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  1. #11374
    Quote Originally Posted by DeadHeadChevy  [View Original Post]
    Amazingly, that is his major problem, motivation. Even simple things is like watching a sloth solve complex mathematics. Death row inmates have more motivation then him.

    I attribute most of that from his ex beating every ounce of manhood out of him, the reason I thought simply that he got laid, paid or not, that maybe would be the fuel he needs to kickstart his drive.

    Sorry guys, I had to reach out. The next few posts will be some reviews and AMP opinions.
    I admire what you're trying to do. It's nice to have someone looking out for your best interest and I hope he appreciates you.

    What's the end goal, to show him there are other options out there, to get his interests up in finding someone else, or to get him laid?

    One option would be to take him to Cheetah's or the equivalent in his area on a Friday or Saturday night. The girls are nice, friendly, and super sexy. Let him pick out a favorite and pay for a VIP session. Guaranteed she'll put a smile on his face. Then if he's still up for more action, you could suggest a nice relaxing massage at an AMP for a rub & tug to release the pent up frustration. Nice thing is no alcohol is needed.

    But if you have a particular provider in mind, yes, he might be a repeat customer, forgoing other relationships, but I doubt he'll fall in love with someone he knows jerks a couple dozen guys a day.

    Another option is to suggest using one if the many online dating / hookup sites. Just my 2 cents.

  2. #11373
    Don't do it. If it goes bad you will be blamed. Being unemployed he does not meet the financial requirements of support for the green card application.

    Quote Originally Posted by DeadHeadChevy  [View Original Post]
    I know a Massage Girl, very sweet, good looking and everything you would want in a woman, we keep in touch on WeChat. She proposed to me (at first), and yes a marriage proposal, some time ago. It was basically to help her get a green card or as they called it a "identity" meaning citizenship.

    I knew up front that there would be lots of "free sex" for the arrangement, and she was very good to. I also know that she would most likely continue to be a Massage Girl, offering FS, so emotional attachment would probably be non-existent or minimal at best.

    I have a situation where I can't help her in that way and told her.

    She asked if I knew anyone that would entertain the offer, and she even offered to pay for the arrangement. Not sure what kind of money we're talking here.

    I told her about my brother and she was really pushing the idea.

    I asked him about it, he kind of shrugged it off like it was nothing but did say he would probably do it, but that he had nothing to offer her, he is unemployed and has been for some time. Not sure if he grasped the idea that she would be a working girl, but I think he was just thinking of it as an arrangement and that's it, knowing that sex would most likely be included.

    I'm not sure how exactly that would work out, for the both of them. I didn't push the issue, because to be 100% honest, she is way too much for him to handle. And the fact that if they did hook up and emotionally attached and they stayed married, I banged her at least 8 times, and that would add some weirdness to the mix.

    She also has a daughter in China, so there is that as well, a crazy situation to say the least, didn't want to go down that road.
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  3. #11372

    Where have you been?

    I keep a list of almost all the AMP's that I have had the pleasure of visiting.

    I keep them listed on my Google Maps so when I travel for work, which is quite often, if one is in close proximity or on the way if I am driving. Sometimes I drive to my field locations or client's locations, sometimes I fly. It all depends on the nature of the client's needs at the time. Sometimes I have no choice due to time and logistics.

    I am, at the moment out of town, near Denver actually, and will try to find time to partake in some activities at a favorite K-AMP nearby, we'll see.

    Anyway hear is a map of most of the places that I have been. Feel free to pm me if you travel and want to know of some in a given city, maybe I can help. Give me time due to the nature of my work, cell phone use is sometimes restricted or not available, so immediate needs may not be met.
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  4. #11371

    You're a good man, but

    Quote Originally Posted by DeadHeadChevy  [View Original Post]
    Amazingly, that is his major problem, motivation. Even simple things is like watching a sloth solve complex mathematics. Death row inmates have more motivation then him.

    I attribute most of that from his ex beating every ounce of manhood out of him, the reason I thought simply that he got laid, paid or not, that maybe would be the fuel he needs to kickstart his drive.

    Sorry guys, I had to reach out. The next few posts will be some reviews and AMP opinions.
    He's depressed so if you really want to help, find him a professional therapist ASAP!

  5. #11370

    I swear it like you know him.

    Quote Originally Posted by BlueSkyBlue  [View Original Post]

    But everybody sometimes needs a kick in the ass to get moving, all you can do is be there to help but ultimately they have to figure this out for themselves.
    Amazingly, that is his major problem, motivation. Even simple things is like watching a sloth solve complex mathematics. Death row inmates have more motivation then him.

    I attribute most of that from his ex beating every ounce of manhood out of him, the reason I thought simply that he got laid, paid or not, that maybe would be the fuel he needs to kickstart his drive.

    Sorry guys, I had to reach out. The next few posts will be some reviews and AMP opinions.

  6. #11369

    First step is to talk

    Resolution comes when you start to talk about it.

    Just give somebody a chance to talk about things, sometimes the first step to helping them just be patient and listen.

    Really you don't have anything to do with it, they have to fix their own problems.

    But everybody sometimes needs a kick in the ass to get moving, all you can do is be there to help but ultimately they have to figure this out for themselves.

  7. #11368

    Funny you should say that.

    Quote Originally Posted by Wzrd94  [View Original Post]
    Yeah man I'm very happy you support him and talk to him. I would do the same to my siblings and closest friends. It will take him a self realization to the current state. If it's been going on for years, He will need to break some old habits and create new healthy habit loops. Man if he's legally divorce just help him find a good local / foreign chick to be partner for a lifetime. I remember I visited an island in the Philippines I passed by a town park where I found old folks partying hard with their young wives in the middle of a basketball court all of them look happy and having a time of their life. That shit was epic hahaha.
    I know a Massage Girl, very sweet, good looking and everything you would want in a woman, we keep in touch on WeChat. She proposed to me (at first), and yes a marriage proposal, some time ago. It was basically to help her get a green card or as they called it a "identity" meaning citizenship.

    I knew up front that there would be lots of "free sex" for the arrangement, and she was very good to. I also know that she would most likely continue to be a Massage Girl, offering FS, so emotional attachment would probably be non-existent or minimal at best.

    I have a situation where I can't help her in that way and told her.

    She asked if I knew anyone that would entertain the offer, and she even offered to pay for the arrangement. Not sure what kind of money we're talking here.

    I told her about my brother and she was really pushing the idea.

    I asked him about it, he kind of shrugged it off like it was nothing but did say he would probably do it, but that he had nothing to offer her, he is unemployed and has been for some time. Not sure if he grasped the idea that she would be a working girl, but I think he was just thinking of it as an arrangement and that's it, knowing that sex would most likely be included.

    I'm not sure how exactly that would work out, for the both of them. I didn't push the issue, because to be 100% honest, she is way too much for him to handle. And the fact that if they did hook up and emotionally attached and they stayed married, I banged her at least 8 times, and that would add some weirdness to the mix.

    She also has a daughter in China, so there is that as well, a crazy situation to say the least, didn't want to go down that road.

  8. #11367

    Thank you.

    Quote Originally Posted by BlueSkyBlue  [View Original Post]
    Deadhead Chevy I don't want to repeat everything you wrote but just consider this.

    Everybody's faced suffering in life.

    Everybody's path in life is different.

    Your concern for your brother is admirable;
    Thank you, for your and everyone else's thoughts and opinions. Not really sure what if anything that I will do. Maybe just let him sail his own course and see how it goes. But that seems to me like watching a train wreck in slow motion.

    I don't want to just thrust this upon him and make things worse by any account, that would not be cool.

    I know how I felt coming out of a divorce and the first time getting laid by someone other then your ex, it was exhilarating and reinforced me that there is so much more out there then what your used to. Hoping just getting a little strange action for him would have the same or similar effect.

    I will update if it happens to let you guys know what course I took if any.

    Thanks again, until next time.

  9. #11366

    La Jolla Spa

    Not to be confused with La Jolla Ocean spa, is on the second floor next to John's Tailor. A couple of cuties there, one I recognized from the now defunct A-spa.

  10. #11365

    Lily

    Quote Originally Posted by SdfitLife  [View Original Post]
    Lily on RR has some of th best big naturals I've seen in awhile. Nice, full, firm. Pricing is reasonable and she actually gives a nice rub.
    Thanks for the feedback on Lily. Her pictures do look good. I thought about scheduling with her, but I remembered seeing reports about her being detached, and although she goes topless she allows limited mutual touching / boob play. The report was probably when she first starting out. I noticed she now listed fetish friendly in her ad. Maybe she is monger friendlier now.

  11. #11364
    Quote Originally Posted by RChangDatyKing  [View Original Post]
    In my quest for large natural breasts I decided to try Cindy earlier this week to see how close I was about guessing her breasts size. LOL.

    I didn't get to motorboat them, let alone get her to take off her shirt, but I did got some UTC play with them. Those babies got to be large Bs or C cups. She didn't undo her bra, so I didn't push it too much. She had on a low cut bra and was okay with me taking her breasts out of the bra. They felt soft and natural and her nipples got hard quick with me playing with them.

    Cindy is a very nice lady. For me she was average in looks, but her personality makes her fun to be with. She is probably in her mid 30's, an average body, with some belly fat. She has good massage skills while I was on my stomach. After about 20 minutes or so into the massage the light teasing of the boys and junior starts. When junior was fully happy the teasing got more intense, and she started with nice slow strokes of junior. It was an excellent build up before the flip. A nice and thorough clean up of my back and legs with a warm towel before the flip. Junior was at full attention on the flip and she started to smile and commented about how happy junior was. She asked if she could take care of junior before finishing the massage. Of course I said yes. LOL. Cindy spoke good English and has a great sense of humor.

    Her ending was excellent. A mix of long strokes of junior, playing with the boys and my nipples. She took her time and didn't rush trying to get me to cum. She was okay with OTC roaming of her butt, legs, and breasts. When she started letting out soft moans was when I reached under her shirt to play with her breasts and nipples. In no time after I was allowed access to them I exploded all over her warm hands. She kept her clothes on as stated, but I didn't push it about having her take them off as it was my first visit with her. She didn't mind the UTC touching, but I'm not sure if this was a YMMV situation.

    I left there happy and will probably repeat with Cindy again.
    Lily on RR has some of th best big naturals I've seen in awhile. Nice, full, firm. Pricing is reasonable and she actually gives a nice rub.

  12. #11363
    Yeah man I'm very happy you support him and talk to him. I would do the same to my siblings and closest friends. It will take him a self realization to the current state. If it's been going on for years, He will need to break some old habits and create new healthy habit loops. Man if he's legally divorce just help him find a good local / foreign chick to be partner for a lifetime. I remember I visited an island in the Philippines I passed by a town park where I found old folks partying hard with their young wives in the middle of a basketball court all of them look happy and having a time of their life. That shit was epic hahaha.

    Quote Originally Posted by DeadHeadChevy  [View Original Post]
    Yeah, he has had shit thrown at him for probably the last 5-6 years, don't want to fuck up his life anymore or give home false hope.

    I do, like you stated, keep in touch with him, let him vent out his frustrations and such. I think for him, it's very therapeutic, even though I hear the same shit repeated for hours on end.

    He does have an addictive personality and that really is my main concern, creating a new vice that was not there before.

  13. #11362

    It's always difficult to walk in another person shoes

    Deadhead Chevy I don't want to repeat everything you wrote but just consider this.

    Everybody's faced suffering in life.

    Everybody's path in life is different.

    Your concern for your brother is admirable in wanting to help somebody recover from pain and suffering, it's a sign of compassion.

    Whatever is hurting him inside ultimately he has to get in touch with those feelings and if his path to healing and recovery is physical interaction, he can find a provider to take care of him

    But if his true healing comes from emotional connection and relationship, no provider in the world is going to help.

    Start by having the conversation with him and getting him to explain to you what his pain and problems , one answer is to get him to see for him self that maybe going to a parlor and experiencing the "pleasures of the flesh" might be helpful.

    Have the conversation about what he's really missing or wants or needing in life and see where he goes from there. I suspected just going to a massage parlor you know it’s self isn’t going to change the day-to-day realities of life .

    Everybody has their own Life but basically the idea that he should go out and fuck his brains out is pretty good advice for most people.

    At least once in a while 😊

  14. #11361

    Yeah, not sure myself.

    Quote Originally Posted by NudeBeachPerv  [View Original Post]
    I have heard stories where uncles or fathers took sons to brothels as a "coming of age" event. Mostly this was in places where prostitution was legal / socially accepted. The range in reaction from the guys was that it was great to it was traumatic. Hard to say how your bro would feel.
    True, though I don't think he would be on the traumatic side, but it may have the reverse effect then intended.

    But I get point. This is why I reached out to get a better place idea before fucking everything up.

  15. #11360

    Cool

    Quote Originally Posted by Wzrd94  [View Original Post]
    It all depends how he is towards on things like these. In other words, if he needs to gain confidence this won't be a good idea of taking him to a AMP because he may use this as a validation or once he get started on visiting he might get hook into it and make it a hobby as well which is not good for him financially and improving his life to get better after the divorce. One really good advice bro is always talk to him and always check on him if how he is doing. Things like this means a lot. Also if he reads / listen book I would reccomend him a book / audiobool called "can't hurt me by david goggins" bad ass dude.
    Yeah, he has had shit thrown at him for probably the last 5-6 years, don't want to fuck up his life anymore or give home false hope.

    I do, like you stated, keep in touch with him, let him vent out his frustrations and such. I think for him, it's very therapeutic, even though I hear the same shit repeated for hours on end.

    He does have an addictive personality and that really is my main concern, creating a new vice that was not there before.

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