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**LandRover20** · 02-03-20 11:41

Originally Posted by Benz1 [View Original Post]

Flower Child tells me she's willing to give it one more try.

Her next day off work is Monday. She hopes to make the best of it.

I named her Flower Child because it matches her personality, she's a short mature spinner that is really fun to be with. Just let her be herself and you'll have fun. Warm wet enthusiastic BJ is in-store for anyone with good hygiene and shows respect. Like show up.

She's a little North of Sand Lake.

I asked for a pic to use, she sent the clothed one first , just a slight nudge saying can you do better than that got me the other two for our site. She is fun, just let her flow and so will you, no need for demands, she likes it too.
I have digits and password for Frenz of Benz.

Is today just a one-day test run again? Or does she plan to keep offering services on any kind of a regular basis? I'm very interested but rarely able to plan with no advance time. I've never no-showed on a provider. Feel free to PM me if she plans to go past today.

**IrishGuy77** · 02-02-20 13:43

Originally Posted by Benz1 [View Original Post]

Super Bowl Sunday is one of the best days to negotiate.

Most mongers are busy getting ready for Super Bowl, picking up beer and watching pregame.

The providers phones won't be ringing with too many choices.

You could use Chad Adler"s method which works well. Just text and ask what will you do for 40. (use burner phone).

(Using your burner phone) Down load a phone app, make your calls or text, negotiate your best price and go lower than you know she will go. At some point she will just say no or cut you off without anymore conversation. About 15 min. Later use your real burner (new phone number) to send text offering her a little more than the last dollar amount that she said No Way to. She'll be happy to hear a better client calling her just minutes after the other Low Baller.

In my Super Bowl Sunday negotiations I remind her that her phone won't be ringing at all after 6 pm (kick off).
This usually works well for Thanks giving and Christmas eve too.

That's great stuff!! I'll have to jot down for next year! Still on the mend, so I'll be making my special hot dog dish thinkin about some hotttttt lady north of GR.

**Benz1** · 02-02-20 13:29

Super Bowl Sunday is one of the best days to negotiate.

Most mongers are busy getting ready for Super Bowl, picking up beer and watching pregame.

The providers phones won't be ringing with too many choices.

You could use Chad Adler"s method which works well. Just text and ask what will you do for 40. (use burner phone).

(Using your burner phone) Down load a phone app, make your calls or text, negotiate your best price and go lower than you know she will go. At some point she will just say no or cut you off without anymore conversation. About 15 min. Later use your real burner (new phone number) to send text offering her a little more than the last dollar amount that she said No Way to. She'll be happy to hear a better client calling her just minutes after the other Low Baller.

In my Super Bowl Sunday negotiations I remind her that her phone won't be ringing at all after 6 pm (kick off).
This usually works well for Thanks giving and Christmas eve too.

**Jum Hall** · 01-31-20 05:33

Originally Posted by IrishGuy77 [View Original Post]

https://grand-rapids.skipthegames.co...t/260345622127

The ad has been deleted. Hopefully next time you can do like wolverine to copy some of the words. Thanks.

**IrishGuy77** · 01-31-20 01:19

https://grand-rapids.skipthegames.co...t/260345622127

**Monger01** · 01-30-20 14:47

The should never happen to any of you. Use a hobby phone. Never use your real first name much less last name. Never bring into sight anything identifying your first or last name where you work or your address. So if you're in a car date in your car make sure anything identifying is out of sight and Out Of Reach. Don't forget if you have clothes with work logos on them do not wear those to your date. Other than somehow following me home without me noticing this could never happen to me because I practice the above. It is most certainly easy to match me to my screen name here when I leave a review or a comment. But they will never be able to know who I really am identity wise therefore my s o will never know either. I would be curious to know more circumstances as to how this happened to one of our members.

Originally Posted by Benz1 [View Original Post]

Not sure how this happened, a well know member sent me a message saying his S. O. Was contacted by someone exposing his hobby names to her. It's never good when an SO discovers this site.

Has anyone else experienced this? Please don't post here, contact me through PM

Be careful, we can all be Targets for many reasons.

**Benz1** · 01-30-20 13:41

Not sure how this happened, a well know member sent me a message saying his S. O. Was contacted by someone exposing his hobby names to her. It's never good when an SO discovers this site.

Has anyone else experienced this? Please don't post here, contact me through PM

Be careful, we can all be Targets for many reasons.

**Benz1** · 01-30-20 11:53

Flower Child tells me she's willing to give it one more try.

Her next day off work is Monday. She hopes to make the best of it.

I named her Flower Child because it matches her personality, she's a short mature spinner that is really fun to be with. Just let her be herself and you'll have fun. Warm wet enthusiastic BJ is in-store for anyone with good hygiene and shows respect. Like show up.

She's a little North of Sand Lake.

I asked for a pic to use, she sent the clothed one first , just a slight nudge saying can you do better than that got me the other two for our site. She is fun, just let her flow and so will you, no need for demands, she likes it too.
I have digits and password for Frenz of Benz.

**Benz1** · 01-25-20 18:21

Originally Posted by GuitarGod19 [View Original Post]

I was on of the guys who had to cancel. It's not like I just didn't show BTW, I had a work meeting come up on the south side of GR. I gave her and Benz a full days notice. I don't just skip out on appointments.

I'm sure you weren't the problem, with a full days notice. Frustrated, not knowing what to expect. Now she knows.

**GuitarGod19** · 01-25-20 17:21

I was on of the guys who had to cancel. It's not like I just didn't show BTW, I had a work meeting come up on the south side of GR. I gave her and Benz a full days notice. I don't just skip out on appointments.

**Benz1** · 01-25-20 15:51

Originally Posted by StevesMilin [View Original Post]

Nothing pisses me off more than a no call / no show. I'd never do it to a provider, and anyone who does it to me doesn't usually get a second chance.

Wonder if these were senior members with passes? I never saw a post or anything. Would have enjoyed it.

SS.

Yes.

Seniors with passwords, all three scheduled and all three cancelled.

I posted the message for one hour and took it down. It was a one day test drive, we could have had a fun new provider. I've introduced her to Hayley, something might still happen through her but she does not trust us with her time anymore.
A few mongers remember me mentioning the Sand Lake UTR awhile ago.. Takes time to Get FB friends to agree to see others. Getting them this far is difficult.

This is what I posted.

I know a utr masseuse in Sand Lake, she works full-time and only has one day off this week, I'm busy this Friday. I told her I could send a friend and she was happy to hear.

Short, mature, spinner and lots of fun. I have digits and password for Frenz of Benz.

**StevesMilin** · 01-25-20 15:39

Originally Posted by WayneJWorld [View Original Post]

Come on guys! At least call and let them know your running late, or give advance notice, or don't book until you know you can make it. Yes I know it works both ways, I've gone out expecting someone to be there and crickets. At least I can look someone else up and come up with a plan B in most cases. The provider can't go to a monger list and say yep I'm open for business right now. I'm dependable and because of that I sometimes get discounts. I read comments why there aren't enough good providers, how about their aren't enough good mongers out there keeping appointments so more ladies would stay in the business, and more ladies could be persuaded to get in the business.

Nothing pisses me off more than a no call / no show. I'd never do it to a provider, and anyone who does it to me doesn't usually get a second chance.

Wonder if these were senior members with passes? I never saw a post or anything. Would have enjoyed it.

SS.

**WayneJWorld** · 01-25-20 14:53

Originally Posted by Benz1 [View Original Post]

Sand Lake UTR was finally looking forward to joining the hobby.

She has a full time job with one day off a week, yesterday (Friday) was her only day off this week.

This is how it went for her.

So had 3 booked. I made arrangements at my place to do was up all night on my day off and all 3 cancelled ruined my day off was planning accordingly, so I guess this is not for me & I will just continue to be me. No need for referrals I mean I'll use as a resource if people are real, but seems they were all fake.

Thanks to the first few, She's done having fun with all of us already.

She gives very wet , enthusiastic great head, you guys missed out.

Come on guys! At least call and let them know your running late, or give advance notice, or don't book until you know you can make it. Yes I know it works both ways, I've gone out expecting someone to be there and crickets. At least I can look someone else up and come up with a plan B in most cases. The provider can't go to a monger list and say yep I'm open for business right now. I'm dependable and because of that I sometimes get discounts. I read comments why there aren't enough good providers, how about their aren't enough good mongers out there keeping appointments so more ladies would stay in the business, and more ladies could be persuaded to get in the business.

**Benz1** · 01-25-20 13:25

Sand Lake UTR was finally looking forward to joining the hobby.

She has a full time job with one day off a week, yesterday (Friday) was her only day off this week.

This is how it went for her.

So had 3 booked. I made arrangements at my place to do was up all night on my day off and all 3 cancelled ruined my day off was planning accordingly, so I guess this is not for me & I will just continue to be me. No need for referrals I mean I'll use as a resource if people are real, but seems they were all fake.

Thanks to the first few, She's done having fun with all of us already.

She gives very wet , enthusiastic great head, you guys missed out.