the steak at a restaurant and being served fish. I'd send the fish back on the principle that I'm paying, I deserve what I want. If the meal was free I might just eat the fish and be thankful for a free meal. Same applies to this sort of thing. I'm paying. I'm getting what I want. If it's not as advertised it's being sent back like the fish. If it's free, I might just be thankful. That probably sounds terrible in today's PC society but it is what it is.

Originally Posted by Pathfinder04 [View Original Post]

It has to do with not being an asshole. No one is saying you can't do it, you can yell at employees who want to make you wear masks, and refuse to tip waiters too, but an asshole is an asshole is an asshole. I prefer to be decent to people. Most of these girls have problems already and often not their faults, they aren't pieces of fish.

(And before you say, that's not what I said, you agreed "1000%" with someone who said rules of common decency don't apply).

I get where both of you are coming from. Personally if an escort or SB isn't as pictured, then they're lying. Period. And in my everyday life and profession, I tend to take it personally when lied to. That said, I wouldn't put them on blast, curse them out, or make a scene. Turning these women away isn't an insult. The real insult is them offering a product / service which didn't measure up to what had been advertised. Nevertheless, Pathfinder04 is right that it doesn't hurt to be a gentleman and remain courteous throughout.

During such unfortunate occasions, I'd politely point out that they haven't been honest with me leading up to that meet before asking what they thought we should do next. Most apologize profusely while claiming to be concerned about their privacy (a couple of the more apologetic ones offered a discount which I never partook). I remember offering one of those women a 20 as she seemed genuinely sorry for wasting our time and was pleasant enough. Maybe it was a "southern thing," but many were very cordial and didn't take offense. Also didn't hurt that they were all incalls, so it was easier to bounce afterwards.

Only one went bat shit crazy. In hindsight, I probably shouldn't have let her in but I also didn't want to talk with her in the hallway. After confronting her about the deception (she weighed 50+ lbs more than the woman in the BP ad) and asking her to leave, she threatened to out me. Problem is she only had my burner number and didn't know where I worked or lived (which was several hours distant). She ranted & raved while I tuned her out for the next several minutes. At some point, she then grabbed my backpack and made for the door. I easily knocked it out of her hands, slammed the door shut, and said I'd have no problem throwing fists if she ever tried that stunt again. Now I don't hit girls and hardly considered a big dude at all, but she got the message and made herself scarce once I reopened the door. Before disappearing from sight at the elevators, she threw in a final "fuck you" and was gone. Management did come calling about the noise complaint, but they left me be and I eventually found someone else later that night. That was one of my very first outcalls in 2013 or 2014. Good times, haha!

**ShortMan22** · 08-06-20 23:15

Originally Posted by Tophat31 [View Original Post]

Nope. I share but took me awhile to find these girls.

The only ones that have been reviewed on here is the BBBJ girl and my big booty black girl. My big booty girl actually had a bad review which shocked me, but happy at the same time that they won't see her again.

As for the other 3 all mine LOL.

Are you sure that these SBs are loyal to you? Just asking?

**BStreet** · 08-06-20 22:58

I am sure are probably not just yours

Originally Posted by Tophat31 [View Original Post]

Nope. I share but took me awhile to find these girls.

The only ones that have been reviewed on here is the BBBJ girl and my big booty black girl. My big booty girl actually had a bad review which shocked me, but happy at the same time that they won't see her again.

As for the other 3 all mine LOL.

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**Mazvid** · 08-06-20 22:27

Originally Posted by Pathfinder04 [View Original Post]

It has to do with not being an asshole. No one is saying you can't do it, you can yell at employees who want to make you wear masks, and refuse to tip waiters too, but an asshole is an asshole is an asshole. I prefer to be decent to people. Most of these girls have problems already and often not their faults, they aren't pieces of fish.

(And before you say, that's not what I said, you agreed "1000%" with someone who said rules of common decency don't apply).

At Pathfinder +1.

**Pathfinder04** · 08-06-20 19:05

Originally Posted by FogHorn1 [View Original Post]

Agreed, 1000%.

Call me crude but for me it's no different than ordering the steak at a restaurant and being served fish. I'd send the fish back on the principle that I'm paying, I deserve what I want. If the meal was free I might just eat the fish and be thankful for a free meal. Same applies to this sort of thing. I'm paying. I'm getting what I want. If it's not as advertised it's being sent back like the fish. If it's free, I might just be thankful. That probably sounds terrible in today's PC society but it is what it is.

It has to do with not being an asshole. No one is saying you can't do it, you can yell at employees who want to make you wear masks, and refuse to tip waiters too, but an asshole is an asshole is an asshole. I prefer to be decent to people. Most of these girls have problems already and often not their faults, they aren't pieces of fish.

(And before you say, that's not what I said, you agreed "1000%" with someone who said rules of common decency don't apply).

**Tophat31** · 08-06-20 12:53

Originally Posted by AksWorld [View Original Post]

Man you should share your lineup with us 😉.

Nope. I share but took me awhile to find these girls.

The only ones that have been reviewed on here is the BBBJ girl and my big booty black girl. My big booty girl actually had a bad review which shocked me, but happy at the same time that they won't see her again.

As for the other 3 all mine LOL.

**RegularJoe1985** · 08-06-20 12:45

Originally Posted by KevinCalormis [View Original Post]

I've sent more than one girl home from the FC upon arrival because they weren't to my liking. And if they have been shy or misleading about their pics, I'll tell them exactly why I'm dismissing them.

They are selling their physical attributes, that's the product. Normal rules of politeness and decency don't apply.

You can't mix multiple things. Perhaps you've not been following the thread so are not aware of the context.

It is one thing if the pic is misleading, in which case all bets are off.

But looking at the girl, you cannot figure out if her boobs are not to your liking.

The only way to find that out is by getting her naked.

Are you going to say to the girl after you've invited inside, gotten naked, to get out because you don't like her boobs for whatever reason?

**AksWorld** · 08-06-20 12:18

Originally Posted by Tophat31 [View Original Post]

I thought I would share my views on sugar baby pricing. I have a solid rotation of 5 with one just for BBBJ only. One all around pretty model looks, the other a small petite 4'11 latina (just came back after a bf breakup), a big booty black girl, and finally a pretty young Asian. My requirements are no condoms (otherwise why not just see an escort) and MSOG (typically twice) per meet. All gave me push back initially when I suggested no condoms, which is what I am looking for but eventually overcome by showing a test. I have had this rotation for about one year now since joining SA. I was back on SA trying to find a girl for threesomes with my girls but no luck. Surprisingly each one of the girls are open to a threesome but based on their "types" none are compatible based on my gut feeling.

Anyways, always pay per meet. Does anyone on here actually do an allowance? Just doesn't seem practical.

$100 to $150 - BBBJ only. The girl I have do this I have reviewed. She is high volume but always available and lives close.

$300 - this is pretty much I think the standard rate for a quality SB. Again all BBFS, CIP for 2 of them since they are on birth control and other 2 are not, and MSOG. Also low volume, although you can never tell but it's just a vibe. Also must take venmo.

$500 - So this rate is reserved for exceptional beauty. All other requirements apply but the big thing about this rate is that they need to host. Not only host but host in a high quality location, not some dump. I have had two that I considered at this rate. One I see every now and then (my asian girl) and the other I was getting ready to see and she canceled on me the day of so I lost interest and went back to my other girls.

Here she is, anyone see her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/5bb45...7-3e4c5303e131

Those are my thoughts. Really no in-between.

Man you should share your lineup with us 😉.

**FogHorn1** · 08-06-20 12:13

Originally Posted by KevinCalormis [View Original Post]

I've sent more than one girl home from the FC upon arrival because they weren't to my liking. And if they have been shy or misleading about their pics, I'll tell them exactly why I'm dismissing them.

They are selling their physical attributes, that's the product. Normal rules of politeness and decency don't apply.

Agreed, 1000%.

Call me crude but for me it's no different than ordering the steak at a restaurant and being served fish. I'd send the fish back on the principle that I'm paying, I deserve what I want. If the meal was free I might just eat the fish and be thankful for a free meal. Same applies to this sort of thing. I'm paying. I'm getting what I want. If it's not as advertised it's being sent back like the fish. If it's free, I might just be thankful. That probably sounds terrible in today's PC society but it is what it is.

**DWinthrop** · 08-06-20 11:30

Originally Posted by RegularJoe1985 [View Original Post]

One never tells any girl to her face that her physical attributes are not to one's liking.

I've been in situations where I went through the session but did not repeat. But would never say anything to a girl about it. Not much they can do except maybe get implants if boobs are an issue. But not everything can be fixed similarly.

I've sent more than one girl home from the FC upon arrival because they weren't to my liking. And if they have been shy or misleading about their pics, I'll tell them exactly why I'm dismissing them.

They are selling their physical attributes, that's the product. Normal rules of politeness and decency don't apply.

**RegularJoe1985** · 08-06-20 11:25

Originally Posted by AksWorld [View Original Post]

Haha. It's Google image search. Then you have been very good in picking girls I guess. I met a 20 year girl in seeking who had worst than these tits but still I couldn't say no to her after meeting as I thought it won't be right to her as young girls get affected more due to these things than mature ones and ended up spending 250 plus hotel ☹65039;.

One never tells any girl to her face that her physical attributes are not to one's liking.

I've been in situations where I went through the session but did not repeat. But would never say anything to a girl about it. Not much they can do except maybe get implants if boobs are an issue. But not everything can be fixed similarly.

**AksWorld** · 08-06-20 10:41

Originally Posted by RegularJoe1985 [View Original Post]

You too are the best judge of her since both of you have seen her. But I do agree that she's not worth 500, no freaking way...

But I don't remember seeing opinions that are on opposite sides of the scale and that too in a span of a couple of weeks.

Also, I haven't seen any early 20 yr old that had those saggy tits as in your pic, all the early 20's I've seen have had really firm tits. Where are you getting these pics from.

Haha. It's Google image search. Then you have been very good in picking girls I guess. I met a 20 year girl in seeking who had worst than these tits but still I couldn't say no to her after meeting as I thought it won't be right to her as young girls get affected more due to these things than mature ones and ended up spending 250 plus hotel ☹65039;.