WYP, SA, and other SD sites

**FightingFungus** · 02-24-20 00:55

Originally Posted by IluvSmellyFish [View Original Post]

Yep. Its like cold calling. Damn hard work and you have to be on your game.

I've found that giving $ before the m&g is almost always a loser. I let them know that I'm happy to provide a small gift if things go well, but will not venmo in advance. Not trying to be a tough guy, but have been burned too many times in the past. Old Chinese guys post below mine is on point. You give 95% of these ladies and inch, they'll assume you're good for an extra mile and will often push it. At the minimum now I like to make them show up and work for it.

These forums are great for weeding out flakes and scammers, but remember, once you see a good post go up about an SB, its a sure sign that she's going to be innundated with guys beating down her door. Between the hundreds of lurkers who are on the site, you're now competing with the guys who've mastered this game down to a science.

I've found that more often than not, the ladies who are not reviewed are often the best gems. Not hating on anyone, since its human nature, but when you find something good, most folks want to keep it a secret so they can have more of it. Chances are when you hear crickets after asking about a young lady, then that's probably a good sign.

After 100's of messages, and an exhausting # of m&gs, I'm slowly rounding out my rotation. Pretty sure I'm going into the rotations of some of the girls I've met this go around and hope whichever you guys I'm sharing her with are clean. Guess in the meantime I'll just have to jimmy up until I get a better sense for each of these new ladies.

Happy hunting fellahs.

Great point about the crickets part. I have noticed there have been a few girls I have been with who were great and not a word about them. I also notice the girls who the guys actually review are not usually very hot. I agree it is a great place to weed out scammers and disappointments. Personally, if I have a great experience I will tell it, but than again I do this for the variety. Very rarely will I see a girl twice, I love new Pusey.

**Jt1896** · 02-23-20 23:48

Originally Posted by BaltoMan66 [View Original Post]

This one seems nice, but as we were finalizing a meeting she says " don't forget the date gift". I tell her I don't pay for coffee, but if she's down for an arrangement fine.

We'll see what happens next. This is her profile:

https://www.seeking.com/member/d78fe...c-75987debe8a7

Do a search on her old profile. She's been talked about before. Be careful with this one she is a little unstable in my opinion.

**BaltoMan66** · 02-23-20 22:43

This one seems nice, but as we were finalizing a meeting she says " don't forget the date gift". I tell her I don't pay for coffee, but if she's down for an arrangement fine.

We'll see what happens next. This is her profile:

https://www.seeking.com/member/d78fe...c-75987debe8a7

**Shinshi** · 02-23-20 22:43

Originally Posted by DepthCharge [View Original Post]

She is very pushy about meeting at her club and says that's the place she feels the safest.

Sounds like she's juggling a lot of johns and forgetting what she communicated previously with you. There's another one named Missimperfect_ (https://www.seeking.com/member/98af6...3-07da93405558) who told others here the same thing about meeting at her club. With me, neither that nor mention of any rates came up. However, we ended up missing our scheduled meet as she got a temporary ban from SA. Also, I came across other SBs that seemed better; however, I left the door open to try & potentially connect later next month.

I'm just confused as to why they'd prefer meeting at a strip club other than to get even more $ out of us. If she's honest with herself, she'd know that Starbucks is a helluva lot more safe than her place of employment. Even if either SB were to provide extras at the club (which I seriously doubt), how could that possibly be better than getting a hotel (or going to their apartment) and having relatively uninterrupted, crazy, wild fun without the distraction of nosy bouncers, set time limits, and deafening music? Just seems like a waste of your hard-earned cash, but to each their own.

As for her wanting a MMF threesome, I might be okay fulfilling that fantasy of her's. But you'd better believe I'm wrapping my shit up before taking that plunge (and forget DATY in that scenario, haha)!

**DepthCharge** · 02-23-20 22:09

Originally Posted by Shinshi86 [View Original Post]

Viper301 reported on her less than 2 weeks ago. She can host and typically asks for 200. I chatted with her a while back, but I've been very busy with work and hitting up other SBs instead. This one's definitely my type, so I'll probably take her up on her offer next month. Also, I knew she was a dancer but didn't know she was at the Goddess until now, so much appreciated for that bit of missing info.

Have interacted with her a few times with her messaging me every time after my initial contact. She is very pushy about meeting at her club and says that's the place she feels the safest. I told her I usually feel the safest in a Panera with a cup of coffee in my hand and I was more than happy to treat her to one herself and sit down for a meet and greet for no allowance exchange if that's what she was looking for before moving onto anything physical. Kept up with the pressure to meet at her club and then she finally gave up. Several days later, messaged me and asked if I wanted to come over to her place in Baltimore County. Told her I'd do 200 and didn't want to be rushed. She says that's fine but then starts in about would I do a MMF threesome and this is her darkest fantasy and I of course would only have to pay her for her time. Told her no was not interested in that. Pushy about that just like meeting at the club. Whole thing sounded like a potential setup to me. Told her wasn't interested in the threesome (for the third time) and I'd pick her up and take her to or just meet her at a motel, at least for the first time. She says ew those places have bedbugs. I told her I wasn't looking to walk into a stranger's house under these circumstances and with potentially another dude around. She went silent. Messaged me again last night about coming to the club yet again. Told her no but I'd meet her afterward if she was DTF. She immediately asks if I wanted to do a MMF threesome and starts in on all of that again. Told her we had done this dance before, she had my terms and we could do business or no. Haven't heard from her since.

**Jt1896** · 02-23-20 20:27

Originally Posted by Shinshi86 [View Original Post]

Viper301 reported on her less than 2 weeks ago. She can host and typically asks for 200. I chatted with her a while back, but I've been very busy with work and hitting up other SBs instead. This one's definitely my type, so I'll probably take her up on her offer next month. Also, I knew she was a dancer but didn't know she was at the Goddess until now, so much appreciated for that bit of missing info.

That was info he was passing along but I don't believe that he saw her. You know there used to be someone at Goddess that I really liked who looks like her. I have no idea if it's the same person but I remember someone like SuperNova who as really good back in the room. I'd need to go there and see her in person to know for sure. Maybe I'll go.

**Jt1896** · 02-23-20 19:55

Originally Posted by Shinshi86 [View Original Post]

Viper301 reported on her less than 2 weeks ago. She can host and typically asks for 200. I chatted with her a while back, but I've been very busy with work and hitting up other SBs instead. This one's definitely my type, so I'll probably take her up on her offer next month. Also, I knew she was a dancer but didn't know she was at the Goddess until now, so much appreciated for that bit of missing info.

No problem, she moves to KIK and sent me a message on Saturday asking me to come down to see her and I told her I was busy and she then offered on Sunday because she was also working. She's my type too, I just need to find the time to go down there and establish my bona fides. Seems like she won't meet until she sees that you are a decent guy and not a serial killer.

**Razmus27** · 02-23-20 17:15

I've seen her before and she's legit. Nice bod. She had just moved into her place and was getting settled. A little pricey but was good for a hit and run.

Originally Posted by Shinshi86 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/64584...5-0c005114703c

I messaged this girl almost two weeks ago but only got a response just last night, haha! Communication is most definitely not her strength to put it mildly. Her reply was that she's been getting drunk a lot lately but that she's wide awake now & able to meet that night. She sent me her digits rather quickly, but I was with friends & fam. So I told her we'll try again next weekend, which she agreed to.

Going off previous reporting here, she sounds like a decent time if you can nail down a meet. I especially liked to hear that she's into porn / filming, which understandably most SBs (and other providers) don't seem to like. So we'll see what happens.

**Shinshi** · 02-23-20 12:45

Originally Posted by Jt1896 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f6dde...d-40a665735071

She's working tonight and tomorrow 8-2 am Go see her she wants to meet before she'll meet up. If anyone sees her please let us know the details? Have no idea if she hosts or what the situation is at her home.

Viper301 reported on her less than 2 weeks ago. She can host and typically asks for 200. I chatted with her a while back, but I've been very busy with work and hitting up other SBs instead. This one's definitely my type, so I'll probably take her up on her offer next month. Also, I knew she was a dancer but didn't know she was at the Goddess until now, so much appreciated for that bit of missing info.

**Soldier826** · 02-23-20 12:40

https://www.seeking.com/member/b0354...c-10721f644209

Just said her previous PPM's were between 6 and 1. 5.

Didn't even try and counter.

Good luck and be safe.

**Xyzpdqa** · 02-23-20 05:47

https://www.seeking.com/member/c687d...2-16636a8f3046

Very pleasant texting. Could have gone further. Just not my preference currently.

**Xyzpdqa** · 02-23-20 05:23

https://www.seeking.com/member/6f5c2...5-31cf8455fb21

Nothing physical.

Her text:

" I am open to sharing photos / videos / phone calls / facetime / conversation / lunch / coffee anything like that. However I am looking to be compensated for my time".

**Xyzpdqa** · 02-23-20 05:16

https://www.seeking.com/member/258cd...0-1d9fb0f82287

Covered FS. Needs Uber, but does not demand pre-pay.

**Xyzpdqa** · 02-23-20 05:11

https://www.seeking.com/member/726d8...d-5afee6c1938f

Brief texting. Things were (too) slowly heading in the desired direction maybe. Now she's in NY. Was I being tooled? Was she online only, but being cautious as my profile says no to online only, no to pics vids?

Anyone have luck?

**Xyzpdqa** · 02-23-20 05:03

https://www.seeking.com/member/67ed6...b-5e1baf3f8da2

We chatted briefly. When I held fast about absolutely no prepay, she told me that we were "not a match. " She did not want to engage in any negotiating.

Now she favorites me any time that we are online at the same time. I assume everyone is getting favorited. Should I still be trying? Anyone nailing her?