Massage Parlor Reports

[BlueSkyBlue]

Deadhead Chevy I don't want to repeat everything you wrote but just consider this.

Everybody's faced suffering in life.

Everybody's path in life is different.

Your concern for your brother is admirable in wanting to help somebody recover from pain and suffering, it's a sign of compassion.

Whatever is hurting him inside ultimately he has to get in touch with those feelings and if his path to healing and recovery is physical interaction, he can find a provider to take care of him

But if his true healing comes from emotional connection and relationship, no provider in the world is going to help.

Start by having the conversation with him and getting him to explain to you what his pain and problems , one answer is to get him to see for him self that maybe going to a parlor and experiencing the "pleasures of the flesh" might be helpful.

Have the conversation about what he's really missing or wants or needing in life and see where he goes from there. I suspected just going to a massage parlor you know it’s self isn’t going to change the day-to-day realities of life .

Everybody has their own Life but basically the idea that he should go out and fuck his brains out is pretty good advice for most people.

At least once in a while 😊

[DeadHeadChevy]

I have heard stories where uncles or fathers took sons to brothels as a "coming of age" event. Mostly this was in places where prostitution was legal / socially accepted. The range in reaction from the guys was that it was great to it was traumatic. Hard to say how your bro would feel.

True, though I don't think he would be on the traumatic side, but it may have the reverse effect then intended.

But I get point. This is why I reached out to get a better place idea before fucking everything up.

[DeadHeadChevy]

It all depends how he is towards on things like these. In other words, if he needs to gain confidence this won't be a good idea of taking him to a AMP because he may use this as a validation or once he get started on visiting he might get hook into it and make it a hobby as well which is not good for him financially and improving his life to get better after the divorce. One really good advice bro is always talk to him and always check on him if how he is doing. Things like this means a lot. Also if he reads / listen book I would reccomend him a book / audiobool called "can't hurt me by david goggins" bad ass dude.

Yeah, he has had shit thrown at him for probably the last 5-6 years, don't want to fuck up his life anymore or give home false hope.

I do, like you stated, keep in touch with him, let him vent out his frustrations and such. I think for him, it's very therapeutic, even though I hear the same shit repeated for hours on end.

He does have an addictive personality and that really is my main concern, creating a new vice that was not there before.

[DeadHeadChevy]

I would take him out to a bar for drinks instead. Maybe a place where there are lots of hotties during happy hour. Make small talks and comment about the pretty girls at the bar and see what he says. See if he engages in talks about the girls there. Ask him about how things are with his female friend. If he doesn't really respond when already in a fun environment and is just so depressed he might not even be open to hobbying.

Personally, I don't think introducing a family member to hobbying is a good idea especially your brother who sounds like is already in a funk. You are already helping him out financially so he may not have the funds to do this on a regular basis. What if he is introduced to it and becomes hooked? How is he going to fund the habit? He has his kids to take care of already.

Just my 2 cents.

Drinking and / or going to a bar is not an option for him, for legal reasons, but normally wouldn't be a bad idea. Several DUI's, though years ago, but still.

The problem with going to a bar where he lives is finding one that has a high caliber of woman, many of the bars and clubs around him are total shit shows.

Yeah, the getting hooked part, not sure how I would handle that, to be perfectly honest. Don't want to create an addiction especially one like this. It's bad enough for myself, let alone supporting another, LOL.

[DeadHeadChevy]

Here are my 2 cents:

I would first chat with him about "mongering" during a causal conversation and test out how he thinks about this "hobby". Some guys want to keep this "hobby" to himself especially from family members. My brother and I talked about this hobby and latest "news" all the time, but neither of us admit that we actually "monger".

I am not sure how well you know this provider. I would be afraid whether this provider would provide good experience to him. For working girls, I have zero trust on them and YMMV.

If he is open to talk openly to you about mongering, I would go with him to AMP and have fun together (Separate room) and tell the mamasan and girls that you take care of the bill. Then talk about the experience afterwards. Even the experience is bad, I think having that "common talk" is fun and relaxing for him.

This provider is a 1 girl operation as far as I know, never have seen another girl or read reviews with another name. I could be wrong though. Also no mammasan.

I get your point on the trust issue, makes sense. We have "talked" about current events involving AMP's but still not 100% sure how he would feel going to one himself.

If I could confirm there is another girl working, going together wouldn't be a bad idea if he is up for it.

[DeadHeadChevy]

Are you trying to make him think the provider wants to bang him? That could get messy if you already think hes going to get attached. I'd be straight up with him, let him know you got a girl who provides good service and you would like to treat him to knock him out of his funk.

I would hope he wouldn't fall for her, but his ex has basically ripped his balls off and emasculated him, he's just so far beaten I don't think he sees it clearly, maybe he does, depression is a ***** and does crazy shit.

[DeadHeadChevy]

I would ask him if he wants one before giving money to the AMP on his behalf. He may be crept out by the idea, worried about getting an STD or being arrested, etc.

I also don't know that it would lift his spirits because it might make him feel that he's such a loser the only way a girl would have sex with him is if she's paid to do it.

I'm pretty sure he would be fine with the arrangement, that is if the provider would go for it. I'm not sure if she would, if it were arranged in advance, but if was a walk in customer with cash in hand, I don't see why she would refuse.

My concern is that I would create a monster or him being in his state, may find her attractive (which she is) and fall for her. When he describes his "ideal" woman, she fits most of his wants.

Thanks for the input. Still pondering.

[VPence70]

Any FS AMP in Oceanside?

[NudeBeachPerv]

I have a question that relates to visiting massage spas that I really wanted to ask my local forum for some advice.

I will try to make this short as possible, but I will have to give some details for background and such.

I hope this fits in with the forum rules, admin, please let me know if not.

I would post in the forum where my brother lives, but that forum seems to be on life support, little to no post and replies.

My brother who is about 10 years younger than me (he is almost 40), has been going through some bouts of depression stemming from a nasty ex-wife who is using his kids as pawns to manipulate him. It has been over 5 years since the divorce, and yes he has custody, she has beaten him down to the point that he has lost his self confidence and pride.

There is nothing I can do except help him financially with his ongoing battle with his ex, but I wanted to do something that would help him regain his pride and confidence.

But I am concerned that may not be the best thing, so I ask for your opinions.

I full well know that opinions are like assholes, but I welcome the to try to determine if my idea is okay or will just make things worse.

I travel often for my work, so I visit a lot of AMP's across the country, some good, some bad and some really good.

There are a few AMP's nearby where he lives and I wanted to treat him to one that I have been to and I think he would have a good time while there.

The provider is a Japanese girl, a little thick but in all the right places. Big natural tits, nice long hair and a good body, not fat but maybe curvy would fit better.

She does offer covered full service, sometimes BBBJ, if not CBJ, DATY and more. Top that with either a stand up shower or table shower. Her price is very reasonable, I want to say. 6 for the massage and 1. 4 for the tip.

She is a very good looking woman, and gives a very sensual experience.

I know she has the qualities that he likes in a woman, but that's my concern.

I'm afraid that in his current state, that he may have such a good time with her, that he will fall in love with her, thus making things worse.

I also don't want to disclose to him that I visit so many AMP's during my work travels or have him slighted for crossing swords with this girl. I have seen her at least 4 times, each time just as good if not better then the last.

He has a friend with slight benefits that spends time with him every now and then, but she doesn't give it all up for him. It also lately has been creating friction between them as he wants to bang her and her him, but the friend part starts to get complicated, at least that's what she says.

What would you do?

My plan was simple, maybe visit the provider, pay for his session and tip, and ask her to take care of him. Then just drop him off there as a surprise.

Good plan?

Opinions welcomed.

Thank you in advance.

I have heard stories where uncles or fathers took sons to brothels as a "coming of age" event. Mostly this was in places where prostitution was legal / socially accepted. The range in reaction from the guys was that it was great to it was traumatic. Hard to say how your bro would feel.

[Wzrd94]

It all depends how he is towards on things like these. In other words, if he needs to gain confidence this won't be a good idea of taking him to a AMP because he may use this as a validation or once he get started on visiting he might get hook into it and make it a hobby as well which is not good for him financially and improving his life to get better after the divorce. One really good advice bro is always talk to him and always check on him if how he is doing. Things like this means a lot. Also if he reads / listen book I would reccomend him a book / audiobool called "can't hurt me by david goggins" bad ass dude.

I have a question that relates to visiting massage spas that I really wanted to ask my local forum for some advice.

I will try to make this short as possible, but I will have to give some details for background and such.

I hope this fits in with the forum rules, admin, please let me know if not.

I would post in the forum where my brother lives, but that forum seems to be on life support, little to no post and replies.

My brother who is about 10 years younger than me (he is almost 40), has been going through some bouts of depression stemming from a nasty ex-wife who is using his kids as pawns to manipulate him. It has been over 5 years since the divorce, and yes he has custody, she has beaten him down to the point that he has lost his self confidence and pride.

There is nothing I can do except help him financially with his ongoing battle with his ex, but I wanted to do something that would help him regain his pride and confidence.

But I am concerned that may not be the best thing, so I ask for your opinions.

I full well know that opinions are like assholes, but I welcome the to try to determine if my idea is okay or will just make things worse.

I travel often for my work, so I visit a lot of AMP's across the country, some good, some bad and some really good.

There are a few AMP's nearby where he lives and I wanted to treat him to one that I have been to and I think he would have a good time while there.

The provider is a Japanese girl, a little thick but in all the right places. Big natural tits, nice long hair and a good body, not fat but maybe curvy would fit better.

She does offer covered full service, sometimes BBBJ, if not CBJ, DATY and more. Top that with either a stand up shower or table shower. Her price is very reasonable, I want to say. 6 for the massage and 1. 4 for the tip.

She is a very good looking woman, and gives a very sensual experience.

I know she has the qualities that he likes in a woman, but that's my concern.

I'm afraid that in his current state, that he may have such a good time with her, that he will fall in love with her, thus making things worse.

I also don't want to disclose to him that I visit so many AMP's during my work travels or have him slighted for crossing swords with this girl. I have seen her at least 4 times, each time just as good if not better then the last.

He has a friend with slight benefits that spends time with him every now and then, but she doesn't give it all up for him. It also lately has been creating friction between them as he wants to bang her and her him, but the friend part starts to get complicated, at least that's what she says.

What would you do?

My plan was simple, maybe visit the provider, pay for his session and tip, and ask her to take care of him. Then just drop him off there as a surprise.

Good plan?

Opinions welcomed.

Thank you in advance.

[RChangDatyKing]

I have a question that relates to visiting massage spas that I really wanted to ask my local forum for some advice.

I will try to make this short as possible, but I will have to give some details for background and such.

I hope this fits in with the forum rules, admin, please let me know if not.

I would post in the forum where my brother lives, but that forum seems to be on life support, little to no post and replies.

My brother who is about 10 years younger than me (he is almost 40), has been going through some bouts of depression stemming from a nasty ex-wife who is using his kids as pawns to manipulate him. It has been over 5 years since the divorce, and yes he has custody, she has beaten him down to the point that he has lost his self confidence and pride.

There is nothing I can do except help him financially with his ongoing battle with his ex, but I wanted to do something that would help him regain his pride and confidence.

But I am concerned that may not be the best thing, so I ask for your opinions.

I full well know that opinions are like assholes, but I welcome the to try to determine if my idea is okay or will just make things worse.

I travel often for my work, so I visit a lot of AMP's across the country, some good, some bad and some really good.

There are a few AMP's nearby where he lives and I wanted to treat him to one that I have been to and I think he would have a good time while there.

The provider is a Japanese girl, a little thick but in all the right places. Big natural tits, nice long hair and a good body, not fat but maybe curvy would fit better.

She does offer covered full service, sometimes BBBJ, if not CBJ, DATY and more. Top that with either a stand up shower or table shower. Her price is very reasonable, I want to say. 6 for the massage and 1. 4 for the tip.

She is a very good looking woman, and gives a very sensual experience.

I know she has the qualities that he likes in a woman, but that's my concern.

I'm afraid that in his current state, that he may have such a good time with her, that he will fall in love with her, thus making things worse.

I also don't want to disclose to him that I visit so many AMP's during my work travels or have him slighted for crossing swords with this girl. I have seen her at least 4 times, each time just as good if not better then the last.

He has a friend with slight benefits that spends time with him every now and then, but she doesn't give it all up for him. It also lately has been creating friction between them as he wants to bang her and her him, but the friend part starts to get complicated, at least that's what she says.

What would you do?

My plan was simple, maybe visit the provider, pay for his session and tip, and ask her to take care of him. Then just drop him off there as a surprise.

Good plan?

Opinions welcomed.

Thank you in advance.

I would take him out to a bar for drinks instead. Maybe a place where there are lots of hotties during happy hour. Make small talks and comment about the pretty girls at the bar and see what he says. See if he engages in talks about the girls there. Ask him about how things are with his female friend. If he doesn't really respond when already in a fun environment and is just so depressed he might not even be open to hobbying.

Personally, I don't think introducing a family member to hobbying is a good idea especially your brother who sounds like is already in a funk. You are already helping him out financially so he may not have the funds to do this on a regular basis. What if he is introduced to it and becomes hooked? How is he going to fund the habit? He has his kids to take care of already.

Just my 2 cents.

[Dog Rice]

Here are my 2 cents:

I would first chat with him about "mongering" during a causal conversation and test out how he thinks about this "hobby". Some guys want to keep this "hobby" to himself especially from family members. My brother and I talked about this hobby and latest "news" all the time, but neither of us admit that we actually "monger".

I am not sure how well you know this provider. I would be afraid whether this provider would provide good experience to him. For working girls, I have zero trust on them and YMMV.

If he is open to talk openly to you about mongering, I would go with him to AMP and have fun together (Separate room) and tell the mamasan and girls that you take care of the bill. Then talk about the experience afterwards. Even the experience is bad, I think having that "common talk" is fun and relaxing for him.

I have a question that relates to visiting massage spas that I really wanted to ask my local forum for some advice.

I will try to make this short as possible, but I will have to give some details for background and such.

I hope this fits in with the forum rules, admin, please let me know if not.

I would post in the forum where my brother lives, but that forum seems to be on life support, little to no post and replies.

My brother who is about 10 years younger than me (he is almost 40), has been going through some bouts of depression stemming from a nasty ex-wife who is using his kids as pawns to manipulate him. It has been over 5 years since the divorce, and yes he has custody, she has beaten him down to the point that he has lost his self confidence and pride.

There is nothing I can do except help him financially with his ongoing battle with his ex, but I wanted to do something that would help him regain his pride and confidence.

But I am concerned that may not be the best thing, so I ask for your opinions.

I full well know that opinions are like assholes, but I welcome the to try to determine if my idea is okay or will just make things worse.

I travel often for my work, so I visit a lot of AMP's across the country, some good, some bad and some really good.

There are a few AMP's nearby where he lives and I wanted to treat him to one that I have been to and I think he would have a good time while there.

The provider is a Japanese girl, a little thick but in all the right places. Big natural tits, nice long hair and a good body, not fat but maybe curvy would fit better.

She does offer covered full service, sometimes BBBJ, if not CBJ, DATY and more. Top that with either a stand up shower or table shower. Her price is very reasonable, I want to say. 6 for the massage and 1. 4 for the tip.

She is a very good looking woman, and gives a very sensual experience.

I know she has the qualities that he likes in a woman, but that's my concern.

I'm afraid that in his current state, that he may have such a good time with her, that he will fall in love with her, thus making things worse.

I also don't want to disclose to him that I visit so many AMP's during my work travels or have him slighted for crossing swords with this girl. I have seen her at least 4 times, each time just as good if not better then the last.

He has a friend with slight benefits that spends time with him every now and then, but she doesn't give it all up for him. It also lately has been creating friction between them as he wants to bang her and her him, but the friend part starts to get complicated, at least that's what she says.

What would you do?

My plan was simple, maybe visit the provider, pay for his session and tip, and ask her to take care of him. Then just drop him off there as a surprise.

Good plan?

Opinions welcomed.

Thank you in advance.

[Freedo]

I have a question that relates to visiting massage spas that I really wanted to ask my local forum for some advice.

I will try to make this short as possible, but I will have to give some details for background and such.

I hope this fits in with the forum rules, admin, please let me know if not.

I would post in the forum where my brother lives, but that forum seems to be on life support, little to no post and replies.

My brother who is about 10 years younger than me (he is almost 40), has been going through some bouts of depression stemming from a nasty ex-wife who is using his kids as pawns to manipulate him. It has been over 5 years since the divorce, and yes he has custody, she has beaten him down to the point that he has lost his self confidence and pride.

There is nothing I can do except help him financially with his ongoing battle with his ex, but I wanted to do something that would help him regain his pride and confidence.

But I am concerned that may not be the best thing, so I ask for your opinions.

I full well know that opinions are like assholes, but I welcome the to try to determine if my idea is okay or will just make things worse.

I travel often for my work, so I visit a lot of AMP's across the country, some good, some bad and some really good.

There are a few AMP's nearby where he lives and I wanted to treat him to one that I have been to and I think he would have a good time while there.

The provider is a Japanese girl, a little thick but in all the right places. Big natural tits, nice long hair and a good body, not fat but maybe curvy would fit better.

She does offer covered full service, sometimes BBBJ, if not CBJ, DATY and more. Top that with either a stand up shower or table shower. Her price is very reasonable, I want to say. 6 for the massage and 1. 4 for the tip.

She is a very good looking woman, and gives a very sensual experience.

I know she has the qualities that he likes in a woman, but that's my concern.

I'm afraid that in his current state, that he may have such a good time with her, that he will fall in love with her, thus making things worse.

I also don't want to disclose to him that I visit so many AMP's during my work travels or have him slighted for crossing swords with this girl. I have seen her at least 4 times, each time just as good if not better then the last.

He has a friend with slight benefits that spends time with him every now and then, but she doesn't give it all up for him. It also lately has been creating friction between them as he wants to bang her and her him, but the friend part starts to get complicated, at least that's what she says.

What would you do?

My plan was simple, maybe visit the provider, pay for his session and tip, and ask her to take care of him. Then just drop him off there as a surprise.

Good plan?

Opinions welcomed.

Thank you in advance.

Are you trying to make him think the provider wants to bang him? That could get messy if you already think hes going to get attached. I'd be straight up with him, let him know you got a girl who provides good service and you would like to treat him to knock him out of his funk.

[Tub And Rug]

I have a question that relates to visiting massage spas that I really wanted to ask my local forum for some advice.

I will try to make this short as possible, but I will have to give some details for background and such.

I hope this fits in with the forum rules, admin, please let me know if not.

I would post in the forum where my brother lives, but that forum seems to be on life support, little to no post and replies.

My brother who is about 10 years younger than me (he is almost 40), has been going through some bouts of depression stemming from a nasty ex-wife who is using his kids as pawns to manipulate him. It has been over 5 years since the divorce, and yes he has custody, she has beaten him down to the point that he has lost his self confidence and pride.

There is nothing I can do except help him financially with his ongoing battle with his ex, but I wanted to do something that would help him regain his pride and confidence.

But I am concerned that may not be the best thing, so I ask for your opinions.

I full well know that opinions are like assholes, but I welcome the to try to determine if my idea is okay or will just make things worse.

I travel often for my work, so I visit a lot of AMP's across the country, some good, some bad and some really good.

There are a few AMP's nearby where he lives and I wanted to treat him to one that I have been to and I think he would have a good time while there..

I would ask him if he wants one before giving money to the AMP on his behalf. He may be crept out by the idea, worried about getting an STD or being arrested, etc.

I also don't know that it would lift his spirits because it might make him feel that he's such a loser the only way a girl would have sex with him is if she's paid to do it.

[DeadHeadChevy]

I have a question that relates to visiting massage spas that I really wanted to ask my local forum for some advice.

I will try to make this short as possible, but I will have to give some details for background and such.

I hope this fits in with the forum rules, admin, please let me know if not.

I would post in the forum where my brother lives, but that forum seems to be on life support, little to no post and replies.

My brother who is about 10 years younger than me (he is almost 40), has been going through some bouts of depression stemming from a nasty ex-wife who is using his kids as pawns to manipulate him. It has been over 5 years since the divorce, and yes he has custody, she has beaten him down to the point that he has lost his self confidence and pride.

There is nothing I can do except help him financially with his ongoing battle with his ex, but I wanted to do something that would help him regain his pride and confidence.

But I am concerned that may not be the best thing, so I ask for your opinions.

I full well know that opinions are like assholes, but I welcome the to try to determine if my idea is okay or will just make things worse.

I travel often for my work, so I visit a lot of AMP's across the country, some good, some bad and some really good.

There are a few AMP's nearby where he lives and I wanted to treat him to one that I have been to and I think he would have a good time while there.

The provider is a Japanese girl, a little thick but in all the right places. Big natural tits, nice long hair and a good body, not fat but maybe curvy would fit better.

She does offer covered full service, sometimes BBBJ, if not CBJ, DATY and more. Top that with either a stand up shower or table shower. Her price is very reasonable, I want to say. 6 for the massage and 1. 4 for the tip.

She is a very good looking woman, and gives a very sensual experience.

I know she has the qualities that he likes in a woman, but that's my concern.

I'm afraid that in his current state, that he may have such a good time with her, that he will fall in love with her, thus making things worse.

I also don't want to disclose to him that I visit so many AMP's during my work travels or have him slighted for crossing swords with this girl. I have seen her at least 4 times, each time just as good if not better then the last.

He has a friend with slight benefits that spends time with him every now and then, but she doesn't give it all up for him. It also lately has been creating friction between them as he wants to bang her and her him, but the friend part starts to get complicated, at least that's what she says.

What would you do?

My plan was simple, maybe visit the provider, pay for his session and tip, and ask her to take care of him. Then just drop him off there as a surprise.

Good plan?

Opinions welcomed.

Thank you in advance.