Space Cadets

**ScreenName1** · 08-10-19 00:23

Been reading all of your reviews for a couple months now, and all I can say is huge thanks to you all! I've been considering reaching out to a couple ladies mentioned in these forums but just haven't taken the leap yet because of a combination of being a fucking paranoid and borderline Aspie who manages to also be a chronically horny undersexed bastard who is regularly prone to moments of overt assholeism. And I'm probably also a bit shallow and picky while aiming way beyond my league. So enough bragging about myself, I have finally reached the point where I no longer feel I am above donating for the privilege of spending time with a beautiful woman. I research the absolute shit out of every goddamn thing and the past couple months while perusing locals on various sites has been no exception. I think I can mostly weed out the obvious ads that look like they were posted by my Uncle LEO, my Cousin Coffin, or my Nephews Jack and Rob. It's all subjective, but I just have NO interest in the fatties, the trannies, the chemically dependent, the blacks, the middle-aged, or the just plain beastly so the Sunnys / Rubys / Brookes are going to be insta-NO. I keep going back to Rachel / Jada's ads as she really ticks all of my boxes and has a couple good reviews but she seems to have dropped off the map. Rowdy ranks up there too in the looks / body but not a lot of reviews, and Breezy is a possible. Any recommendations or other I might not know about? Am I going to have problems with no references? I know as my first post I'm likely shit out of luck on getting serious responses, but what did I have to lose?

**JayJayTwo** · 07-23-19 09:38

Originally Posted by TruePair [View Original Post]

Happened to me today!! So I just went with the quick BBBJ. So she lost out on a higher donation. But I'm sure most will let you raw dog it if you want!!

Like I said in my original post, the first girl gave me sufficient notice and I made a pit stop along the way, no harm, no foul. The second girl didn't tell me until after I'm in the parking lot of the motel, and that was after we'd been texting for an hour or more. That's the one that annoyed me. As to going BB all the way, first, she specifically says to me "you have to get a cover". Second, and I know there's a split of opinion on this one, but I am not a fan of going BB with a provider, way too much risk, especially with an SO at home. That's hugely why I drove off and never met the second one. I'll probably give her a second try down the road. If I do, I'll either ask her well in advance or just bring a cover.

Originally Posted by Jersey8265 [View Original Post]

Most will supply them but they could run out, a legit reason. But you're basically stuck with 3 options. Always bring your own so you know you have them. Or be ready to go bareback. Third is just get head.

I've been in the hobby for somewhere around 6 or 7 years and I can say this has happened to me maybe 5 times. Can a girl run out? Sure, I get that. My best guess is that's what happened with the first girl. The second one, it just seemed like her way of forcing the guy to provide the cover. While it ain't a huge savings for her, it adds up over time and she certainly strikes me as one of those that's living on the fringe, moving around from one cheap hotel to another. To me, if you're the service provider, you should provide everything necessary to that service. In this case, covers. Besides, aren't they for her protection too? Doesn't she want to ensure they're covers she likes? I understand your "3 options", but they're a bit tricky for me personally. As to bringing my own, with an SO, I can't be carrying them around so I've got to specifically stop along the way. Plus, the smallest boxes usually hold 3 covers and I'll admit, I ain't using 3 covers in one session! As to going bareback, nope, not risking that one! As to just getting head, I've actually done that a few times but, like most, I prefer FS over just the BJ.

Bottom line for me is, if you're truly a "quality provider", I think providing the cover is a prerequisite. Just one guys opinion!

**Jersey8265** · 07-22-19 18:37

Originally Posted by JayJayTwo [View Original Post]

I've had two providers in the past few weeks that did something I think to be unusual, they told me I needed to bring the covers. The first one wasn't too bad, she at least let me know when we scheduled the meet and I had the time and opportunity to take care of it. The second one was a real problem, she told me that right after I sent the text that I was in the parking lot of her hotel. I responded to her to remind her I had earlier said I was real short on time and I certainly didn't now have the time to turn around, go to a convenience store or pharmacy, grab covers and then come back.

I'm looking to get everyone's thoughts on this. Am I right, this should be handled by the provider? Or am I being overly sensitive and shouldn't have any problem bringing covers?

Most will supply them but they could run out, a legit reason. But you're basically stuck with 3 options. Always bring your own so you know you have them. Or be ready to go bareback. Third is just get head.

**True Pair** · 07-22-19 18:03

Originally Posted by JayJayTwo [View Original Post]

I've had two providers in the past few weeks that did something I think to be unusual, they told me I needed to bring the covers. The first one wasn't too bad, she at least let me know when we scheduled the meet and I had the time and opportunity to take care of it. The second one was a real problem, she told me that right after I sent the text that I was in the parking lot of her hotel. I responded to her to remind her I had earlier said I was real short on time and I certainly didn't now have the time to turn around, go to a convenience store or pharmacy, grab covers and then come back.

I'm looking to get everyone's thoughts on this. Am I right, this should be handled by the provider? Or am I being overly sensitive and shouldn't have any problem bringing covers?

Happened to me today!! So I just went with the quick BBBJ. So she lost out on a higher donation. But I'm sure most will let you raw dog it if you want!!

**JayJayTwo** · 07-22-19 17:51

I've had two providers in the past few weeks that did something I think to be unusual, they told me I needed to bring the covers. The first one wasn't too bad, she at least let me know when we scheduled the meet and I had the time and opportunity to take care of it. The second one was a real problem, she told me that right after I sent the text that I was in the parking lot of her hotel. I responded to her to remind her I had earlier said I was real short on time and I certainly didn't now have the time to turn around, go to a convenience store or pharmacy, grab covers and then come back.

I'm looking to get everyone's thoughts on this. Am I right, this should be handled by the provider? Or am I being overly sensitive and shouldn't have any problem bringing covers?

**Doug Stamper** · 07-04-19 08:40

Originally Posted by Oddlots347 [View Original Post]

Thank you for pointing that out, but this has been going on well over within the past week and that response by no means helped with giving me any suggestions of where there might be better places to look. Hopefully without having to drive to Titusville or Cocoa. If any one can help in that matter great.

Seriously? You have all of 4 posts in 4 years. None with valuable intel. If you are actively pursuing pussy why don't you contribute something to the forum by posting about it?

**Hodar** · 07-03-19 15:34