"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**GoodOneTo2** · 02-21-20 21:52

https://www.seeking.com/member/03ea6...b-b7dab62d572c

I've been in contact with this lady with the angle of booking a massage. Any others have any contact?

**Slc2743** · 02-21-20 18:51

Anyone seen or talked to her?

**Snake27** · 02-21-20 14:22

Originally Posted by Apollo007 [View Original Post]

Either she's blocked me or took her profile down.

https://www.seeking.com/member/33f4a...?&locale=en_US

Cute 18 year old.

We set a price and agreed to meet the next day. She had a long drive so I was already thinking the odds were against me. Anyways, she texts me that morning to confirm our meet up, so I'm feeling my chances are pretty good now.

We had alreday agreed on 6:30. After thinking about traffic I offered her 5:30 or 7:30 to avoid it. She replied 6:30 was fine. So, I'm again thinking 50/50 on showing up.

Of course, she's a no show.

Message today was she was sorry and her sleep was fucked up becasuse she was off her meds?

WTF, I've only been doing this for less than a week and I'm getting sick of it.

I haven't been on SA for several months, and I've tried it about 5 times in 2 years for a month at a time. It's comforting to see that others are frustrated by it too. Each time I join, I have some optimism because there are so many seemingly beautiful and available women, and lots of messages. Most conversations just fizzle out. I figure I don't have a lot in common with a lot of the women there, so that's one problem. Another problem is that 90% of the girls quit within 2 weeks of joining. I think they initially think they'll meet a rich handsome man, then soon realize it is unlikely to happen, then get scared and quit. For the rest of the girls, 5% are semi-permanent "lifestyle" babies, and the other 5% are somewhere in between. That's my observation. I didn't think there were many bots on "Seeking" (SA). There seem to be bots on Secret Benefits, though, because the pay model is different; you pay for each conversation that you open.

And so, if you do manage to find someone with whom you click, even if its not a perfect situation, I would suggest staying with her for awhile. Months or a couple years. It's a lot of work to replace her and the grass is not always greener on the other side. Having said all that, I'm sure there are a lot of guys better at picking up girls on SA than me, more game, better looking, etc, so YMMV, as usual.

**Apollo007** · 02-21-20 13:30

Originally Posted by NikkaNamedSlik [View Original Post]

Queenoflove has extreme gps. Wants 500 per meet.

I sensed that. Thanks!

I'm going to bet this one does too:

https://www.seeking.com/member/55881...b-d4f59b193710

**Apollo007** · 02-21-20 13:29

Originally Posted by LazaroRosales [View Original Post]

She got cold feet and she didn't block you, just deleted her profile. Happens more often than you'd think, I put myself in their shoes and I would be pretty scared to show up at some random dude's house LOL. But she should've at least had the courtesy of letting you she wasn't going to make it.

To avoid cold feet, I always offer to drive somewhere near them and in a public place, it takes a lot of work but it's important to build some trust beforehand instead of asking them to come fuck you at a hotel or your place.

Yea, we agree to meet in a public place. Starbucks. Oh well, she wanted some gas money to come out in advance. I said nope. I'll give you some when we meet. She said okay, "we need to start developing some trust" or something like that.

This one wants to meet, any info?

https://www.seeking.com/member/55881...b-d4f59b193710

**NikkaNamedSlik** · 02-21-20 12:09

Originally Posted by Apollo007 [View Original Post]

Any news on this one. Trying to arrange a meet.

Queenoflove.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e520b...2-009ec6193c32

This one wants rent and shopping money. LOL.

https://www.seeking.com/member/909eb...7-8575f8c33394

Queenoflove has extreme gps. Wants 500 per meet.

**Bobt45** · 02-21-20 09:31

Originally Posted by RWarNmsn69 [View Original Post]

Profile Not AvailableThis member's profile can no longer be found. The member might have deactivated their account, been suspended, blocked you, or been blocked by you.

Safe mongering and sugaring!

Yeah her profile is gone. If she deactivated her account and you two messaged her screen name will still show. If she's deleted her account it changes the name on messages to "sugar baby". That's what I've noticed over the time I've been on the site. Stay safe,

Bob.

**Oily123** · 02-21-20 08:58

Originally Posted by Apollo007 [View Original Post]

Either she's blocked me or took her profile down.

https://www.seeking.com/member/33f4a...?&locale=en_US

Cute 18 year old.

We set a price and agreed to meet the next day. She had a long drive so I was already thinking the odds were against me. Anyways, she texts me that morning to confirm our meet up, so I'm feeling my chances are pretty good now.

We had alreday agreed on 6:30. After thinking about traffic I offered her 5:30 or 7:30 to avoid it. She replied 6:30 was fine. So, I'm again thinking 50/50 on showing up.

Of course, she's a no show.

Message today was she was sorry and her sleep was fucked up becasuse she was off her meds?

WTF, I've only been doing this for less than a week and I'm getting sick of it.

Hey, I feel your pain bro. That place is like work.

I've tried SA 3 or 4 times over the last 4 years or so.

I did meet a few ladies in early 2019, but just never made the connection I was looking for.

Late last year did it for me with all of the scammers and increase of fake profiles and bots that SA uses.

Won't be giving them any more of my money.

Whatever you do, don't fall for the cash ap upfront thing. I've read about guys on here getting ripped. Hard to believe they would send money in advance to these con artists.

**RWarNmsn69** · 02-20-20 23:17

Originally Posted by Apollo007 [View Original Post]

Either she's blocked me or took her profile down.

https://www.seeking.com/member/33f4a...?&locale=en_US

Cute 18 year old.

Profile Not Available—This member's profile can no longer be found. The member might have deactivated their account, been suspended, blocked you, or been blocked by you.

Safe mongering and sugaring!

**LazaroRosales** · 02-20-20 23:00

She got cold feet and she didn't block you, just deleted her profile. Happens more often than you'd think, I put myself in their shoes and I would be pretty scared to show up at some random dude's house LOL. But she should've at least had the courtesy of letting you she wasn't going to make it.

To avoid cold feet, I always offer to drive somewhere near them and in a public place, it takes a lot of work but it's important to build some trust beforehand instead of asking them to come fuck you at a hotel or your place.

Originally Posted by Apollo007 [View Original Post]

Either she's blocked me or took her profile down.

https://www.seeking.com/member/33f4a...?&locale=en_US

Cute 18 year old.

We set a price and agreed to meet the next day. She had a long drive so I was already thinking the odds were against me. Anyways, she texts me that morning to confirm our meet up, so I'm feeling my chances are pretty good now.

We had alreday agreed on 6:30. After thinking about traffic I offered her 5:30 or 7:30 to avoid it. She replied 6:30 was fine. So, I'm again thinking 50/50 on showing up.

Of course, she's a no show.

Message today was she was sorry and her sleep was fucked up becasuse she was off her meds?

WTF, I've only been doing this for less than a week and I'm getting sick of it.

**Apollo007** · 02-20-20 16:41

Either she's blocked me or took her profile down.

https://www.seeking.com/member/33f4a...?&locale=en_US

Cute 18 year old.

We set a price and agreed to meet the next day. She had a long drive so I was already thinking the odds were against me. Anyways, she texts me that morning to confirm our meet up, so I'm feeling my chances are pretty good now.

We had alreday agreed on 6:30. After thinking about traffic I offered her 5:30 or 7:30 to avoid it. She replied 6:30 was fine. So, I'm again thinking 50/50 on showing up.

Of course, she's a no show.

Message today was she was sorry and her sleep was fucked up becasuse she was off her meds?

WTF, I've only been doing this for less than a week and I'm getting sick of it.

**BearsBuddy** · 02-19-20 23:35

Originally Posted by TravelinSD [View Original Post]

Lemons467.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3d6a8...c-90d4e44e186e

Here's her response to my first message:

Hey! I'm here for a new arrangement, hopefully something ongoing. I can host or meet, and ideally I want something casual, but fun. Before I meet you I require help with my phone bill which I need $80 for. That is a deal breaker for me and not something I am going to go back and forth on. It's not only for communication but for safety too. Let me know if you're down and we can go from there!

Hahahahaha!

Good hunting!

Travelin.

Same message to me. I said OK and she sounded shocked. Really? Then I blocked her.

**TravelinSD** · 02-19-20 23:10

Lemons467.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3d6a8...c-90d4e44e186e

Here's her response to my first message:

Hey! I'm here for a new arrangement, hopefully something ongoing. I can host or meet, and ideally I want something casual, but fun. Before I meet you I require help with my phone bill which I need $80 for. That is a deal breaker for me and not something I am going to go back and forth on. It's not only for communication but for safety too. Let me know if you're down and we can go from there!

Hahahahaha!

Good hunting!

Travelin.

**LazaroRosales** · 02-19-20 13:33

Saw her on SA and decided to message her just for fun to see what her modus operandi was. It was extremely obvious she was a scammer, she wanted to do a ppm right way and when I asked her to send a couple of pictures of herself she sent 2 of a famous model / instagram celebrity LOL. As soon as I did a reverse lookup of the photo she sent, I was able to expose her and she went dead silent. Guys, always do a reverse lookup of photos, if you have some doubts ask her to send a custom made photo. And to reiterate, think with your big head and don't ever send money before meeting up.

Most likely this is some random dude scamming.

Originally Posted by TravelinSD [View Original Post]

I reported on this chick last week! The best reason to read the forum is for info on the obvious scammers. I totally understand someone keeping a good SB to themselves, but please out the scammers. I'm sorry your friend got hosed for the $50. NEVER, NEVER, NEVER send money up front for ANY reason. I say this having been taken advantage of more times than I care to admit.

Good Hunting!

Travelin.