NoVA SugarBabies

[Mike77]

This is helpful information; I am lurking preparing to take the plunge in my California college town.

One little thing caught my eye: ". Really creepy and really old (55 and over)".

Do these females really know how guys under 55 get pussy? They get it the old fashioned way; dating and the girl hopes he may make a commitment to her.

Guys over 55 are the guys who have 1. Extra dough 2. Extra time to devote to this hobby.

I'm one of the over 55 guys and in S. Florida I was suggested a baby arrangement from a girl without going online; S. Florida is full of females hunting for guys who have dough and like girls.

Some rich guys are out there who actually don't care much about pussy. They tend to use their energy getting more money or have hobbies which may frustrate girls somewhat.

I think the Brad Pitts of the world aren't actually on Seeking Arrangement; guys who have dough, youth and looks don't look for pussy.

I completely agree with you. My comment wasn't to knock anyone, but just to give you a heads up on what I hear often. I'm a "good" looking 40-somethng that looks about 10 years younger than my age (at least for now) and most of the women are pleasantly surprised when they see my pictures. I do think it gives me a slight leg up on the competition, but it still doesn't really away the odds in my favor as I can't compete with guys that are willing to pay premium $$. If anything, it might be a slight disadvantage as some of the women on their try to"boyfriend" me after a few "dates" as I look closer in age and they don't mind being seen with me in public situations.

[Pathfinder04]

Has anyone met this one and any intel to share?

https://www.seeking.com/member/494f6...1-0d55fb88d3bd

[BookerTNelson]

Thank you for the contact info. I reached out and she wasn't too thrilled about a stranger hitting her up. I was able give a convincing reason and she immediately blasts me with nude photos. The photos she sent was more attractive than the ones on SA.

Long story short, she only has videos for sale and won't do a meet and greet. Let me know if anybody has broken thru the barrier without spending too much.

A little more game. Or she wasn't in the mood. I knew who she was from a friend but got her contact info from a member on here. Sent a message yesterday morning and was cumming back to back in her mouth before 4 pm (When her husband got home). She's into it but really does it for the rush, give her a little time and circle back with her.

[DWinthrop]

That describes my situation as well. Wish this Kevin Californicas guy offered some kind of personal coaching / training. Only time SA has worked reliably for me was then I travelled to rural areas where something could be had for $200-300. Here SB demand big $$ even for a Starbucks date. Kevin is the kind of mentor I need.

I shut that $$ for Starbucks shit down real quick, and make sure to tell them I think it's ridiculous to ask. IF I meet them in public I make it very clear it's a quick thing before we head to the FC. And I generally will pass on the girls who want to meet in public first, I try to only make an exception if she's 18 and it's her first time.

In general, meeting them in public is opening yourself up to disappointment. You should be able to screen out the fatties, these girls have facebook, instagram, vsco, etc.

I can't imagine actually sitting through lunch or dinner with one of these girls, there's your first big mistake right there... I have never done more then meet at a coffee shop, and only once did I stay for coffee (and I shouldn't have, she sucked.)

They need to understand you are just looking for sex, nothing else. If you open things up to dinner, lunch, dates, trips, and all that BS that seeking advertises it's about they see you as a just a mark. "Sugar dating" is not real, it's prostitution with fresher girls.

The way I see it "Sugar Dating" is just a way for these young upper middle class girls to justify sex work. They are hookers who don't want to admit it. I can't tell you how many times I have had an 18 or 19 year old high schoo / college student meet me directly at a hotel room for sex and still say something about how they're "not a hooker. " But hey, I am happy to indulge their fiction.

And when you have one on the line, make it happen. If you schedule them for next week you will lose them.

[Dash]

From my experience, it's purely a numbers game. Have a strategy and a $$ figure that you're willing to give and what you'd like in return. Some of these girls like the small talk, buy most prefer that you get right to business and tell them what you want and what you're willing to give. If you reach out to 50, about half of them will respond. Then after a little more back and forth, about half or maybe slightly less from there will move to texts and send additional pics, etc. Then about 1/4 of those will actually go through with a meeting. So, that's about 2 from reaching out to 50. LOL. Don't get too discouraged. There is a LOT of competition out there, especially for young, pretty white and Asian girls. If you're into black or Latinas, it seems like the success rate goes up exponentially.

It also helps if you're fairly young, or young looking and not hideous. I'm told from the women that I've met that most guys are pretty creepy and really old (55 and over).

This is helpful information; I am lurking preparing to take the plunge in my California college town.

One little thing caught my eye: ". Really creepy and really old (55 and over)".

Do these females really know how guys under 55 get pussy? They get it the old fashioned way; dating and the girl hopes he may make a commitment to her.

Guys over 55 are the guys who have 1. Extra dough 2. Extra time to devote to this hobby.

I'm one of the over 55 guys and in S. Florida I was suggested a baby arrangement from a girl without going online; S. Florida is full of females hunting for guys who have dough and like girls.

Some rich guys are out there who actually don't care much about pussy. They tend to use their energy getting more money or have hobbies which may frustrate girls somewhat.

I think the Brad Pitts of the world aren't actually on Seeking Arrangement; guys who have dough, youth and looks don't look for pussy.

[Mike77]

That describes my situation as well. Wish this Kevin Californicas guy offered some kind of personal coaching / training. Only time SA has worked reliably for me was then I travelled to rural areas where something could be had for $200-300. Here SB demand big $$ even for a Starbucks date. Kevin is the kind of mentor I need.

From my experience, it's purely a numbers game. Have a strategy and a $$ figure that you're willing to give and what you'd like in return. Some of these girls like the small talk, buy most prefer that you get right to business and tell them what you want and what you're willing to give. If you reach out to 50, about half of them will respond. Then after a little more back and forth, about half or maybe slightly less from there will move to texts and send additional pics, etc. Then about 1/4 of those will actually go through with a meeting. So, that's about 2 from reaching out to 50. LOL. Don't get too discouraged. There is a LOT of competition out there, especially for young, pretty white and Asian girls. If you're into black or Latinas, it seems like the success rate goes up exponentially.

It also helps if you're fairly young, or young looking and not hideous. I'm told from the women that I've met that most guys are pretty creepy and really old (55 and over).

[Geeker]

Its hit or miss & fro me had been mostly misses. I would say for every 10 messages I send I get a reply. Of those 10 reply's I'm "LUCKY" if I get a lunch or dinner date with one. I always meet in public first makes sure I'm the guy she is excepting & more so she was who I was expecting. Meeting for the first time in other than public can be well sadly embarrassing. I met one SB who advertised as 90 lbs was like 190 & I'm being generous.

That describes my situation as well. Wish this Kevin Californicas guy offered some kind of personal coaching / training. Only time SA has worked reliably for me was then I travelled to rural areas where something could be had for $200-300. Here SB demand big $$ even for a Starbucks date. Kevin is the kind of mentor I need.

[Sexingit]

Anyone ever have any experience with her? Messaged me immediately saying she wanted to give me the best BJ of my life and to cum in her mouth. She was very pushy about me coming over right away. Her asking price was very high too. I got a weird vibe so I passed. I got a phone number which linked to a real person and Facebook etc. Any information appreciated.

https://www.seeking.com/member/79b66...c-196bf3007ad1

Thank you for the contact info. I reached out and she wasn't too thrilled about a stranger hitting her up. I was able give a convincing reason and she immediately blasts me with nude photos. The photos she sent was more attractive than the ones on SA.

Long story short, she only has videos for sale and won't do a meet and greet. Let me know if anybody has broken thru the barrier without spending too much.

[Sexingit]

This chick is a true nympho. She's active in the "swinging" lifestyle and I've seen her take on 50+ dudes in a single night. It's funny seeing her on SA but you can definitely catch her regularly on doublelist (and craigslist) before this organizing gangbangs, etc.

Do you have any contact info for her? It would be much appreciated!

Thanks.

[BookerTNelson]

Met her on doublelist but had the exact same experience. Funny thing is we had agreed on an amount and then she tried to ask for 100 more while I was driving over. I said I didn't have the cash and she continued to press but when I got there, it didn't matter, she met me at the door naked and gave me the best BJ and swallow I've ever had. Plus she had me video it for her which was even hotter.

Https://www.seeking.com/member/79b66256-ba52-7517-637c-196bf3007ad1

This chick is a true nympho. She's active in the "swinging" lifestyle and I've seen her take on 50+ dudes in a single night. It's funny seeing her on SA but you can definitely catch her regularly on doublelist (and craigslist) before this organizing gangbangs, etc.

[WillyHost]

I feel like every girl I chat with is down to meet, and asks what I want. I'm not to direct or vulgar, but mention I can host and want to have fun, to move things along wo saying, I'll pay you $200 to fuck. Either way it seems like the convo just stops without blocking or her asking for money or whatever. Do they think I'm not a good "mark" based on my lack of, where can I send you money, response? Are these ads fake? Do these girls have no idea what they want? Or am I missing some secret code language I am not aware of?

Any intel?

Mackenzie_1997.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...9-0dd153871f48

Franbair9777.

https://www.seeking.com/member/16a36...b-4f61999e93df

Gracie906.

https://www.seeking.com/member/fabef...1-fe8c2179ef3e

Novacat.

https://www.seeking.com/member/14fa6...d-2f7f5c3d5736

Dcgalz.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b2a3f...7-47b3cc74c417

Its hit or miss & fro me had been mostly misses. I would say for every 10 messages I send I get a reply. Of those 10 reply's I'm "LUCKY" if I get a lunch or dinner date with one. I always meet in public first makes sure I'm the guy she is excepting & more so she was who I was expecting. Meeting for the first time in other than public can be well sadly embarrassing. I met one SB who advertised as 90 lbs was like 190 & I'm being generous.

[Jim Rob]

Vag is fine (although she has hair,) nipples are a little weird. She's definately f* in the head though. I just use her when I want to beat on something young and completely submissive. Definitely a screwed up girl, you could probably talk her into a snuff film LOL. I have rawdogged and didn't catch anything.

I tried having her ride me, she couldn't put it in for nothing. She was so clueless I asked her if she was a virgin. Plus once I figured out how to get inside her, I didn't want it anymore. I felt sorry for her. I wouldn't do her for free.

[DWinthrop]

I couldn't get inside her for nothing. I don't know but her vag is weird. I honestly didn't want to fuck her. Something is wrong with her. She has no nipples either.

Vag is fine (although she has hair,) nipples are a little weird. She's definately f* in the head though. I just use her when I want to beat on something young and completely submissive. Definitely a screwed up girl, you could probably talk her into a snuff film LOL. I have rawdogged and didn't catch anything.

[PowerMango]

I couldn't get inside her for nothing. I don't know but her vag is weird. I honestly didn't want to fuck her. Something is wrong with her. She has no nipples either.

That is weird, wow. Did you meet her on seeking or somewhere else?

[Pathfinder04]

I got a weird vibe too. And it was pouring down rain. But I went and as promised she answered the door naked. Totally naked. Dropped my pants and she started sucking. It was the best blowjob I ever had and as promised she swallowed every drop. She is amazing. If she's really turned on, you can talk her down a lot on the damage. Worth it.

Met her on doublelist but had the exact same experience. Funny thing is we had agreed on an amount and then she tried to ask for 100 more while I was driving over. I said I didn't have the cash and she continued to press but when I got there, it didn't matter, she met me at the door naked and gave me the best BJ and swallow I've ever had. Plus she had me video it for her which was even hotter.

Https://www.seeking.com/member/79b66256-ba52-7517-637c-196bf3007ad1