Seeking Arrangements

[Red Star 819]

I'm really not having a good run of things lately. First it was the Russian scam profile, then it was the profile that was probably a guy, and now this girl. The girl in the link below was great at first. We chatted, she was nice and willing to agree to a ppm fwb type of arrangement, and things were going great. I then asked to move to text so that we can continue our discussion. Today being July 4th, I asked her if she had any plans for the weekend. She went off about how America is racist, July 4th is a celebration of that racism, that I was racist for wanting to celebrate July 4th, all that shit. At that point I just blocked her and moved on.

https://www.seeking.com/member/621d5...5-6bd05289861d

[Bran001]

Somewhere these girls have read a blog or article it is safer to use KIK. Most girls that age really don't use it. If any girl will only give me her KIK, I am fairly certain it will lead nowhere. I ask them to download a texting app and give me the number so I can contact them. If they won't I move on. Usually only giving you their Snapchap turns out to be premium and pic sellers.

It's safer for them to use KiK than a phone number that men can reverse search.

I don't find KiK users any more or less likely to be scammers. Many of the KiK users I've chatted with don't have a texting app with its own number; sometimes they move to their own number after getting comfortable on KiK.

Snapchat I NEVER use at first with any of the women from SA. I just say I don't have it and if that's all they'll use I just move on.

[Newbie1961]

Somewhere these girls have read a blog or article it is safer to use KIK. Most girls that age really don't use it. If any girl will only give me her KIK, I am fairly certain it will lead nowhere. I ask them to download a texting app and give me the number so I can contact them. If they won't I move on. Usually only giving you their Snapchap turns out to be premium and pic sellers.

I have communicated with about a dozen profiles via KIK. Not a single one of them has been legitimate. I no longer will do that. There are enough real ones who you can text and then talk to before meeting.

[Red Star 819]

I have communicated with about a dozen profiles via KIK. Not a single one of them has been legitimate. I no longer will do that. There are enough real ones who you can text and then talk to before meeting.

Some of them are legit, but yeah, a lot of them are fake. These days I just wait for them to do the whole "Send me x amount via cash app and ill give you my address" to block them. Its kinda entertaining to waste their time like that LOL.

[SniffHer]

So I was chatting with this girl in the profile below, and we had discussed what we were looking for. Eventually I get her to move offsite to kik so that we can talk in detail about what I'm expecting. She gives me her username, but when I search it up, its a dude's name that pops up. So yeah, this is probably a dude trying to scam guys.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f1224...a-8828e31e4aee

I have communicated with about a dozen profiles via KIK. Not a single one of them has been legitimate. I no longer will do that. There are enough real ones who you can text and then talk to before meeting.

[Joe1223]

When you purchase the 3-month membership online it's billed monthly not the full $240 up front.

I've also been led to believe after the 1st and 2nd billing there is some way to go into account settings and cancel the remaining two or one month. I never looked. Can anyone confirm this is true.



Joe when did this happen because I know SA had billing problems at one point and changed the CC processor? Anyone else have their CC account hacked or bogus charges after signing up for SA online and when?

It was a couple years ago. I haven't renewed yet but once my current girls ask for a bump or move on I'll have to try it again. I was able to grab a couple of girls off FB too so my pool is selection small but very fresh and UTR. It takes a lot of fishing but I really only need one consistent regular to keep me occupied at this point in my hobby.

[Red Star 819]

So I was chatting with this girl in the profile below, and we had discussed what we were looking for. Eventually I get her to move offsite to kik so that we can talk in detail about what I'm expecting. She gives me her username, but when I search it up, its a dude's name that pops up. So yeah, this is probably a dude trying to scam guys.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f1224...a-8828e31e4aee

[Kor222]

https://www.seeking.com/member/7c1b8...5-e5a33be2f682

Says she does incall in Dorchester. I've not been able to schedule yet. Any experiences?

Avoid, was supposed to meet with her today in fact but she pulled a 180 and started asking me for money before we meet.

[Longjblues]

Very easy to do, if I understand your question. In your account, you go into "setting", and then "payments" and just click "cancel auto-renew" or some such.

You still get the remainder of your 30 days. After it expires, you won't be able to see ladies prior messages to you, but you will see your responses.

Very simple.

Does anyone have any experience with cancelling their membership after contacting a girl? I don't mind paying the $90 so I can reach out to a specific girl but I'm not paying $90 a month re-accuring.

I've never done SA and have had no success on WYP but find them much easier for contacting girls.

[RA459]

I used a prepaid Visa credit card to sign up and it went through without any issues.

When you purchase the 3-month membership online it's billed monthly not the full $240 up front.

I've also been led to believe after the 1st and 2nd billing there is some way to go into account settings and cancel the remaining two or one month. I never looked. Can anyone confirm this is true.

[HounDog3]

I did see that they have a 90 day, non recurring for $240, but that was the lowest, a lot of money to throw out there for a bunch of maybes. Maybe I'll just get a secret CC, sign up for the $79 a month, recurring, then cancel the CC as soon as I get some #s.

When you purchase the 3-month membership online it's billed monthly not the full $240 up front.

I've also been led to believe after the 1st and 2nd billing there is some way to go into account settings and cancel the remaining two or one month. I never looked. Can anyone confirm this is true.

I let my membership expire by actually cancelling my CC that they had on file. I only did this because the day after I signed up my CC was hacked by 5 separates unapproved purchases. Of course the CC cancelled these charges and the card was cancelled.

Joe when did this happen because I know SA had billing problems at one point and changed the CC processor? Anyone else have their CC account hacked or bogus charges after signing up for SA online and when?

[TheList00]

Bandbexplore is exactly what she says, and pics are accurate. She came during DATY (clean and fresh), BBFSCIP, traveled to me. Had a big smile on her face the whole time, went home and gave her husband sloppy seconds. A bit older and higher priced than I prefer, but covid has forced me to expand my horizons temporarily. Damage was 4 bills. I chose not to repeat because of the age, but she was definitely worth it for a one time thing, although she was absolutely looking for something more than that.

She contacted me and we talked for a bit on SA. Said she wanted 400 and I told her politely no thanks I wasn't interested and she then told me off and blocked me. Man these woman are so sensitive when someone rejects them. I couldn't reply back because she blocked me but I wanted to tell her there's no way in hell I'm paying 400 for a married woman in her mid 30's. Fucking crazy. 400 is for college aged girls and her husband can go get a job but couldn't tell her that.

[BigIrishBalls]

I try to provide some info when I can but it amazes me how people want numbers from SA girls handed out (it happens to me regularly). If you take the time to read the post's the person requesting for a "hand out" has, they usually have zero post's on SA. That's because any guy that pay's the 90 bucks a month, put's in a lot of work, play's his best game, spend a ton of time working it on there knows all the effort and time it takes would never ask that. We know these are not girl's that want their number's passed around. We know there is a reason these girls (most of them) are not running ad's on Listcrawler, STG, Eros etc:. They are ultra low volume UTR college girls that never want to be found out much less contacted by a bunch of strangers. They want to view you profile, look at you pic's and read what your looking for to get a vibe before they spread their legs for you. Then they can decide if they want to sell their bodies to you. These real UTR girls don't' want to receive random text's from guy's saying "hey this dude gave me your number, how much for me and a friend to come over and f&ck you in the ass". Rant over. Carry on.

It's is not the cost of the SA account that deters me, it's putting my actual picture out there with the possibility of it coming back to me in my personal life. Being in this hobby isn't exactly cheap so $90 is nothing. It was a simple question to see if it was a possibility. I didn't know so many would be "offended" by this. As far as posts go, I contribute where I can.

[Bran001]

I did see that they have a 90 day, non recurring for $240, but that was the lowest, a lot of money to throw out there for a bunch of maybes. Maybe I'll just get a secret CC, sign up for the $79 a month, recurring, then cancel the CC as soon as I get some #s.

Yes you can use the prepaid visa you can buy at CVS; and not re-fill it if you want to cancel.

[Amppro95]

Not sure what the issue is. You can buy a one-month non-recurring membership still, right?

The way to use SA is to make contact there, then move off the site. I've never needed to chat with the same SB on there for more than a few days.

I did see that they have a 90 day, non recurring for $240, but that was the lowest, a lot of money to throw out there for a bunch of maybes. Maybe I'll just get a secret CC, sign up for the $79 a month, recurring, then cancel the CC as soon as I get some #s.