Seeking Arrangements

**Joe1223** · 07-19-20 18:49

Originally Posted by BigStu [View Original Post]

I am not even sure if it's a lady reporting you. I'm very careful and haven't really talked to anyone in 1. 5 months it was only because I forgot to cancel my account that I got charged another month. I found 6 ladies that seem great, half of them I have done meet and greets and another 8 ladies that seem like decent fits and a bunch I have meet over time that I can call on. But after 1. 5 months of not talking to anyone I get the soliciting ban also. It's like did I get banned for not renewing my account? Because they probably make more money if they ban someone & that person has to start from zero with a new profile & renew talking to the girls they were talking to. Because at the very least you need to renew (unless you know KoF's hack) to finish talking to the girls you were talking to & at worst you need to almost start again with girls being like I was so and so and go banned. So they get another 1 or 2 months of pay out of you. I will probably send a request for them to review that soliciting charge, because I am very careful, if the come back and say sorry it stands than I know it was them just cancelling my account because they want me to start from new on a paid account. I mean we'd can't report them to the BBB for being a bad business. Covid has probably been bad for them, so dropping some semi paying clients makes sense to get them to start again from ground zero with a paid account.

For me SA has been great, of the 6 that seem to fit me great I met 2 ladies who don't want money just want to be taken out and are willing to do FWB's in exchange for a fun day, although it's not a low budget fun day which is fine with me. And I see a part time model form SA who's amazing. So SA has been great for me but probably for the next 4 months I don't need to renew or start a new profile but like I said I will try fighting the ban and if they approve it, I'll renew.

I think with the other sites shutting down the natural migration has been to SA. So the less quality girls and scammers have arrived in all their glory. SA take a lot of work and patience but I have been able to line up 2-3 regular girls and not blow up my budget. The hit rate is like 1 out of 10 for me but I am getting laid weekly.

**PaulRew** · 07-19-20 16:46

So I have a secondary account to see if girls have blocked me etc. When I set it up I left out User Name, pics, heading etc. This allows me to view profiles but when I go to "favorited me " or "Viewed me" tabs it says "Your profile cannot be discovered yet". However I can view profiles and also have a favorites list.

So my question is does this mean I am invisible ieI can view profiles but they don't know I viewed them?

**PeterBoris** · 07-19-20 14:57

Originally Posted by BigStu [View Original Post]

I am not even sure if it's a lady reporting you. I'm very careful and haven't really talked to anyone in 1. 5 months it was only because I forgot to cancel my account that I got charged another month. I found 6 ladies that seem great, half of them I have done meet and greets and another 8 ladies that seem like decent fits and a bunch I have meet over time that I can call on. But after 1. 5 months of not talking to anyone I get the soliciting ban also. It's like did I get banned for not renewing my account? Because they probably make more money if they ban someone & that person has to start from zero with a new profile & renew talking to the girls they were talking to. Because at the very least you need to renew (unless you know KoF's hack) to finish talking to the girls you were talking to & at worst you need to almost start again with girls being like I was so and so and go banned. So they get another 1 or 2 months of pay out of you. I will probably send a request for them to review that soliciting charge, because I am very careful, if the come back and say sorry it stands than I know it was them just cancelling my account because they want me to start from new on a paid account. I mean we'd can't report them to the BBB for being a bad business. Covid has probably been bad for them, so dropping some semi paying clients makes sense to get them to start again from ground zero with a paid account.

For me SA has been great, of the 6 that seem to fit me great I met 2 ladies who don't want money just want to be taken out and are willing to do FWB's in exchange for a fun day, although it's not a low budget fun day which is fine with me. And I see a part time model form SA who's amazing. So SA has been great for me but probably for the next 4 months I don't need to renew or start a new profile but like I said I will try fighting the ban and if they approve it, I'll renew.

I only had a few days left so I think you are correct.

**TheList00** · 07-19-20 14:11

Originally Posted by PeterBoris [View Original Post]

This site is getting worse every day. I was thrown off yesterday for soliciting I didn't say anything on the site so some lady had to have reported me. I have been a member on and off 4 times in the last year. This time I found more scammers then ever. I did find a few that were worth seeing but I am through with Seeking.

Dude its a scam site at best IMO. I was a premium member for months and 2 weeks ago my membership ended and I didn't renew seeing I have alot of contacts from there now. Now I've been on for months chatting up woman no problem, now I'm not a member and can't message anyone. So about 14 days later I'm banned for trying to solicit sex. So I sent them an email saying its fucking impossible for me to solicit sex because I'm not premium and can't talk to nobody. They replied back with some bullshit and didn't release the ban so I just made a new profile. Sites a joke and theres a scam somewhere in it but who knows but I find it ridiculous that I'm messaging woman non stop for months paying them without a problem then I decide not to renew and all of a sudden of soliciting sex.

**Big Stu** · 07-19-20 13:27

Originally Posted by PeterBoris [View Original Post]

This site is getting worse every day. I was thrown off yesterday for soliciting I didn't say anything on the site so some lady had to have reported me. I have been a member on and off 4 times in the last year. This time I found more scammers then ever. I did find a few that were worth seeing but I am through with Seeking.

I am not even sure if it's a lady reporting you. I'm very careful and haven't really talked to anyone in 1. 5 months it was only because I forgot to cancel my account that I got charged another month. I found 6 ladies that seem great, half of them I have done meet and greets and another 8 ladies that seem like decent fits and a bunch I have meet over time that I can call on. But after 1. 5 months of not talking to anyone I get the soliciting ban also. It's like did I get banned for not renewing my account? Because they probably make more money if they ban someone & that person has to start from zero with a new profile & renew talking to the girls they were talking to. Because at the very least you need to renew (unless you know KoF's hack) to finish talking to the girls you were talking to & at worst you need to almost start again with girls being like I was so and so and go banned. So they get another 1 or 2 months of pay out of you. I will probably send a request for them to review that soliciting charge, because I am very careful, if the come back and say sorry it stands than I know it was them just cancelling my account because they want me to start from new on a paid account. I mean we'd can't report them to the BBB for being a bad business. Covid has probably been bad for them, so dropping some semi paying clients makes sense to get them to start again from ground zero with a paid account.

For me SA has been great, of the 6 that seem to fit me great I met 2 ladies who don't want money just want to be taken out and are willing to do FWB's in exchange for a fun day, although it's not a low budget fun day which is fine with me. And I see a part time model form SA who's amazing. So SA has been great for me but probably for the next 4 months I don't need to renew or start a new profile but like I said I will try fighting the ban and if they approve it, I'll renew.

**PeterBoris** · 07-19-20 04:59

This site is getting worse every day. I was thrown off yesterday for soliciting I didn't say anything on the site so some lady had to have reported me. I have been a member on and off 4 times in the last year. This time I found more scammers then ever. I did find a few that were worth seeing but I am through with Seeking.

**HounDog3** · 07-19-20 02:03

Amandla17, scammer, stay away. Can't post a link because she blocked me. Number has 631 area code and ends in 2423. Profile originally said Boston and changed to Massachusetts, Massachusetts. Quoted 300. Says she's located in Carlisle and can host. My schedule has been crazy and we were unable to find a time. Coming week looks good. Texted to set it up and then came the 'oh baby can you send me something in advance'.

I despise scammers. Who doesn't? But rather than getting pissed off or frustrated over time lost, I take my sweet revenge and have some fun in the process. It typically goes something like this. Negotiate an amount to pay upfront then back and forth a couple times over what cash app to use, because of course, I don't have one she needs. Next I suggest a wire to her bank account and ask for bank routing number and account number. Eventually, when I've had a sufficient amount of amusement, I text there's as much chance of me paying in advance as the corona virus magically disappearing overnight. I also wish her good luck, suggest she needs a more effective scam if she wants to make any money, and thank her for the entertainment. You can imagine the infantile tantrums that often ensue in response. Amandla17 had one of the better ones I've seen in some time and thought it's worth sharing. Here, unedited with typos and all, was her reply:

LOL. Had 2 that just paind.
Fool.
Get the fuck.
Asshole.
Bastard.
(reference to an STD).
I'll get yoy.

My laugh for the day. Stay safe and happy hunting.

**NewEngland** · 07-17-20 13:02

Originally Posted by Bran001 [View Original Post]

I like a good 3 some as much as the next guy, but BE WARY. Don't get into a hotel room or go to an apartment, for the first time, with 2 women. Way too easy a scene to end up robbed. There are so many 20-somethings who will play with women; find one and then add the 2nd. It's really easy to do.

Frauds they move around have posted in Providence and bristol ri before.

**Bran001** · 07-17-20 07:03

Originally Posted by JoeParkers [View Original Post]

Speaking of $500. I just chatted with this ones and they say dinner and sex $500 each. I said thank you and bye. Both in Framingham and wants to do threesome. So if any of you has a thousand to drop. Be my guest. Aint going to be me.

https://www.seeking.com/member/23a57...7-002894613689

https://www.seeking.com/member/00b63...a-c6f0b7af1357

I like a good 3 some as much as the next guy, but BE WARY. Don't get into a hotel room or go to an apartment, for the first time, with 2 women. Way too easy a scene to end up robbed. There are so many 20-somethings who will play with women; find one and then add the 2nd. It's really easy to do.

**Kuro4** · 07-17-20 02:17

Originally Posted by JoeParkers [View Original Post]

Speaking of $500. I just chatted with this ones and they say dinner and sex $500 each. I said thank you and bye. Both in Framingham and wants to do threesome. So if any of you has a thousand to drop. Be my guest. Aint going to be me.

https://www.seeking.com/member/23a57...7-002894613689

https://www.seeking.com/member/00b63...a-c6f0b7af1357

Few months back the second profile contacted me and after a brief conversation she gave me a price like 250 or 300, can't remember but it was below 500. Problem was she couldn't host, couldn't drive to me and the Covid stuff meant hotels weren't as easy to get so my option was to pick her up, bring her to my place then drive her back which is like 40 minutes of driving each way, which I didn't feel like doing. She ended up sending me someone's banking info expecting me to send $40 to her friend to use this person's apartment for an hour. She wanted me to send money so she could get the key from her friend and then I could pick her up. I told her I don't give money like that to people I don't know and she started telling me I was anti immigrant blah blah blah. LOL.

**James Woods** · 07-16-20 22:38

Originally Posted by JoeParkers [View Original Post]

Speaking of $500. I just chatted with this ones and they say dinner and sex $500 each. I said thank you and bye. Both in Framingham and wants to do threesome. So if any of you has a thousand to drop. Be my guest. Aint going to be me.

https://www.seeking.com/member/23a57...7-002894613689

https://www.seeking.com/member/00b63...a-c6f0b7af1357

I was straight up solicited by the second one. Not my type or my price point.

Stay safe.

JW.

**Jcette2** · 07-16-20 21:07

Scarlettbby149 https://www.seeking.com/member/542b2...5-d4c5e0306fbf is desperate for cash tonight. She is in fall river can't host but you can uber her to you. Quoted me 150-200 and sent me pics of her which I reverse google searched, came up clean.

I think she may be legit, but she also might try to get you to venmo her for pics:

The reason I'm not helping myself is because I'm already spent today.

J.

Originally Posted by CuriosWankah [View Original Post]

Seems like a lot of guys on here get in touch with single photo profiles with barely any info listed, maybe you guys are just reaching out to anyone but if they don't have more than 3 pics, profile age under 1 month, aren't verified in some manner college, social media, or pic then 9/10 times their a scam and want you to send them money. I've had convos with 65 real girls on SA verified 80% of them on Snapchat the rest via video chat all in the past month. I'm under 35 so that's to my advantage because they reach out to me, but anyone with charm and a home can land a girl from this site. I guess my point is how are you guys not recognizing when you look at the profile that it's a scam? I've only talked with 8 girls who've turned out to be either a fake profile or a real girl who's trying to scam and those girls will typically block you after you move to chat off of SA. You can't view them but when they block you their name stays visible under messages, if their profile is taken down it just says sugar baby.

List of the real SB's that block after chatting elsewhere (if you see them just ignore or block).

Mollholla, Nicolexxx1, Winelover699, Amandapanda372, Snowbunny22.

Just to help out I'll list some of the girls who were open to PPM. Keep in mind these girls probably have 100's of dudes reaching out to them so them being open to PPM is probably based off of how into you they are, so charm them and you're good.

**Joe Parkers** · 07-16-20 16:11

Originally Posted by Joe1223 [View Original Post]

500!! I've never paid over 300 for 18-25 yo. Good luck but that's a crazy ask

Speaking of $500. I just chatted with this ones and they say dinner and sex $500 each. I said thank you and bye. Both in Framingham and wants to do threesome. So if any of you has a thousand to drop. Be my guest. Aint going to be me.

https://www.seeking.com/member/23a57...7-002894613689

https://www.seeking.com/member/00b63...a-c6f0b7af1357

**Bran001** · 07-15-20 13:54

Profile says last login from United States, but they want to use WhatsApp. They are a scammer in another country. I use WhatsApp a lot with friends outside of the US; none of them us it once they are here in the States.

**Bran001** · 07-15-20 12:33

Originally Posted by Joe1223 [View Original Post]

Anyone familiar with this one? I contacted her a few months ago and crickets and then out of the blue she is ready to meet. Good to not delete the old contact info but I also don't want to waste my time if she has a history.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c171b...7-b92cfca9b11e

From the profile I predict wants cashapp first, or GPS. Let us know.