NoVA SugarBabies

**Shinshi** · 07-30-20 19:35

Originally Posted by Dimples572 [View Original Post]

You know things are going to be great when this is your initial exchange. LOL.

Me: Hello.

Do you typically write a simple "hello" when first messaging? I'm actually curious as to how you & others strike up a convo. For me, I've written variations of the following depending on what's in the SB's profile: "Hi (insert name if regular-sounding), your profile caught my attention & I'm definitely interested to know more. So how has the ongoing apocalypse been treating you these days?

I get some SBs aren't into small-talk, which isn't technically what I'm after. I figured that it's a neutral, yet friendly, ice-breaker and is much better than outright saying I want a FWB (which would likely scare most off). Telling them my preference for a NSA / FWB is usually introduced within a message or three later. But now, I'm starting to second-guess that approach due to having as much luck lately as when first starting out on the site. Within the last 3-4 weeks & after approximately 150 messages, most are ignored outright (75%) some are looking for an online-only thing (10%) and some respond intermittently / sporadically (15%).

At this time, I have 2 great SBs whom I see regularly (one once-a-month, and the other twice-a-month). So I can't complain too much, especially since one of them has stopped asking for payment altogether! On the other hand, I've been trying to expand that rotation and figured I'd ask what seems to bring you all the most success. Cheers!

**FogHorn1** · 07-30-20 16:00

https://www.seeking.com/member/03b4d...5-d87d36fb0ec2

Same picture as a scammer from last week. Looks like she has a new account that just started today. Beware.

**Dimples572** · 07-30-20 13:50

You know things are going to be great when this is your initial exchange. LOL.

Me: Hello.

Her: Hey there, how are you?

Me: I'm great, thanks for asking Love. My name is (insert anonymous name), how are you?

Her: I could be better to be honest.

(Que the Price Is Right loser sound bite) and get ready for some bullshit sob story about how she can't afford to take care of her sick mother and needs X amount paid up front, blah blah blah.

Blocked and on to the next one.

**FogHorn1** · 07-30-20 12:42

Originally Posted by Jost815 [View Original Post]

After going back and forth for a little with her we agreed we were looking for someone things and this was the quote I got from her, "Great, Venmo me so I know its real. " I'm not going to venmo her anything before meeting so that was the end of that.

Many of these ladies try the same crap, asking for electronic money transfers before meeting. Leads me to believe there are guys willing to do it or they'd stop asking. I guess it's the same reason some are asking for 700-1000 ppm; someone is paying it, just not me.

**Jost815** · 07-30-20 10:00

After going back and forth for a little with her we agreed we were looking for someone things and this was the quote I got from her, "Great, Venmo me so I know its real. " I'm not going to venmo her anything before meeting so that was the end of that.

Originally Posted by DickLongwood [View Original Post]

I messaged her early this year but got a minimal reply.

**FogHorn1** · 07-30-20 09:56

Originally Posted by GuideMaster67 [View Original Post]

Anyone know anything about her, she's been on for a while, but refuses to answer any questions about herself. So no idea what she does etc, she is verified though.

https://www.seeking.com/member/1fe2f...e-218039617260

I messaged her and got no response. Doesn't look like she ever even read my message.

**DickLongwood** · 07-29-20 22:21

Originally Posted by GuideMaster67 [View Original Post]

Anyone know anything about her, she's been on for a while, but refuses to answer any questions about herself. So no idea what she does etc, she is verified though.

https://www.seeking.com/member/1fe2f...e-218039617260

I messaged her early this year but got a minimal reply.

**GuideMaster67** · 07-29-20 19:50

Anyone know anything about her, she's been on for a while, but refuses to answer any questions about herself. So no idea what she does etc, she is verified though.

https://www.seeking.com/member/1fe2f...e-218039617260

**AdcFellow** · 07-29-20 13:55

Originally Posted by Jsidd [View Original Post]

So the CEO of SA wants us to sign a petition to support ivermectin + an unknown antibiotic as a cure for Covid. 🙄.

Interesting how a medication for parasites like lice can kill a virus like covid, can there be a day without people stupidly posting random information?

I agree completely. I do research in this area, and posts like this from the CEO are maddening. While it is true that preliminary results for ivermectin have been shown to reduce viral count in cell culture, we are a long way from showing it will work in vivo to treat COVID-19, and even farther away from showing that it is safe in the amounts and regimens needed to reduce Sars-Cov2. If you want to see the research, you can look at https://www.sciencedirect.com/scienc...66354220302011.

I am begging people to think about things before reposting.

**Jsidd** · 07-29-20 13:24

Originally Posted by FogHorn1 [View Original Post]

How you guy gents feel about video chat? I've have 2 girls now almost insist on it. We stopped chatting when I didn't agree. Seems like a way to blackmail if you ask me, just wondered about the opinions of others. I'm just imagining these girls somehow recording the chat session and using it as leverage.

Rather chat with a burner number instead of a video that can be recorded.

**DWinthrop** · 07-29-20 13:18

Originally Posted by FogHorn1 [View Original Post]

How you guy gents feel about video chat? I've have 2 girls now almost insist on it. We stopped chatting when I didn't agree. Seems like a way to blackmail if you ask me, just wondered about the opinions of others. I'm just imagining these girls somehow recording the chat session and using it as leverage.

Yes, terrible idea.

**Jsidd** · 07-29-20 12:37

So the CEO of SA wants us to sign a petition to support ivermectin + an unknown antibiotic as a cure for Covid. 🙄.

Interesting how a medication for parasites like lice can kill a virus like covid, can there be a day without people stupidly posting random information?

**John HandCock** · 07-29-20 11:28

Originally Posted by FogHorn1 [View Original Post]

How you guy gents feel about video chat? I've have 2 girls now almost insist on it. We stopped chatting when I didn't agree. Seems like a way to blackmail if you ask me, just wondered about the opinions of others. I'm just imagining these girls somehow recording the chat session and using it as leverage.

It's a good idea as long as it's used to verify each other's looks. If it's used as a blackmail tool the mere mention of making a police report and prosecuting should take care of that. If that's their inclination wouldn't be any different than using text or an actual meeting as blackmail material. Just the chat g rated to verify looks only.

**FogHorn1** · 07-29-20 10:39

How you guy gents feel about video chat? I've have 2 girls now almost insist on it. We stopped chatting when I didn't agree. Seems like a way to blackmail if you ask me, just wondered about the opinions of others. I'm just imagining these girls somehow recording the chat session and using it as leverage.