Safe Sex Information and Advice

**J Richard** · 07-23-19 15:50

Originally Posted by CephlapodLove [View Original Post]

Girl told me the other day that there is free testing at the BCC clinic on uLA for HIV & HepC!. So I looked it up! They have a "drop in" clinic open Monday Friday 7 am to 12 pm.

https://www.brandywinecounseling.com/drop-in-center/

Get a clean bill of health & perhaps find a date while your there? LOL!

I used a location in CC. Last time was a year or so ago. This visit was a result of a failed latex product.

I used it before maybe 10 years ago, been there awhile. They do ask a lot of information on sexual history.

Before you had to return for results now you're in and out with results.

Now, not even a uncovered BJ. There is just too much risk. You are more likely to contract other STD's than the dreaded one.

**Cephlapod Love** · 07-23-19 11:26

Originally Posted by Strange [View Original Post]

I really do appreciate the detailed information, you could literally spend hours looking for info like that and still not find it. Seems way counter productive to me. Meaning making info like that hard to find. Has anyone had experience at the county / state clinic? Not sure who runs it but the one in Wilmington. What exactly do they make you do?

Ive thought about just going once every other month or so just as a precaution but want to know ahead of time just how handsy theyll be.

You know the system is broke if I even have to ask that. If they wanted to stop of these diseases they would just let anyone be tested no questions asked. Addicts would never show up and they literally are their target market. How to fuck up public health.....

Deleted this part because I was drunk and stupid. Life happens.

Girl told me the other day that there is free testing at the BCC clinic on uLA for HIV & HepC!. So I looked it up! They have a "drop in" clinic open Monday – Friday 7 am to 12 pm.

https://www.brandywinecounseling.com/drop-in-center/

Get a clean bill of health & perhaps find a date while your there? LOL!

**Strange** · 07-22-19 22:05

Originally Posted by CephlapodLove [View Original Post]

Thanks for posting that. You stepped on a 'hot button' for me, so I'll pull out the old soapbox.

On the STD thread elsewhere on this site, there still is a fair amount of ignorance surrounding HIV testing. Oh and I run into it with girls as well. When HIV was first discovered and the big scare went, out the only tools available for detection were the Gen 1 & 2 antibody tests. But like brick cell phones, technology marches on and now we are up to Gen 4 testing and optional RNA testing. The point is that exposure to HIV can now be detected as soon as 9-11 days after exposure / infection. That is because the RNA test actually looks for or detects the virus. The 'old" tests looked for antibodies, made by the immune system in response to the virus. In some people it took their bodies / immune systems up to 3 months to produce antibodies. Gen 4 testing looks for antibodies AND antigens and the antigens appear and this can be detected much sooner than antibodies. So new tech finds the actual virus sooner.

So no more of this: "You have to get tested and be clean, then wait & be celibate or monogamous another 3-months for one to 'truly' know they are free of HIV!" OK? Got iT? If you want to know go get the Gen 4 testing. If you REALLY need to know NOW- get the RNA testing!

This is a nice quick summary from that link:

What are the differences between the HIV RNA test and the HIV 4th Generation Antibody test?

The HIV RNA test can detect HIV sooner than any other HIV test; as early as 9-11 days after exposure. The HIV 4th Generation Antibody test can detect HIV 2-3 weeks after exposure. The HIV RNA test detects the HIV virus in the blood by seeking out its genetic material (RNA), whereas the HIV 4th Generation Antibody test detects HIV antibodies and antigens. Antibodies are proteins created by the body's immune system to try to destroy foreign substances like bacteria or viruses, in this case HIV. Antigens are the foreign substances that cause an immune response-- the HIV Antibody test detects HIV p24 antigens. .

Now as far as that site being "private?" I dunno? You want that lab showing up as a charge on the permanent record with your Credit Card company? Are you going to be able to get results sent to hobby email? Will you have to show I'd at the test center? Looks like they use Quest Diagnosis and Lab Corp as the phlebotomists.

If you want an education about the history of HIV testing, to cure any personal ignorance or conteract false "beliefs" one has picked up in the locker room, go here:

https://cvi.asm.org/content/23/4/249

Attached is a table that shows the Generations of HIV Testing.

While ignorance maybe bliss, education & knowledge will keep you safe.

I really do appreciate the detailed information, you could literally spend hours looking for info like that and still not find it. Seems way counter productive to me. Meaning making info like that hard to find. Has anyone had experience at the county / state clinic? Not sure who runs it but the one in Wilmington. What exactly do they make you do?

Ive thought about just going once every other month or so just as a precaution but want to know ahead of time just how handsy theyll be.

You know the system is broke if I even have to ask that. If they wanted to stop of these diseases they would just let anyone be tested no questions asked. Addicts would never show up and they literally are their target market. How to fuck up public health.....

Deleted this part because I was drunk and stupid. Life happens.

**Cephlapod Love** · 07-22-19 14:13

Originally Posted by CnjDevilish [View Original Post]

I've used this service. It was 100% anonymous. Went to a LabCorp location. No ID needed and I got my results in 2 days via e-mail.

https://www.stdcheck.com/std-test-pricing.php

Thanks for posting that. You stepped on a 'hot button' for me, so I'll pull out the old soapbox.

On the STD thread elsewhere on this site, there still is a fair amount of ignorance surrounding HIV testing. Oh and I run into it with girls as well. When HIV was first discovered and the big scare went, out the only tools available for detection were the Gen 1 & 2 antibody tests. But like brick cell phones, technology marches on and now we are up to Gen 4 testing and optional RNA testing. The point is that exposure to HIV can now be detected as soon as 9-11 days after exposure / infection. That is because the RNA test actually looks for or detects the virus. The 'old" tests looked for antibodies, made by the immune system in response to the virus. In some people it took their bodies / immune systems up to 3 months to produce antibodies. Gen 4 testing looks for antibodies AND antigens and the antigens appear and this can be detected much sooner than antibodies. So new tech finds the actual virus sooner.

So no more of this: "You have to get tested and be clean, then wait & be celibate or monogamous another 3-months for one to 'truly' know they are free of HIV!" OK? Got iT? If you want to know go get the Gen 4 testing. If you REALLY need to know NOW- get the RNA testing!

This is a nice quick summary from that link:

What are the differences between the HIV RNA test and the HIV 4th Generation Antibody test?

The HIV RNA test can detect HIV sooner than any other HIV test; as early as 9-11 days after exposure. The HIV 4th Generation Antibody test can detect HIV 2-3 weeks after exposure. The HIV RNA test detects the HIV virus in the blood by seeking out its genetic material (RNA), whereas the HIV 4th Generation Antibody test detects HIV antibodies and antigens. Antibodies are proteins created by the body's immune system to try to destroy foreign substances like bacteria or viruses, in this case HIV. Antigens are the foreign substances that cause an immune response-- the HIV Antibody test detects HIV p24 antigens. .

Now as far as that site being "private?" I dunno? You want that lab showing up as a charge on the permanent record with your Credit Card company? Are you going to be able to get results sent to hobby email? Will you have to show I'd at the test center? Looks like they use Quest Diagnosis and Lab Corp as the phlebotomists.

If you want an education about the history of HIV testing, to cure any personal ignorance or conteract false "beliefs" one has picked up in the locker room, go here:

https://cvi.asm.org/content/23/4/249

Attached is a table that shows the Generations of HIV Testing.

While ignorance maybe bliss, education & knowledge will keep you safe.

**Statecho** · 06-23-19 14:55

Originally Posted by GovernorsClub [View Original Post]

There are eight Herpetic viruses. Herpes simplex type 1 is not considered a sexually transmitted disease. It typically resides in the trigeminal ganglion and when activated typically (99%) travels to the mouth, lip, face but on occasion (1%) can take a detour to the eye or eyelid and that can be bad news. HSV type 2 is more characteristically is a sexually transmitted disease. Genital to genital. HSV type 1 can infect skin if you have an open wound or sore leading to Herpetic Whitlow so you would want to be safe as active oral HSV 1 could contaminate an open wound if that person did not already have antibody resistance to HSV 1 from previous exposure. As most people over 20 do. Originally thought to be 95% of people over 20, it is now thought to be about 70% but this is easily identified on a blood draw looking for IgG HSV1 - and this is again, not considered sexually transmitted. Herpes Zoster (Shingles) is a different herpetic virus. Reactivated Chicken Pox. And while it is not sexually transmitted, if you are over 50, you need the new 2-part vaccination. Even if you have had previous shingles or the previous, less-effective vaccination. Should you develop an STD, HZV infection is more likely to develop particularly if it is from HIV. Stay safe.

Thanks! That is very informative.

**GovernorsClub** · 06-22-19 16:51

There are eight Herpetic viruses. Herpes simplex type 1 is not considered a sexually transmitted disease. It typically resides in the trigeminal ganglion and when activated typically (99%) travels to the mouth, lip, face but on occasion (1%) can take a detour to the eye or eyelid and that can be bad news. HSV type 2 is more characteristically is a sexually transmitted disease. Genital to genital. HSV type 1 can infect skin if you have an open wound or sore leading to Herpetic Whitlow so you would want to be safe as active oral HSV 1 could contaminate an open wound if that person did not already have antibody resistance to HSV 1 from previous exposure. As most people over 20 do. Originally thought to be 95% of people over 20, it is now thought to be about 70% but this is easily identified on a blood draw looking for IgG HSV1 - and this is again, not considered sexually transmitted. Herpes Zoster (Shingles) is a different herpetic virus. Reactivated Chicken Pox. And while it is not sexually transmitted, if you are over 50, you need the new 2-part vaccination. Even if you have had previous shingles or the previous, less-effective vaccination. Should you develop an STD, HZV infection is more likely to develop particularly if it is from HIV. Stay safe.

Originally Posted by Statecho [View Original Post]

Hey, have a question wanted opinions from you guys.

I have a good SB of over one year, and we have BBFS, DATY and DFK during intimacy. Recently she had her first 10 panel STD test and surprisingly she is HSV1 positive. I got worried and tested mine and is clean, like before. She never had any genital symptoms but did have cold sores before.

So could her HSV-1 from cold sore instead of sexaul transmission? Can we stil do DATY and BB or must use cover now.

Also, heard 50-70% of worlds population has HSV1 positive- that to me means HSV-1 must transmitted other than sex, if so should it even be considered STD?

Comment?

**Statecho** · 06-22-19 15:26

Hey, have a question wanted opinions from you guys.

I have a good SB of over one year, and we have BBFS, DATY and DFK during intimacy. Recently she had her first 10 panel STD test and surprisingly she is HSV1 positive. I got worried and tested mine and is clean, like before. She never had any genital symptoms but did have cold sores before.

So could her HSV-1 from cold sore instead of sexaul transmission? Can we stil do DATY and BB or must use cover now.

Also, heard 50-70% of worlds population has HSV1 positive- that to me means HSV-1 must transmitted other than sex, if so should it even be considered STD?

Comment?

**Chris93** · 06-19-19 23:56

Originally Posted by AsaMona22 [View Original Post]

Ahhh copy, in the heat of the moment.

Thanks Chris93!

No problem man just stick it in once you get the ok don't over think it's usually a boner killer that's why I turn my brain off but if you see any signs that don't look good step back better to be safe and have blue balls then get a possible std.

**AsaMona22** · 06-19-19 19:22

Ahhh copy, in the heat of the moment.

Thanks Chris93!

**Chris93** · 06-19-19 14:24

Originally Posted by AsaMona22 [View Original Post]

BBFS.

I think it might be go time this weekend fellas, my 1st BBFS LOL.

Quick question for my safety tho. Do you guys normally ask to see the girls std screenings or do they ask for yours? I assume they don't care as long as they see the green! Comments please.

When I'm about to see someone lets say the little head does the thinking and to this day I've never asked for std screenings and girls don't really ask to see mine. The most they'll do is ask if the last time I went to the doctor that everything checked out.

**AsaMona22** · 06-19-19 11:52

BBFS.

I think it might be go time this weekend fellas, my 1st BBFS LOL.

Quick question for my safety tho. Do you guys normally ask to see the girls std screenings or do they ask for yours? I assume they don't care as long as they see the green! Comments please.

**Teddy O** · 06-06-19 23:13

Whats the benefit of doing this? Why not just use your doctor or clinic? Doesn't hippa prevent anyone from knowing? Will using insurance come back to haunt you? I seriously don't know.

Originally Posted by JustLonely [View Original Post]

I used this company for a 10 panel test. Got my results back the next day. Real easy as you prepay that company. Then go to any Lab Corp location for the blood and urine draw. They send your samples off at 1 pm to a nearby lab. By 1 pm the next day I had a pdf file of my results.

First test I ever had in this hobby I started in 1983. A lot of BBFS over the years for me. I passed on some opportunities with questionable women but plenty of nameless BP & CL women who see lots of men so I would say I was lucky to not pick up anything other than Clap a few years back.

**AvBrent** · 06-01-19 14:43

I don't know why I'm wondering this. But has anyone actually gotten an STD/ STI from a massage girl or escort? Herpes? I feel like this forum is a good sample size.

**JustLonely** · 05-29-19 14:39

I used this company for a 10 panel test. Got my results back the next day. Real easy as you prepay that company. Then go to any Lab Corp location for the blood and urine draw. They send your samples off at 1 pm to a nearby lab. By 1 pm the next day I had a pdf file of my results.

First test I ever had in this hobby I started in 1983. A lot of BBFS over the years for me. I passed on some opportunities with questionable women but plenty of nameless BP & CL women who see lots of men so I would say I was lucky to not pick up anything other than Clap a few years back.

**HotRod21** · 04-28-19 09:32

Originally Posted by SeeMeDougie [View Original Post]

Has any of you all had a dream and had a BBBJ cim then caught something. I might just be nervous for no reason but I think my mind is playing tricks on me. Nothing burns. Jacking off is fine just curious if any of you that roll the dice more often have caught anything.

No, but get yourself checked.