NoVA SugarBabies

**DoggieFan** · 02-26-20 07:30

Originally Posted by IluvSmellyFish [View Original Post]

Answer is it depends. Lots of girls are on SA because they don't want the smalltalk. They want an arrangement. They get innundated by hundreds of thirsty dudes, 1/2 of whom have no clue. These girls want you to be up front, but not too up front. Talk about arrangements you've had in the past or what your ideal arrangement looks like. Other ladies want to play the game and will get offended if you're too direct. They'll tell you that theyre not interested in being treated like a hooker. Also plenty of straight up backpage girls on the site as well. Report them so they get booted.

Trick to figuring out how to approach them is to read their profiles and check the join date. If a lady is new, she's prob more likely to want to play the game. Longer she's been on the site, chances are she'll want to cut to the chase.

If your new to the game, check the richmond board. There's a thread there with lots of tips on the sugar world. Happy hunting bro.

Curious as to why you want to report pros that are on SA? I don't want to take these girls home to mama, I want bomb sex from attractive girls with killer bodies. I'm not looking for a GF here.

Plus, the inverse is possible. Tons of guys get kicked off for asking for the order on the SA messaging vs going to text. You then have the hassle & expense of setting up another profile & kicking the cash again.

At the end of the day, what's the difference if your giving them cash & getting sex, isn't that the definition of a hooker? Yes, it helps a "nice girl" to make herself feel like it's not the case but face it guys, it is what it is. It may some guys feel better too. At the end of the day if not you she'd have someone else's dick in her mouth & kitty.

I personally have less use for the time wasters, fin dom, platonic, pic & video sellers, rinsers & dinner ******. But that's just me.

**BookerTNelson** · 02-26-20 06:33

Originally Posted by AksWorld [View Original Post]

Hello Seniors. I m new to the seeking and need you help. How do you guys normally start the conversation and are you direct to what you are looking for or keep chatting and when you meet then tell them. I recently met with a girl and it was not a good experience as she was a non GFE.

I keep it simple. All the girls know what a SD is, they may try to play coy and act like they don't but they know. That's fine though, just remember that you're there for a reason and be sure to let them know your expectations of any kind of arrangement or meet. I don't think I'm traditional when compared to how a lot of the other guys on here describe their interactions but I'm very upfront with all of them regarding my MINIMUM expectations, and I invite them to a M&G to further discuss things. If they don't want that, that's fine and I move on, They aren't special.

The thing that makes SA (or any arrangement) worth it to me is the finesse of having game and getting into these young SB's for far less than it would cost to date any of them long term (or short term).

**IluvSmellyFish** · 02-25-20 23:08

Originally Posted by AksWorld [View Original Post]

Hello Seniors. I m new to the seeking and need you help. How do you guys normally start the conversation and are you direct to what you are looking for or keep chatting and when you meet then tell them. I recently met with a girl and it was not a good experience as she was a non GFE.

Answer is it depends. Lots of girls are on SA because they don't want the smalltalk. They want an arrangement. They get innundated by hundreds of thirsty dudes, 1/2 of whom have no clue. These girls want you to be up front, but not too up front. Talk about arrangements you've had in the past or what your ideal arrangement looks like. Other ladies want to play the game and will get offended if you're too direct. They'll tell you that theyre not interested in being treated like a hooker. Also plenty of straight up backpage girls on the site as well. Report them so they get booted.

Trick to figuring out how to approach them is to read their profiles and check the join date. If a lady is new, she's prob more likely to want to play the game. Longer she's been on the site, chances are she'll want to cut to the chase.

If your new to the game, check the richmond board. There's a thread there with lots of tips on the sugar world. Happy hunting bro.

**Newbie1961** · 02-25-20 20:18

How much time and money did you waste buying this girl dinner? You Nova Guys have money to burn buying these Rinsers food and drinks. Keep it simple. Meet for coffee and a 30 min meeting. 10 bucks and text them after to set up an actual arrangement. Or not. This is not Match.com or Christian Mingle.com[/URL].

**Sfrancis118** · 02-25-20 19:10

Originally Posted by AksWorld [View Original Post]

Sorry.

https://www.seeking.com/member/9027b...3-561d79c4968a

How did it go?

**DrYellow** · 02-25-20 15:32

I basically paid her for dinner. Refused fc. Good luck!

Originally Posted by InSearch69 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f07ba...e-de80ff7f9ffe

Anyone have any info on her? I have a meet with her coming up.

**Bilaling** · 02-25-20 12:42

Originally Posted by InSearch69 [View Original Post]

Anyone got an update on her? I'm wondering if anyone actually got to fc with her. I got a dinner date only.

I did once. It wasn't worth it so never followed up again. I think it was because I got her when she was new to the lifestyle.

B.

**Member #6575** · 02-24-20 20:50

Miss Gourmet.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c607b...8-da7463812c3e

Seems keen to go to FC -- but meet and greet first over drinks. Got her txt. Interested to know if GPS as I have kept silent on possible $$.

Meeting her tomorrow evening in Potomac Mills.

Thanks.

SA.

**Newbie1961** · 02-24-20 18:37

Go buy her diner. Please report back how much time and money you spent and how it worked out. Guys. Quit doing this.

**RegularJoe1985** · 02-24-20 18:25

Originally Posted by InSearch69 [View Original Post]

Anyone got an update on her? I'm wondering if anyone actually got to fc with her. I got a dinner date only.

Given you an idea that she really is not interested in FC, just meals.

I suggest that everyone offer her just Coffee, not even a sandwich. Just freaking coffee. .

**AksWorld** · 02-24-20 18:11

Hello Seniors. I m new to the seeking and need you help. How do you guys normally start the conversation and are you direct to what you are looking for or keep chatting and when you meet then tell them. I recently met with a girl and it was not a good experience as she was a non GFE.

**Dimples572** · 02-24-20 16:11

Originally Posted by SamTam [View Original Post]

Odd, it says "trans girl" right in the profile header. Perhaps it got changed after your visit.

Yeah it was definitely not there before. She changed that cause I called her out on it.

**BookerTNelson** · 02-24-20 15:20

Originally Posted by SuckeredByaSB [View Original Post]

LOL. By the time I meet these girls, I normally know everything there is to know about them. I don't take any chances. It's not hard. There are cheap resources. I'm not going to belabor the point about this one but I'd suggest we all agree to use their "screen names" only on public posts.

I do the same. I have some idea about who these girls are far before I'm in front of them.

Also, There are diff avenues to finding SB's and typically they charge guys that find them on seeking the most.

**Pathfinder04** · 02-24-20 15:01

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

Snapchat is a great way to find them, but some just aren't very saavvy about privacy.

Case in point, this newbie has a very distinctive profile photo that will lead you to her real life person which is not her screen name -- https://www.seeking.com/member/77801...5-cd4417c30c27.

I google search every photo to see if I can learn more about them, look up the # the give and try to get them on Snap or Kik so I can learn more.

I prefer to have the SB book the hotel in her name to avoid a paper trail -- and too many of the 20 somethings just aren't quite smart enough to figure out how to do that since most have never used an OTA before, so they end up just telling me their names and I do it.

Also, many are very careless about IRL details -- where they went to school, where they are working etc -- and almost any career gal is on Linked in these days and the premium membership lets you search by enough fields to narrow it down to find Shea in Chicago who is in advertising and went to IL STate.

I had one girl pop up in my Facebook feed after we had been chatting on seeking which freaked us both out a little LOL. She's a professional with a somewhat high-profile job. Turns out we hung out at the same bar and had some common friends even though we had never actually met. Anyway we ended up having good times but I broke things off because her PPM was a little high for my taste.

**IluvSmellyFish** · 02-24-20 14:51

Originally Posted by SuckeredByaSB [View Original Post]

LOL. By the time I meet these girls, I normally know everything there is to know about them. I don't take any chances. It's not hard. There are cheap resources. I'm not going to belabor the point about this one but I'd suggest we all agree to use their "screen names" only on public posts.

Its not her real name so I'm not violating forum policy. If you're looking to link up with her again and she's not returning your messages or texts, I'm happy to reach out to her if you'd like if you can't get in touch with her because she blocked you.

Just PM me bruh. I got you.