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  1. #5262

    Eros

    Have anyone visited the ladies on Eros this week? Did you have a good time? I have noticed a lot of Brazilians on there this week.

  2. #5261

    Advice

    Quote Originally Posted by BMax986  [View Original Post]
    How do you respond if a regular you have a good rapport with, contacts you asking if you can help them out with some cash, via online app / money transfer. Have been seeing her at least once a week for the past 5 months. Pretty happy with the acquaintanceship. She's never asked for something like this before. Maybe it's because it's cold out? Amount wasn't much. Low end of usual donation, probably enough to get a room, or something. Am I a sucker for even considering it? Fire away.
    I see you have had alot of response from your question and I'm going to chime in as well. Don't do it. I have done it for 5 different girls who I was seeing regularly over the years. Every one of them did not pay me back or provide the "discount" services. I will never do it again.

  3. #5260
    Quote Originally Posted by BMax986  [View Original Post]
    How do you respond if a regular you have a good rapport with, contacts you asking if you can help them out with some cash, via online app / money transfer. Have been seeing her at least once a week for the past 5 months. Pretty happy with the acquaintanceship. She's never asked for something like this before. Maybe it's because it's cold out? Amount wasn't much. Low end of usual donation, probably enough to get a room, or something. Am I a sucker for even considering it? Fire away.
    DON'T DO IT!

    Sorry for yelling. I've done it before with two ladies I knew well. Here's what's going to happen. Oh, I done have enough to pay you back. Can we "work off" the money I owe you? Or, can I do 1/2 cash and 1/2 off what I owe you so I have money for <fill in the blank . So now you're spending more money to get your money back.

    I promise you, it's not going to end well for you.

  4. #5259

    Sugar Daddy Status

    Quote Originally Posted by BMax986  [View Original Post]
    How do you respond if a regular you have a good rapport with, contacts you asking if you can help them out with some cash, via online app / money transfer. Have been seeing her at least once a week for the past 5 months. Pretty happy with the acquaintanceship. She's never asked for something like this before. Maybe it's because it's cold out? Amount wasn't much. Low end of usual donation, probably enough to get a room, or something. Am I a sucker for even considering it? Fire away.
    If she wants that arrangement and you're okay with, let her know or she should let you know cause this will lead to it.

  5. #5258

    Don't consider it

    Don't be a blue pill guy with this. Get red pill thoughts. The person is not your responsibility or main squeeze. Why go to you over someone else? She already identified you as a guy who would.

    If you do, expect NOTHING additional in future. Good luck with whatever you decide.

    Quote Originally Posted by BMax986  [View Original Post]
    How do you respond if a regular you have a good rapport with, contacts you asking if you can help them out with some cash, via online app / money transfer. Have been seeing her at least once a week for the past 5 months. Pretty happy with the acquaintanceship. She's never asked for something like this before. Maybe it's because it's cold out? Amount wasn't much. Low end of usual donation, probably enough to get a room, or something. Am I a sucker for even considering it? Fire away.

  6. #5257

    Agreed

    Quote Originally Posted by BMoreDog69  [View Original Post]
    It can also depend on how you get the request. Many ladies get their email hacked and I have had a number of requests via email, because of this. These I obviously do not consider.

    I recommend that you always go in asking what your response would be if / when she drops off the radar and never pays you back. Always consider it a gift, and be happy if it comes back to you in some way. I know some ladies I have seen long term, and would assist, within reason. IMO, they've earned it over the years. If you can afford to lose the money, and are inclined, feel free. If you're going to be upset if she stiffs you, I would not do it.
    Don't do it if you have to ask "what if she doesn't pay it back" I do it with a friend / provider, she falls back into old habits and needs cash, 40 here 20 there, she will pay back with service sometimes, but never clears her tab. She's my friend, known her for yrs. And that 2 me is the problem, becoming friends, don't know why I do it, SMH.

    Monoxide.

  7. #5256

    RE: Advice

    It can also depend on how you get the request. Many ladies get their email hacked and I have had a number of requests via email, because of this. These I obviously do not consider.

    I recommend that you always go in asking what your response would be if / when she drops off the radar and never pays you back. Always consider it a gift, and be happy if it comes back to you in some way. I know some ladies I have seen long term, and would assist, within reason. IMO, they've earned it over the years. If you can afford to lose the money, and are inclined, feel free. If you're going to be upset if she stiffs you, I would not do it.

    Quote Originally Posted by MoonMonger  [View Original Post]
    No. Unless you don't expect to see your money or free service in the future. Stop being a white knight. These girls are not appreciative and live by the money from John to John. I had one that I've seen regularly for 6 years, asked me for an advanced donation so she can buy flowers for the graveside because it's her brother's (death) anniversary. Another I have seen regularly for 2 years asked an advance so she can pay her rent because her landlord is coming with the sheriff to evict her. Guess what? Both never answer my calls anymore. Live and learn. They are not your girl friend, they are not even your friend, don't treat them as such. They are there for a purpose, you pay, they give. That's that. Not cruel, not being a bad guy, just business.

  8. #5255

    Depends on the Individual

    Quote Originally Posted by BMax986  [View Original Post]
    How do you respond if a regular you have a good rapport with, contacts you asking if you can help them out with some cash, via online app / money transfer. Have been seeing her at least once a week for the past 5 months. Pretty happy with the acquaintanceship. She's never asked for something like this before. Maybe it's because it's cold out? Amount wasn't much. Low end of usual donation, probably enough to get a room, or something. Am I a sucker for even considering it? Fire away.
    It depends on the particular lady. They are not all cut out of the exact same mold. I have loaned small amounts 5 times over the last 25 years. 4 of the 5 paid me back one way or another--I didn't lose anything.

    The 5th--well, I do know her need was legitimate and not because of something she had done. We had had very good times together for almost 3 years and I didn't begruge her the money.

  9. #5254
    Senior Member


    Posts: 1566
    Quote Originally Posted by BMax986  [View Original Post]
    How do you respond if a regular you have a good rapport with, contacts you asking if you can help them out with some cash, via online app / money transfer. Have been seeing her at least once a week for the past 5 months. Pretty happy with the acquaintanceship. She's never asked for something like this before. Maybe it's because it's cold out? Amount wasn't much. Low end of usual donation, probably enough to get a room, or something. Am I a sucker for even considering it? Fire away.
    Read some of the comments, it goes both ways. I have done that before, it's about a 50/50 shot she will not disappear. I have one that I saw several times, she was hot, great rates and always a fabulous time, set her and some friends up for a bachelor party I was hosting, a free session during the bachelor party was included for me. I was out of town, actually in your next of the woods on my way to DC, she called with a sob story, so I helped her out. After that it was excuse after excuse so I just gave up.

    Had another one I had seen several times also ask for the same thing, same kinda girl, hot and we always have a great time. I almost told her no but based on her attitude and service, my stupid ass gave in and gave her some money. She's often out of town, I knew that, she actually visits there often. This one, however, texted me every week, letting me know she had not forgotten. She texted last week saying she was back in town and needed to come take care for me for what I did for her. I was busy and couldn't see her, she said she was back out of town the next day but would be back soon. She texted me yesterday afternoon letting me know she was going to be home today, she's coming over in a couple of hours.

    One thing I have noticed which makes it worth it is that if she doe not disappear, I always get service that was a lot better than before the loan. Just a thought.

  10. #5253

    Advice

    Quote Originally Posted by MoonMonger  [View Original Post]
    No. Unless you don't expect to see your money or free service in the future. Stop being a white knight. These girls are not appreciative and live by the money from John to John. I had one that I've seen regularly for 6 years, asked me for an advanced donation so she can buy flowers for the graveside because it's her brother's (death) anniversary. Another I have seen regularly for 2 years asked an advance so she can pay her rent because her landlord is coming with the sheriff to evict her. Guess what? Both never answer my calls anymore. Live and learn. They are not your girl friend, they are not even your friend, don't treat them as such. They are there for a purpose, you pay, they give. That's that. Not cruel, not being a bad guy, just business.
    I totally agree with Moonmonger. These working girls / addicts are some of the most manipulative and selfish creatures on the planet earth. Don't get gamed. It's a business transaction.

  11. #5252

    Advise

    No. Unless you don't expect to see your money or free service in the future. Stop being a white knight. These girls are not appreciative and live by the money from John to John. I had one that I've seen regularly for 6 years, asked me for an advanced donation so she can buy flowers for the graveside because it's her brother's (death) anniversary. Another I have seen regularly for 2 years asked an advance so she can pay her rent because her landlord is coming with the sheriff to evict her. Guess what? Both never answer my calls anymore. Live and learn. They are not your girl friend, they are not even your friend, don't treat them as such. They are there for a purpose, you pay, they give. That's that. Not cruel, not being a bad guy, just business.

  12. #5251
    Quote Originally Posted by BMax986  [View Original Post]
    How do you respond if a regular you have a good rapport with, contacts you asking if you can help them out with some cash, via online app / money transfer. Have been seeing her at least once a week for the past 5 months. Pretty happy with the acquaintanceship. She's never asked for something like this before. Maybe it's because it's cold out? Amount wasn't much. Low end of usual donation, probably enough to get a room, or something. Am I a sucker for even considering it? Fire away.
    You could meet her face to face and find out if she's 'lying' through her body language, if you don't mind an IOU. Otherwise, yeah I'd bail.

    You got to be careful about seeing the same provider, as they can set you up for a sting op.

  13. #5250
    Quote Originally Posted by BMax986  [View Original Post]
    How do you respond if a regular you have a good rapport with, contacts you asking if you can help them out with some cash, via online app / money transfer. Have been seeing her at least once a week for the past 5 months. Pretty happy with the acquaintanceship. She's never asked for something like this before. Maybe it's because it's cold out? Amount wasn't much. Low end of usual donation, probably enough to get a room, or something. Am I a sucker for even considering it? Fire away.
    I did this only once before. The girl was amazing and always had a blast. Went over the time and would always go the extra mile. Truly a pleaser. The way to see if it is worth it in the future is keep a running sheet of how much you paid and get a discount for next time and use the money already paid as the gift. If she wants you to continue being a regular she will have no issue, if she does not then know your limitations and you now know hers.

  14. #5249

    Advice

    Quote Originally Posted by BMax986  [View Original Post]
    How do you respond if a regular you have a good rapport with, contacts you asking if you can help them out with some cash, via online app / money transfer. Have been seeing her at least once a week for the past 5 months. Pretty happy with the acquaintanceship. She's never asked for something like this before. Maybe it's because it's cold out? Amount wasn't much. Low end of usual donation, probably enough to get a room, or something. Am I a sucker for even considering it? Fire away.
    The amount doesn't matter. You say you have a good rapport with her. Would you ask her for services without paying her for those services? Ignore her request for money and see how she reacts when you try to schedule for another paid session. Don't start something you may want to stop in the future. She will prolly keep asking if she sees that you are generous.lol

  15. #5248

    Opinions or advice?

    How do you respond if a regular you have a good rapport with, contacts you asking if you can help them out with some cash, via online app / money transfer. Have been seeing her at least once a week for the past 5 months. Pretty happy with the acquaintanceship. She's never asked for something like this before. Maybe it's because it's cold out? Amount wasn't much. Low end of usual donation, probably enough to get a room, or something. Am I a sucker for even considering it? Fire away.

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