Seeking Arrangements

**GlennDoyle91** · 06-11-19 11:44

Originally Posted by Spike77 [View Original Post]

It is one of the biggest scams these girls run. "I need an allowance up front for the meet and greet to know you are serious. " I have heard the same line a hundred times. It is like they are reading off the same queue card. But some people do fall for it. That is all they need.

Play it safe. There are plenty of girls that don't require money up front.

So. Do you even bring up the what you're expecting early, or leave things ambiguous till the meet? I'm more concerned about etiquette.

**Spike77** · 06-11-19 11:34

Originally Posted by GlennDoyle91 [View Original Post]

Is it just me, or am I off base in demanding I don't pay for a meet and greet (this is on wyp and seeking)?

It is one of the biggest scams these girls run. "I need an allowance up front for the meet and greet to know you are serious. " I have heard the same line a hundred times. It is like they are reading off the same queue card. But some people do fall for it. That is all they need.

Play it safe. There are plenty of girls that don't require money up front.

**SlowMo** · 06-10-19 21:00

Originally Posted by Longjblues [View Original Post]

She is on WYP now, sister site to SA.

Because people sometimes wonder if older information is still valid, here's a quick post confirming LJB's info on comeandgo54 from WYP. One difference with me is that it wasn't rushed and there were no references to other people in the house until I was about to leave. She is quite nice and seems to appreciate a conversation. Nice body, nice woman. The rest comes down to chemistry.

SM.

**Nrlmus** · 06-10-19 20:11

Originally Posted by Tostone71 [View Original Post]

I joined SA in March as a 30 day experiment and I'm still there. I'll report on my overall progress and learnings in a follow-on post (though a few reports on here helped me avoid a few 'traps' or minimally wastes of time so thank you. I'll be as descriptive as possible to return the favor). I've had a lot of interesting dialog and a couple of worthwhile experiences. Here's one that I'm interested if anyone has come across - "Glyttergirl".

https://www.seeking.com/member/35919...8-cb4d240b9bec

She pinged me and seemed like a reasonable person. Though her added pics set off a yellow flag along with the fact that she is 36 with 5 kids and supposed in an open marriage. WTF? However, her dialog (below) over SA set off all sorts for red flags and screams level 5 crazy. But maybe she is just horny and you all know. The dialog also reads (to me anyway) like something a guy would write. Not a woman. I dunno, not sure why I say that but it hits me that way.

Anyone have experience or an opinion? I'm more curious than anything; she gave me her phone but I don't dare text it not knowing what Pandora's box I'll be opening and what I'll be unleashing.

Who says "licky fucking". Jesus.

Dialogue:

"I need a hard fucking cock in my mouth. Starting with tip. I'm such a cock *****, just thinking about it. Fuuuck. I'm in a licky fucking mood. Can I suck on your lollipop? Al try and choke me with it, I can open my fucking throat and omgg. Hold it and go deeper and deeper and fucking hold it forever until my makeup is running down my face and I can't take it anymore and come up gasping for fucking air, a spitty fucking *****. I want a facial so fucking badd.

I am interested. How does it usually work? Sorry I can't concentrate. All my holes are aching to be filled. In every way. I can't think of much sexually I am unwilling to do. What about you? What are your boundaries / fantasies?

I don't know but it seems like standard teenage f-ing around to me, as in "let's mess around with a perv" (like you and I).

**MongerMAold** · 06-10-19 20:08

Originally Posted by Samuel05 [View Original Post]

Here's one that needs to wake up. She contacted me, so I make sure she read my profile. Goes on about how she wants one guy, long term, casual but sincere. Says prior arrangements were 500/ per. Not comfortable with that. She counters more in line. Then says to be clear, only oral on the table. For 500, who was that person. Texts me to go out on Saturday. Set something up but wants the allowance sort of Meet and Greet for cash. . Texts progress where she says only wants weeknights. Nice looking girls and sounds articulate.

I am looking for a mutually beneficial relationship that allows for us to really care for one another. I prefer thinking long term! I also am wanting to limit sex to only oral because of my religious preferences.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3c3c2...e-d0c4851c4ad1

I use burner phone to get in touch with ladies, do we have burner cards to register? I don't want this to be on my statement.

**Aardvarks** · 06-10-19 19:45

Originally Posted by Tostone71 [View Original Post]

I joined SA in March as a 30 day experiment and I'm still there. I'll report on my overall progress and learnings in a follow-on post (though a few reports on here helped me avoid a few 'traps' or minimally wastes of time so thank you. I'll be as descriptive as possible to return the favor). I've had a lot of interesting dialog and a couple of worthwhile experiences. Here's one that I'm interested if anyone has come across - "Glyttergirl".

https://www.seeking.com/member/35919...8-cb4d240b9bec

She pinged me and seemed like a reasonable person. Though her added pics set off a yellow flag along with the fact that she is 36 with 5 kids and supposed in an open marriage. WTF? However, her dialog (below) over SA set off all sorts for red flags and screams level 5 crazy. But maybe she is just horny and you all know. The dialog also reads (to me anyway) like something a guy would write. Not a woman. I dunno, not sure why I say that but it hits me that way.

Anyone have experience or an opinion? I'm more curious than anything; she gave me her phone but I don't dare text it not knowing what Pandora's box I'll be opening and what I'll be unleashing.

Who says "licky fucking". Jesus.

Dialogue:

"I need a hard fucking cock in my mouth. Starting with tip. I'm such a cock *****, just thinking about it. Fuuuck. I'm in a licky fucking mood. Can I suck on your lollipop? Al try and choke me with it, I can open my fucking throat and omgg. Hold it and go deeper and deeper and fucking hold it forever until my makeup is running down my face and I can't take it anymore and come up gasping for fucking air, a spitty fucking *****. I want a facial so fucking badd.

I am interested. How does it usually work? Sorry I can't concentrate. All my holes are aching to be filled. In every way. I can't think of much sexually I am unwilling to do. What about you? What are your boundaries / fantasies?

Jesus. But I will say I have met pretty explicit hoes on here who will do a lot of what she describes. However this is a little over the top IMHO. One of us should get drunk and check her out LOL.

**Tostone71** · 06-10-19 17:59

I joined SA in March as a 30 day experiment and I'm still there. I'll report on my overall progress and learnings in a follow-on post (though a few reports on here helped me avoid a few 'traps' or minimally wastes of time so thank you. I'll be as descriptive as possible to return the favor). I've had a lot of interesting dialog and a couple of worthwhile experiences. Here's one that I'm interested if anyone has come across - "Glyttergirl".

https://www.seeking.com/member/35919...8-cb4d240b9bec

She pinged me and seemed like a reasonable person. Though her added pics set off a yellow flag along with the fact that she is 36 with 5 kids and supposed in an open marriage. WTF? However, her dialog (below) over SA set off all sorts for red flags and screams level 5 crazy. But maybe she is just horny and you all know. The dialog also reads (to me anyway) like something a guy would write. Not a woman. I dunno, not sure why I say that but it hits me that way.

Anyone have experience or an opinion? I'm more curious than anything; she gave me her phone but I don't dare text it not knowing what Pandora's box I'll be opening and what I'll be unleashing.

Who says "licky fucking". Jesus.

Dialogue:

"I need a hard fucking cock in my mouth. Starting with tip. I'm such a cock *****, just thinking about it. Fuuuck. I'm in a licky fucking mood. Can I suck on your lollipop? Al try and choke me with it, I can open my fucking throat and omgg. Hold it and go deeper and deeper and fucking hold it forever until my makeup is running down my face and I can't take it anymore and come up gasping for fucking air, a spitty fucking *****. I want a facial so fucking badd.

I am interested. How does it usually work? Sorry I can't concentrate. All my holes are aching to be filled. In every way. I can't think of much sexually I am unwilling to do. What about you? What are your boundaries / fantasies?

**Samuel05** · 06-10-19 07:33

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

Picture on far right woman from Amesbury I believe, went to her location dump of a room filthy bathroom Met her about 3 or 4 times in hotels in the woburn area ok a little flaky but BBFS 200 for the visit, don't pay any more one and done she is a bartender at a mens fraternal club.

Thants my two cents!! CM PM if you want.

That's right about the job. Said she hadn't worked for a week. It's Haverhill. With the phone texts coming every minute, she was being hounded for $. Said it was her daughter needing money for tuition and she only had $42 to her name. She was pale, upset stomach, wearing long sleeve jersey on a hot day, cold sore and totally desperate. Had to be more than what she tried to say. Needless to say, not what I expected and knew from the start, she was a no go for me. Hope for her sake, she got things straightened out. Thanks to all for the advise.

**PaulRew** · 06-09-19 16:40

We require an initial meeting to get to know each other and for safety reasons. We have a lot to offer and our time is very valuable so compensation is required for all meetings.

Actually unless we decide otherwise your time is worth a minimum of $12/ hr. Not sure about you guys but I block these girls right away, chasing as many meet and greets as they can pull off without ever intending to get intimate.

https://www.seeking.com/member/7f75d...f-6c4f03f629d0

**CandyMan555** · 06-09-19 14:17

Originally Posted by Samuel05 [View Original Post]

Before I the ramble starts, I agonize over making negative posts, but in the spirit of sharing here goes. Hope you guys have better luck than I did.

Boom or bust week, lots of contacts and inquiries. Made 3, what thought would be solids, but you guessed it, one change of mind, next ghosted, third big scam.

#1 made a date for lunch, night before she had condo board issue. Reshedule for next day. She's very excited to meet. Texting back and forth during hockey game. Morning of, says life is mixed up and can't go into a relationship at this time. Appreciate the headsup.

https://www.seeking.com/logout?redir...4-41f3bb341d24

#2 wants to meet in person. Decide to walk through a large garden area with lots of historical information. Again, very excited. Text a confirming note morning of, no response. Time of, text 'are you coming'. She took a nap and just woke up. Send her a picture of one setting. She texts 'OMG so beautiful'. No answer as to are you coming. Finally, text her that she's ignoring me and I get the message.

https://www.seeking.com/member/73f82...e-58eec8fed13d

#3 WYP thing. Had credits that were just there for a long time. She asked for an offer. Made the offer, she accepted. She was pushing to meet ASAP. Set it up. Been mentioned here before without direct comment, so just assumed was OK. She was the girl in pictures, but from when. Instead of slim, was pear shaped. Clothes were somewhat worn. Very pale and had a cold sore. At the resturant she only wanted a small piece of pie and then then didn't eat it. Started complaining about stomach and the air conditioning. Her phone was buzzing the entire time, literally didn't stop, which was only about 15 minutes. Outside, she's adamant about wanting her price, even though during our initial texts she said she didn't expect anything. She really was on the verge of making a scene. Didn't want her anywhere near my car. Wish I had made a backup plan to exit at first glance.

Picture on far right woman from Amesbury I believe, went to her location dump of a room filthy bathroom Met her about 3 or 4 times in hotels in the woburn area ok a little flaky but BBFS 200 for the visit, don't pay any more one and done she is a bartender at a mens fraternal club.

Thants my two cents!! CM PM if you want.

**GlennDoyle91** · 06-09-19 12:56

Is it just me, or am I off base in demanding I don't pay for a meet and greet (this is on wyp and seeking)?

**Avash88** · 06-09-19 10:29

For wyp members you got to meet at a place you know that has an back exit and say you use the bathroom and then exit out the back. Before the meet set an alarm on phone that's like a phone call say its important you have go get it and then leave out the back.

**Samuel05** · 06-09-19 09:42

Before I the ramble starts, I agonize over making negative posts, but in the spirit of sharing here goes. Hope you guys have better luck than I did.

Boom or bust week, lots of contacts and inquiries. Made 3, what thought would be solids, but you guessed it, one change of mind, next ghosted, third big scam.

#1 made a date for lunch, night before she had condo board issue. Reshedule for next day. She's very excited to meet. Texting back and forth during hockey game. Morning of, says life is mixed up and can't go into a relationship at this time. Appreciate the headsup.

https://www.seeking.com/logout?redir...4-41f3bb341d24

#2 wants to meet in person. Decide to walk through a large garden area with lots of historical information. Again, very excited. Text a confirming note morning of, no response. Time of, text 'are you coming'. She took a nap and just woke up. Send her a picture of one setting. She texts 'OMG so beautiful'. No answer as to are you coming. Finally, text her that she's ignoring me and I get the message.

https://www.seeking.com/member/73f82...e-58eec8fed13d

#3 WYP thing. Had credits that were just there for a long time. She asked for an offer. Made the offer, she accepted. She was pushing to meet ASAP. Set it up. Been mentioned here before without direct comment, so just assumed was OK. She was the girl in pictures, but from when. Instead of slim, was pear shaped. Clothes were somewhat worn. Very pale and had a cold sore. At the resturant she only wanted a small piece of pie and then then didn't eat it. Started complaining about stomach and the air conditioning. Her phone was buzzing the entire time, literally didn't stop, which was only about 15 minutes. Outside, she's adamant about wanting her price, even though during our initial texts she said she didn't expect anything. She really was on the verge of making a scene. Didn't want her anywhere near my car. Wish I had made a backup plan to exit at first glance.