Non Pro's

**Rjx1234** · 06-12-19 14:40

I have a friend who is just starting out as an sb. Mostly Vancouver BC with some trips to Seattle. She's hot and has a filthy mind and she's open to PPM BBFS on the first date if the chemistry is there (300 for multiple hours, I think) but she says the guys are all too timid in their asks. She ends up going on coffee dates that are like OKC dates but they mostly lack follow-through and then just want to text chat forever afterwards. Or they just want to endlessly beg for pics up front after she's already sent enough. If you're messaging the perfect girl, what do you like to see in the first messages to get past the first awkwardness and quickly close the deal? And do you expect the girl to always be able to play at her place, or are you typically ok with getting a hotel? She's obviously not going to say outright sex for money in email but there are ways to talk about it with class and discretion, eh?

**RichardQ** · 06-12-19 11:54

I like alexis393. SA profile looks good, but her secret benefits profile says platonic only. I don't want to waste my time. Has anyone fucked her yet?

https://www.seeking.com/member/98b96...6-6cf46c9be800

Sweetsusannah seems to be on every web site. I have been chatting, but haven't met her yet. Any recommendations?

https://www.seeking.com/member/5171e...d-6300216edd6d

**Decipher** · 06-10-19 02:39

Originally Posted by Merovingian2 [View Original Post]

Anyone here a tech bro? PM cause I got an interesting opportunity for fun but it's got to be someone non-shady.

Hey, I've been trying to PM but your inbox is full. Think I'd be a good, respectful match fitting that. Please let me know.

**Diver6390** · 06-08-19 16:05

Originally Posted by SeaTownGuy [View Original Post]

Texted her. She sounds like a freak. Perhaps drug problem. Lives way down in Covington or something and wanted uber ride both ways.

I had exchanged texts with her. She wanted to know exactly what I was looking for in an arrangement. OK. She hosts and my budget is 300 tops. She went silent after that. Sounds like it's not worth chasing.

**DrtyHarry** · 06-08-19 10:21

Originally Posted by DrtyHarry [View Original Post]

Why does this one ring a bell. Cannot make the connection where I have seen her before. I know she has been on SA for a bit. Does anyone have any intel on her? Her profile screams BB friendly and maybe even a PRO. But nothing concrete. If anyone has any first hand intel please do let me know.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ccce3...3-04110058d2cb

Originally Posted by BuckNaked123 [View Original Post]

I fucked her a few years ago. She was cute, a little bit spacey. I did suspect drugs. BBFSCIP.

My review of her here. She used to have the name blndinheels.

http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...75#post3614475

FYI: Some links in above reviews are no longer valid as this is an old post.

Thanks for sharing, incredible intel here. She is very far away. Lets see how the communication goes and if it works out for me to go see her.

**BuckNaked123** · 06-08-19 01:22

Originally Posted by DrtyHarry [View Original Post]

Why does this one ring a bell. Cannot make the connection where I have seen her before. I know she has been on SA for a bit. Does anyone have any intel on her? Her profile screams BB friendly and maybe even a PRO. But nothing concrete. If anyone has any first hand intel please do let me know.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ccce3...3-04110058d2cb

I fucked her a few years ago. She was cute, a little bit spacey. I did suspect drugs. BBFSCIP.

My review of her here. She used to have the name blndinheels.

http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...75#post3614475

FYI: Some links in above reviews are no longer valid as this is an old post.

**SeaTownGuy** · 06-07-19 22:29

Originally Posted by DrtyHarry [View Original Post]

Why does this one ring a bell. Cannot make the connection where I have seen her before. I know she has been on SA for a bit. Does anyone have any intel on her? Her profile screams BB friendly and maybe even a PRO. But nothing concrete. If anyone has any first hand intel please do let me know.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ccce3...3-04110058d2cb

Texted her. She sounds like a freak. Perhaps drug problem. Lives way down in Covington or something and wanted uber ride both ways.

**DrtyHarry** · 06-07-19 20:51

Why does this one ring a bell. Cannot make the connection where I have seen her before. I know she has been on SA for a bit. Does anyone have any intel on her? Her profile screams BB friendly and maybe even a PRO. But nothing concrete. If anyone has any first hand intel please do let me know.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ccce3...3-04110058d2cb

**DrtyHarry** · 06-07-19 20:12

Originally Posted by MyNickname [View Original Post]

My comments were towards the ladies that demand money to do meet and greet, or demand money to just talk to you to try to work out arrangement details, during messages exchange. What you are saying is on a situation where the lady did not demand money to meet and greet and you volunteer to give her a gift.

I have never said to don't give them gifts or don't take them shopping, etc.

Correct! It all depends on what you use SA for. It is important not be cheap, but it is also important to find the right fit. I definitely do not pay someone who outright asks for it even before we form a connection. Or the ones that want an allowance meet for dinner to figure out if I am legit.

Babe. If you are upfront and tell me you want money. I will give it to you. But if you tell me you want me to pay for a meet and greet just so you can tell I am legit makes no sense. You WILL figure that out over a nice meal anyway. A meal that I will pay for, with my great sense of humor and an extremely expensive bottle of red! There is a difference between being cheap, a chump and also just paying for what you want in an arrangement. Just my two cents.

**DrtyHarry** · 06-07-19 20:05

Originally Posted by Michael1967 [View Original Post]

I usually give $60-$100 for a meet & greet. Usually dinner or meeting up for drinks. I don't tell them they are getting the money, I usually hand them an envelope during or after (and adjust the amount based on how we click). It's almost worth it to see the surprise on their face.

When I was in Miami, I met someone for a M&G, we met at some bar in the afternoon. She said she only had "a few minutes" to meet. We talked about 5 minutes and I gave her the envelope. She was stunned. She said she had to go to the restroom, came back five minutes later and ordered another drink and told me that she cancelled her appointment. We drank together for about an hour and she said she had to leave. An hour later, I had a text saying that she was free and asked what hotel I was staying at. She showed back up later that evening, dressed to kill and we spent quite a bit of time in the hotel room. Before she left, I left $300 (might have been $250) under her cell phone and went to the bathroom. I came back and she handed me the money and told me that I left my money out on the night stand. I told her it was for her and the look I got was priceless..

Everything you say is valid and it is a good not be cheap. But one must not be a chump either. It is okay to pay for a meet and greet and it is okay to pay for an actual meeting. You also paid the right amounts 60 to 100 for a meet and then a reasonable sum for the actual date. You are not a spendthrift and you are not cheap. That is very much in the range of what is expected.

For me, I am not interested in paying for a dinner or a meet or greet. Not because I am not cheap, but because that is not something want to do. I am not lonely and do not crave company. I have women friends who regularly go out for platonic dates and I get that for free.

Everybody has different needs, including the women on SA. Some do not want wine and dine. It just depends on finding the right fit that works for both parties. Yes do not be cheap, but don't be a chump either, who pulls out cash every he gets.

**MyNickname** · 06-07-19 19:35

My comments were towards the ladies that demand money to do meet and greet, or demand money to just talk to you to try to work out arrangement details, during messages exchange. What you are saying is on a situation where the lady did not demand money to meet and greet and you volunteer to give her a gift.

I have never said to don't give them gifts or don't take them shopping, etc.

Originally Posted by Michael1967 [View Original Post]

I usually give $60-$100 for a meet & greet. Usually dinner or meeting up for drinks. I don't tell them they are getting the money, I usually hand them an envelope during or after (and adjust the amount based on how we click). It's almost worth it to see the surprise on their face.

When I was in Miami, I met someone for a M&G, we met at some bar in the afternoon. She said she only had "a few minutes" to meet. We talked about 5 minutes and I gave her the envelope. She was stunned. She said she had to go to the restroom, came back five minutes later and ordered another drink and told me that she cancelled her appointment. We drank together for about an hour and she said she had to leave. An hour later, I had a text saying that she was free and asked what hotel I was staying at. She showed back up later that evening, dressed to kill and we spent quite a bit of time in the hotel room. Before she left, I left $300 (might have been $250) under her cell phone and went to the bathroom. I came back and she handed me the money and told me that I left my money out on the night stand. I told her it was for her and the look I got was priceless.

I think it's best to remember that for the most part, people on SA aren't escorts (or they are only wannabe escorts) and in my opinion, you really shouldn't treat them like they are. They are NOT coming to a meet and greet because you are sexy and they want you, they are showing up because they are hoping to meet someone that will give them money and buy them things. As a Daddy, that's your job. Don't be cheap.

**Michael1967** · 06-07-19 15:15

Originally Posted by MyNickname [View Original Post]

LOL Man, that is nothing. You should experience the many 18,19,20,20+ that want money just to prove you are "for real" or for public meet and greet or for only social meetings. Real big egos in there right now.

Oh and don't forget those that want to start an arrangement doing only social companionship until and if they warm up to have sex with the guy but when they are asked about if they expect money they say hell yeah from first social companionship they expect money. LOL.

I usually give $60-$100 for a meet & greet. Usually dinner or meeting up for drinks. I don't tell them they are getting the money, I usually hand them an envelope during or after (and adjust the amount based on how we click). It's almost worth it to see the surprise on their face.

When I was in Miami, I met someone for a M&G, we met at some bar in the afternoon. She said she only had "a few minutes" to meet. We talked about 5 minutes and I gave her the envelope. She was stunned. She said she had to go to the restroom, came back five minutes later and ordered another drink and told me that she cancelled her appointment. We drank together for about an hour and she said she had to leave. An hour later, I had a text saying that she was free and asked what hotel I was staying at. She showed back up later that evening, dressed to kill and we spent quite a bit of time in the hotel room. Before she left, I left $300 (might have been $250) under her cell phone and went to the bathroom. I came back and she handed me the money and told me that I left my money out on the night stand. I told her it was for her and the look I got was priceless.

I think it's best to remember that for the most part, people on SA aren't escorts (or they are only wannabe escorts) and in my opinion, you really shouldn't treat them like they are. They are NOT coming to a meet and greet because you are sexy and they want you, they are showing up because they are hoping to meet someone that will give them money and buy them things. As a Daddy, that's your job. Don't be cheap.

**Michael1967** · 06-07-19 15:09

Originally Posted by MyNickname [View Original Post]

LOL Man, that is nothing. You should experience the many 18,19,20,20+ that want money just to prove you are "for real" or for public meet and greet or for only social meetings. Real big egos in there right now.

Oh and don't forget those that want to start an arrangement doing only social companionship until and if they warm up to have sex with the guy but when they are asked about if they expect money they say hell yeah from first social companionship they expect money. LOL.

I usually give $60-$100 for a meet & greet. Usually dinner or meeting up for drinks. I don't tell them they are getting the money, I usually hand them an envelope during or after (and adjust the amount based on how we click). It's almost worth it to see the surprise on their face.

When I was in Miami, I met someone for a M&G, we met at some bar in the afternoon. She said she only had "a few minutes" to meet. We talked about 5 minutes and I gave her the envelope. She was stunned. She said she had to go to the restroom, came back five minutes later and ordered another drink and told me that she cancelled her appointment. We drank together for about an hour and she said she had to leave. An hour later, I had a text saying that she was free and asked what hotel I was staying at. She showed back up later that evening, dressed to kill and we spent quite a bit of time in the hotel room. Before she left, I left $300 (might have been $250) under her cell phone and went to the bathroom. I came back and she handed me the money and told me that I left my money out on the night stand. I told her it was for her and the look I got was priceless.

I think it's best to remember that for the most part, people on SA aren't escorts (or they are only wannabe escorts) and in my opinion, you really shouldn't treat them like they are. They are NOT coming to a meet and greet because you are sexy and they want you, they are showing up because they are hoping to meet someone that will give them money and buy them things. As a Daddy, that's your job. Don't be cheap.

**IrishGuy1977** · 06-07-19 13:11

Who is the admin on this board? Would it be possible for you to send me a private message?

**MyNickname** · 06-07-19 00:22

LOL Man, that is nothing. You should experience the many 18,19,20,20+ that want money just to prove you are "for real" or for public meet and greet or for only social meetings. Real big egos in there right now.

Oh and don't forget those that want to start an arrangement doing only social companionship until and if they warm up to have sex with the guy but when they are asked about if they expect money they say hell yeah from first social companionship they expect money. LOL.

Originally Posted by DrtyHarry [View Original Post]

Notice the increase in younguns on SA? Many 20+ asking for $ for pics. I always find it amusing that people would pay for pics. I mean if I wanted to jerk off to pics of young amateurs I would just browse the web. Why pay an SA chick for it? I have talked a few into sending nudes anyway, the rest I keep amused but politely say I'd rather meet in person and see you naked. What are your experiences. Any of you actually paid for pics?