"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[SoonerFan72]

This one appears to be legit. Wants 300 per meet. Seems fairly normal as well. But she has a few rules that just didn't suite what I'm lookning for, so I'm going to take a pass. I did get a verification pic, she is the girl in the pics. If one of you jackal's decide to take the plunge, let me know how it goes.

https://www.seeking.com/member/cec54...2-d8d4add7c787

[JustMikey]

SBs are the greatest. I moved from traditional escorts to SBs in 2018. It was the best decision I've ever made. I've had so much raw 18/19 year olds over the last two years I've lost count. Way better than traditional escorts. I've even had some without paying them for anything. I've had SB spend the night with me for 2-3 days. For less than a 2 hour session from a traditional escorts. I only kick myself for not jumping on this wave sooner because I've had so many bad sessions with escorts. I live in NYC but frequent atl a lot. Been here 5 x already this year alone. I've gotten so good at the sb game that I have SBs in multiple cities.

It's a game, you just have to know how to play it. It's also not for everybody. I've put two friends on. One was very successful like me, the other one couldn't talk the right game to these girls. I get numbers quickly and try to move the convo off the site even quicker. I don't do the monthly thing tho, I use another sb site.

A couple of tips:

1. Never send money up front. Even if you have seen the girl before upfront, it will bite you in the ass.

2. Have a plan A,B and C. Don't plan your whole day around an sb who might not show. A lot of flakes and scammers out there. Most of these girls are confused. They don't want to be full blown escorts but still want to make money having a good time. A lot will get cold feet the day off even though you've been texting back and forth regularly.

3. SB takes a little more work but I wouldn't message girls until you are ready to meet. If I get a girls number I'm trying to meet ASAP. Don't chat with a girl, you both agree to meet, then not be ready to meet for weeks. They will ghost.

4. Don't let one girl waste your time. If she's taking hours to get ready. Just move on. A ton of fish in the sea. Remember A, B and C.

5. If you can, use hotel or Airbnb's. I've seen maybe 30+ SBs, none know where I live.

1 and 5 are the best advice I could ever give a newbie. Especially 5. I've done the SB game since 2014. No one knows where I live or even my real last name. Who the hell wants to get stalked, robbed, or answer the front door one day to be told "I'm pregnant". Really.

The only other thing I can suggest is to look for the newest members on the sugar baby sites (I use Seeking Arrangements) and act quickly. The attractive ones that actually know how to suck and ride will soon get scooped up by someone (like me, haha).

[JjayBoy]

I have been sticking to escorts. But your stories sound great. I can rationalize 90 a month when other escort sites are free. And this site offers a ton of info. How you guys ballin' like that?

SBs are the greatest. I moved from traditional escorts to SBs in 2018. It was the best decision I've ever made. I've had so much raw 18/19 year olds over the last two years I've lost count. Way better than traditional escorts. I've even had some without paying them for anything. I've had SB spend the night with me for 2-3 days. For less than a 2 hour session from a traditional escorts. I only kick myself for not jumping on this wave sooner because I've had so many bad sessions with escorts. I live in NYC but frequent atl a lot. Been here 5 x already this year alone. I've gotten so good at the sb game that I have SBs in multiple cities.

It's a game, you just have to know how to play it. It's also not for everybody. I've put two friends on. One was very successful like me, the other one couldn't talk the right game to these girls. I get numbers quickly and try to move the convo off the site even quicker. I don't do the monthly thing tho, I use another sb site.

A couple of tips:

1. Never send money up front. Even if you have seen the girl before upfront, it will bite you in the ass.

2. Have a plan A,B and C. Don't plan your whole day around an sb who might not show. A lot of flakes and scammers out there. Most of these girls are confused. They don't want to be full blown escorts but still want to make money having a good time. A lot will get cold feet the day off even though you've been texting back and forth regularly.

3. SB takes a little more work but I wouldn't message girls until you are ready to meet. If I get a girls number I'm trying to meet ASAP. Don't chat with a girl, you both agree to meet, then not be ready to meet for weeks. They will ghost.

4. Don't let one girl waste your time. If she's taking hours to get ready. Just move on. A ton of fish in the sea. Remember A, B and C.

5. If you can, use hotel or Airbnb's. I've seen maybe 30+ SBs, none know where I live.

[NoStringsGA]

I have been sticking to escorts. But your stories sound great. I can rationalize 90 a month when other escort sites are free. And this site offers a ton of info. How you guys ballin' like that

Strictly speaking $, I think SB's are a massive bargain compared to escorts, especially outside the ATL market. Maybe inside too, but I hate the fucking traffic to much to bother with ATL.

2 long evenings or overnight dates a week with a hot mid-20's SB who can host can be had for less than $1 k / mo. With corona we don't even go out, so that saves a bundle. Many if not most are kinky AF too. Bareback? Yes daddy. Threesomes? Yes daddy please. CIM? Anal? Whatever daddy likes.

Don't be put off by all the SA marketing that talks about $1000+ weekly allowances. That exists to attract young women. Do some get that much? I assume so, but as long as you don't target the no-income, Chanel bag wearing, Dubai photo posting, 18-21 yo Instagram model types, you don't pay that much. Hell you could probably get those types for much less as well, I just have never tried.

It obviously helps a lot if they like you, and you can create a connection. And it's more fun that way anyway. So if that's an issue for you, escorts are probably better.

Does it require a lot more effort? Yes. But that's part of the fun for me honestly.

[Slo Mo]

I agree, with you SA is better if you have time to filter through and communicate to establish the initial SD / SB relationship but much better bang for your buck. You can still see escorts even when you have regular SBs. It is harder if you are married but it is heaven for single men with some money.

SA is declining in quality / hassle it seems with each passing month. It's almost to the point where the only time I'd recommend renting would be when the colleges start back or while there in session. The whole weed through process is becoming tougher and tougher as time goes on. I'm very disappointed with the current menu / options that's available at this current time.

[Bobt45]

Currently my situation I'm a single guy, late 40's, don't really want to date at this point in my life. Also most women in their 40's have a lot of baggage, are more interested in their dogs, or are very career oriented. I tried dating a dog mom, now I have a golden retriever I got so I could spend time with her & her dog.

I keep one full time SB with an allowance, then about every 3 months I jump on SA, put a fewj SB's thru tryouts & if I find one better than the current SB, I drop her & add the new one, if not I keep going thru new sugar babies. After 6 months the relationship has usually run it's course anyway & it's time to find a new girl.

I will also go get a weekly massage with HE, Bang an escort, or hit up the strip club for some In the club action.

Honestly its the best of both worlds, I'm getting laid about 3 X's a week with no committment.

Atlanta is truly a great market for SB's. Do you have to wade your way through all the fakes? Yep. Is it worth it? Definitely. I live two hours away in the Macon area but get to Atlanta for business fairly often. I've found several SB's over the last couple of years and had great times with them while in town. They're definitely more "into it" than any escort. I've done my share of those too. My main difference is an escort wants to hear from you when you're ready to book an hour and don't call her otherwise. An SB likes to chat even if it's every few days. I see an SB in Ft Lauderdale every time I'm in town. She's a smoking hot blonde and we hang out, have dinner, fuck like rabbits. You'll never get an escort to give you that level of service for the cost. Just my two cents. I enjoy the game of finding the SB's. They're a challenge and add to the fun for me. Stay safe out there.

Bob.

[Jims2321]

Currently my situation I'm a single guy, late 40's, don't really want to date at this point in my life. Also most women in their 40's have a lot of baggage, are more interested in their dogs, or are very career oriented. I tried dating a dog mom, now I have a golden retriever I got so I could spend time with her & her dog.

I keep one full time SB with an allowance, then about every 3 months I jump on SA, put a fewj SB's thru tryouts & if I find one better than the current SB, I drop her & add the new one, if not I keep going thru new sugar babies. After 6 months the relationship has usually run it's course anyway & it's time to find a new girl.

I will also go get a weekly massage with HE, Bang an escort, or hit up the strip club for some In the club action.

Honestly its the best of both worlds, I'm getting laid about 3 X's a week with no committment.

Well, there maybe hope for us married guys. 'Sotsukon' is a trend in Japan that started about 10 or 15 years ago. Basically as a couple you tend to find that your interests start to grow apart, but you still enjoy each other in doses. So instead of divorcing, you both start living your own life. For you spouse that might mean living close to her parents or sibling in another city. For you that might mean getting a bachelor pad, or traveling solo (wink, wink, nudge, nudge). But you don't have that messy divorce hanging over your head. I have sort of been guiding my spouse in that direction these past 2 years. So hopefully in another few it will be how we move forward.

[SeekingHead]

I agree, with you SA is better if you have time to filter through and communicate to establish the initial SD / SB relationship but much better bang for your buck. You can still see escorts even when you have regular SBs. It is harder if you are married but it is heaven for single men with some money.

Currently my situation I'm a single guy, late 40's, don't really want to date at this point in my life. Also most women in their 40's have a lot of baggage, are more interested in their dogs, or are very career oriented. I tried dating a dog mom, now I have a golden retriever I got so I could spend time with her & her dog.

I keep one full time SB with an allowance, then about every 3 months I jump on SA, put a fewj SB's thru tryouts & if I find one better than the current SB, I drop her & add the new one, if not I keep going thru new sugar babies. After 6 months the relationship has usually run it's course anyway & it's time to find a new girl.

I will also go get a weekly massage with HE, Bang an escort, or hit up the strip club for some In the club action.

Honestly its the best of both worlds, I'm getting laid about 3 X's a week with no committment.

[DudeNJ]

Biggest difference between an escort & a SB.

A solid 7 mid 20's escort would want around $500 to come to my house for 3 hours & fuck. Sex would also be with a condom.

I have a SB right now how is a 7 looks wise, 25 years old, grad student. She comes to my house 6 to 8 times a month for a $1200 a month allowance, she stays overnight, sex is unprotected, & she has cooks me breakfast.

SA basically allows you to fuck the 18 to 40 year old women next door instead of a escort, it's a better overall experience but requires quite a bit more work. Until we get prostitution in other countries like Germany, Thailand, or Brazil then it's the best we have.

I agree, with you SA is better if you have time to filter through and communicate to establish the initial SD / SB relationship but much better bang for your buck. You can still see escorts even when you have regular SBs. It is harder if you are married but it is heaven for single men with some money.

[SeekingHead]

I have been sticking to escorts. But your stories sound great. I can rationalize 90 a month when other escort sites are free. And this site offers a ton of info. How you guys ballin' like that?

Biggest difference between an escort & a SB.

A solid 7 mid 20's escort would want around $500 to come to my house for 3 hours & fuck. Sex would also be with a condom.

I have a SB right now how is a 7 looks wise, 25 years old, grad student. She comes to my house 6 to 8 times a month for a $1200 a month allowance, she stays overnight, sex is unprotected, & she has cooks me breakfast.

SA basically allows you to fuck the 18 to 40 year old women next door instead of a escort, it's a better overall experience but requires quite a bit more work. Until we get prostitution in other countries like Germany, Thailand, or Brazil then it's the best we have.

[SoonerFan72]

And I quote "Hey! I'm only offering online content at the moment due to the pandemic. If there's anything you'd like, let me know!

NOPE.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c2ee5...e-e4484e4c1dc7

[TheWeapon]

I have been sticking to escorts. But your stories sound great. I can rationalize 90 a month when other escort sites are free. And this site offers a ton of info. How you guys ballin' like that?

[SoonerFan72]

This one threw up lots of red flags. Was asking way to many personal questions out of the gate. I'd avoid in general, something is not right.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e5255...0-df87a292116f

[Bobt45]

I've probably blocked 10-15 girls in the last week off SA. In addition to having a disclaimer (see below in my post anti-scammer tag), if they bring up any nonsense about online garbage or advance payment, I block them right away. I forgot how much time they wastewith these antics. Now I'm able to focus on the quality girls on the site, and I can say it's definitely paying dividends.

Stay strong and let's purge these scammers. Never send upfront payment of any kind (money for gas, Uber, "security fee") bc there is a zero percent chance it will lead to banging. I know from trial and error. Literally, 0% and I have 6 years of experience on the site.

I couldn't agree more! One thing though, instead of blocking them report them. Report them as a scammer that's asking for money upfront. Believe me they eventually do get around to investigating. If we all would report the same ones they would be deleted from the site quicker. I was in Cincinnati in early March and reported a few fakes. I'm just now getting messages from SA asking for more info on them. So yeah, absolutely never pay up front for anything. Especially if you've seen them! Some of the worst I've had have tried to squeeze me for money because we had banged. They would all take the money and run given the opportunity! Stay safe,

Bob.

[BoJackSugarman]

I've probably blocked 10-15 girls in the last week off SA. In addition to having a disclaimer (see below in my post anti-scammer tag), if they bring up any nonsense about online garbage or advance payment, I block them right away. I forgot how much time they wastewith these antics. Now I'm able to focus on the quality girls on the site, and I can say it's definitely paying dividends.

Stay strong and let's purge these scammers. Never send upfront payment of any kind (money for gas, Uber, "security fee") bc there is a zero percent chance it will lead to banging. I know from trial and error. Literally, 0% and I have 6 years of experience on the site.

Way to hold firm bro. If guys would stop doing stupid shit like that, the scammers would starting fading away.

I had one yesterday that I was 95% sure was a scammer, but when I have time, I try to waste their time. She was actually starting to make me wonder for a minute if she was legit. I asked for a pic holding up 3 fingers for verification, she responded quickly "no problem", but sent a pic holding up 2 fingers in a peace sign. I said sorry, hate to be that guy, but can you send one holding up 3 fingers? She responded, not even 5 minutes later, that she would have to send it later, the person who's camera she was using had left. Bullshit. LOL.

They are getting crafty gentlemen, stick to your guns no matter what your dick is telling you! It will save you money and blue balls down the road.