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04-08-20 11:24 #7184Senior Member

Posts: 196Clock watchers
Sadly a lot of providers are clock watchers and M1 L is no different. Initially she was lenient but the appt became too frequent and the scheduling became too conflicting with all the clients and I think that's when things went south. She was a great provider at first super into it but gradually became fixated on the numbers. Ill probably get heat for this but I did notice that she started to have her time clock adjusted 5-10 min in advance vs what the normal time would be and I even verified that on my phone. And sometimes before we even finished a sesh 10-15 min into it she would point and say were out of time and I verified on my phone to myself obviously that we had ample time. In addition, other providers will make you wait till lets say 2:30 pm on the dot if you had an appt then tell you their not ready and wait another 1-5 min but start the clock at 2:30 even tho you walked in 1-5 min later. M1 L and other providers have been guilty of that. Sadly this action is realistic even amongst the best providers. Granted we had some good times but these actions are a sign of disrespect and a big turn off from me along with ghosting. I'm not saying I've never gone over time because I have, but even if I did I actually paid the provider for that extra time before. If I set up an appt with my money and my time I shouldn't receive anything less. This BTW is a great way to discern which providers are going downhill in terms of service. Just about the only provider that never rushed you was Cassie, I mean this girl would spend half the day with you before even getting to the session LOL. However; I'm sure the relationship between Mitch and M1 L was different than an ordinary provider client relationship so as far as that's concerned and the parameters of it which none of us will know what's been discussed I probably have no right to voice my opinion on it. Because whether or not it was considered ordinary or unorthodox between those 2 is simply reliant based on whether or not they discussed the terms early on in the relationship, if not everything is a gray line open to interpretation and everyones side will be misconstrued. And at that point its to each is own.
Originally Posted by Pbfla321
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04-08-20 11:15 #7183Senior Member

Posts: 660Dam. I don't know what happened and to me it doesn't matter. I can only imagine the thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars you have given her. That should have counted for something and gotten you the benefit of the doubt in my opinion. That just further shows you that we are all just dollar signs to these b*s. If she said something that spiteful and you don't even think she thought enough of you that you deserved an apology, good riddance. And for the record, dinners, concerts, movies, et cetera, cost money also. Shouldn't your meter be running? Or at least filed in the memory bank. I say f* her and move on.
Originally Posted by SevenYearMitch
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P.S. Can you tell the same thing recently happened to me, LOL. Hang in there Mitch. Something tells me with your flow you will be just fine.
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04-08-20 10:11 #7182Senior Member

Posts: 851Avoided the drama
After speaking with her over a year ago I could see she was unstable. She sounded and looked like a nice lay but crazy as a box of cats.
Harry P.
Originally Posted by SevenYearMitch
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04-08-20 09:13 #7181Senior Member

Posts: 2840Anticipating the new UTR
I was damn near salivating when reading about the green-eyed blonde track star, if the new chick is even hotter, she's one to look forward to. Though I suppose you'll still need to find out, assuming you can "seal the deal", if she's also full-on GFE / PSE like the track star! If she is, I'm calling "next" right now!
Originally Posted by SevenYearMitch
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04-08-20 08:07 #7180Senior Member

Posts: 298Enjoyable long term arrangements
Yes, creating a trusting, long term arrangement will get more benefits for both in the long run IMO. My last UTR, back where I used to live, would always go the extra mile in downing time with me. She often came to my place and started there for hours just talking. She never wanted to go anywhere public, but she's meet me any time and anywhere that I needed relief. And the best part was building enough trust that BB was always a go.
Originally Posted by Mikaeles
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In another arrangement I had, she was so about going public places and having play time. Music festivals, dinning, beer fest, clubs, and more. This gave her an opportunity to her out and enjoy things that she normally couldn't afford. Plus it was great company.
In both cases, I often have extra money when they were going through tough times, often never even meeting. That was worth it though. Al the trust, personal time and $$$ made for solid long term arrangements.
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04-08-20 02:37 #7179Senior Member

Posts: 935Like I said earlier, one of the factors (there were several) that led to our dispute is that there was some miscommunication and/or misunderstanding (at least on my part) as to when the actual dream started. In addition, there were several extenuating circumstances that I won't go into detail on that led to some confusion (again, at least on my part) that could easily have been avoided if I had better communicated my expectations to make sure they were fully aligned with hers. I know I made some assumptions and we all know what assuming does, LOL.
Originally Posted by IIIII
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When she told me after the dream that she felt I was "taking advantage" of her it just felt like a punch to my stomach and really pissed me off because that was never my intention.and I've always tried to be very generous with her. But after watching her side of the story I can understand where she was coming from. I have spent a lot of enjoyable time with M1L off the clock (dinners, concerts, Disney visits, etc) but there is always a bright line with that sort of thing (e.g., let's go to Disney and when we get back we can do a session) compared to when you're in her bedroom just shooting the breeze about video games for example before the sex has started. Are you just hanging out or has the dream begun? An argument could be made both ways.
In my experience every provider is different when it comes to this issue (anyone who has seen Cassie with her lengthy pre-sex ritual can attest to that, LOL) and YMMV even with the same provider. That said, when meeting a provider one should probably assume court is in session just as soon as the front door opens as you suggest unless both parties have specified otherwise, and save any hanging out time for after the sex if the provider is so inclined to invite you to do so. I have no problem with that and that is my normal procedure when I first meet a new provider.
Anyways, I've reached out to Michele to apologize and I'm hopeful we can resolve things amicably so I can keep my time slot away from PG's greasy little fingers, LOL
SYM
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04-08-20 02:15 #7178Banned Member

Posts: 1328LOL. I have no clue what your referencing. I know nothing.
Originally Posted by SevenYearMitch
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Without question, the track star will be tough to replace.
I currently have 3 I am looking at a varsity spot, none are affiliated here.
PG.
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04-08-20 00:51 #7177Senior Member

Posts: 935Now THAT would be fucking hilarious! Is he back from vacation yet or did it even start? I'm sure he'd say I'm a pussy-whipped GPS worshipper but the reality is I've never paid more than 200/ hour for any provider (with the exception of the aspiring porn star Scarlett Rose), and in M1L's case she's definitely worth every penny IMO. She can whip me with her pussy or anything else she'd like! LOL
Originally Posted by GoldenRod123
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04-08-20 00:33 #7176Senior Member

Posts: 935Well thanks to PG I just made snap contact with some fresh new spinner pussy, so stay tuned! This girl is fucking unbelievably gorgeous, a true 10 (even hotter than the green-eyed blonde track star!) and I'm guessing only 19-21 yo based on the pics and snap vids I've seen. However, if I write a review PG might just kill me as she will be gobbled up by you guys for sure, LOL. Please do not PM me for her info - I need to seal the deal first!
Originally Posted by YankeeDoodle
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SYM
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04-07-20 23:31 #7175Senior Member

Posts: 317Shit
I hope he stays broke up with her, I wasn't impressed with her, and his reviews of the same 2 babes get stale. I like his reviews of new pussy! My 2 cents. Yd.
Originally Posted by SevenYearMitch
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04-07-20 22:15 #7174Senior Member

Posts: 173This is what I also understand from hearing both sides, mongers always try to go over on their time. This is probably a providers top 3 biggest pet peeve. Us mongers need to know that these providers would not be spending time with us unless we were paying them. If you think otherwise you are delusional. M1 L said this happened before and felt like she was being taken advantage of, just say you are sorry and that you will respect her time from here on out. Donate for an hour stay for an hour, if she wants you to stay longer she will ask you to stay or let you know that its ok to go over.
Originally Posted by Pbfla321
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04-07-20 22:14 #7173Senior Member

Posts: 73C5
If you're out there lurking and reading this stuff I would love to hear your opinion lmao.
GR.
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04-07-20 21:18 #7172Banned Member

Posts: 1328I get it, you see a girl a bunch of times, your sessions are hot and steamy and you have that connection. From what it sounds like M1 L had let him go over in the past and was kinda nice about it and had let it slide. Plus it sounds like they had a friendly relationship possibly something misconstrued as more than just a client / provider relationship. Then from what seems out of nowhere she throws that at him and you know that hurts when a provider you like / care for does it. It's draws that line, kills that mood / passion that you have built over time and it can affect the connection moving forward. Now I have not discussed this with Mitch, this is my brief hypothesis. We did chat over text, but you know me, its bust ypur balls first, have a normal, rational, logical conversation next. So far it's been me declaring I took his Monday slot away from him. Lolol.
Originally Posted by Pbfla321
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I see both sides, though I think if M1 L (and, I'm not faulting her, I do luv M1 L, she is amazing) said, 'hey I love our time together, but I got to be out of here by this specific time' then there is probably no issue, both sides would have acquiesced and this would be a non-issue. I could be wrong, but Mitch is a pretty bright dude, I think he gets it. So I'm not faulting either party, things maybe could have been handled a bit differently. Both are great peeps. I am sure they care resolve this issue, make amends and return to doing naughty things to each other.
PG.
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04-07-20 20:07 #7171Senior Member

Posts: 127It is all about perspective.
When a provider treats you like she is doing you a favor by letting you pay for her time she has lost perspective about the provider / client relationship. As soon as I get a sense that a provider is taking my business for granted I give them a break for a while to see if they are able to reset. If not there are many potential replacements standing in line.
Originally Posted by NorthWestWind
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04-07-20 19:53 #7170Senior Member

Posts: 103Inflation Is The Problem
You guys have to stop raising the price of romance. You are causing GPS.
Originally Posted by SevenYearMitch
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