Seeking Arrangements

**Longjblues** · 05-24-19 17:27

Jojo, 38, brunette, 5'6, curvy. Let me know if anyone has any info. Thanks.

Here is link, profile, & pic.

https://www.seeking.com/member/71b23...b-b4ab9c9b79d8

Seeking.

Rent Assistance.

Single-Parent Support.

Tuition & School Support.

A relationship that provides me with the things I need to give my son the best life while I'm in school working towards my nursing degree.

**Aardvarks** · 05-24-19 15:38

This worked out great for me this week. Lots of options for decent hotel rooms opening from 10-4 in the Boston metro region. My cost for a room at one in Cambridge was $100. Really really nice room conveniently located and did not need the provide a ton of info.

https://www.dayuse.com

**Aardvarks** · 05-24-19 15:34

Originally Posted by EvilTmp [View Original Post]

First of all, I'll bet good money that this profile is fake, fake, fake. Probably some sort of scammer that wants 'gifts' to prove you're serious or something. If all the pics in the profile are not from the area you're in, it's fake.

Second of all, the platonic thing is just girls trying their luck at something they think just might exist. They're hunting for unicorns. It's free to create a profile on SA and their time is worth exactly what their minimum job gives them which is not much. I always laugh when young girls state 'my time is valuable'. No sweetie, your time is actually worth very little as confirmed by your job history!

OMG too true. "My time is valuable". I also hate it how the non platonic ones will cancel on you and think it's no big deal but when you cancel on them it's like a 3rd world war or the apocalypse.

**EvilTmp** · 05-24-19 09:23

Originally Posted by Aardvarks [View Original Post]

And here's another:

https://www.seeking.com/member/dbc22...4-bdccb5c8ae7d

"I cannot stress it enough I am NOT looking for intimacy so please stay far away if that's what you're expecting".

Yet on her first date she wants to go shopping. My rule of thumb is to take them shopping after a few hours of mind blowing sex. Kind of a reinforcement mechanism.

Maybe we need a separate platonic SA thread.

First of all, I'll bet good money that this profile is fake, fake, fake. Probably some sort of scammer that wants 'gifts' to prove you're serious or something. If all the pics in the profile are not from the area you're in, it's fake.

Second of all, the platonic thing is just girls trying their luck at something they think just might exist. They're hunting for unicorns. It's free to create a profile on SA and their time is worth exactly what their minimum job gives them which is not much. I always laugh when young girls state 'my time is valuable'. No sweetie, your time is actually worth very little as confirmed by your job history!

**JohnTies** · 05-23-19 22:48

This girl is damaged. She wants, thinks she deserves a weekly allowance because she had a boyfriend for a year and thinks she wasted her time LOL.

She deserves a real man to give her what she deserves. LOL.

Can you say GPS and severely jaded due to a bad relationship. Thinks she is owed something from men in general due to her picking a shitty guy for a boyfriend.

These girls are too funny and very entertaining. Who is going to bother contacting her after reading what she posted?

Does she really think guys will bother with her after seeing how and what she wants.

I laugh my ass off reading these profiles sometimes. Some really delusional girls out there.

**Aardvarks** · 05-23-19 18:06

Originally Posted by PaulRew [View Original Post]

And here is another pretty one who thinks she should get money for, well, being pretty.

https://www.seeking.com/member/56a55...e-f1b2da2b7bf8

And here's another:

https://www.seeking.com/member/dbc22...4-bdccb5c8ae7d

"I cannot stress it enough I am NOT looking for intimacy so please stay far away if that's what you're expecting".

Yet on her first date she wants to go shopping. My rule of thumb is to take them shopping after a few hours of mind blowing sex. Kind of a reinforcement mechanism.

Maybe we need a separate platonic SA thread.

**PaulRew** · 05-22-19 21:00

Originally Posted by OkWhatever [View Original Post]

To each their own, but I think any guy paying for someone to talk to them has lost their mind. These women don't give a shit about us or even listening to us. Sure, once in a while there might be a genuine one that actually likes you for who you are, but how often does that happen?

Guys don't pay for no action. If you need someone to talk to, get on Bumble and make some friends.

And here is another pretty one who thinks she should get money for, well, being pretty.

https://www.seeking.com/member/56a55...e-f1b2da2b7bf8

**Jyushin** · 05-22-19 16:41

https://www.seeking.com/member/d1bd5...3-9748d982ea91

She is cute but very busy making other dates LOL.

Short version -date at 4 pm. I got a hotel rm up in Amesbury, she in Newburyport. I'm driving up from Boston.

She postponed for later time and stated she is heading to Boston and have me pick her up in Newburyport at 8 pm. Even stated she can take train to Amesbury if there was one.

WTF. Why have me get a room in Amesbury. Why not drive up together. While she is telling me this. My friend had made an date for 830 and she agreed.

LOL whatever.

**OkWhatever** · 05-22-19 11:29

To each their own, but I think any guy paying for someone to talk to them has lost their mind. These women don't give a shit about us or even listening to us. Sure, once in a while there might be a genuine one that actually likes you for who you are, but how often does that happen?

Guys don't pay for no action. If you need someone to talk to, get on Bumble and make some friends.

Originally Posted by Aardvarks [View Original Post]

I guess there must be some older rich guys who just want to hang out with young girls and get no action. I don't know any but to each his own.

Good that you uncovered that platonic stuff early in the process. The way I approach uncovering whether they're DTF is I talk about how much I miss my past SB. And they usually ask what do I miss about her. I say something like "Oh we had such a good connection. We would do XYZ which was great but the bedroom stuff was out of this world. " Funny enough a lot of them get curious about what was so good in the bedroom. I tell them if they want details I will describe it over text and we jump to dirty talk. Or they don't respond and I know they're not going to put out.

**Joebags** · 05-19-19 08:44

This one is back in Nashua. Connected with her when she was in Maine. 1. 5 $ was the donation. Hosted when in my area. BBBJ and BBFS was on the table. Decent time lost her contact info.

https://www.seeking.com/member/884e3...e-376f12118594

**Aardvarks** · 05-17-19 20:22

Originally Posted by PaulRew [View Original Post]

Really hot and seemed like fun. She reached out, SA messaging and then to text. My profile is pretty clear that I am not looking for a buddy to hold my hand. Move to texting, start to line up schedules and she asks what I am looking for. Tell her the same friendly line, Coffee dates, lunches etc and a couple hours of intimate alone time. She responds " Great we are looking for the same things" So things are looking up I think until the next text is " But I want to keep this platonic okay?

https://www.seeking.com/member/e9309e4c-f70a-423a-9a74-2556ffe86062

I guess there must be some older rich guys who just want to hang out with young girls and get no action. I don't know any but to each his own.

Good that you uncovered that platonic stuff early in the process. The way I approach uncovering whether they're DTF is I talk about how much I miss my past SB. And they usually ask what do I miss about her. I say something like "Oh we had such a good connection. We would do XYZ which was great but the bedroom stuff was out of this world. " Funny enough a lot of them get curious about what was so good in the bedroom. I tell them if they want details I will describe it over text and we jump to dirty talk. Or they don't respond and I know they're not going to put out.

**PaulRew** · 05-17-19 18:35

Really hot and seemed like fun. She reached out, SA messaging and then to text. My profile is pretty clear that I am not looking for a buddy to hold my hand. Move to texting, start to line up schedules and she asks what I am looking for. Tell her the same friendly line, Coffee dates, lunches etc and a couple hours of intimate alone time. She responds " Great we are looking for the same things" So things are looking up I think until the next text is " But I want to keep this platonic okay?

https://www.seeking.com/member/e9309e4c-f70a-423a-9a74-2556ffe86062

**Tostone71** · 05-17-19 16:37

Originally Posted by OkWhatever [View Original Post]

Ghosting happens all the time. They usually do it when someone else comes along offering more.

OKwhatever is dead on. These girls are like eBay auctions, they are looking for the highest price, talking to many, and they have a 'buy now' button which can close the deal for a price in their head that ends the auction. If and when it comes along.

I've found the shorter ones are typically pros or non pros who want to get something fast so time is of the essence and they are doing the time / price tradeoff. Not that it is bad always. It can work to your advantage depending on what you're looking for. E. g. , you don't have to pretend you're interested in their life-long goals and will be there to help them consistently when all you want is to get laid.

**OkWhatever** · 05-17-19 12:29

Ghosting happens all the time. They usually do it when someone else comes along offering more.

Originally Posted by BRyan72 [View Original Post]

Seems pretty hot. Can host. Wants 4 - says you can pretty much do anything you want with her. Tried setting something up then she ghosted. Maybe someone here will have better luck.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a3e53...6-963f0649ed77

**StraightShutah** · 05-16-19 20:21

Originally Posted by BRyan72 [View Original Post]

Seems pretty hot. Can host. Wants 4 - says you can pretty much do anything you want with her. Tried setting something up then she ghosted. Maybe someone here will have better luck.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a3e53...6-963f0649ed77

Maybe it is just me but I have noticed that profiles with minimal description usually are scams / disappointments or fake profiles like a bot or something.