Sugar Daddy Sites

**JackMiles** · 05-18-20 18:29

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

I recommend keeping your profile hidden from search. It's what I do. If you get on her profile she can see yours. But no one can find you if you haven't already been at least interested. If you go to a profile that is obviously just fake, block it.

Great advice. I'll be sure to do that.

Another thing I've noticed is that a majority of the SBs are women who had no intention of meeting at all, even pre-COVID. So I've a large uptick in "online babies". Maybe like 90 percent of the ones I've been going back and forth with aren't willing to meet up but would like xx amount for pics, etc. These are just some fucked up times man.

**FarFarAway** · 05-18-20 12:50

Originally Posted by Jackmiles [View Original Post]

Longtime lurker here. Anyway just got into SA and I've been getting constantly favorited by profiles from South America LOL. Pretty annoying, of course. Had a nice long exchange with a profile claiming to be from LA. Seemed legit for a while and didn't raise any red flags until she said she was a manager at a salon shop and was working daily from 10 to 4.

My next question was "so your salon is open?

I got blocked immediately after that. Good times.

I recommend keeping your profile hidden from search. It's what I do. If you get on her profile she can see yours. But no one can find you if you haven't already been at least interested. If you go to a profile that is obviously just fake, block it.

**JackMiles** · 05-18-20 05:50

Longtime lurker here. Anyway just got into SA and I've been getting constantly favorited by profiles from South America LOL. Pretty annoying, of course. Had a nice long exchange with a profile claiming to be from LA. Seemed legit for a while and didn't raise any red flags until she said she was a manager at a salon shop and was working daily from 10 to 4.

My next question was "so your salon is open?

I got blocked immediately after that. Good times.

**HollywoodGuy** · 05-17-20 19:23

Originally Posted by MrmikeUcla [View Original Post]

What do you usually offer these sugar babies? New to this.

I am a low baller ($) a date guy. But it also depends on the girls age, race & time on the site. If they are older, had a profile for 12 month or more and have blue eyes and blonde hair, expect to pay more. Dark skinned or tan, younger and a new profile you may pay less. But only pay what you can afford. Plenty to choose from. If you pay more you will be able to get the model quality looking girls but with no guarantee of the quality of their skills. I have had bomb GFE/PSE sex for a $ and shitty sex for 5 and even 10 times that amount back in the day. Current income forces me to pay low, but I ain't complaining. If you like AA and latinas you will have no trouble finding amazing body/average to good looking girls for a $... if you have some game. No game? Just add a $ to that and you will pretty much be home free. If you are paying more than that... then maybe you just don't care for the hunt or only fuck 9's and 10's (face and body). But I prefer wholesale pricing to retail. Like the old song says "you better shop around".

**SFVsag** · 05-17-20 16:57

Both sides want to push things to the limit. Every request or offer is unreasonable. Until someone says yes to it.

**Dash** · 05-17-20 16:13

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

What the girls figure out soon enough.

1 - low ballers aren't ROB's.

2 - chit chatters / small talkers are time wasters.

3 - most SD's are married.

4 - it's not about how much money a guy has. It's how much is he willing to spend.

5 - it's competitive out there.

6 - newbies are easy targets. Don't be in a rush if you just signed on.

So guys. Just put your offer out there as soon as possible and be ready to meet-up within a reasonable length of time. And don't worry about the competition as there are 5 x more girls than guys willing to date them. And no matter what a girl says, never get angry or riled up. Just move on quietly.

I concur and because I am reading the posts everywhere which are about Seeking I too am sometimes surprised when I read about a nasty reply to some female with unreasonable requests.

Of course they often make absurd unreasonable requests, but that is not surprising to me.

Some girls make unreasonable requests; some guys may make "unreasonable" offers. It's a give and take and I don't take offense.

**StudBucket** · 05-17-20 15:21

Originally Posted by HitNQuit805 [View Original Post]

Hello, recently new to the guide. Long time ago, I started with adult massage parlors because that's all I could afford while attending school. Then recently moved to the LA Kgirl scene which has been very nice but definitely looking for more. I am fairly young (still in my 20's and in great shape albeit a little more round since the gym closures LOL), but definitely have a lucrative job and have amassed a good amount of money over the years. I recently started a profile on SA but have yet to finish it. Joined SA because I can't do the bar, nightclub scene since I am in a relationship. I am essentially looking for a Side piece (I recently had one, would spoil her with food, clothes, perfume, anything she wanted but then tried to cut it off and she threatened to ruin my relationship) so obviously looking for that side piece relationship minus the drama. Was wondering if anyone can give me guidance as whether I will find this on SA. Any thoughts welcomed to be honest.

You absolutely can find many girls on SA that will be okay being your side piece. Many of them want a no strings attached setup while some of them want 1 sugar daddy to spoil them and these are the types you want to stay away from. Reading their profiles can sometimes say a lot, you want to stay away from the ones that say I am not an escort, or looking for one daddy to sweep me off my feet. Furthermore, I am direct with them when I speak to them for the first time before the meet up and ask them what they are looking to find and this will tell if they are more liberal or conservative in their thinking. I tell them I want a NSA, friends with benefits type relationship and want to meet them on PPM, pay per meet basis. The girls that are cool with pay per meet are the ones that are not looking for serious or meeting with one guy, will typically see several guys and will not care if you are not able to see them too often. Currently, I have 2 girls now that are on my roster and are not hounding me, being clingy, etc. And I encourage them to see other guys if they want. You also have to limit your communication and not treat them as your girlfriend, although be nice and say good night or the standard hope all is well, etc. Type texts but come to them more as a platonic friend. As Hollywood Guy says, it would not even hurt to tell them you have a girlfriend and see how they respond. If they do not like it, move on. There are too many to choose from. Hope this helps.

**MrmikeUcla** · 05-17-20 15:16

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

What works best for me. When it works.

1 - let them know I already have two GF's. sometimes tell them nothing (but only initially)... lots of variables here

2 - only pay them in cash (after the fact and never buy them any gifts).

3 - give them the best fuck and oral they probably ever had (when motivated to do so).

4 - usually just see them for 1 to 2 hours and then it's over.

5 - never let them call me anything but Daddy and I only call them baby, a good little wh**e, Daddy's special princess, little girl, etc. (you get the drift).

6 - make sure the sex is as nasty/kinky as possible. make them pose as dirty as possible.

7 - constantly tell them how pretty they are while doing it. Especially when posing or sucking me off.

8 - get inside their head with the most taboo role play possible

The newer and especially younger girls are more likely to want to fulfill fantasies of prostitution, forced sex, testing limits, etc. (and YMWV from girl to girl).

What do you usually offer these sugar babies? New to this.

**HollywoodGuy** · 05-17-20 13:54

What the girls figure out soon enough.

1 - low ballers aren't ROB's.

2 - chit chatters / small talkers are time wasters.

3 - most SD's are married.

4 - it's not about how much money a guy has. It's how much is he willing to spend.

5 - it's competitive out there.

6 - newbies are easy targets. Don't be in a rush if you just signed on.

So guys. Just put your offer out there as soon as possible and be ready to meet-up within a reasonable length of time. And don't worry about the competition as there are 5 x more girls than guys willing to date them. And no matter what a girl says, never get angry or riled up. Just move on quietly.

**Large Ess** · 05-17-20 00:21

Still interested in comparing notes with anyone who has seen this lady. I was extremely happy with our experiences but then she sent me the oddest message that I have received in my two decades of mongering. She wasn't angry with my actions or anything like that. I don't want to say anything more because I want to see what others have experienced with her. She has been on SA for at least three years and is still active.

**HollywoodGuy** · 05-16-20 22:07

What works best for me. When it works.

1 - let them know I already have two GF's. sometimes tell them nothing (but only initially)... lots of variables here

2 - only pay them in cash (after the fact and never buy them any gifts).

3 - give them the best fuck and oral they probably ever had (when motivated to do so).

4 - usually just see them for 1 to 2 hours and then it's over.

5 - never let them call me anything but Daddy and I only call them baby, a good little wh**e, Daddy's special princess, little girl, etc. (you get the drift).

6 - make sure the sex is as nasty/kinky as possible. make them pose as dirty as possible.

7 - constantly tell them how pretty they are while doing it. Especially when posing or sucking me off.

8 - get inside their head with the most taboo role play possible

The newer and especially younger girls are more likely to want to fulfill fantasies of prostitution, forced sex, testing limits, etc. (and YMWV from girl to girl)

This model guarantees some pretty strict boundaries that actually helps keep things in line. Once in a blue moon you will meet someone that could be more of a GF over a longer period of time. Personally I am not really looking for that. But I know it will happen when it happens and here and there I've done it but without ever looking for it or pretending monogamy when it does happen.

So what's in it for them? Good sex, a guaranteed paycheck thats always on time (and non-negotiable), and no clingy guy to worry about.

Just my 2 cents.

**SFVsag** · 05-16-20 16:06

Originally Posted by Dash [View Original Post]

I'm probably what the girls will call "salt daddy".

Sounds more like a "Splenda daddy. " Only tastes like sugar. LOL.

**Dash** · 05-16-20 15:26

Originally Posted by HitNQuit805 [View Original Post]

Hello, recently new to the guide. Long time ago, I started with adult massage parlors because that's all I could afford while attending school. Then recently moved to the LA Kgirl scene which has been very nice but definitely looking for more. I am fairly young (still in my 20's and in great shape albeit a little more round since the gym closures LOL), but definitely have a lucrative job and have amassed a good amount of money over the years. I recently started a profile on SA but have yet to finish it. Joined SA because I can't do the bar, nightclub scene since I am in a relationship. I am essentially looking for a Side piece (I recently had one, would spoil her with food, clothes, perfume, anything she wanted but then tried to cut it off and she threatened to ruin my relationship) so obviously looking for that side piece relationship minus the drama. Was wondering if anyone can give me guidance as whether I will find this on SA. Any thoughts welcomed to be honest.

In your shoes I would use SA in addition to Tinder, Bumble, and of course, free style is fine too.

I had a few adventures with girls I met but not on SA in South Florida and in general a girl doesn't like to think she is the "side piece"; the fiction is maintained even when you know she has a boyfriend of fuck buddy besides you. Girls like to imagine they are playing you for the sucker which excites them a little bit.

The money you spend on the side girl will be to compensate for her hurt feelings that she's not #1 on your list (yet). Let her believe she may be moving up to the majors from the farm team to keep her motivated and interested.

Girls have some fantasies which they like sometimes (not all). Many like the fantasy of a guy being overly sexual and the other is that she is engaging in sex work.

At your age I was more frugal but I found action here and there so never thought of the fun of paying a girl something. I actually think it's a bit of an aphrodisiac for them.

I will try SA soon and my plan is have a budget for the activity and stick to it. I'm probably what the girls will call "salt daddy".

**Wsopbou** · 05-16-20 14:35

I'm pretty new wanted any thoughts on differences between sugardaddymeet and seeking. I have had success with one girl on sugardaddymeet right off the jump a few months ago and and now it seems like everyone I talk to is a fake or a flake and I may have just got lucky, is seeking worth the money and are there more real girl on that site that are willing to put out for the money. Any input is appreciated.

Thanks.