Non Pro's

[Fillipino]

Hey everyone!

I've tried meeting women on fetlife without much luck.

Does anyone have any pointers they're willing to share?

I've had some success with Get. My success was mostly through attending community events or engaging in blogs and stimulating conversation over time. For me it was a much different dynamic. I went to some of the parties and definitely met some women, but most are subpar in terms of attractiveness. There are some hotties but there are much more heffers imo. I went to a sex party expecting eyes wide shut and it was more like Lord of the Rings in terms of participants.

[RawDogger]

Mixedchick6 on SA, she asked for 500, I countered with 300, she agreed and then blocked me after a couple messages trying to work out a schedule. Maybe a flake, maybe the GPS got a hold of her. Who knows.

[Router911]

Hey everyone!

I've tried meeting women on fetlife without much luck.

Does anyone have any pointers they're willing to share?

[Dr Tardis]

Invited me over, took the allowance, then said she thought she had condoms, without them we were a no go. Asked if I could run across the street to the Shell, once I left said it wouldn't work out, anxiety (she was fine and bubbly) etc.

Complete rob. Avoid this one. Goes by Shannel in Everett.

Where did you find this one?

[NinoSugar]

Anyone have a line on an Asian non pro? You can send me a message if you. Much appreciated.

[BalloonKnot]

I am 99% sure it isn't her.

I don't think so. I remember her pretty vividly. More slender figure, cuter face, and different tattoos.

Yeah that's not Amanda.

[EverettSD]

Invited me over, took the allowance, then said she thought she had condoms, without them we were a no go. Asked if I could run across the street to the Shell, once I left said it wouldn't work out, anxiety (she was fine and bubbly) etc.

Complete rob. Avoid this one. Goes by Shannel in Everett.

[3Putt]

Wants $600 per meet.

Pass.

[Perfecto101]

ChrisandHilary on fetlife.

Seen her a couple times and dumped my loads in her.

She set up our meetings without her partner knowing and instructed me to text him with pictures of our encounters.

He likes getting those surprises.

I added her on fetlife she's got some nice pics and videos.

[Member #6048]

ChrisandHilary on fetlife.

Seen her a couple times and dumped my loads in her.

She set up our meetings without her partner knowing and instructed me to text him with pictures of our encounters.

He likes getting those surprises.

[Original703]

Inflation has hit. Now she says she is used to "a grand" per date, but she is willing to work out something.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e804d...4-85562c926327

Surely, we all have different budgets, and we (try to) make informed decisions about how we spend our money. Her stated rate is too rich for me. She might do better on WYP.

[Twister100]

I have found that a common strategy sugar babies are following is to get a sugar daddy at X allowance then they go back to the site asking for 2 X or any amount higher than X. They stick to the new allowance because they already have at least X.

I think they (sugar babies) are reading advice and strategies from the same blog or book. I suspect is the book(s) written by the founder of SeekingArrangements website.

I concur with your thoughts though I think it's a blog in combination with ads targeting certain groups of women like coeds etc. Because I see mini trends on SA. For example, I noticed a small increase in the number of profiles where the lady was offering a duals with a friend recently. When I say ads I don't be mean the obvious traditional ad but a more subtle fake new article style ad where the headline is something along the lines of woman pays for college by being a SB.

[MyNickname]

I have found that a common strategy sugar babies are following is to get a sugar daddy at X allowance then they go back to the site asking for 2 X or any amount higher than X. They stick to the new allowance because they already have at least X.

I think they (sugar babies) are reading advice and strategies from the same blog or book. I suspect is the book(s) written by the founder of SeekingArrangements website.

Thanks for the tuttoring but I am in post-doc classes now.

She asked for my offer, I told her 300, then she countered, I passed.

[Portunist]

Because he's setting the price and negotiating. If you "ask" then SHE sets the price.

e.g. Lilith, I'm going to be in town Saturday and am comfortable meeting for $300 for at least an hour but no more than 2 at the XYZ. Are you interested?

Vs "hi I'm a sucker, what's the sticker price?"

Thanks for the tuttoring but I am in post-doc classes now.

She asked for my offer, I told her 300, then she countered, I passed.

[Elmer Fuddness]

Curious that our experiences vary so, Lilith206 quoted me "at least $1000". Oh well.

Because he's setting the price and negotiating. If you "ask" then SHE sets the price.

e.g. Lilith, I'm going to be in town Saturday and am comfortable meeting for $300 for at least an hour but no more than 2 at the XYZ. Are you interested?

Vs "hi I'm a sucker, what's the sticker price?"