"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**HottRod66** · 01-23-20 15:54

Originally Posted by EBob1111 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/25871...3-690db2fecb9d

I had caught toocharmy on SA & msg her my # & she texted me Wednesday morning & talked about meeting over the weekend & she talked me into buying her videos & pics. Should have known better but pay pal her money & of course now she doesn't respond to msg & no sign of a video or picture. So anyway everyone has been warned!!

**Ernest Ll** · 01-23-20 13:31

Pics seems real enough. Believable story. Just odd that in three hours of exhanging a couple of dozen messges she hastnt even looked at my profile or pics.

https://www.seeking.com/member/06c7f...6-ba25c5ed8f74

**Ernest Ll** · 01-23-20 13:29

Originally Posted by FeelGoodMd [View Original Post]

More and more physicians are charging cancellation fees to discourage no-shows. It's become a fairly common practice. As for having her own health insurance, that's mandated under the ACA, and the vast majority of plans in the state exchanges have high deductibles (which is how they're so "affordable").

I've bee screwed by the affordability since day 1. But usually plans with a deductible don't have a co pay until after the dedictuble is met.

**ItsAHobby45** · 01-23-20 13:23

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

But I think she's a scam. Yesterday told me about an MD appointment she had and could afford the co pay or the cancellation fee.

Never seen and MD that charges a cancellation fee.

When I mentioned my plan is a high deductible and has no co pay, she then said her's is a high deductible and its all out of pocket. OK, so some 20 somthing yoga instructor has her own health insurance. That would be a first!!

Sounds like she was fishing for someone to "cover her expenses".

I talked to her for a decent amount of time and was supposed to meet up with her on a few occasions but I always backed out. She was really weird. Said she wasn't really interested in anything physical because sex is an exchange of energy and exchanging that energy with the wrong person can upset the natural flow or something like that. I just wasn't interested.

**FeelGoodMd** · 01-23-20 12:23

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

But I think she's a scam. Yesterday told me about an MD appointment she had and could afford the co pay or the cancellation fee.

Never seen and MD that charges a cancellation fee.

When I mentioned my plan is a high deductible and has no co pay, she then said her's is a high deductible and its all out of pocket. OK, so some 20 somthing yoga instructor has her own health insurance. That would be a first!!

More and more physicians are charging cancellation fees to discourage no-shows. It's become a fairly common practice. As for having her own health insurance, that's mandated under the ACA, and the vast majority of plans in the state exchanges have high deductibles (which is how they're so "affordable").

**Ernest Ll** · 01-23-20 10:25

Originally Posted by GoneForDays [View Original Post]

I got as far as texting. I'm pretty sure I was talking to someone other than the photos. Never could get a commitment to a meet.

But I think she's a scam. Yesterday told me about an MD appointment she had and could afford the co pay or the cancellation fee.

Never seen and MD that charges a cancellation fee.

When I mentioned my plan is a high deductible and has no co pay, she then said her's is a high deductible and its all out of pocket. OK, so some 20 somthing yoga instructor has her own health insurance. That would be a first!!

Sounds like she was fishing for someone to "cover her expenses".

**GoneForDays** · 01-23-20 07:46

Originally Posted by EasyeOne [View Original Post]

Told me she's never had any luck on the site. No arrangements. That's a nice jump from 3 to 2 k.

I got as far as texting. I'm pretty sure I was talking to someone other than the photos. Never could get a commitment to a meet.

**EasyeOne** · 01-22-20 18:00

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

Anyone chatted with Stellablue222?

https://www.seeking.com/member/6ba5e...6-4e217a09772f

Seriously cute and leggy, but claims her LT SB was 63 and gave her $300 per week for platonic dates until she got comfortable enough to get naked, then it was $2000 a month for weekly bangs.

Told me she's never had any luck on the site. No arrangements. That's a nice jump from 3 to 2 k.

**Ernest Ll** · 01-22-20 15:50

Anyone chatted with Stellablue222?

https://www.seeking.com/member/6ba5e...6-4e217a09772f

Seriously cute and leggy, but claims her LT SB was 63 and gave her $300 per week for platonic dates until she got comfortable enough to get naked, then it was $2000 a month for weekly bangs.

**BigSugarD** · 01-21-20 17:25

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

Joined today. 26 married. Said she had to clear up some debt from foolish purchases for last year.

Had a nice convo going -- fitness trainer who said she could give me quite the work out -- then poof. Either deactivated or blocked. I'm thinking DeacT since I can still see her user name. She probably got cold feet, or I guess there are some glitches in SA with new sign ups that seem to go on and off like there is a short in their system.

Anyone else got any intel to share?

Interesting. No intel on the girl, but I was on SA early this afternoon. I logged off, then tried to log back on later and upon logging back in was told that my account had been deleted, sometime in those few hours I suppose. Weird, since I was just shopping and not buying. Could be a SA glitch.

**FarFarAway** · 01-21-20 16:26

Originally Posted by WPGuy [View Original Post]

I had a SB try to extort me just about a year ago. Wanted an initial meet at a coffee shop. Met her in her car with what she wanted. She gave me her "address" to go from there to FC. When I got there and texted, then cam the extortion. Claimed she had my pic in her car, real name, license plate number, cop friend that would be coming to my door, etc. And would let wife know unless I gave her money $275 by end of day. After a few hours of threats I asked her for proof--a pic, license number, etc. If she could come up with anything, I would pay her. She got real pissy for the rest of the day. Never heard from her after that day. I have learned to discreetly take a pic of their car, their plate, and the girl coming into a hotel room or wherever I meet her.

Sadly, we probably all learn from experience.

There are periodic posts on this stuff, you might look back a while, or into the archive. Some very calmly confident replies to this crap are listed. Basically, it isn't the nicest thing to cheat on your wife, but it isn't illegal. However, extortion is a felony, etc. Etc. Of course, you have evidence in her texts, screen shot them and send them back to her. If she wants to fuck you up, you will do her one better in return. And then, make *certain* that your op sec is good enough that none of the things a girl like this claims could be true. Like being able to say, when a girl you barebacked says she's preggers, that you were snipped before the turn of the century, so it couldn't be you.

**Ernest Ll** · 01-21-20 15:56

Joined today. 26 married. Said she had to clear up some debt from foolish purchases for last year.

Had a nice convo going -- fitness trainer who said she could give me quite the work out -- then poof. Either deactivated or blocked. I'm thinking DeacT since I can still see her user name. She probably got cold feet, or I guess there are some glitches in SA with new sign ups that seem to go on and off like there is a short in their system.

Anyone else got any intel to share?

**EBob1111** · 01-21-20 11:32

Originally Posted by GeechieDan [View Original Post]

Is she still on SA? Can you provide a link? I'd just like to steer clear of this one

She deleted her profile soon after we met the first time, not spending much time on the site lately but if I see her pop up again I'll let you know.

**Geechie Dan** · 01-21-20 06:53

Originally Posted by EBob1111 [View Original Post]

So she finally did text me back with an "expense" that if I took care of she would feel that things are resolved. I paid it to make it go away, and at the very least have her in writing asking for money in exchange for not ruining my life so if she ends up fucking with me any more then extortion will be on the table. Hard lesson to learn.

Is she still on SA? Can you provide a link? I'd just like to steer clear of this one.

**WPGuy** · 01-21-20 01:54

Originally Posted by EBob1111 [View Original Post]

So she finally did text me back with an "expense" that if I took care of she would feel that things are resolved. I paid it to make it go away, and at the very least have her in writing asking for money in exchange for not ruining my life so if she ends up fucking with me any more then extortion will be on the table. Hard lesson to learn.

I had a SB try to extort me just about a year ago. Wanted an initial meet at a coffee shop. Met her in her car with what she wanted. She gave me her "address" to go from there to FC. When I got there and texted, then cam the extortion. Claimed she had my pic in her car, real name, license plate number, cop friend that would be coming to my door, etc. And would let wife know unless I gave her money $275 by end of day. After a few hours of threats I asked her for proof--a pic, license number, etc. If she could come up with anything, I would pay her. She got real pissy for the rest of the day. Never heard from her after that day. I have learned to discreetly take a pic of their car, their plate, and the girl coming into a hotel room or wherever I meet her.

Sadly, we probably all learn from experience.