"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[SeekingHead]

I have only had a warning from SA for "solicitation", and they froze my account for 24 hours. It was when I was traveling in Europe, but it taught me two valuable lessons:

1. Never get into an argument with these dumb girls while messaging or texting. Because they retaliate by reporting you sometimes. They can also retaliate in other ways so keep your cool no matter what. SA doesn't care about us or about investigating so they just cancel your account.

2. If you get a weird vibe or you know the girl is a scammer (wants money upfront) or time waster just block her right away. If you block them from your SA account, they can't report you.

I know this because I was already texting with a girl and then she flipped out after just meeting for a drink. I blocked her on SA bc I had a bad vibe and she later texted me that she was trying to report me but that she couldn't and that I was "lucky that I blocked her" LOL.

The overall quality of personality has gone way down hill sadly. I've been on SA since 2014 when it was sort of still underground. Back then it was so much more quality but less quantity. They were still kind of shy about the $ aspect and it was in between a Gf and escort (they would accept dinner dates instead of cash sometimes etc).

Now that everyone knows about it and it's not really stigmatized anymore, the flood gates have opened and all the annoying girls have joined just looking for an easy con.

Remember to never give a girl money upfront, it's like feeding the bears. It hurts all of us.

Although I actually let my account lapse a while ago, it's just not worth it anymore.

Excellent advice in their, I give thee the new username SAOG, since your a SA original gangster.

I've been doing it on & off for 3 years, & your advice is spot on. The minute I move to text with a girl I block her, I tell them right upfront on text I deleted my account & give them a line about being megonomis. If your account is private, it's not searchable, so they cannot find your account again if they search. I have a pretty standard opening & platonic responses, I tell them on my profile about moving to text for privacy reasons & point out SA can look at all our chats. UTR type girls "the real sugar babies" will immediately want to move to chat. Also why would I even want to get into a bitching match with a chick that I am paying to leave when the sun comes up.

Also what were your European experiences. I had a trip lined up where I would be in Malaga for ten days & was going to have two girls I met on SA fly in, each for 4 days. One was a 19 year old Romanian girl & another a 24 year old Russian.

[SeekingHead]

HAHAHA.

https://www.seeking.com/member/05e2f...3-692ae1d32776

First response to me:

I want something real. I will talk to you everyday, and we can grow as individuals but also as a pair. I am a top of the line woman that only deserves the best. I require a $5,000 fee up front to ensure that I am not investing in something in vain. I do this to avoid getting hurt like I have been in the past. If you are interested please contact me here. Xx. Thanks. Xx Kase.

I'm pretty sure her photos have been photoshopped & her head cropped on the body. When did she want the money, before the meet & greet?

[Hotrod82]

HAHAHA.

https://www.seeking.com/member/05e2f...3-692ae1d32776

First response to me:

I want something real. I will talk to you everyday, and we can grow as individuals but also as a pair. I am a top of the line woman that only deserves the best. I require a $5,000 fee up front to ensure that I am not investing in something in vain. I do this to avoid getting hurt like I have been in the past. If you are interested please contact me here. Xx. Thanks. Xx Kase.

[SoonerFan72]

Wants $500 per meet, claims she has had previous daddies. Said she is in the Marrietta area, and can't travel far or host. Pics she sent were actually really nice, I never verified her with a specific pic request though. I didn't even try to haggle, way above my price range.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3f03e...e-59296794abc0

[SoonerFan72]

Wants $35 for a dropbox folder full of pics and videos. NOPE.

https://www.seeking.com/member/82c5e...2-94e45773df17

[BoJackSugarman]

It's definitely not because of paid service. I paid about $200 per month. I paid $80+ for paid fee and I paid for $60 for I think 10 boosts x2 per month. They still banned me and I never discussed arrangement details in SA messages; always on IG DM or some place I can "unsend" messages. I was on there over two years and they just randomly banned me one day.

I have only had a warning from SA for "solicitation", and they froze my account for 24 hours. It was when I was traveling in Europe, but it taught me two valuable lessons:

1. Never get into an argument with these dumb girls while messaging or texting. Because they retaliate by reporting you sometimes. They can also retaliate in other ways so keep your cool no matter what. SA doesn't care about us or about investigating so they just cancel your account.

2. If you get a weird vibe or you know the girl is a scammer (wants money upfront) or time waster just block her right away. If you block them from your SA account, they can't report you.

I know this because I was already texting with a girl and then she flipped out after just meeting for a drink. I blocked her on SA bc I had a bad vibe and she later texted me that she was trying to report me but that she couldn't and that I was "lucky that I blocked her" LOL.

The overall quality of personality has gone way down hill sadly. I've been on SA since 2014 when it was sort of still underground. Back then it was so much more quality but less quantity. They were still kind of shy about the $ aspect and it was in between a Gf and escort (they would accept dinner dates instead of cash sometimes etc).

Now that everyone knows about it and it's not really stigmatized anymore, the flood gates have opened and all the annoying girls have joined just looking for an easy con.

Remember to never give a girl money upfront, it's like feeding the bears. It hurts all of us.

Although I actually let my account lapse a while ago, it's just not worth it anymore.

[NoStringsGA]

Whats money up front as a "safety precaution". LOL Said she had been assaulted before from someone on the site, so now she requires money up front. I asked, how does that prevent someone from still assaulting you?? Stupid ho's.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f9cc6...9-b28a5f9cc545

That profile has been reviewed dozens of times I believe, she re creates it every few days. Scammer.

[SoonerFan72]

Whats money up front as a "safety precaution". LOL Said she had been assaulted before from someone on the site, so now she requires money up front. I asked, how does that prevent someone from still assaulting you?? Stupid ho's.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f9cc6...9-b28a5f9cc545

[SoonerFan72]

Just looking for online. Blah.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e59c2...4-03829e049245

[Jboogie91]

Chatted with Tori for a few minutes, typical one word responses to questions you would get from a kid. Asked if she was looking for online or in person, she said online for now. I bailed at that point, just another young kid wanting free money from old dudes.

I'll avoid that no thanks. If I meet with the other, I'll report back.

[SoonerFan72]

Has anyone had experience with these 2? If not, thinking about TOFTT but would like to know if I need to avoid beforehand.

https://www.seeking.com/member/fe384...1-d18ba1ddb57f

https://www.seeking.com/member/e89f1...f-ef51da3bb124

Chatted with Tori for a few minutes, typical one word responses to questions you would get from a kid. Asked if she was looking for online or in person, she said online for now. I bailed at that point, just another young kid wanting free money from old dudes.

[SoonerFan72]

I want to send a baby some money electronically to help her get by. She's a long time baby of mine, not a new one trying to scam me, by the way. Is there a way to do that without linking a bank account? Linking a bank account is a definite no for me. Is there a cash app that I can fund through a VISA gift card? I would just send her the gift card information, but I already registered it in my name. She doesn't know my real name, and she can't use the VISA gift card online without me giving it to her.

Just use Paypal. If you don't have an account, sign up. Use their app on your phone, it has an option to add cash at a store, such as Walmart or Walgreens. Go into a location, add cash to your account. Have her sign up on her end. Send her all the money you want. Good luck.

[Sgt Soros]

I'm sheltering so I can't give her the physical card or get a new one. Doesn't she need the name and address that I used to register the existing card to use it online? Also, some well established services require a deposit by cash app too, so there's that issue too if the virus ever subsides.

Try doing a Walmart2 Walmart Money Transfer. She can pick up the cash at her local Walmart.

[NewAnonymousName]

Why can't she use a visa gift card. Just grab one from wallyworld or CVS, throw $20,30 or whatever on it. Wait one hour, then send her the card number expiration date and CVC.

I'm sheltering so I can't give her the physical card or get a new one. Doesn't she need the name and address that I used to register the existing card to use it online? Also, some well established services require a deposit by cash app too, so there's that issue too if the virus ever subsides.

[Anubis06]

I think they ban you if you have not used the paid service for long time. They banned me a while back and I never sent any message to anyone. I just browsed the ads here and there. I created the second account with another email after 7 or 8 months and still have that account. You might be able to use another email and create another account. I can't imagine them banning your IP address because IP address are recycled. I would clear the history on the browser before using a different email address. I set my firefox to not remember history and so for my seconds account is still going. I bet they will ban if I don't get paid service ever. LOL.

It's definitely not because of paid service. I paid about $200 per month. I paid $80+ for paid fee and I paid for $60 for I think 10 boosts x2 per month. They still banned me and I never discussed arrangement details in SA messages; always on IG DM or some place I can "unsend" messages. I was on there over two years and they just randomly banned me one day.