NoVA SugarBabies

**JonFisher** · 04-03-20 08:17

https://www.seeking.com/member/f92ad...f-6d0ca1e7df05

Talking with this woman. DTF asking 300, but sends fake pics from the web of Amber Nichole Miller. Looks like a scam. But wanted to see if someone else has any information.

**JonFisher** · 04-03-20 07:24

Originally Posted by ShortMan22 [View Original Post]

Does anyone have the scoop on this one?

She's been around for a bit.

https://www.seeking.com/member/adbb0...8-5ab095c722d6

You asked about her and low jack had seen her and replied with a short review. She changes profiles frequently. My guess is its the same gal as yourdream1919.

**ShortMan22** · 04-02-20 23:45

Does anyone have the scoop on this one?

She's been around for a bit.

https://www.seeking.com/member/adbb0...8-5ab095c722d6

**ShortMan22** · 04-02-20 23:15

Originally Posted by Dimples572 [View Original Post]

Apparently she's not getting much foot traffic from SA cause now she's posting ads on Eros. 500 for an hr, yikes! Glad I saw her when I did for 250.

https://www.eros.com/washington_dc/f...121.htm?cat=26

Saw her a few months back. She has a decent body but us a bit older than what her pics show. Her stomach area is also flabby. Personality wise she is really cool.

She can take a good pounding but wouldn't repeat.
Damage was $$$

**Ernest Ll** · 04-02-20 15:58

Originally Posted by AdcFellow [View Original Post]

The Sheraton hotel in Tysons is closing down, likely permanently. It was my "go to" place for my sugar babes, as the hotel always accepted cash with only a $50 deposit. Anyone know where else you can get a room for cash now?

Buy Gift cards, register them and book through an OTA like orbitz.

**CireSire** · 04-02-20 15:18

Originally Posted by NeedXtra [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/4a001...7-a12206c5feb1

Razelda202. Talked to her. $250. She hosts.

https://www.seeking.com/member/eecb1...b-f39972ab55a7

Sarabee7. Asking for $250. But the first time, she is only going to make out, BJ etc. No FS. For the first meet. Not sure what to make of it.

https://www.seeking.com/member/de71c...3-a338f6708fb8

Curlyfantasy72. Agreed to $200, but will not have sex the first time we meet for coffee, but wants me to give $150 for that meet. Turned down her very gracious offer.

There's got be a better way to negotiate. Should be talking less or talking more? What do I say when they ask how much do you want to pay with offending them by a very low ball offer? Should I be firm with a number I'm comfortable with?

I haven't done this before. And have no idea what I'm doing.

By the way. Curlyfantasy72 is a rip off artist. Must be some scammer trying to get cash. Gave me a number ending in 0892 and when I asked for more pics I got crickets.

**AdcFellow** · 04-02-20 15:06

The Sheraton hotel in Tysons is closing down, likely permanently. It was my "go to" place for my sugar babes, as the hotel always accepted cash with only a $50 deposit. Anyone know where else you can get a room for cash now?

**CireSire** · 04-02-20 13:50

Originally Posted by NeedXtra [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/4a001...7-a12206c5feb1

Razelda202. Talked to her. $250. She hosts.

https://www.seeking.com/member/eecb1...b-f39972ab55a7

Sarabee7. Asking for $250. But the first time, she is only going to make out, BJ etc. No FS. For the first meet. Not sure what to make of it.

https://www.seeking.com/member/de71c...3-a338f6708fb8

Curlyfantasy72. Agreed to $200, but will not have sex the first time we meet for coffee, but wants me to give $150 for that meet. Turned down her very gracious offer.

There's got be a better way to negotiate. Should be talking less or talking more? What do I say when they ask how much do you want to pay with offending them by a very low ball offer? Should I be firm with a number I'm comfortable with?

I haven't done this before. And have no idea what I'm doing.

Thanks for the info. Stick to your guns and control the narrative. It's like shopping for a car or a house. You know what you are going to pay for a BMW or Mercedes. You know what you will are willing to pay for a Honda. Pay what you think is reasonable. Most of the time I received counters for offers lower than what they were expecting. Some times their price was too steep and other times we have met in the middle. Best practice I use is to chat it up with them before we get down to specifics. This gives them a chance to get to know you and give you a sort of " He's nice" discount. Doesn't work all the time as some women are true gamesman in this sport.

**Member #6203** · 04-02-20 13:40

Sight unseen out of state cash request until after the crisis no thanks.

https://www.seeking.com/member/53c24...2-850e626e75c3

**CireSire** · 04-02-20 13:39

Originally Posted by LowJack [View Original Post]

Yep. Just chill and BBBJ for initial meet.

Thanks for the info and I will be making an appointment tomorrow.

**Shinshi** · 04-02-20 12:37

Originally Posted by NeedXtra [View Original Post]

There's got be a better way to negotiate. Should be talking less or talking more? What do I say when they ask how much do you want to pay with offending them by a very low ball offer? Should I be firm with a number I'm comfortable with?

I haven't done this before. And have no idea what I'm doing.

The SB section for Richmond has a ton of tips and advice. Plus, myself and others have posted dozens of times on the matter here. Ultimately, it just takes practice, trial-and-error, and not simply settling.

You're absolutely right to want to stick to a reasonable number and never budge from it. 300 and below seems fair, especially if they're down with multiple hours and multiple calorie-burning moments! Keep in mind that they're not "professional escorts. " Well, a handful are but that's not what the site is geared towards. So if some college kid tries telling you with a straight face that she gets 1 K per meet, laugh in her digital face and move on. Delusions of grandeur with several dashes of GPS is a potent mix not worth messing with. Many SBs will insist they're not escorts anyway, so to charge the same prices (or more) as a regular escort kinda throws their logic out a window. Even 300 an hour doesn't seem worth it as you can get far better service at that price from a pro. Just saying'.

Under no circumstances should you ever, ever pay before a meet. That's just begging to be scammed. These days, Venmo and PayPal and Zelle make it easier to wire money and these girls know it. On a somewhat related note, don't pay for more than her coffee / meal if it's just an initial public meet. Paying to "just be graced with her company?" What a load of rubbish. Another big one is reserving a hotel. If a girl ghosts you and you've already booked a room, you're shit out of luck. Always book a room after you lay eyes on the girl and if things are proceeding nicely between you both.

I'm all about being direct & upfront about what I'm seeking in my first few messages. Four things: be polite, be honest, be upfront, and be discreet. If you're only interested in FWB and PPM, say so within the first few messages. It might scare off a few, but you'll have gotten rid of most scammers, flakes, etc. If a girl wants more than what you're offering, end the dialogue with class & dignity by telling her that you must decline and that you wish her a pleasant day. Under no circumstances should you delve into the minutiae of what you'd like to do to any of them in the bedroom from SA messaging. That's a quick way of potentially losing your SA account. Get her number instead, then you can talk / text freely.

Lastly, I often insist on initial public meets with coffee / drinks. This is typically done closer to a girl's area so they feel more comfortable about being around what they know and is much more convenient for them. Before arriving, I scope out the area to see what all there is to do nearby. That way if I get stood up, it won't have been a complete waste of time. Worst case scenario, I will have tried a new hole-in-the-wall type of restaurant, shopped somewhere different, ran some errands, etc.

Obviously, much of this works when there isn't an ongoing apocalypse. I know of some here who are doing initial meets in public parks or "bumping into one another" at a restaurant curbside / parking lot. As stated earlier though, I'm sitting this hobby out for a month or two. Just doesn't seem to be worth the risk, but to each their own. Cheers!

**Low Jack** · 04-02-20 11:54

Originally Posted by CireSire [View Original Post]

I was talking to her as well. Gave her a flat $$ and she had no problems with that. I know she can host but she told me she has roommates. Did she host with you?

Yep. Just chill and BBBJ for initial meet.

**NeedXtra** · 04-02-20 00:01

https://www.seeking.com/member/4a001...7-a12206c5feb1

Razelda202. Talked to her. $250. She hosts.

https://www.seeking.com/member/eecb1...b-f39972ab55a7

Sarabee7. Asking for $250. But the first time, she is only going to make out, BJ etc. No FS. For the first meet. Not sure what to make of it.

https://www.seeking.com/member/de71c...3-a338f6708fb8

Curlyfantasy72. Agreed to $200, but will not have sex the first time we meet for coffee, but wants me to give $150 for that meet. Turned down her very gracious offer.

There's got be a better way to negotiate. Should be talking less or talking more? What do I say when they ask how much do you want to pay with offending them by a very low ball offer? Should I be firm with a number I'm comfortable with?

I haven't done this before. And have no idea what I'm doing.

**NeedXtra** · 04-01-20 23:32

Originally Posted by CireSire [View Original Post]

Bro, I hardly think anyone has told her about your post she is not post worthy. If anything I said to hard pass on her. She did you the favor because I hardly doubt she gets foot traffic.

You are right. I have to just let it go. BTW. I did a search for her handle and the link to the post shows up in Google. Right at the top.

**NeedXtra** · 04-01-20 23:30

Boy! I sure do know how to pick'them.

So this gal from New South Wales, Australia messages me and indicates that she is planning on coming to the US for 1 year study and would like financial help for tuition. I'm like 'OK, let's hear her out'. She invites me over to kik and discussion proceeds there. She then says that she is seeking an allowance to help her out and that she does not like PPM. I informed her that frankly that was what would go with and it's fine if she is not interested. She proceed to say that it's 'gross', 'eew' and that she is not an escort etc. And that I should have my head examined. I politely informed her that bottom line she was exchanging sexual favors for money either as a one time payment or in installments. Doesn't make a damned difference. Some more yelling from her and I told her that a ***** is a ***** and john is a john. And not to make judgement on others. Asked to her to take a proper look into the silvery thing in her bathroom.

There was this other girl. 'Sugar Baby' was her handle. Wanted 1200 per meet. Another one wanted an advance before meeting. Promised FaceTime. Actually, more than a couple of people graciously offered me that option.

And I suck at negotiating the price. I think I should have a firm price in mind and not let junior make the decision. It becomes easier once you have a couple of them lined up for later.