"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**ItsAHobby45** · 11-25-19 11:25

Originally Posted by TomDickNHarry [View Original Post]

I've seen many holiday seasons on SA, and this is not normal. A huge batch here again this morning, and yes the Fin-Dom and "luxury lifestyle" dominates. Going to check reddit when I have a chance, some BS article was published or video or something on a website or social media site frequented by young people.

I've had several of the 18-19 yo babies say that they heard about SA on an app called TikTok which is a very popular app with the teens these days. I took my daughters phone to look through her TikTok and it didn't take long at all to see girls posting their Venmo or cashapp with the offer of selling feet pics or private videos to sugar daddy's. Most of these posts contain #seeking in them so I suspect this may be related to the influx.

**TomDickNHarry** · 11-25-19 11:10

Originally Posted by ItsAHobby45 [View Original Post]

I've definitely noticed the trend over the past week or two. I assumed it was tied to the upcoming shopping weekend but you may be on to something as most of them tend to be platonic or just selling pictures. I'm currently trying to line up something for tomorrow afternoon. I have a 19 yo confirmed to meet me at the FC but honestly I'd rather replace her with a better option as I feel like she may not be exactly what I'm looking for.

I've seen many holiday seasons on SA, and this is not normal. A huge batch here again this morning, and yes the Fin-Dom and "luxury lifestyle" dominates. Going to check reddit when I have a chance, some BS article was published or video or something on a website or social media site frequented by young people.

**DrSummer** · 11-24-19 21:59

One of my general predictions is that if a girl doesn't go to FC with me right after we meet, the chances of her showing up a later day is very low. I keep records of girls I take to FC and reviewing the data I found something interesting. I have been on SA for two years, and I took 50 different girls to FC so far. Out of the 50,21 of them were college students. Out of the 21 college students, 11 of them I had to wait for the next date to go to FC. For the rest (non-college girls) I hit FC at first meet more than 90% of the time. Not sure if it is coincidence, but sure it looks like there is a pattern with college girls. Interestingly, I took a college senior to FC few days ago. She waited for one week after our meet and greet to schedule the FC date claiming she was busy with school work. But she sure enough showed up for the FC at hotel and we had fun. I am now definitely not giving up if a girl refuse to go to FC on first date.

Stay Safe.

Dr. S.

Originally Posted by Dash [View Original Post]

Although girls will have sex on the first date or go directly to the sex, most likely is at least one meet in person first. It's a hurdle to get over for many of them without feeling comfortable with the new person first.

**Dash** · 11-24-19 21:34

I'm lurking, and my sugar baby experience was in S. Florida, and I was introduced to her, it was "free style" method.

Although girls will have sex on the first date or go directly to the sex, most likely is at least one meet in person first. It's a hurdle to get over for many of them without feeling comfortable with the new person first.

Secondly, a truly motivated girl will accept less than the absurd amounts 1. They hear about 2. Pro hookers charge.

The girls will compare the cost of their pussy to the amount of money they can make working; most of them don't make $100 in an entire day if they are working at a McJob.

I had a pretty 22 yr old sugar baby=$100, a very pretty UTR=$100, a chubby 36 yr. Old Haitian=$50.

I'm absolutely certain that the $200 for an 18 year old girl was a very good payday for a few hours of her time.

She will see the doctor soon I predict.

**DrSummer** · 11-24-19 21:04

It is my turn to rant, but with a good news at the end. Platonic disease has hit my area in gigantic proportions to a level that I was thinking of quitting SA altogether. I am into 18 to 22 yr range, almost 90% of the new profiles on SA last two months talk something about being platonic, no sex, or expecting money to be mentored, conversations etc. It used to be that only hot and young ones got this disease, but it has spread to single mothers and out of shape girls etc too. Anyway I was hoping against hope and sending messages to all these girls to find the "needle in the hay stack". I try to get them offline very early in to the chat (within first 5 messages) and pose the question straight. "Are you open to meet in person and are you into physical intimacy? Needless most of them drop off there. There is this 18 yr old Latina who responds back to me "lets meet for a coffee and discuss in person". Hmm. That is unexpected, I checked her profile again, no platonic tag. Good news. We set up a meet next day, and she showed up at Starbucks on time. Another unexpected. As I do with any 18 to 19 year old, I asked for an I'd to confirm her age. She gave me both her school I'd and driver license. In fact she turns 19 next week. A freshman in a nearby college. She is one of the most gorgeous girls I have ever met on SA, her facial features were so attractive. She started asking why I wanted to talk about intimacy so early. She was so genuine and engaging I started my rant with her how SA has become increasingly painful. She tells me that lots of her friends are on SA expecting the same "basically money for doing nothing" in her words. But they are not going anywhere according to her and drop off the site after few days. She tells me she understands what a sugar arrangement is and thought long and hard before joining and knows what it takes to get sugar. She needs money to cover part of her tuition and she is on the site for that. Again very unexpected words from a 18 year old. I asked the if she was free to go ahead and have fun time with me, and she says no she has a dinner planned with friends, but available after few days. We set up a date in few days to meet at my house. Typically my experience is if a girl likes me she is ready to go to FC right away. So, my expectations were very low at that point. Anyway we kept in touch by text. She confirmed the day before the meet and again 2 hours before meet that increased my expectations that she is actually going to show up. She showed up at my house on time. I gave her the nice dress I bought her as a birthday gift, She was surprised and just took of her clothes and tried it. Within few minutes, we were already into DFK. Her clothes came off, gorgeous body with perfect skin, no ink, no piercing. She tells me only restrictions are that I have to wear a cover for main event and no anal. Everything else was fine. It was the most sensual and satisfying sex I had for a long long time. Her eye contact was perfect and we tried all positions imaginable. She thanked me and left with 200 I put her in her bag. I texted her thanking for the good time and about next meet. She immediately responded she wanted to see me again soon. I am just shaking my head what just happened, everything against how an 18 year old would behave. I am almost 3 times of her age, but we connected immediately and at east with each other. It is possible she may have put up a nice show, but it doesn't matter to me as long as I feel it genuine. Moral of the story I guess is that just don't give up, there are gems out there, but it is getting harder and harder to find them. No question in my mind I just found my next long term SB.

Stay Safe.

Dr. S.

**ItsAHobby45** · 11-24-19 20:43

Looking4 myseeker1234.

https://www.seeking.com/member/2c9b2...9-d4047019556c

Been talking to her. She seems really cool and so far has great communication which is better than the majority of the girls on the site but I get a higher volume vibe from her. Hopefully someone can help with some intel. Says she's out of town until after thanksgiving but is more than happy to meet me when she gets back.

**ItsAHobby45** · 11-24-19 20:37

Originally Posted by HappyHunter44 [View Original Post]

Why would you have to show your ID? You are the catch and you have what she wants, i.e. , you run the show. If a potential looks young, it is your responsibility to not get yourself in trouble. I ask the young SBs to see an ID and explain clearly why. They just hid their names, but pic and birth date were visible. I am good with that.

I wouldn't need to show my I'd for obvious reasons, I just never really gave any thought to the idea that some of the sb's may not be 18 yet. I'll definitely be more cognizant of it going forward. I reported the 14 yo to seeking however I had no evidence to post in the report because the communication where she admitted to being 14 was on Snapchat. Hopefully they close her account before she or a sd gets themselves in trouble. She was very forward about wanting to meet tonight.

**HappyHunter44** · 11-24-19 20:08

Originally Posted by ItsAHobby45 [View Original Post]

I don't make a habit of asking for identification because I'd never share mine with a potential.

Why would you have to show your ID? You are the catch and you have what she wants, i.e. , you run the show. If a potential looks young, it is your responsibility to not get yourself in trouble. I ask the young SBs to see an ID and explain clearly why. They just hid their names, but pic and birth date were visible. I am good with that.

**Truncated** · 11-24-19 19:45

Originally Posted by ItsAHobby45 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/099ff...6-d93059e00d36

Be careful guys. This girl is only 14. Talked to her for a bit on Snapchat. She sent pictures (doesn't look 14) but I got a very young vibe from the conversation and asked her how old she was. Her profile says 19. Searching her Snapchat name definitely links back to a freshman in HS.

Did you report her to SA?

Consider sending them her Snapchat I'd. They will ban her.

**ItsAHobby45** · 11-24-19 19:44

Originally Posted by KevinCalormis [View Original Post]

No. How would that even work? Do you really every girl submits an ID or something? I'm glad they don't, I have zero interest in verifying my own profile. SA is the last organization I want to have my info. Remember the Ashley Madison leak?

It really makes me wonder about some of the 18-19 yo's I've fucked on that site. I don't make a habit of asking for identification because I'd never share mine with a potential. I guess I'll start requiring proof of age. It's not worth getting caught up in something like that. Hopefully this doesn't scare my 19 yo away tomorrow.

**EBob1111** · 11-24-19 19:18

Originally Posted by ItsAHobby45 [View Original Post]

I've definitely noticed the trend over the past week or two. I assumed it was tied to the upcoming shopping weekend but you may be on to something as most of them tend to be platonic or just selling pictures. I'm currently trying to line up something for tomorrow afternoon. I have a 19 yo confirmed to meet me at the FC but honestly I'd rather replace her with a better option as I feel like she may not be exactly what I'm looking for.

Financial dominatrixes I guess, looking for rich wimps who will send them cash for nothing.

**DWinthrop** · 11-24-19 19:17

Originally Posted by BStreet [View Original Post]

Is there no verification from SA on these girls?

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No. How would that even work? Do you really every girl submits an ID or something? I'm glad they don't, I have zero interest in verifying my own profile. SA is the last organization I want to have my info. Remember the Ashley Madison leak?

**BStreet** · 11-24-19 19:13

Is there no verification from SA on these girls?

Originally Posted by ItsAHobby45 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/099ff...6-d93059e00d36

Be careful guys. This girl is only 14. Talked to her for a bit on Snapchat. She sent pictures (doesn't look 14) but I got a very young vibe from the conversation and asked her how old she was. Her profile says 19. Searching her Snapchat name definitely links back to a freshman in HS.

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**ItsAHobby45** · 11-24-19 19:03

Originally Posted by KevinCalormis [View Original Post]

Nailed this one last week. She asked me to bring condoms but once we met let me go BBFS, nice petite latina gal who like it a little rough. She has had several profiles over the years, I remember her from when she was in high school up in NOVA. Never could get a response. Claimed I was the first guy off seeking she met, YEA RIGHT.

She was fun, had a refreshing attitude about this. No gps, and doesn't want to be wined and dined and finds it irritating when SDs try and take her out for dinner / drinks before the FC.

Hosted at her place near Monroe Park, and went off to s study session when she finished me off.

https://www.seeking.com/member/008c8...2-b83bdf0d1f36

I was talking to her earlier. She said she lives with her parents and can't host and wants $800 per meet. 🤣129315;129315;. I guess you just have a way with the ladies.

**DWinthrop** · 11-24-19 18:51

Nailed this one last week. She asked me to bring condoms but once we met let me go BBFS, nice petite latina gal who like it a little rough. She has had several profiles over the years, I remember her from when she was in high school up in NOVA. Never could get a response. Claimed I was the first guy off seeking she met, YEA RIGHT.

She was fun, had a refreshing attitude about this. No gps, and doesn't want to be wined and dined and finds it irritating when SDs try and take her out for dinner / drinks before the FC.

Hosted at her place near Monroe Park, and went off to a study session when she finished me off.

https://www.seeking.com/member/008c8...2-b83bdf0d1f36