"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**BoJackSugarman** · 09-24-19 10:53

I used to think like that too and it's a logical train of thought. First a couple of questions, have you hit it yet? If so please elaborate on the experience in detail. If not, then you haven't proven your point yet. Second, many members have declined the platonic invite and then been reported to SA by these girls for soliciting (they are usually the sensitive type,) and had their membership deleted.

I play the odds on these things. My guess is a platonic girl conversion rate is prob going to be 10% or less w so much hassle. If you are having a different experience then please share about it in detail so we can all benefit from what you have learned. IMHO, SA would be better for all of us if we just blocked all of the platonic, online and advanced payment girls so they get the message that this isn't the place for that nonsense. This would leave the girls that we all like who get how an arrangement works rather than trying to get money for nothing.

If you have found a new avenue to access these platonic girls, please share in detail your experience. School will be in session and I will be your first student. Ex: how many dates to get past platonic, did you get to FS? , allowance etc and how long did the arrangement last. I'm asking bc I have tried this numerous times and it's always beem annoying waste for me. In the meantime, I could snag 3-5 straight up SA girls with so much less effort and hassle.

Just my two cents.

Bojack.

Originally Posted by Hal1957 [View Original Post]

I had one who wanted money for platonic meets. I declined with a polite "we have different goals. " A couple of weeks later she contacted me and asked if I was still interested. I told her my goals haven't changed, intimacy must be part of the arrangement. She said ok, let's give this a try and see where it goes. Lesson: Be nice. Sometimes they come back. Also, as mentioned on many of these boards, these girls talk with each other. A polite "no thanks" will get you better mileage with the next girl if she checks on you.

**Bross** · 09-24-19 10:45

Originally Posted by BoJackSugarman [View Original Post]

Bro that's a hard pass. She has a nice body but she has crazy prices listed on Eros like 500+ which is laughable for her looks and messed up haircut. Can do so much better on SA w a college hottie.

No doubt! Just putting the pieces together to save folks time!

**BoJackSugarman** · 09-24-19 10:34

Bro that's a hard pass. She has a nice body but she has crazy prices listed on Eros like 500+ which is laughable for her looks and messed up haircut. Can do so much better on SA w a college hottie.

Originally Posted by Bross [View Original Post]

This one is an Eros pro, aka Ava Raleigh (or is someone using her pics). Sounds like her tho.

https://www.seeking.com/member/46232...b-09ab92a20f03

https://www.eros.com/georgia/atlanta...8170.htm?cat=1

**Bross** · 09-24-19 10:19

Fellas,

Messaged this one in my daily carpet bombing of SA and got this response:

"So if you're cool with not having vaginal or anal sex then we can probably work something out.

Completely understand if it's a dealbreaker".

Trans or naw? Not hating or whatever but as Tone Loc said, "Aint got no plans wit a man".

https://www.seeking.com/member/d7bf4...7-62e6703b96a9

**NewAnonymousName** · 09-24-19 09:17

I have a couple regulars and would like to take a break from Seeking for a couple of months. I know messages disappear after 180 days even if you're still a paid member. But what about new messages if you go to a free membership for a few months? If I let my paid membership lapse at the end of the month, will my more recent message strings still be around when I start paying again in December or so?

**Bross** · 09-24-19 09:15

This one is an Eros pro, aka Ava Raleigh (or is someone using her pics). Sounds like her tho.

https://www.seeking.com/member/46232...b-09ab92a20f03

https://www.eros.com/georgia/atlanta...8170.htm?cat=1

**DudeNextDoor** · 09-23-19 23:01

See my experience I had recently with her here: http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...quot&p=4442716#post4442716.

Also, your second link is to your messages.

Originally Posted by MickyRocky [View Original Post]

I am in touch with below profiles, any inputs would be appreciated.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f220c...5-27d9a09ec889

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...7-712085941b0b

https://www.seeking.com/member/bed53...b-dc34f6c796bd

https://www.seeking.com/member/e5e84...9-93730089730b

**Hal1957** · 09-23-19 18:43

I had one who wanted money for platonic meets. I declined with a polite "we have different goals. " A couple of weeks later she contacted me and asked if I was still interested. I told her my goals haven't changed, intimacy must be part of the arrangement. She said ok, let's give this a try and see where it goes. Lesson: Be nice. Sometimes they come back. Also, as mentioned on many of these boards, these girls talk with each other. A polite "no thanks" will get you better mileage with the next girl if she checks on you.

Originally Posted by BoJackSugarman [View Original Post]

Yep, agree with Ripper. We. Need to have a hard No on paying for pics, vids etc as well. I never have and never will pay for pics they do nothing for me. However someone is bc I am approached by girls almost daily asking for that nonsense. It's always the same story "Well my friend / rommate found a guy willing to pay for pics / vids. . . . ".

We must nip this in the bud. $ only for FS and nothing else.

I have started a policy of blocking all these type girls. Which I know has an effect. In the world of social media, it does sting a little to them when a guy blocks them since the block is permanent on SA now. I bet if we all did it for just a month or so we could end this nonsense.

Never forget the golden rule: The one with the gold makes the rules.

**MickyRocky** · 09-23-19 12:48

Thanks Fellas. I read the old reviews and it seems her head game is not good which is a must for me. I will pass.

Originally Posted by StewPitt [View Original Post]

I saw her last year, she's heavier than her pics. I overpaid, I paid 300. She's got 2 small dogs that will be jumping all over the place. She's got a big ass and can take a pounding. Don't pay more than 200. Also she give's lousy head.

**BoJackSugarman** · 09-23-19 11:42

Yep, agree with Ripper. We. Need to have a hard No on paying for pics, vids etc as well. I never have and never will pay for pics they do nothing for me. However someone is bc I am approached by girls almost daily asking for that nonsense. It's always the same story "Well my friend / rommate found a guy willing to pay for pics / vids. . . . ".

We must nip this in the bud. $ only for FS and nothing else.

I have started a policy of blocking all these type girls. Which I know has an effect. In the world of social media, it does sting a little to them when a guy blocks them since the block is permanent on SA now. I bet if we all did it for just a month or so we could end this nonsense.

Never forget the golden rule: The one with the gold makes the rules.

Originally Posted by Ripvan12 [View Original Post]

I have never advanced anyone. Just screams scam or cash and dash. Was chatting with a chick on SA the other day that swore we would meet eventually but wanted to start off sending pics / vids. No siree Bobby. Not going to happen. Found a couple of gems this time around on the site, the shift toward platonic only is growing for sure. Ripper.

**Ripvan12** · 09-23-19 11:06

Originally Posted by BoJackSugarman [View Original Post]

I agree completely. Gentleman, we must be together on this one point. Never ever give a girl money upfront. If even one of us does, it leads another 100 chicks to try to get one resulting in so much time wasting. My policy is of they mention any type of advance I block them immediately. If we all start doing that they will get the message.

And BTW, I have been dumb enough to do it in the past and 100% of the time it was a scam, so for you newbies as tempting as it may be just don't do it.

Ok this ends your public service announcement LOL.

I have never advanced anyone. Just screams scam or cash and dash. Was chatting with a chick on SA the other day that swore we would meet eventually but wanted to start off sending pics / vids. No siree Bobby. Not going to happen. Found a couple of gems this time around on the site, the shift toward platonic only is growing for sure. Ripper.

**JimStokes** · 09-22-19 23:00

Originally Posted by MickyRocky [View Original Post]

Fellas,

Planning to meet her, any intel on her would be appreciated.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f12fb...c-9f79d84f10ac

Thanks.

Mick.

She has been reviewed on here before. Recall the face but not sure if the SA name is the same. Its worth a search (not being a smart ass, just recognized the pic and remember reading review (s) on her).

**StewPitt** · 09-22-19 20:16

Originally Posted by MickyRocky [View Original Post]

Fellas,

Planning to meet her, any intel on her would be appreciated.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f12fb...c-9f79d84f10ac

Thanks.

Mick.

I saw her last year, she's heavier than her pics. I overpaid, I paid 300. She's got 2 small dogs that will be jumping all over the place. She's got a big ass and can take a pounding. Don't pay more than 200. Also she give's lousy head.

**MickyRocky** · 09-22-19 18:44

Fellas,

Planning to meet her, any intel on her would be appreciated.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f12fb...c-9f79d84f10ac

Thanks.

Mick.

**CagerCoach** · 09-22-19 13:11

I agree 100%. I made that mistake one time and one time only. I'm not paying a girl to have dinner with me or grab a drink. Also, what is it with these girls wanting an online arrangement. Come on guys! Please don't pay these girls money for pictures and videos. Try Pornhub! This girl, although really cute, responded immediately and asked what I wanted and I told her. She said all of that was fine with her but she only wanted a traditional SB / SD arrangement. She would rather talk on the phone, Facetime and send pics and videos but doesn't want to meet anyone in person. I hope none of you guys humor her with sending her money. I told her if she changes her mind, HMU.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/app/p...ef4392e558650d