The Sugar Thread: Intel / Reviews / Contacts

[Herro]

Any intel on this one? My friend Talked on site off and on for a while with her. He said she Sounds like ready to finally meet.

https://www.seeking.com/member/7cf4f...e-473a077562ec

[Sicilly]

If that's the case then I certainly call BS. Unless there are that many scorn skanks on there that take time to report you for no reason at all.

I could maybe even go along with (not with 100% agreement mind you) perhaps I made one mention of financial in a slip up. But certainly not to the point where an algorithm kicked in after 'x' number of complaints.

But anyways. Who cares. If I decide to indulge in the site again, I can get on there if I choose. But after this, they may not get another cent from me. Who knows. Time will tell.

When the site was first up, I got suspended. I spoke with a csr there, a guy and he let it slip that there is indeed an auto ban / suspend after so many reports. I tried to dig deeper but he probably realized he wasn't suppose to say much about how they do things and he clamed up. Giggity.

[Scooter6]

They are careful and tight lipped about giving away how they know certain things and why they do certain things. From my observations, I think it takes more than a few complaints. I also think there "might" be an auto ban and or suspension they they receive a certain number of reports on you no matter if they are real or not. And I'm almost positive they read our messages back and forth to determine if we indeed did solicit.

If that's the case then I certainly call BS. Unless there are that many scorn skanks on there that take time to report you for no reason at all.

I could maybe even go along with (not with 100% agreement mind you) perhaps I made one mention of financial in a slip up. But certainly not to the point where an algorithm kicked in after 'x' number of complaints.

But anyways. Who cares. If I decide to indulge in the site again, I can get on there if I choose. But after this, they may not get another cent from me. Who knows. Time will tell.

[Sicilly]

I don't know with 100% certainty obviously if that's what happened. But I've been racking my brain since this happened as to what / who could have caused this.

I do not recall mentioning any financial aspects in any conversation I had with anyone. There were two of them who wanted an online type thing and I stated I preferred something in person etc. But as I said, I don't recall talking any financial arrangement with anyone on there. I'm very careful about that and I've been on that site for years.

I wish I knew the circumstances but I'm sure they wouldn't reveal any specifics to me so I haven't bothered to even pursue it.

But I do think it's VERY hypocritical that they take this approach. Let's not kid ourselves, we all know what happens there. And I can't think for the life of me that they're being 'regulated' and have to come down on mongers who do this type of thing, probably on the regular. So I would have liked to have hoped that they would look at the longevity of someone's membership IF in fact I slipped up and given me a warning. It's not like they've had to warn me repeatedly.

It's just off to me they went straight to banning me.

But oh well. If / when the time comes I can get back on there if I choose to.

I can't help but take this one personally though. Just seems too coincidental they did this the day before my membership was supposed to renew and I chose not to renew it.

They are careful and tight lipped about giving away how they know certain things and why they do certain things. From my observations, I think it takes more than a few complaints. I also think there "might" be an auto ban and or suspension they they receive a certain number of reports on you no matter if they are real or not. And I'm almost positive they read our messages back and forth to determine if we indeed did solicit.

[Scooter6]

Exactly how I handle it. I never talk about the financial part unless they bring it up first. After about 6-10 messages I usually exchange cell numbers. I've let my membership expire again (and hopefully for the last time) but I have about 5 or 6 new numbers to work with so it's just a matter of me finding the time to meet and then narrow it down to meet with for awhile. Honestly, I'm trying to tapper off from the hobby. But to your latter comment I didn't know they can suspend or ban you about conversations you have off the site thru text messages. Someone reporting your messages on the site yes, but sending a SB sending them personal conversations you've had thru text messages is new to me.

I don't know with 100% certainty obviously if that's what happened. But I've been racking my brain since this happened as to what / who could have caused this.

I do not recall mentioning any financial aspects in any conversation I had with anyone. There were two of them who wanted an online type thing and I stated I preferred something in person etc. But as I said, I don't recall talking any financial arrangement with anyone on there. I'm very careful about that and I've been on that site for years.

I wish I knew the circumstances but I'm sure they wouldn't reveal any specifics to me so I haven't bothered to even pursue it.

But I do think it's VERY hypocritical that they take this approach. Let's not kid ourselves, we all know what happens there. And I can't think for the life of me that they're being 'regulated' and have to come down on mongers who do this type of thing, probably on the regular. So I would have liked to have hoped that they would look at the longevity of someone's membership IF in fact I slipped up and given me a warning. It's not like they've had to warn me repeatedly.

It's just off to me they went straight to banning me.

But oh well. If / when the time comes I can get back on there if I choose to.

I can't help but take this one personally though. Just seems too coincidental they did this the day before my membership was supposed to renew and I chose not to renew it.

[FunNthaSun]

I do the same thing for all the same reasons you mentioned above.

All I can think is some skank that I didn't buy into their crap maybe sent copies of text messages to them or something.

Oh well. It is what it is.

Exactly how I handle it. I never talk about the financial part unless they bring it up first. After about 6-10 messages I usually exchange cell numbers. I've let my membership expire again (and hopefully for the last time) but I have about 5 or 6 new numbers to work with so it's just a matter of me finding the time to meet and then narrow it down to meet with for awhile. Honestly, I'm trying to tapper off from the hobby. But to your latter comment I didn't know they can suspend or ban you about conversations you have off the site thru text messages. Someone reporting your messages on the site yes, but sending a SB sending them personal conversations you've had thru text messages is new to me.

[Scooter6]

I know you said you're careful, but I try not to say anything at all about the financial arrangement. After an initial response and minimal smalltalk, I give a burner number to text and tell them to use it if they want to discuss anything further.

I also find by doing that the responses come a lot quicker than going through SA. They're probably communicating with several at a time via SA, I think getting them to go text focuses their attention more on our conversation.

I do the same thing for all the same reasons you mentioned above.

All I can think is some skank that I didn't buy into their crap maybe sent copies of text messages to them or something.

Oh well. It is what it is.

[Scooter6]

Well, they can unless you use a completely different pic, a new IP address and a new prepaid cc.

They can't stop me haha.

I'll just use my VPN to connect to them and different card etc. That's if I even decide to rejoin them.

Still pisses me off and I think it's all part of retaliation for me not renewing my membership. Or a scorn woman who had no basis to 'complain' and they just took her side.

I tried to contact support via their site and when I hit submit it gave an error that appears like their script couldn't execute on sending the complaint to their support team with a ticket number etc.

[ToeLover]

My prego friend is looking for other friends and asked again if could ask around here. The first time she only wanted me to give her number to five or six people but I guess they didn't come thru as hoped. I didn't go thru all my messages so if you sent me one previously there is no need to send another message. I've attached a few pics to cut down on the questions of what she looks like. She has a cute face and has a really sweet personality.

Been out of town and don't login while I'm gone. Care to share contact info for her?

[LatinaHunpster]

https://www.seeking.com/member/2ac61...6-2becc9507211

Is that from the Bigfoot video? LOL.

Yet her name invokes thoughts of the Loch Ness Monster. Something eerie going on here.

[Sicilly]

https://www.seeking.com/member/2ac61...6-2becc9507211

Is that from the Bigfoot video? LOL.

[Elroy69]

The communications were a bit strange. She came across a bit hostile even though she asked me to be direct in what I wanted. Thanks for the referral tho. Like you, I'm not into the bondage thing.

Your welcome, But I wouldn't say I'm not into Bondage. Just prefer to be addressed as a man. One of those SA cuties I got this for her and my pleasure-pretty much cums when she sees this and the the blindfold goes on. Almost nothing off limits after "the gear is in place".

*Tried to upload pics of Ankle and wrist cuffs and whip but it kept saying upload failed.

[PlayTiem]

I also find by doing that the responses come a lot quicker than going through SA. They're probably communicating with several at a time via SA, I think getting them to go text focuses their attention more on our conversation.

I'd bet that it's just that they're more used to texting 10 people at once on their phones, but switching to dealing with SA means they have to go to the site, log in, check for messages, etc. - not so good for Millenials' attention spans.

[Bud Green]

I know you said you're careful, but I try not to say anything at all about the financial arrangement. After an initial response and minimal smalltalk, I give a burner number to text and tell them to use it if they want to discuss anything further.

I also find by doing that the responses come a lot quicker than going through SA. They're probably communicating with several at a time via SA, I think getting them to go text focuses their attention more on our conversation.

I send a nice introduction message and if I don't get a response maybe another. If I do get a response and they are interested, I give a cell phone # as my objective is to move them off their asap and start a text messaging and then a public meet asap. I try to weed out the time wasters, scammers and druggies as quickly as possible.

[D Foto]

I know you said you're careful, but I try not to say anything at all about the financial arrangement. After an initial response and minimal smalltalk, I give a burner number to text and tell them to use it if they want to discuss anything further.

I also find by doing that the responses come a lot quicker than going through SA. They're probably communicating with several at a time via SA, I think getting them to go text focuses their attention more on our conversation.

So I get an email from SA at 5:09 am this morning advising that my account has been suspended permanently for violating their rules. And that I engaged in conversation soliciting sex for money.

Ironically yesterday I turned off auto-renew as I wasn't going to renew my membership.

I'm always very careful not to say too much detail when messaging on there. So, it's either they're punishing me for not renewing or some skank who didn't get what she wanted from me reported me with some nonsense.

Aren't they such hypocrites? More than 1/2 the female profiles on there all but come out and say they're looking for just what they're accusing me of.

Such nonsense. . but it is what it is at this point.

Ridiculous.