NoVA SugarBabies

**Geeker** · 11-12-19 17:57

Originally Posted by JonFisher [View Original Post]

I haven't met her. But she was asking 400 and wanted money upfront. Another member here had a bad experience I think. So just be cautious and careful.

Thanks to reading this forum I avoided this scam. I tend to fall for these scams. I wouldn't mind paying 150 tip for amazing service, but getting scammed for that amount leaved me bitter. We are doing the SA community a service by ensuring funds go to SBs that work hard and deserve them rather than scamsters.

**Mike77** · 11-12-19 12:04

Originally Posted by Sswede [View Original Post]

The more I read about Sugar Babies the more I get the impression most of them are just providers being choosy. LOL. Charging a flat rate to meet for coffee or a drink, and in many cases moderate escort pricing seems to be the rule if things go further. Seems like nice work if you can get it. . Why would any guy submit to this voluntarily?

If you're willing to put in the work, you can find real gems. I've had 2 awesome "arrangements" and several other great ones. I think it takes a bit of luck and timing but this two weren't looking for any money, but we're genuinely attracted to certain types of older guys and I just happened to fit their bill. These types tend to be super picky, and many of them don't even bother responding if you're not exactly what they are looking for, and there is never any discussion of money. They were wined and dined int the beginning, which could cost more that the gift / allowance that they ask for, but then cost nothing or little after that. I had a 1. 5 year arrangement where it cost me nothing but ordering Chinese or pizza from time to time while we "hung" out at her place for hours once a week. Unicorns can be found, they're just a lot of work. There were many UTRs and broke college girls in between.

Also, these girls are generally cleaner than they typical escorts, and you can spend a lot more time with them for what you might pay an escort for. Most of them will spend hours or even overnight with you and you can get off as many times as you can during that time. Most of them are much more energetic since they aren't banging 10 guys a day and allow you to go in BB as well. Some also don't care about CIP if they are on the pill (some even if they aren't as they just take the morning after pill like they are Flintstones vitamins). You'd be hard pressed to find an escort that allows for any of this.

**BookerTNelson** · 11-12-19 11:35

Originally Posted by Sswede [View Original Post]

The more I read about Sugar Babies the more I get the impression most of them are just providers being choosy. LOL. Charging a flat rate to meet for coffee or a drink, and in many cases moderate escort pricing seems to be the rule if things go further. Seems like nice work if you can get it. . Why would any guy submit to this voluntarily?

Interesting way to look at it. At this point though, SA is just a meeting place for UTR's. Yes, I'm sure there are a few actual babies left but in general it's just low mileage UTRs that you have to catch when they're looking for new regulars. That's really it.

If I wanted an ACTUAL baby these days, I've gone back to the old school way of trying to find them when they aren't looking. I've found some amazing gems that way and while it takes some time, I like the chase.

**Pathfinder04** · 11-12-19 08:42

Originally Posted by DCGuy1234 [View Original Post]

Anyone have any luck with this one?

https://www.seeking.com/member/61874...5-cd10b91e7fc1

"I am educated young lady who prides herself with her appearance. '" You can just stop reading there. Scam 100%. Come on guys, we have big heads, let's use them.

**SamTam** · 11-12-19 08:31

Presently talking to this one, but have not seen her yet. Seems nice enough. Anyone have any intel?

https://www.seeking.com/member/cf359...c-742fcafc182f

**JonFisher** · 11-12-19 07:09

Originally Posted by Geeker [View Original Post]

Any Intel on this one? Pics are super.

I haven't met her. But she was asking 400 and wanted money upfront. Another member here had a bad experience I think. So just be cautious and careful.

**Dimples572** · 11-12-19 00:31

Originally Posted by Geeker [View Original Post]

Any Intel on this one? Pics are super.

Yes. Fuck that *****. I've reported her a half dozen times but she keeps creating new profiles. She completely gets you convinced she's real. Even sent me an Instagram account that's supposedly hers, pics are smoking hot. Showed she Works as a model for some agency. So we agreed on a price, had me drive all the way down to her hotel in DC to meet her. She had me go to the specific elevator that would give me access to the floor in her location of the hotel she was staying at. Tells me to wait there for her and she'll come down to meet me and take me up to the room. I get there and text her that I am near the elevator she wants me to wait for her at, she then proceeds to text me that she wants half the money upfront before she'll come down to meet me. I was like you got to be fucking kidding me. We text back-and-forth for like another 10 minutes. Try to convince her to at least come down and meet me first face-to-face before I send her any money. She wouldn't do it so I said fuck it and left. Just another ***** trying to scam somebody. Don't waste your time.

**DCGuy1234** · 11-11-19 18:27

Anyone have any luck with this one?

https://www.seeking.com/member/61874...5-cd10b91e7fc1

**DCowboy77** · 11-11-19 18:03

Hey fellas,

I'm a longtime sporadic SA user and have had my share of success on the site through the years. That being said, even after all this time I feel like I'm always reaching for the right approach in a first message and trying to improve my success rate. I send lots of messages with perhaps one response for every 10-12 sent. . Does it matter? I go from simple, Hi, how are you doing? . to messages a little more involved introducing myself and the fact that I'm seeking a fun sugarbaby relationship. What has worked for you? And what hasn't? . I know when I originally joined I was actually caring for a disabled parent and had that in profile, indicating I was too busy to date, which I was. Girls liked that and it was the truth. LOL. But I'd feel pretty shitty using that now that I'm no longer in that kind of situation. Do you use different approaches for college girls vs. MILF's?

**Dash** · 11-11-19 14:22

Originally Posted by Sswede [View Original Post]

The more I read about Sugar Babies the more I get the impression most of them are just providers being choosy. LOL. Charging a flat rate to meet for coffee or a drink, and in many cases moderate escort pricing seems to be the rule if things go further. Seems like nice work if you can get it. . Why would any guy submit to this voluntarily?

I'm lurking, but I had a "baby" in S. Florida; she was a coworker of a female I knew and had never been an "escort" and never signed up for Seeking Arrangement; she was just a girl interested in dating a guy who had some money for a change. She had never dated a guy with two nickels to rub together before she met me.

I think the reason a guy would use Seeking Arrangement is that the girls are likely "low mileage". If a real "escort" is a good deal for you, that's fine; but she likely spends most of her time banging random dudes.

A sugar baby would presumably have less free time for screwing other guys because she has a job or is a student or is a broke MILF.

I paid less for my "baby encounters" than a S. Florida escort but not by much; I gave her a Benjamin each time we hooked up and she was very pleased with the dough.

I'm going to sign up for Seeking Arrangement soon because I live in a college town and there may be some greedy young things interested in the work.

**Sswede** · 11-11-19 14:08

The more I read about Sugar Babies the more I get the impression most of them are just providers being choosy. LOL. Charging a flat rate to meet for coffee or a drink, and in many cases moderate escort pricing seems to be the rule if things go further. Seems like nice work if you can get it. . Why would any guy submit to this voluntarily?

**Geeker** · 11-11-19 12:50

After running out of my luck with young ones, I tried Kolina79 and wasn't disappointed FWIW. I will repeat but not so soon. Safe service, warm and cozy. She's a keeper.

**Geeker** · 11-11-19 12:46

Any Intel on this one? Pics are super.

**WillOckham** · 11-11-19 11:43

I have noticed several woman ask pretty high prices for the initial meeting. For example, https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...mLdXdAGPLe7j6K wants $450, which I declined.

Is she advertising FS on the first date, still expensive at $450, or is she just have an overinflated sense of worth?

That price is crazy!

Has anyone else noticed this pattern?

**BoMcC** · 11-10-19 21:05

https://www.seeking.com/member/b814c...d-3b6576e483cd

Hit me up with a photo request. I asked her what she was looking for. She mentioned FWB. So I asked her if she had an allowance number in mind. Her reply:

"Well the other guys on here are offering about $500 a week".

I suggested she take them up on that offer.