Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

**Big Mac Daddy** · 03-23-20 20:35

Also, for others out there not knowing how this works, if you got the girl's info, she likely won't meet because she'll know you're not on the same site and she'll freak out. She won't meet and she'll know someone she's seen has breached her privacy and security. Even if you got past that, she'd ask how you got her info?

If you're on the site, some will openly tell you about pay to play and it's no secret. The gems are not so obvious so it takes some digging to discover. A softer approach works. Women need to be reassured that you are a safe person to talk and be with.

BMD.

**Newbie1961** · 03-23-20 17:50

Thanks was just comparing notes. Glad you had better success than me. And I get it, for you if you have to spend 200 dollars in credits like you say to find the right girl I respect that and it's worth it for you then. Just never had as much success with credit based site's cost wise. Would never ask you to share a profile of a girl your seeing or on working. Was just asking if you have any discards of the ones your not seeing like you mentioned if you might share a link (you can read my posts I try to share with other members all I can), since your done with them. If not I understand. Glad the app is working out for you.

**ILoveThatPoo** · 03-23-20 16:23

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9LWo...&feature=share

It is awesome and pertinent! Poo.

**Slinky77** · 03-23-20 13:39

Originally Posted by Newbie1961 [View Original Post]

Not going to call you on this but yea. Kinda am. I have had terrible luck on SB. How many years have you been on there and how much have you actually spent total? You have spent 3-4 years on there and how many girls have you met and actually fucked? Can you provide any links to girls you have had sex with? What is the total amount of money you have spent on that site? This almost sounds like an ad for the site because every forum here I read says it's one of the worst site for bot's, spam and scammer's. Just asking.

I almost ignored this comment but considering I don't have a long posting history I felt the need to defend myself.

I'm sorry you didn't have any luck on SB. [Deleted by Admin] If you read my post clearly you would have understood what I was saying. Let me take a few minutes to break it down for you. You can add credits for anywhere from $89-$300 I believe depending on what package you buy. A large number of the credits you spend will be wasted money. I was very clear on that in my original post. They won't respond. Or they'll respond with "hi" then ghost. That's a given.

However all you need is to find 1 or 2 gems and the entire fee is completely worth it. Case in point, my friend Regina. Normal girl, great body, killer in bed. Just sitting on that site last spring. I have seen her sporadically since then. I paid her $100 Saturday night and she stayed at my house from 9 PM-9 AM. I fucked her bareback 3 times all CIP. I mean, if you can't understand the value in that then I'm not sure what to tell you. I'm a numbers guy. If I have to spend even $200 on a SD site and I find a girl that I can see regularly, even one, at that deal its completely worth it. I have 3-4 girls I can text from that site and meet up with periodically if I want. I'm not going to go through your post and answer all your questions, most aren't justified anyway. I was trying to share information, which is the purpose of this site.

I'll leave it this way. I have fucked many girls from that site. At least 10 and that's no joke. Some were a one time thing for obvious reasons. Some I saw a few times. I even took one girl from that site to a wedding. My point is they are out there. You just have to have a good approach and work for it. No I will not provide links to my SBs. Do your own work. Pay the money and put some time in.

**Big Mac Daddy** · 03-23-20 11:55

Originally Posted by Newbie1961 [View Original Post]

Not going to call you on this but yea. Kinda am. I have had terrible luck on SB. How many years have you been on there and how much have you actually spent total? You have spent 3-4 years on there and how many girls have you met and actually fucked? Can you provide any links to girls you have had sex with? What is the total amount of money you have spent on that site? This almost sounds like an ad for the site because every forum here I read says it's one of the worst site for bot's, spam and scammer's. Just asking.

There are some real ones there but it takes practice to filter thru the bs members. Just go offline with them and be direct on setting up a meeting. The scammers and fakes will dodge you or go silent. Then, move on to the next one. It's a numbers game until you hit the jackpot.

BMD.

**BigBoss203** · 03-23-20 08:46

I started talking to this one. She has been in the game since 2017.

It seems she may be a pro. I'll let you know how it goes.

Update: I guess I'll be meeting her tomorrow. So far no signs of shadiness or warnings I would be worry about.

https://www.seeking.com/member/72dc4...3-639849595f81

**Newbie1961** · 03-22-20 22:19

Not going to call you on this but yea. Kinda am. I have had terrible luck on SB. How many years have you been on there and how much have you actually spent total? You have spent 3-4 years on there and how many girls have you met and actually fucked? Can you provide any links to girls you have had sex with? What is the total amount of money you have spent on that site? This almost sounds like an ad for the site because every forum here I read says it's one of the worst site for bot's, spam and scammer's. Just asking.

**TopGun9** · 03-22-20 21:51

Originally Posted by MyHobby [View Original Post]

Great points, I'd like to add one suggestion. Don't block and run, report and run. All they need is a few of us reporting them and they get booted. It's a community service and will keep them from spreading the word to their friends that this kind of behavior is acceptable.

Good point. Report them.

**Slinky77** · 03-22-20 10:06

I understand why people dislike the format of Secret Benefits. Paying credits per message is a horrible model, and I'm sure I've wasted a lot of money on bots and fake accounts. That's a given. But I have discovered over the course of a few years 3-4 absolute gems on that site.

Case in point was last night. I worked all day and got home and started going through my Rolodex. Texted Regina, a girl I met off that site last spring. She's about 5'6", half Jamaican half Puerto Rican. Nice and thick, pierced nipples, tongue, nice big tits. 25 years old, bounces around with basic jobs. Just a cool chick overall. Pick her up at 9. She's naked by 915 and I pound her pussy for the next hour and a half. I bust 2 nuts, she's having multiple orgasms, it was fantastic. We're watching TV and she falls asleep. So I go about my night and I wake her up at midnight and tell her I'm going to bed. She asks if she can stay over and I end up fucking her again this morning before I send her on her way. Cost me $100. You can't beat that. Normal girl, no drugs, no drama, just wants to hang out and fuck.

My point is there are girls out there on that site. You can buy 500 credits for I think around $175. If you spend them wisely you'll find at least a few girls you can bang and some may even last while. I usually reload my credits about once a year. For what I get in return its totally worth it.

**Big Mac Daddy** · 03-22-20 00:39

Originally Posted by XxMarkXx [View Original Post]

Agree, waste of time. I actually had a nice conversation with her a month or two ago. She really only wanted to meet immediately. Seemed to haveca decent personality and was coherent. Wonder what her game is?

I tried to meet her, too. Same deal. She wanted to meet ASAP. That was ok with me but then she asked if I was going give her some bucks for a meet and greet. I told her if we were compatible, we could start our fwb ASAP or any day after. Since I was driving to her area, there'd be no cash for a meet and greet.

She blabbered about no job / work, no gas in her car, caring for her sick mom, etc.

I'm looking for an escape from reality. Not to be her ATM for all of her problems. She saved me the expense of time and gas from her BS. Next!

BMD.

**MyHobby** · 03-21-20 22:57

Originally Posted by TopGun9 [View Original Post]

Rookie mistakes:

1 - Never send money in advance. When I hear cashapp, venmo, etc. I block and run.

2 - When I hear video and money in the same sentence, block and run.

3 - ALWAYS: Meet, fuck, give money.

Great points, I'd like to add one suggestion. Don't block and run, report and run. All they need is a few of us reporting them and they get booted. It's a community service and will keep them from spreading the word to their friends that this kind of behavior is acceptable.

**MyHobby** · 03-21-20 22:11

Originally Posted by MyHobby [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/10e7d...e-a8f63436a9dc

These 2 are working it hard today. Anyone have experience?

Couple experienced pros here. Definitely not "sugar babies". Can be had for way less than they've quoted some on here. The Redhead is not nearly as good looking as the pics. The black girl is a tall drink of water.

**XxMarkXx** · 03-21-20 13:50

Originally Posted by ArchitexOne [View Original Post]

She is a total waste of time.

Agree, waste of time. I actually had a nice conversation with her a month or two ago. She really only wanted to meet immediately. Seemed to haveca decent personality and was coherent. Wonder what her game is?

**ArchitexOne** · 03-20-20 20:16

Originally Posted by BigBoss203 [View Original Post]

Talked to her, she seems desperate and needs money. She is also new at the game. She asked me if I can meet today. Then she insisted we have a phone call, meet over coffee and talk.

I ignored her, too demanding and the type who wouldn't put out easily.

Maybe it will be different experience for you guys.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a358a...5-fac54da3aa51

She is a total waste of time.

**TopGun9** · 03-20-20 17:46

Originally Posted by BigBoss203 [View Original Post]

We agreed on $150 for tonight. I decided to ask her for a fuck video just to get a preview of her for $20. The total would come to $130 when I see her.

I sent the $20 and she ignored me.

I knew she was fake when she said "I have a video pov" what kind of girl says pov.

Anyways, please report her if you get a chance. Be warned.

Rookie mistakes:

1 - Never send money in advance. When I hear cashapp, venmo, etc. I block and run.

2 - When I hear video and money in the same sentence, block and run.

3 - ALWAYS: Meet, fuck, give money.