NoVA SugarBabies

**Mike77** · 02-12-20 13:55

Originally Posted by Mike77 [View Original Post]

Claims to live in Fredericksburg. Sent me face pic via text and she looked good. Wanted 3-500. Negotiated down and scheduled a M&G and was a no show. A couple of hours later, she sends a bunch of messages, asking if we're still meeting, etc. And claims that her phone needed an update which may have caused her to not receive or send texts timely. I fell for it and scheduled another M&G and she was a no-show again. I guess shame on me for falling for it twice.

Same profile pic and city. New profile.

https://www.seeking.com/member/03674...e-8bdc2e7b0f06

**FunGuy570** · 02-12-20 11:52

Yes, the Sugar experience your speaking off is pretty common. Some prefer just to get to business. Others I almost always do at least dinner, drinks, and the the FC. They then shower and go home and its sleep time with a full stomach and empty balls. If I really get along with the girl then I open it up to traveling, nicer dates, shows, concerts, sporting events, and other experiences.

I now avoid the shopping trips. This is not a date just exploitation.

However this type of website and dating draw lots of Narcissistic personality types. Especially if you are a younger SD that could pass as a vanilla date for one of these girls without awkwardness.

You have to be careful not the blur the lines with this. I've had several with narcissistic personality disorders that try and make you feel like its real dating and that they really like you in-order to get more out of you. At first these girls will seem very nice and genuine. They will Love Bomb you with public affection, compliments, little favors, constant texts, promises of gifts (this is just so that you will get them a better gift), and very giving sex. This person will be studying you the entire time in-order to figure out what makes you tick and what you want in a person and put on the act to make you think they are that person. The entire time they will be lieing to you about most of there life (sometimes obviously) and be doing the same thing with several others they are fucking and playing the same game with. They will then passive aggressively ask you to buy them things, take them on impromptu shopping trips, pay for things such as rent, car down payments, insurance, tuition, tickets, or want to go on trips. Once they feel like they have you then they will use the information they have on your thoughts and feelings to begin to devalue you, by becoming rude, withdrawn, condescending, and only available when they want or need something form you. Eventually when you catch on and call them out they will gaslight or stonewall you, there is never a straight answer. Then you will have to discard them or they will discard you. They will then immediately moved on to a new guy who they will do the same cycle too again. You will be thinking WTF and realize you just wasted significant more time and money then if you just kept things easy. I had one try to blackmail me after I cut her off, been dealing with lawyers and drama since for months.

Bottom line is there is nothing wrong with taking these girls on dates, just never think it is more than that. Put clear boundaries in place and never let one of these girls cross them. If you get a fishy feeling about someone RUN. The relationship should be we meet at this time and in this place and do X, you then get X. Nothing more than that.

Originally Posted by Slayer2019 [View Original Post]

Quick question. I have been on SA for about 2 years now. I'm single, no kids, had a vasectomy a year ago at 36 yrs old to ensure that I never have any. Does anyone else make a date out of their meetups? Like sometimes we'll hit the movies or go shopping then dinner then to FC then call it a night. I find this preferable to real dating and having to deal with everything that comes along with it. A lot of the posts I read are more meet then off to FC.

**FreddyCrougar** · 02-12-20 11:22

I also prefer to date this way, but many of the women on SA are just low volume escorts using it as an alternative advertising site, probably because we have profiles too and they can be a little more selective.

That said, you can definitely find the kind of women that want to do the traditional dating type thing. I have been seeing one for about 7 months, and we almost always include some fun activity outside of the so called "FC. ".

My problem is finding them without kids so they can do extended and overnight / weekend trips or outings.

Good Luck.

Originally Posted by Slayer2019 [View Original Post]

Quick question. I have been on SA for about 2 years now. I'm single, no kids, had a vasectomy a year ago at 36 yrs old to ensure that I never have any. Does anyone else make a date out of their meetups? Like sometimes we'll hit the movies or go shopping then dinner then to FC then call it a night. I find this preferable to real dating and having to deal with everything that comes along with it. A lot of the posts I read are more meet then off to FC.

**Slayer2019** · 02-11-20 23:59

Quick question. I have been on SA for about 2 years now. I'm single, no kids, had a vasectomy a year ago at 36 yrs old to ensure that I never have any. Does anyone else make a date out of their meetups? Like sometimes we'll hit the movies or go shopping then dinner then to FC then call it a night. I find this preferable to real dating and having to deal with everything that comes along with it. A lot of the posts I read are more meet then off to FC.

**Dimples572** · 02-11-20 23:48

Originally Posted by LowJack [View Original Post]

But then again she wants to meet for a day meet during the weekday. I have limited lunch hours. Oh well.

Have you discussed rate / service with her yet?

**Low Jack** · 02-11-20 22:52

Russian lady. (she told me it's not Russia but near Khazikstan?) Anyways, I think fake boobs but somewhat soft. No kissing. Everything covered. Convinced to meet for a two. Banged it out but she has way too much drama. Doesn't have a car so had to pick her up in Sterling. I don't think I'll see her again but it's good in a pinch.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0ec7e...3-5123f7dfee97

**Low Jack** · 02-11-20 22:50

Saw her. She has wild blonde hair now. Has a few small tattoos. Real innocent type but a wild streak. She is real wet and clean. No greek, no uncovered. Managed to get her for 2 five for an hour. She can host and has her own place. I have mixed reactions. May try her place first.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b93e9...5-8776fc6727db

**Low Jack** · 02-11-20 21:08

Originally Posted by JonFisher [View Original Post]

Did you see her. ? Feedback?

But then again she wants to meet for a day meet during the weekday. I have limited lunch hours. Oh well.

**JonFisher** · 02-11-20 17:16

https://www.seeking.com/member/3852d...5-f0edac8f7633

Anyone met her recently in the past few days? If so any intel / advice / feedback.

**Bilaling** · 02-11-20 15:48

Can't provide link as she has blocked me😁.

I reached out, willing to setup for this afternoon and ask the usual questions. She said everything covered and how much was I willing to offer. I followed with are you hosting and the reply was: No, but there are many hotels near my house or we can have a car date. I countered with, if I'm getting us a room it better be for more than a couple of hours plus no limit on how many times. She agreed but wanted to know how much in which I replied 3 just to see where she was at. She first told me 3 would be for only an hour and I politely said that I'd pass especially since BJ is covered as well.

Her reply after that was priceless. She says ok but 2 hours max and BBBJ. Then because I didn't reply quick enough she got real; she tells me that men pay her 500 just to drink wine with no sex and I'm asking for sex for free. I'm a 0, I should delete my account, get to reality, and kill myself.

Huh? I politely declined and was actually going to agree to the 2 hrs. Boy, she went left quickly. Maybe it was me but I wonder if anyone else had success or failures with this one.

B.

**JonFisher** · 02-11-20 15:33

Originally Posted by LowJack [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/944d4...3-2b5adc57af19

Any info would be great. Talked her down to m&g for coffee. LOL. I am a gold club member of starbucks

Did you see her. ? Feedback?

**InSearch69** · 02-11-20 13:07

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

Any progress with her?

I've seen her for over a year. But now I see her looking on SA again, and she hasn't been reliable like she used to be. And she owes me a few visits. Never should've given her an advance. They always disappear after that.

**IluvSmellyFish** · 02-10-20 08:31

Originally Posted by FunGuy570 [View Original Post]

I second the advise on the amox, its running through the community right now. Be careful.

Also these high mileage BBFS girls don't last long as they usually quickly experience consequences of there actions and disappear. The smell is a dead give away they are dirty esp when they won't give you head again after you have been inside them.

The other problem is that once they catch and spread, they get tainted and then visitors dry up. Without the means to pay for rent, they end up moving on.

Simple solution, especially when they are on the sweet and less jaded side is to jimmy up and keep them around. BTW, no need for the script since there arent any symptoms.

**IluvSmellyFish** · 02-10-20 08:27

Originally Posted by Dcguy246 [View Original Post]

Well now you have me a little worried. I was going to see her this week.

Most of the girls on SA are as varied as us and have rotations that are just as large, or larger. You've got the former BP girls running game who are more than happy to avoid having to pay for h / motel rooms; the desparate single moms who are trying to make ends meet; the college girls who are dating 2 or 3 guys "seriously and romantically" but who are also hoeing it up with 2 or 3 guys for the trips, cash, and LV bags.

Every now and then, there will be a keeper out there, but chances are, you're not going to get her info from this forum or from one of the mongers (no disrepsect to anyone on the forum since I'm included) who frequent this website.

Long story short, if you're seeing girls who have been reviewed here or who have a SA page that's been up for over 6 months and who are active on the site, best jimmy up or get that amoxicillin ready. SBs arent necessarily "safer" but often the additional risk that they pose is from the misconceived notion that they are safer.

**FreddyCrougar** · 02-10-20 08:15

This is why I prefer to pick one and stay with her as long as she will have me. I feel like it reduces the risk some.

Originally Posted by FunGuy570 [View Original Post]

I second the advise on the amox, its running through the community right now. Be careful.

Also these high mileage BBFS girls don't last long as they usually quickly experience consequences of there actions and disappear. The smell is a dead give away they are dirty esp when they won't give you head again after you have been inside them.