Non Pro's

[GangBangLeader]

I spent a month with a paid membership to AFF a year or so ago. It was an absolute complete waste of time filled more with bots than with humans. Couldn't even get anyone to answer messages, but always had my inbox full. Complete garbage of a site. Stay far, far away, even if money isn't an issue. It will just suck your time without anyone ever sucking you.

I just use Fetlife. It is free.

[RockChalk]

Anyone ever try adultfriendfinder? Curious if I should check it out.

I spent a month with a paid membership to AFF a year or so ago. It was an absolute complete waste of time filled more with bots than with humans. Couldn't even get anyone to answer messages, but always had my inbox full. Complete garbage of a site. Stay far, far away, even if money isn't an issue. It will just suck your time without anyone ever sucking you.

[Michael1967]

Anyone ever try adultfriendfinder? Curious if I should check it out.

Fat, ugly, women looking for hot guys with huge dicks. You'd have better luck (meaning none) as a single guy at a swinger's club.

[JSnake921]

Anyone ever try adultfriendfinder? Curious if I should check it out.

[JSnake921]

In my experience on SA, only about 10% require a condom. Based on meeting about 50 over a five year period. So, I don't worry too much about it. There are some general signs: women who are connected with the sex industry at all. As escorts or even connected to BDSM world or models more often require a cover. Or often foreigners are more concerned about STDs, etc.

You can also just ask in a respectful way. I prefer to cover allowance, schedule and logistics restrictions and try to get a feel for their general attitude about sex before we even have a coffee. Just ask what they're into. That is easily followed up by asking what they don't like, any restrictions or hard "no" areas. I mean we're all adults. If they don't want something, fine with me. It's like the allowance; they can want as much as they want, I don't care. If I can't afford it, better to learn and move on.

Totally agree on the approach. I am pretty straight forward. Most of these girls know what is up. I ask all fellow mongers not to indulge in the "platonic" relationships for money. Seriously kills the real purpose of SA, SB and the like. Let's get sugaring back to the traditional sense. A more civilized form of mongering.

[Joseph1955]

I get that. But my question is more about, How do you put that in words?. I end up with - "not now, next time". It has been quite smooth with 30+. But, I am interested in the young ones.

Can you guys recommend young ones (21-28) who are open to these?

In my experience on SA, only about 10% require a condom. Based on meeting about 50 over a five year period. So, I don't worry too much about it. There are some general signs: women who are connected with the sex industry at all. As escorts or even connected to BDSM world or models more often require a cover. Or often foreigners are more concerned about STDs, etc.

You can also just ask in a respectful way. I prefer to cover allowance, schedule and logistics restrictions and try to get a feel for their general attitude about sex before we even have a coffee. Just ask what they're into. That is easily followed up by asking what they don't like, any restrictions or hard "no" areas. I mean we're all adults. If they don't want something, fine with me. It's like the allowance; they can want as much as they want, I don't care. If I can't afford it, better to learn and move on.

[Michael1967]

I've seen many references to, and apparently successful meet-ups through, Seeking Arrangement. But I don't think I've seen anything about its sister site, What's Your Price. I'm trying both but it seems as if the SA model is less expensive (no charge to send messages or arrange meetings?) for mongers than the WYP model (buying credits to open offers / messages). Any advice? Thanks.

I've used them both. For the most part, on SA you message the person, set up a date to meet where you can discuss allowances and logistics (some people just treat the ladies like escorts and ask for a price and menu beforehand). You either come to an agreement and fuck or you don't and move on to someone else. Every SA meeting that I've had with someone (except 2), I've gotten laid. With WYP, the women think that you're paying them money to buy them dinner and for them to look cute. I wasted enough money on WYP dates to realize that they are simply SA girls that won't fuck.

[RichardQ]

I've seen many references to, and apparently successful meet-ups through, Seeking Arrangement. But I don't think I've seen anything about its sister site, What's Your Price. I'm trying both but it seems as if the SA model is less expensive (no charge to send messages or arrange meetings?) for mongers than the WYP model (buying credits to open offers / messages). Any advice? Thanks.

I have had much better success on SA. Many of the girls on WYP are not really dtf. They are simply trying to collect 100 or 200 for a one time meeting. I met about 8 girls on WYP and only fucked one. At least on SA you can chat first and find out what the girls are looking for. On WYP, just because they list "discreet affair" doesn't mean they are really dtf. Also, I like Asians, and on WYP you can no longer search by race or ethnicity.

[Original703]

I've seen many references to, and apparently successful meet-ups through, Seeking Arrangement. But I don't think I've seen anything about its sister site, What's Your Price. I'm trying both but it seems as if the SA model is less expensive (no charge to send messages or arrange meetings?) for mongers than the WYP model (buying credits to open offers / messages). Any advice? Thanks.

[NewHere27]

Tell them you want BBFS. It is pretty easy.

I get that. But my question is more about, How do you put that in words?. I end up with - "not now, next time". It has been quite smooth with 30+. But, I am interested in the young ones.

Can you guys recommend young ones (21-28) who are open to these?

[Chingados]

https://www.tnaboard.com/member.php?427921-MadamNosidda

I believe Madamaddison425 is / was on TNA as well but I can't remember her handle.

https://www.seeking.com/member/69ad1...a-3943314025d7

[WhiteJohnson]

I am interested in meeting people less than age 28-30. It has always been difficult to ask them about BBFS. How do you approach on asking BBFS from the young ones? Would be great to know.

Tell them you want BBFS. It is pretty easy.

[Aegean45]

I negotiated prior.

They all took my load.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e59dc...d-9601a855a843

https://www.seeking.com/member/69ad1...a-3943314025d7

https://www.seeking.com/member/fa3ad...1-33160ee74867

https://www.seeking.com/member/dcc6a...f-af8d9b883591

https://www.seeking.com/member/1edf4...f-f2a4df7a5685

I believe Madamaddison425 is / was on TNA as well but I can't remember her handle.

https://www.seeking.com/member/69ad1...a-3943314025d7

[NewHere27]

I negotiated prior.

They all took my load.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e59dc...d-9601a855a843

https://www.seeking.com/member/69ad1...a-3943314025d7

https://www.seeking.com/member/fa3ad...1-33160ee74867

https://www.seeking.com/member/dcc6a...f-af8d9b883591

https://www.seeking.com/member/1edf4...f-f2a4df7a5685

I am interested in meeting people less than age 28-30. It has always been difficult to ask them about BBFS. How do you approach on asking BBFS from the young ones? Would be great to know.

[DrtyHarry]

I negotiated prior.

They all took my load.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e59dc...d-9601a855a843

https://www.seeking.com/member/69ad1...a-3943314025d7

https://www.seeking.com/member/fa3ad...1-33160ee74867

https://www.seeking.com/member/dcc6a...f-af8d9b883591

https://www.seeking.com/member/1edf4...f-f2a4df7a5685

The second from last (Kassandra Sweets) is Cassie Sweets on TNA. Did you get BBFS with her? I tried on TNA, had a great appointment, but did not get BBFS. Asked her, got turned down and did not push the isssue by offering more money. Maybe I should have. The rest on your list are more or less regulars on SA.

The first link SeattleSweetieXxx https://www.seeking.com/member/e59dc...d-9601a855a843.

Can you share some intel on her. She looks hot. Did you have to spend a fortune on her?