"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**StewPitt** · 12-11-19 13:00

Anybody got any info on this one, kinda young.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3e2e7...e-4c5379e660c7

**Marmong** · 12-11-19 07:41

Originally Posted by MajMilkDuds [View Original Post]

I think he is asking how you bring up a p4 p situation to a girl out in the wild? How do you appreciate a cute girl and say I have 100 bucks for you if you give me head in this parking lot.

I wish I was good enough to get a BJ on first meet. In malls, I pretend like a I am a financial analyst (I know LOL) and I want to know how the store traffic has been. Telling the girl how they are not appreciated by 'society' considering all the bullshit they have to put up with. This usually leads to how they are underpaid and overworked and that is usually my in. I offer to take them out on a coffee or get a Anne's pretzel where I discuss my SB offer. I don't really have a recited line but I essentially insinutate at how the whole transaction would be respectful and she deserves to get paid. As you might have guessed, it is important that I don't make her sound like she is a hooker.

Publix cold approaches can be a little harder. It's easier to get them to talk to you when the store isn't busy or if offer to take your groceries to your car.

Like I said, I am far from bring conventionally attractive but I have more luck doing a cold approach than on SA. Personally think SA's platform pushes the girls to get paid and they use that as an excuse to become hustlers.

**Leep12** · 12-11-19 00:42

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

It is so sad ,and it's difficult to give up the dream, but perhaps it's time to do so. I was on SA in early 2017 and it was still excellent, but it just seems like a waste of $ now. I rarely see any positive posts in this thread. It is tragic, but I guess it was too good to last.

I joined 9/2017 for the first time and have seen the changes also.

I Know there are still reasonable and attractive women on SA wanting to meet, there is just a lot more BS and sifting. I used to be able to spot the trolls easily, but they are getting better also and I have wasted time on them. Also more girls getting the idea of just findings simps to give them 20-100 or whatever just to meet or send money for a sob story.

Also the girls seemingly on site 24/7 looking for the wale that will give them 1 k a week to do nothing. Bottom line the site is clogged w / BS and we tend to focus on girls on most recently.

I'm sure the legit girls are dealing with the same stuff w / bots and trolls and time wasters. Problem is the site is flooded with the same chicks that are on 24/7 while the legit girls pop on other day or a couple times a week and we never even see their profiles. The legit girls are frustrated and get discouraged also.

Find the girls with legit profiles that have not been on site for a couple days to maybe even 4 weeks or a bit more. How to do this?

If you are in and Cobb do a 10 mile search of say Woodstock or Cartersville / outskirt areas, for example or limit the age range, try 23-26 or 18-20 or 25-30 etc. Or try some key words. You will be amazed at the chicks that will pop on the radar that you have never seen before. Also these girls will be drawn back to the site by your message as they have not been on in a while and their inbox is slower.

Do whatever it takes to get to the girls that have been off site for a couple days or more. Not 100 % cure but helps our odds IMO.

**Jims2321** · 12-10-19 23:43

Pincessnaynay -- 16!

Yes that is right underage. Luckily we were just starting to text, when she dropped this bomb shell. I screen capped the conversation, blocked her on my burner phone text app and reported her to Seeking. Below is the text conversation. Thank god, it was all about her college issues, nothing sexual.

To post the picture you need to edit the telephone number.

Admin3

**Jims2321** · 12-10-19 21:08

Originally Posted by 2me4Looking2 [View Original Post]

I messaged with this one a bit and everything seemed good. She claimed she had never had an arrangement before, but when we switched to text she made a few comments that made me think she has done this before. She mentioned that how long we would spend together would affect how much she wants, which is of course a red flag. I get that spending a couple of hours is different than spending the night, but that was not what she meant. When I finally got her to throw out a number she said that people had been offering her $500 for an hour of her time which screams pro to me. I countered with 200 and she wished me luck LOL.

Anyone know anything about her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/510b6...e-cbd5dfd6d9af

She is at best $100/ date, maybe $150 if she CIP / CIM / Greek. Any one over 35 making what she claims is not on Seeking, but is a Pro with an established clientele and track record as a top flight escort.

**CagerCoach** · 12-10-19 19:43

Originally Posted by HollowGuy [View Original Post]

Everyone should reach out and offer less then 200. LOL.

I had coffee with her last Saturday. A few red flags for me. She acts real innocent until you talk to her. She has a live in boyfriend who will reach out and see if you are still interested. That is nothing but bad news!

**HollowGuy** · 12-10-19 18:12

Originally Posted by 2me4Looking2 [View Original Post]

I messaged with this one a bit and everything seemed good. She claimed she had never had an arrangement before, but when we switched to text she made a few comments that made me think she has done this before. She mentioned that how long we would spend together would affect how much she wants, which is of course a red flag. I get that spending a couple of hours is different than spending the night, but that was not what she meant. When I finally got her to throw out a number she said that people had been offering her $500 for an hour of her time which screams pro to me. I countered with 200 and she wished me luck LOL.

Anyone know anything about her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/510b6...e-cbd5dfd6d9af

Everyone should reach out and offer less then 200. LOL.

**2me4Looking2** · 12-10-19 14:13

I messaged with this one a bit and everything seemed good. She claimed she had never had an arrangement before, but when we switched to text she made a few comments that made me think she has done this before. She mentioned that how long we would spend together would affect how much she wants, which is of course a red flag. I get that spending a couple of hours is different than spending the night, but that was not what she meant. When I finally got her to throw out a number she said that people had been offering her $500 for an hour of her time which screams pro to me. I countered with 200 and she wished me luck LOL.

Anyone know anything about her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/510b6...e-cbd5dfd6d9af

**Jims2321** · 12-10-19 11:08

Originally Posted by MatteoRusso [View Original Post]

She reached out to me today. When I asked what type of arrangement she is seeking. Here is her response, "Well, I just need help LOL. I don't mind meeting. But I have a problem that makes me not be able to have sex until I go to the Dr. Its just my period has been going for months. ".

Yikes, that's a full stop right there. Even with a a new, clean STD results I would hesitate to put my little guy anywhere near that.

**Peter Johnson** · 12-10-19 10:47

Originally Posted by JustMikey [View Original Post]

I've been a member (changing profiles occasionally) for about five years. At first it was great. I could not believe the quality of ass I was banging. Absolutely beautiful college girls for 100 to 200 per date, and bored wives for free except the cost of a hotel room. As time went on, the milfs disappeared, the college girls got more expensive, and the scammers arrived. It got a little worse year after year. Seeking is now just another trashy escort site. I'll probably play the need-money-for-Christmass women til the end of the month then quit. What a shame, I had some incredible "regulars" I met on that site in years past. Many of them beautiful, built, insatiable three holers that would give me whatever I wanted for a couple hundred. That's over now, it was a great ride while it lasted.

It is so sad ,and it's difficult to give up the dream, but perhaps it's time to do so. I was on SA in early 2017 and it was still excellent, but it just seems like a waste of $ now. I rarely see any positive posts in this thread. It is tragic, but I guess it was too good to last.

**Peter Johnson** · 12-10-19 10:38

Originally Posted by Marmong [View Original Post]

Had zero luck the last time I subscribed. Seems like it's filled with hustlers who are looking to leach off a sap or pros who are just advertising on one more platform. If you are not obnoxiously overweight and can hold a conversation, you will do better engaging girls IRL. Found a 20 year old 8/10 Publix cashier that I have been seeing for a couple of months now. Hang out with her once every 10 days and give her anywhere between $100-$150. Grocery stores and deserted malls are a great place to engage SBs imo. Check out Town Center mall in Kennesaw for you 'OTPers'.

Good for you if you have that kind of Game. I don't think I could make that move in person with someone I hadn't already met. I have done that before online with women from Tinder or IG, but not with some cashier. I'm sure many are open to the idea, but I wouldn't be smooth enough to work my way in there like that.

**MajMilkDuds** · 12-10-19 09:41

Originally Posted by Marmong [View Original Post]

I don't know what you mean.

I think he is asking how you bring up a p4 p situation to a girl out in the wild? How do you appreciate a cute girl and say I have 100 bucks for you if you give me head in this parking lot.

**Readct** · 12-10-19 08:48

Originally Posted by RudyMantooth [View Original Post]

Just for curiosity's sake, how would antooic like that be brought up in a setting like the ones you mentioned.

I think you meant was, 'how would a topic like that ".

Pretty easy if you have some game. Saw this absolutely gorgeous redhead college gal start working at the Starbucks where I regularly get my morning coffee. Flirted a bit over several visits and then asked for her number.

She said, "I don't think my boyfriend would like that very much".

I responded, "Well, I don't think my wife would be too happy about it either. But do we really need to tell them?

Got the number.

Took her on a date / M&G (NOT to Starbucks, haha). Explained the sugar lifestyle, what I had in mind, and what I could do to help her.

Was banging her in a hotel room the next weekend.

**Hal1957** · 12-10-19 08:30

I've noticed some things slipping through the SA filters like social media contacts and even one phone number. My profile is almost a year old with more than 10 updates. Over time I've noticed the edits are approved almost immediately. I set up a social media account with the same username as my SA profile and have picked up a few contacts that way.

Originally Posted by GetHot17 [View Original Post]

How do the females get away with this? I can't even try to hide my kik somewhere in my profile without it getting deleted.

Also just a little info on this one. This is a couple trading drugs for sexual favors, so proceed at your own risk.

**Hal1957** · 12-10-19 08:22

With the waitress or shop girl, you have a captive audience. Chat her up, find a chink in her armor then make the innocent suggestion of something she might like. Dinner? A drink? The movie? A music show? The theater? Get the idea?

She doesn't know she wants a sugar daddy. You've got to have game, confidence and patience. Watch the movie Shop Girl. Then watch Groundhog Day because there will be a lot of misses!

Originally Posted by RudyMantooth [View Original Post]

Just for curiosity's sake, how would antooic like that be brought up in a setting like the ones you mentioned.