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**NaughtyBoy1** · 05-15-19 21:12

Thanks Orlo69. Eager for her return.

Originally Posted by Orlo69 [View Original Post]

Gentleman Nikkole is out of town on a trip, spoke with her a couple days ago she will be back next Thursday Friday she's out of state.

Stay safe.

Orlo69.

**Orlo69** · 05-15-19 18:28

Originally Posted by NaughtyBoy1 [View Original Post]

Guys any idea of what happened to nikkole. Trying to reach her since a week for possible date, but crickets. Is she done or changed her number? I have digits ending xxx-5766. Any info is appreciated.

Gentleman Nikkole is out of town on a trip, spoke with her a couple days ago she will be back next Thursday Friday she's out of state.

Stay safe.

Orlo69.

**Cook72** · 05-15-19 15:10

Originally Posted by NaughtyBoy1 [View Original Post]

Guys any idea of what happened to nikkole. Trying to reach her since a week for possible date, but crickets. Is she done or changed her number? I have digits ending xxx-5766. Any info is appreciated.

She has been known to take a break from time to time.

**OdinsBeard78** · 05-15-19 14:00

Originally Posted by NaughtyBoy1 [View Original Post]

Guys any idea of what happened to nikkole. Trying to reach her since a week for possible date, but crickets. Is she done or changed her number? I have digits ending xxx-5766. Any info is appreciated.

Last Friday I believe over on I drive. She didn't say a thing about leaving. She seemed pretty adamant about their being a next time with her and I. Sorry I didn't keep her number as I thought the ad would always be available. Hope theres no problem with her.

**NaughtyBoy1** · 05-15-19 13:45

Guys any idea of what happened to nikkole. Trying to reach her since a week for possible date, but crickets. Is she done or changed her number? I have digits ending xxx-5766. Any info is appreciated.

**Hamilton4** · 05-14-19 00:23

Originally Posted by Casey9 [View Original Post]

Yesterday morning, I reached out to Crystal69 for the first time. She responded before I had even set my phone down! I commented on her quick response and she replied "that is because you actually responded (to her ad) the way I wish everybody would. " She went on to say "I think that this should be the thing senior members share on posts. " Now, of course, this forum is not about keeping the providers happy, but I do think it's largely about keeping everyone comfortable and safe. Furthermore, I realize every provider is different just like every client is different, and I realize that lots of us have different methods which work for us.

Posts like this have been written many times before on this board and there are many great forum members with far more experience than me and I certainly welcome their feedback on this. For initial contact, this is what works for me and have often been complimented on.

Hi (provider's name), I am (whatever your hobby name is). I hope you're having a great day! My USA handle (SM / RM) is (USA handle). I would like to meet you at (day, be specific) at (your incall / my hotel etc) around (time, I try to be specific but indicate there might be a little wiggle room) if you are available? I think an (hour, etc.) would be great.

Here are my references: & _ .

I look forward to meeting you.

If you have no references, seek out reputable, Newbie Friendly providers. Often their ad or website will have screening procedures. Figure out exactly how much personal information you are willing to share, and SHARE IT ALL FROM THE BEGINNING. A frequently reviewed provider has absolutely no motivation to abuse this trust. Don't try to play it slow or cool. Always be respectful, never be lewd. And for God's sake, if the ad says text, then text. If it says email, then email. Etc. After seeing just 2 or 3 reputable providers, your references may become most, if not all, of the information you'll need to share. Until then, suck it up. A provider who doesn't properly screen can be a red flag to meif her own safety isn't important to her, how important will mine be? Or it makes me wonder if she actually has no intention of seeing the date through, maybe it's a scam or set-up.

Anyone have anything to add?

Casey.

Thank you Casey for taking the time to share your thoughts. Well said and you definitely make the provider feel as if she is of value as a human being. Often times I think that "some" mongers come across as if we're doing the provider a favor when in fact it is a two way street. Again, I say "some" mongers because I know there are a lot of us that treat the providers very well. At the end of the day we are all just people traveling different paths but the main point is that we are all people and each one of us is of value and one no more than another.

Once again, thanks for your thoughts and gentle reminder.

Be safe!

Hamilton4.

**Casey9** · 05-12-19 02:03

Yesterday morning, I reached out to Crystal69 for the first time. She responded before I had even set my phone down! I commented on her quick response and she replied "that is because you actually responded (to her ad) the way I wish everybody would. " She went on to say "I think that this should be the thing senior members share on posts. " Now, of course, this forum is not about keeping the providers happy, but I do think it's largely about keeping everyone comfortable and safe. Furthermore, I realize every provider is different just like every client is different, and I realize that lots of us have different methods which work for us.

Posts like this have been written many times before on this board and there are many great forum members with far more experience than me and I certainly welcome their feedback on this. For initial contact, this is what works for me and have often been complimented on.

Hi (provider's name), I am (whatever your hobby name is). I hope you're having a great day! My USA handle (SM / RM) is (USA handle). I would like to meet you at (day, be specific) at (your incall / my hotel etc) around (time, I try to be specific but indicate there might be a little wiggle room) if you are available? I think an (hour, etc.) would be great.

Here are my references: & _ .

I look forward to meeting you.

If you have no references, seek out reputable, Newbie Friendly providers. Often their ad or website will have screening procedures. Figure out exactly how much personal information you are willing to share, and SHARE IT ALL FROM THE BEGINNING. A frequently reviewed provider has absolutely no motivation to abuse this trust. Don't try to play it slow or cool. Always be respectful, never be lewd. And for God's sake, if the ad says text, then text. If it says email, then email. Etc. After seeing just 2 or 3 reputable providers, your references may become most, if not all, of the information you'll need to share. Until then, suck it up. A provider who doesn't properly screen can be a red flag to me—if her own safety isn't important to her, how important will mine be? Or it makes me wonder if she actually has no intention of seeing the date through, maybe it's a scam or set-up.

Anyone have anything to add?

Casey.

**Chow2000** · 05-08-19 14:24

Originally Posted by OrlandoLurker [View Original Post]

I had a non-hobby date with her a while ago and followed up enough afterward to know she had a stroke at some point. She's still alive, but no idea about her hobby status.

Thanks for updates. Yeah I saw her several times after her hospital visit. Didn't seem to change anything service wise atleast. I know she said something about having financial situation etc with moving. Would be great to connect again with her as I have seen her for years then silent. Thanks and good lookin our!

**Smitten** · 05-08-19 14:07

Originally Posted by OrlandoLurker [View Original Post]

I had a non-hobby date with her a while ago and followed up enough afterward to know she had a stroke at some point. She's still alive, but no idea about her hobby status.

That's sad to hear and wish her well. I might be thinking of someone else, but thought she had a kid not that long ago?

**Ding A Ling** · 05-08-19 07:02

Originally Posted by Chow2000 [View Original Post]

Hey guys anyone know whatever happens to the redhead kat? She was in maitland winterpark area, had seen her for years and now haven't heard anything for months. Just wondering if anyone had any info or new contact info? Thanks.

I miss her, she was so much fun and had a great sense of humor.

**ShadowMover** · 05-08-19 06:40

Originally Posted by SevenYearMitch [View Original Post]

Disney is much better than Universal for dreams in my experience, have received many a BBBJ on Haunted Mansion and Tomorrowland Transit Authority rides, LOL.

Hey I think this was my 400th post!
SYM

Hey congratulations on 400, ,I did have random luck on picking up a cute little latin late 20's just off Kirkman on international, she was walking looked a little lost near Red Lobster. I ask if she needed a ride she first said no, then started to talk so we got some lunch. She seemed cool. I did give her that ride and she did give me needed road head for being so nice. You never know who you dealing with good or bad. Be safe.

**SevenYearMitch** · 05-07-19 10:52

Originally Posted by LordCommander [View Original Post]

Magical Dream
Coming to Florida on a little vacation and staying at Universal, anyone ever have a dream there?

Disney is much better than Universal for dreams in my experience, have received many a BBBJ on Haunted Mansion and Tomorrowland Transit Authority rides, LOL.

Hey I think this was my 400th post!
SYM

**OrlandoLurker** · 05-06-19 19:59

Originally Posted by Chow2000 [View Original Post]

Hey guys anyone know whatever happens to the redhead kat? She was in maitland winterpark area, had seen her for years and now haven't heard anything for months. Just wondering if anyone had any info or new contact info? Thanks.

I had a non-hobby date with her a while ago and followed up enough afterward to know she had a stroke at some point. She's still alive, but no idea about her hobby status.

**Chow2000** · 05-06-19 16:20

Hey guys anyone know whatever happens to the redhead kat? She was in maitland winterpark area, had seen her for years and now haven't heard anything for months. Just wondering if anyone had any info or new contact info? Thanks.