NoVA SugarBabies

**Je2010** · 06-26-19 13:43

Seeking is full of scams. Any woman that wants money up front, it is a scam. I do not care if she send pics, videos, etc, never send money up front.

Beware of women who say they want to have dinner mulitple times before any bedroom action will happen. Many times, they have no intention of making it into the bedroom. After a date or 2, she will disappear with your money.

If the pics look too good to be true, it is possible she is real. I have met some drop dead beautiful women off that site. In this case, you need to do your research before meeting or meet for coffee to make sure she is real. Offer a nice allowance, if she is real, you will be happy, if she is fake, she will not show up. Never discuss anything sexual during this time. There are 9 and 10's on this site willing to meet, but be prepared to pay a lot.

If something seems off, use your gut and walk away. Never show your private pics until she shows hers, especially if she is not showing her face. Do not cave on this, many of the women who are scamming people, will not show their face at all.

Most girls are there to fuck for money. If we have to get a hotel, I always make the SB do it and pay her the amount on top of the allowance. This way, nothing is in my real name, plus I will not be staying the night at the hotel. If you do get the room in your name, never allow her to stay after you leave. Besides stealing things, most hotels slip a bill under the door in the middle of the night with your name on it. Easy way for blackmail.

Unless you are snipped, never trust the girl that she is on the pill. If she knows you are loaded or thinks you are, that is one nice payday for her.

Once you get a phone #, google it. Many use text apps, but some do not.

If the girl looks young, tell her you have to see I'd to prove she is over 18. Paying for sex will get you arrested, paying for sex with a girl under 18, will get you thrown in jail for a long time and more than likely on the evening news. Make her cross out her address and last name and leave her first name, her pic and birthdate. Never accept nudes until you have verified this either, that is actually worse than paying her to fuck.

Seeking is a shitshow. I have met some amazing girls on there and fucked the hell out of them. I have also met some psycho's who would habe probably bitten off my dick had they gotten the chance. Talk to them and feel them out.

If you have any questions, imbox me. If you have an SB that could use some cash and is in the NOVA area, send me her info. I am no longer on seeking, but always looking for a submissive SB.

**DirteeBoy** · 06-26-19 12:53

Any info to share? I have a "Code Red", LOL Searched the forums and found nothing.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c6e85...1-ffe8e925f2cc

Thank you!

**ChrisCarr** · 06-26-19 10:57

Originally Posted by GuardianSofva [View Original Post]

Thank you, I have one last question how do you guys verify If a girl is older than 18?

Just ask her when you meet her.

In the sugar bowl, you should be meeting in public for your first meet up. Even if you plan to go to the FC right after, have a coffee and a short chat. You should not have talked money yet at this point anyway. During this meet up is when I would be talking sugar, expectations, and asking to verify her age. Just have her reveal her I'd with just picture and DOB.

**GuardianSofva** · 06-26-19 01:15

Originally Posted by ChrisCarr [View Original Post]

Highly highly recommend you read those forums.

Great tips for safety and success.

This girl looks safe but delusional. What are your intentions? Long term arrangement, hit and run, etc?

Thank you, I have one last question how do you guys verify If a girl is older than 18?

**ChrisCarr** · 06-25-19 22:26

Originally Posted by GuardianSofva [View Original Post]

I'm planning to setup a date, has anyone seen this girl before.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3441b...2-8966148289ff

This is going to be my first SB date, any tips on how to be safe would be great.

Thanks.

Highly highly recommend you read those forums.

Great tips for safety and success.

This girl looks safe but delusional. What are your intentions? Long term arrangement, hit and run, etc?

**GuardianSofva** · 06-25-19 19:44

I'm planning to setup a date, has anyone seen this girl before.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3441b...2-8966148289ff

This is going to be my first SB date, any tips on how to be safe would be great.

Thanks.

**Tyrex2** · 06-25-19 16:54

Originally Posted by SoberK [View Original Post]

Meeting this girl today, anyone seen her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/1f7cf...6-860572af145c

Looks like one I've been seeing. Former handle though looks like her with a new profile. Drop me a line we can compare phone / names and experiences.

**BookerTNelson** · 06-25-19 15:27

Originally Posted by Onexxxva [View Original Post]

We met for a meet and greet, she had a good attitude, but the nose ring and hairdo scared me off. She likes to strip and give lap dances if anyone is interested.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e1dba...d-7cdd4fce12dd

This one is an example of a provider that simply is telling herself she's an SB. I saw her last summer (I delete my profile and change my # We met for coffee and we literally run through the same spiel and she doesn't realize she swallowed my load and licked the taint before. Anyway She's DTF but seemed to have Raised her allowance, also seems to be juggling a few SD's.

Her new look wasn't my thing either but I took a 2nd dive because performance made up for it when it counted.

**BoroAviator81** · 06-25-19 14:39

Originally Posted by ItSpi [View Original Post]

Sorry that happened to you. It would be nice to know who it was to avoid but understandable if you don't want to share considering she has your personal information. At the very least thanks for the tip on the hotel though. Does anyone have any tips on avoiding this in the future? It's almost like all it takes is an eager front desk receptionist to f your shit up.

I just had one earlier trying to blackmail me. She went by Justavisit. Showed she was from NY, NY. Said here real name was Cathy something. Chatted with her for a long time then she wanted to skype. I did for a few minutes and then she said she was uploading the video to all social media accounts and that she could transmit it automatically to every mobile device close to me. LOL. BS. Anyways, I reported her, blocked her, deleted the skype account, etc. Lesson for me was if they're not local, not premium members with verified profiles, they're probably trying to fuck you over and don't mess with them.

**SoberK** · 06-25-19 13:00

Meeting this girl today, anyone seen her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/1f7cf...6-860572af145c

**Onexxxva** · 06-25-19 11:40

https://www.seeking.com/member/dca50...7-d142f3f4a6c6

Wants 500 for a normal Date and 1000 for an intimate.

https://www.seeking.com/member/10515...6-5b20a970cecc

Wants 5 star dates, but sex is maybe after 4-6 dates.

https://www.seeking.com/member/398b8...9-ef24604e7292

Wants 200 to M / G but 500 for a "full" date. Not bad if she's legit, but I'll pass.

**ChrisCarr** · 06-25-19 11:39

Originally Posted by ChrisCarr [View Original Post]

I have a 19 yr old coed that wanted EVERYTHING covered. Smart girl, she did her research and doesn't want chlamydia in her throat. I got my std test and a vasectomy, next meet up (2 months later) and everything is bareback now. Still shooting my load on her pretty face every time, tho.

I've already blocked her, ellexo99.

Nice girl, asks 4, I've been giving 3. She stood me up the day that we had planned a fun date so I'm moving on from her. Like noted, she will do all covered until she feels safe.

Has an age gap fantasy so 40+ is more her speed. Great butt, kind of awkwardly and shy, but once you get it in her she gets dirty. Will take some work but no regrets here, save for the total shit show of last week. Enjoy her, fellas.

On to the next one.

**Onexxxva** · 06-25-19 11:27

We met for a meet and greet, she had a good attitude, but the nose ring and hairdo scared me off. She likes to strip and give lap dances if anyone is interested.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e1dba...d-7cdd4fce12dd

This one is an example of a provider that simply is telling herself she's an SB. I saw her last summer (I delete my profile and change my # We met for coffee and we literally run through the same spiel and she doesn't realize she swallowed my load and licked the taint before. Anyway She's DTF but seemed to have Raised her allowance, also seems to be juggling a few SD's.

**KevinH80** · 06-25-19 10:08

Got to see Samantha this week. Muscular single mom in her late 20's or early 30's. One large stomach tatt. Met at her FC location which was a motel in Alexandria. Spent around $$$ but ended up staying for 30 minutes. During doggie I smelt a trace of poop, so quickly finished and got out of there. Overall she seems to be a nice girl but is super chatty. With the options available, don't plan on repeating.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0850a...b-c4f743c7968d

**Avash88** · 06-25-19 09:15

She is probably a scammer trying to play you with a sad story, Also her profile says no hookups so she trying to get money without doing anything. Move on there is plenty other girls on sa.

Originally Posted by GuardianSofva [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/8b580...c-19a1ebdbdb7a

I dreamed of this woman. In my dream I sent her a message and she replied back with her number and asked me to text her?

I texted her and she said her age is 18 (profile says 19) and she needs to take care of her siblings since her parents are unable to work.

I'm kinda worried this might be a scam (I'm pretty new to this).

What do you guys think?