Seeking Arrangements

[Spike77]

Not sure if it is the same girl in the pic. The girl that showed up was really thin. Not for me but others may enjoy. Damage was 300.

https://www.seeking.com/member/13038...1-b7e6bfdda8ce

[Spike77]

There seems to be an epidemic of young women who want to date you, take things slow, need to build up to having sex with you if the chemistry is right.

They have no interest in having sex with you. Ever. They just try to string you along to milk whatever dollar they can out of you until you finally figure it out. Lot's of people fall for it. Don't pay unless you know you are getting the goods. That is SA 101.

[OkWhatever]

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[Joe1223]

There seems to be an epidemic of young women who want to date you, take things slow, need to build up to having sex with you if the chemistry is right.

Which I have no issue with at all as they are real young women who are sugar babies. It is great that they are on there but when talking with them.

They think they should be paid for spending time with you on real dates and doing things together that you are footing the bill for. Hoping that down the line.

They will "feel it" and be comfortable enough with you to have sex.

I have talked with more than enough of these young women in the last few days. When talking and explaining that when there is a "full" arrangement then I would be more than.

Happy to have an agreement, until then I enjoy spending time together on dates and doing things together. They do not agree that a sugar arrangement should include sex happening.

Had one even say I was treating her like a prostitute. LOL.

I have treated them all with respect, was nice to them, and wished them good luck in finding what they were looking for.

Have no idea where or why they are thinking a guy will be happy paying them to have blue balls or the honor of taking them out, paying for everything.

Getting frustrated!

It is hit or miss on SA and similar sites. Some guys are overpaying the girls so they assume everyone will. Basically you need to determine what you want from them and what your willing to pay. I personally set a range that I'm willing to pay and do not go above it. My range depends on the quality of the girl and what she is open to. At $300 I almost never repeat as it's not sustainable for me long term and eventually I'm ready for a change anyway. As far as what I am looking for, I'm upfront with them and tell them it's PPM for sex. If they freak or seem insulted them I cross them off the list. Why waste my time when I'm basically looking for a " prostitute" anyway. If you are looking to wine, dine and date then maybe tinder or some real dating app is a better fit.

You need to be able to say no to the girl and set your price and stick to it. If the girl is insulted by you asking for sex then you probably are getting nothing anyway so move on. I had a smoking hot girl ask for 400 so I asked if she was open to a counteroffer and never heard back. So I just crossed her off the list. If she hmu later which she will eventually then I get my shot otherwise I search for the next one. Eventually you find someone that you can work with.

[PaulRew]

So I started reading some other states threads on SA. I can safely say that GPS / PPS exists across this great land but seems more prevalent in the Major cities. On a personal note, I kill it with Providence girls and not so much with Boston girls. Anyway, stumbled across this profile and I think you all will be hard pressed to top her in terms of delusional thinking / pps (is there something above pps?) etc.

https://www.seeking.com/member/92621...5-db74d1d04893

[JohnTies]

There seems to be an epidemic of young women who want to date you, take things slow, need to build up to having sex with you if the chemistry is right.

Which I have no issue with at all as they are real young women who are sugar babies. It is great that they are on there but when talking with them.

They think they should be paid for spending time with you on real dates and doing things together that you are footing the bill for. Hoping that down the line.

They will "feel it" and be comfortable enough with you to have sex.

I have talked with more than enough of these young women in the last few days. When talking and explaining that when there is a "full" arrangement then I would be more than.

Happy to have an agreement, until then I enjoy spending time together on dates and doing things together. They do not agree that a sugar arrangement should include sex happening.

Had one even say I was treating her like a prostitute. LOL.

I have treated them all with respect, was nice to them, and wished them good luck in finding what they were looking for.

Have no idea where or why they are thinking a guy will be happy paying them to have blue balls or the honor of taking them out, paying for everything.

Getting frustrated!

[Aardvarks]

I chatted with this one. We negotiated through text back and forth for 200 an hour. She was cool with doing BBFS too. We had a meet up time set. Then she hits with this text.

"I don't suck dick with anyone the first time so if that's a dealbreaker say it now".

"really? Why not?

"because I'm not putting my mouth on some guys dick I don't know it's disgusting. ".

Thank you next.

As a colleague of mine used to say "Now THAT is funny". But SA is a gene pool and there is a little bit of everything. I had a lesbian contact me saying she needed some D and oh my when we went to text the stuff she wanted to do. Offered up anal because she prefers it. Then we met for a drink and she said no sex I want to just be friends. I don't need a friend LOL. Paid for the drinks and parted ways.

[Joe Kickass]

I chatted with this one. We negotiated through text back and forth for 200 an hour. She was cool with doing BBFS too. We had a meet up time set. Then she hits with this text.

"I don't suck dick with anyone the first time so if that's a dealbreaker say it now".

"really? Why not?

"because I'm not putting my mouth on some guys dick I don't know it's disgusting. ".

Thank you next.

Really? Your pics start with you looking hot and then you get fatter in each one.

https://www.seeking.com/member/36ff6...2-f77196c14925

Not trying to be an ass but.

[Aardvarks]

Really? Your pics start with you looking hot and then you get fatter in each one.

https://www.seeking.com/member/36ff6...2-f77196c14925

Not trying to be an ass but.

[Aardvarks]

This one started a few days ago in Boston, she favorited me so I returned the gesture. Since then she has changed her location (state and city) on a daily basis.

Just letting you guys know in case she pops back up in Boston.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f6038...4-f6cc2fffc89d

* I was thinking of reporting her but I am now convinced that in most cases SA does nothing in terms of deleting female profiles unless there is overwhelming proof she is a BT type hoe.

Careful on reporting. Last time I did that I got banned too. I went back and forth with SA support and they were just being dicks. Now I just block the scammers and move on. Plenty of fishies in the SA sea LOL.

[PaulRew]

This one started a few days ago in Boston, she favorited me so I returned the gesture. Since then she has changed her location (state and city) on a daily basis.

Just letting you guys know in case she pops back up in Boston.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f6038...4-f6cc2fffc89d

* I was thinking of reporting her but I am now convinced that in most cases SA does nothing in terms of deleting female profiles unless there is overwhelming proof she is a BT type hoe.

[Finder117]

That's Kim / Nicole. To the best of my knowledge she is not an addict. I have seen her many times. I've never done FS with her bareback or otherwise (That's my choice as she's made it clear that it's available) as I prefer the BJ. She's recently stopped returning my texts so I'm wondering if she changed her number or retired from the biz. If anyone has any info and / or current contact number please let me know. I would definitely see her again.

+1 on every piece of this, even the not responding to texts since about March or so.

[Boston234]

Have paid with a Onevanilla card previous two times without issue. Now they will not take it.

Did something change? Anyone else use a non reloadeable Onevanilla card without issue?

Does anyone actually pay with their own card and real name?

Thanks boys.

I use a google burner phone with a fake google account.

I buy a google play card with cash and then load it into the account.

I then pay for the membership in the Android SA app.

A little workaround, but you stay anonymous.

[Spike77]

I'm trying to jump into SA again. I made an account a long time ago and didn't have much success. Basically I"ve had two dinners and no action. There's a lot of potential so I'm trying again.

My original account is narrowly targeted for a particular body type and style. I also want to go after a different subset of girls and had a thought of creating a second, alternate account for that. The search results seem far more limited on the new account versus the old, though. It barely returns anything. Is this because the old account had a paid subscription in the past which unlocked the search results? Is there another reason?

You can change your filter anytime you want. No need to create a whole other profile.

[JohnTies]

Have paid with a Onevanilla card previous two times without issue. Now they will not take it.

Did something change? Anyone else use a non reloadeable Onevanilla card without issue?

Does anyone actually pay with their own card and real name?

Thanks boys.