NoVA SugarBabies

**Low Jack** · 02-13-20 21:33

Originally Posted by Viper301 [View Original Post]

Fuck feedin them. Feed them afterwards if you want 2nd's / overnights. I got burnt twice today. Made two connections. One no show other phone died. No charger. Luckily I didn't get the room. Other gas $ and time wasted. These girls get nothing and a block. Onto the next. Had 3rd on but I said I better cut my lost than drive another hr in the opposite direction.

LOL. I lucked out. Said I wanted to meet for coffee and she refused.

**IluvSmellyFish** · 02-13-20 19:58

Shits going to get intolerable.

GPS is rampant as it is.

Originally Posted by MrYoni [View Original Post]

So I met this girl:

https://www.seeking.com/member/cdfb1...a-57ad19d6ca6b

Decent enough at talking. We go a place and she keeps ordering the highest priced food and drinks. Then she tells me the terrible part about her expectations: her previous and current arrangements.

The previous one was apparently cheating so she completely milked him. The poor bastard spent $60 k on a room for one night and more on fancy aged wine / scotch as well as luxury train rides.

The current one gives her thousands of dollars for a near platonic relationship because he has two hours for her a week.

She says she wants NSA arrangements, but then goes on to say she only dated one at a time (hence strings).

Basically a hug for my time. YMMV if you can spend $100 ks on a whim not hiding from a wife.

**RegularJoe1985** · 02-13-20 19:26

Originally Posted by Viper301 [View Original Post]

Fuck feedin them. Feed them afterwards if you want 2nd's / overnights. I got burnt twice today. Made two connections. One no show other phone died. No charger. Luckily I didn't get the room. Other gas $ and time wasted. These girls get nothing and a block. Onto the next. Had 3rd on but I said I better cut my lost than drive another hr in the opposite direction.

She contacted me, gave me her new number. And started about a proper date, high maintenance. I said thanks but am busy. LOL.

But fellas, don't take a girls word for anything. It's not worth it.. If she's able to prove anything then sure.. So far its just words..

too many times I hear mongers complain - other guys are paying for pics/vids,,,, but there is no freaking proof except the words of a 'truthful/never lying' babe, right?

so don't curse other mongers. now if the girl provides proof then sure, let me know and I'll join in cursing the idiot(s)

**RegularJoe1985** · 02-13-20 19:25

Originally Posted by RegularJoe1985 [View Original Post]

Thinking if she's worth 500 - 400 for her and 100 for room / incidentals, since she cannot host.

Tried to meet her twice and both times she flaked. WTF?

She needed a long term commitment, I agreed but told her that we have to meet first and then.

I give girls a pass on first flake but no way I accept twice in a row. Blocked her number. Don't think she has her profile up any more.

**LilWyn** · 02-13-20 18:43

Man, no shit, she just asked me if I want to go to dinner with her.

I asked where do you want to go. She came up with a seafood place and an Italian place.

I politely refused.

LOL.

Originally Posted by MrYoni [View Original Post]

So I met this girl:

https://www.seeking.com/member/cdfb1...a-57ad19d6ca6b

Decent enough at talking. We go a place and she keeps ordering the highest priced food and drinks. Then she tells me the terrible part about her expectations: her previous and current arrangements.

The previous one was apparently cheating so she completely milked him. The poor bastard spent $60 k on a room for one night and more on fancy aged wine / scotch as well as luxury train rides.

The current one gives her thousands of dollars for a near platonic relationship because he has two hours for her a week.

She says she wants NSA arrangements, but then goes on to say she only dated one at a time (hence strings).

Basically a hug for my time. YMMV if you can spend $100 ks on a whim not hiding from a wife.

**InSearch69** · 02-13-20 17:30

Originally Posted by MrYoni [View Original Post]

So I met this girl:

https://www.seeking.com/member/cdfb1...a-57ad19d6ca6b

Decent enough at talking. We go a place and she keeps ordering the highest priced food and drinks. Then she tells me the terrible part about her expectations: her previous and current arrangements.

The previous one was apparently cheating so she completely milked him. The poor bastard spent $60 k on a room for one night and more on fancy aged wine / scotch as well as luxury train rides.

The current one gives her thousands of dollars for a near platonic relationship because he has two hours for her a week.

She says she wants NSA arrangements, but then goes on to say she only dated one at a time (hence strings).

Basically a hug for my time. YMMV if you can spend $100 ks on a whim not hiding from a wife.

I had a date with her, orders drinks and salmon, talks about how much guys spend on her. Drop her off at her house. Wants second date, cancels, 3rd date pushes back by 3 hours of course wants to go out to eat, transport her but doesn't want to visit a hotel. So I stopped at this point. So, cosmicowl is cute but all she will do is go for the free meals.

**Viper301** · 02-13-20 17:17

Originally Posted by MrYoni [View Original Post]

So I met this girl:

https://www.seeking.com/member/cdfb1...a-57ad19d6ca6b

Decent enough at talking. We go a place and she keeps ordering the highest priced food and drinks. Then she tells me the terrible part about her expectations: her previous and current arrangements.

The previous one was apparently cheating so she completely milked him. The poor bastard spent $60 k on a room for one night and more on fancy aged wine / scotch as well as luxury train rides.

The current one gives her thousands of dollars for a near platonic relationship because he has two hours for her a week.

She says she wants NSA arrangements, but then goes on to say she only dated one at a time (hence strings).

Basically a hug for my time. YMMV if you can spend $100 ks on a whim not hiding from a wife.

Fuck feedin them. Feed them afterwards if you want 2nd's / overnights. I got burnt twice today. Made two connections. One no show other phone died. No charger. Luckily I didn't get the room. Other gas $ and time wasted. These girls get nothing and a block. Onto the next. Had 3rd on but I said I better cut my lost than drive another hr in the opposite direction.

**WakeForYou** · 02-13-20 16:50

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

Any progress with her?

She's the real deal. Turkish girl that loves to sing but can't carry a tune worth a lick. CFS and no Greek but will BBBJ. Sends pics when she's been drinking or is horned up. Great body, she's actually lost weight since joining the site. Kitty has some hair but it's well maintained.

**Mr Yoni** · 02-13-20 16:25

So I met this girl:

https://www.seeking.com/member/cdfb1...a-57ad19d6ca6b

Decent enough at talking. We go a place and she keeps ordering the highest priced food and drinks. Then she tells me the terrible part about her expectations: her previous and current arrangements.

The previous one was apparently cheating so she completely milked him. The poor bastard spent $60 k on a room for one night and more on fancy aged wine / scotch as well as luxury train rides.

The current one gives her thousands of dollars for a near platonic relationship because he has two hours for her a week.

She says she wants NSA arrangements, but then goes on to say she only dated one at a time (hence strings).

Basically a hug for my time. YMMV if you can spend $100 ks on a whim not hiding from a wife.

**Low Jack** · 02-12-20 14:15

Originally Posted by Slayer2019 [View Original Post]

Quick question. I have been on SA for about 2 years now. I'm single, no kids, had a vasectomy a year ago at 36 yrs old to ensure that I never have any. Does anyone else make a date out of their meetups? Like sometimes we'll hit the movies or go shopping then dinner then to FC then call it a night. I find this preferable to real dating and having to deal with everything that comes along with it. A lot of the posts I read are more meet then off to FC.

It's fun once you get to know them. If you don't, you are stuck in an awkward situation with a stranger.

**Mike77** · 02-12-20 13:55

Originally Posted by Mike77 [View Original Post]

Claims to live in Fredericksburg. Sent me face pic via text and she looked good. Wanted 3-500. Negotiated down and scheduled a M&G and was a no show. A couple of hours later, she sends a bunch of messages, asking if we're still meeting, etc. And claims that her phone needed an update which may have caused her to not receive or send texts timely. I fell for it and scheduled another M&G and she was a no-show again. I guess shame on me for falling for it twice.

Same profile pic and city. New profile.

https://www.seeking.com/member/03674...e-8bdc2e7b0f06

**FunGuy570** · 02-12-20 11:52

Yes, the Sugar experience your speaking off is pretty common. Some prefer just to get to business. Others I almost always do at least dinner, drinks, and the the FC. They then shower and go home and its sleep time with a full stomach and empty balls. If I really get along with the girl then I open it up to traveling, nicer dates, shows, concerts, sporting events, and other experiences.

I now avoid the shopping trips. This is not a date just exploitation.

However this type of website and dating draw lots of Narcissistic personality types. Especially if you are a younger SD that could pass as a vanilla date for one of these girls without awkwardness.

You have to be careful not the blur the lines with this. I've had several with narcissistic personality disorders that try and make you feel like its real dating and that they really like you in-order to get more out of you. At first these girls will seem very nice and genuine. They will Love Bomb you with public affection, compliments, little favors, constant texts, promises of gifts (this is just so that you will get them a better gift), and very giving sex. This person will be studying you the entire time in-order to figure out what makes you tick and what you want in a person and put on the act to make you think they are that person. The entire time they will be lieing to you about most of there life (sometimes obviously) and be doing the same thing with several others they are fucking and playing the same game with. They will then passive aggressively ask you to buy them things, take them on impromptu shopping trips, pay for things such as rent, car down payments, insurance, tuition, tickets, or want to go on trips. Once they feel like they have you then they will use the information they have on your thoughts and feelings to begin to devalue you, by becoming rude, withdrawn, condescending, and only available when they want or need something form you. Eventually when you catch on and call them out they will gaslight or stonewall you, there is never a straight answer. Then you will have to discard them or they will discard you. They will then immediately moved on to a new guy who they will do the same cycle too again. You will be thinking WTF and realize you just wasted significant more time and money then if you just kept things easy. I had one try to blackmail me after I cut her off, been dealing with lawyers and drama since for months.

Bottom line is there is nothing wrong with taking these girls on dates, just never think it is more than that. Put clear boundaries in place and never let one of these girls cross them. If you get a fishy feeling about someone RUN. The relationship should be we meet at this time and in this place and do X, you then get X. Nothing more than that.

Originally Posted by Slayer2019 [View Original Post]

Quick question. I have been on SA for about 2 years now. I'm single, no kids, had a vasectomy a year ago at 36 yrs old to ensure that I never have any. Does anyone else make a date out of their meetups? Like sometimes we'll hit the movies or go shopping then dinner then to FC then call it a night. I find this preferable to real dating and having to deal with everything that comes along with it. A lot of the posts I read are more meet then off to FC.

**FreddyCrougar** · 02-12-20 11:22

I also prefer to date this way, but many of the women on SA are just low volume escorts using it as an alternative advertising site, probably because we have profiles too and they can be a little more selective.

That said, you can definitely find the kind of women that want to do the traditional dating type thing. I have been seeing one for about 7 months, and we almost always include some fun activity outside of the so called "FC. ".

My problem is finding them without kids so they can do extended and overnight / weekend trips or outings.

Good Luck.

Originally Posted by Slayer2019 [View Original Post]

Quick question. I have been on SA for about 2 years now. I'm single, no kids, had a vasectomy a year ago at 36 yrs old to ensure that I never have any. Does anyone else make a date out of their meetups? Like sometimes we'll hit the movies or go shopping then dinner then to FC then call it a night. I find this preferable to real dating and having to deal with everything that comes along with it. A lot of the posts I read are more meet then off to FC.

**Slayer2019** · 02-11-20 23:59

Quick question. I have been on SA for about 2 years now. I'm single, no kids, had a vasectomy a year ago at 36 yrs old to ensure that I never have any. Does anyone else make a date out of their meetups? Like sometimes we'll hit the movies or go shopping then dinner then to FC then call it a night. I find this preferable to real dating and having to deal with everything that comes along with it. A lot of the posts I read are more meet then off to FC.