Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

**Big Mac Daddy** · 04-19-19 18:22

Originally Posted by XxMarkXx [View Original Post]

Let me say that I had texted with her a few times last year. We setup 2 dates, she stood me up both times and then ghosted. I moved on and met some other girls, let my SA membership expire. Fast forward to a few months ago. Re upped to the site and saw her profile. I messaged her, we exchanged numbers and, bam, her number was already a contact. I did not say anything about it, but just played it like we had just met.

Long story short, we met for lunch, had a great time, really hit it off. We had multiple dates after that. She was always fresh and clean. She is very good looking and just has a smoking body. Not a spinner at all, but great proportions, loves doggie, so it's a great view.

She is definitely not comfortable with the arrangement concept. While she was not mechanical at all, I know she was uneasy. After a few dates, she stood me up for a date and ghosted.

I have some ideas about her issues, which would be fairly personal, if I am right. I don't think drugs or alcohol are involved, I just don't think that this is for her. I wish it were different, I found her a great dinner date and well, she is just my type, so I found her gorgeous.

If her profile reactivates and you get a date with her, treat her well, I think under the ghosting she really is a good person.

I wrote a review here on this one "Jamie" probably less than a year ago. (last summer). I also reported her so she just created a new account

She's a cash and dash artist, so don't fall for her BS. Back then the was a bartender in West Hartford driving a beat up Cadillac. Ending phone digits are 8725.

Jaiianna
35 • Female • Hartford, Connecticut, United States

Simple&Sweet

That's probably why her Lydia profile never showed any face pics.

BMD.

**XxMarkXx** · 04-19-19 17:42

Originally Posted by Swm11 [View Original Post]

That's what thought.

I was talking to her as well and got her number to set something up.

When I went to text her after seeing her profile down I noticed I had been texting that same number a year ago.

Here are some pictures from her old profile.

Let me say that I had texted with her a few times last year. We setup 2 dates, she stood me up both times and then ghosted. I moved on and met some other girls, let my SA membership expire. Fast forward to a few months ago. Re upped to the site and saw her profile. I messaged her, we exchanged numbers and, bam, her number was already a contact. I did not say anything about it, but just played it like we had just met.

Long story short, we met for lunch, had a great time, really hit it off. We had multiple dates after that. She was always fresh and clean. She is very good looking and just has a smoking body. Not a spinner at all, but great proportions, loves doggie, so it's a great view.

She is definitely not comfortable with the arrangement concept. While she was not mechanical at all, I know she was uneasy. After a few dates, she stood me up for a date and ghosted.

I have some ideas about her issues, which would be fairly personal, if I am right. I don't think drugs or alcohol are involved, I just don't think that this is for her. I wish it were different, I found her a great dinner date and well, she is just my type, so I found her gorgeous.

If her profile reactivates and you get a date with her, treat her well, I think under the ghosting she really is a good person.

**MyHobby** · 04-19-19 12:47

https://www.seeking.com/member/bf26e...0-093eb5847532

Has been on the site before. Just looking to get money for nothing.

**Swm11** · 04-19-19 11:07

Originally Posted by BigMacDaddy [View Original Post]

The link is correct. She has hidden or deactivated her account.

Lydiiaa.

36 Female Hartford, Connecticut, United States.

That's what thought.

I was talking to her as well and got her number to set something up.

When I went to text her after seeing her profile down I noticed I had been texting that same number a year ago.

Here are some pictures from her old profile.

**ILoveThatPoo** · 04-19-19 10:42

Look her up on Seeking. You will not be disappointed. Poo.

Jlovie303.

**BigBoss203** · 04-19-19 10:36

Originally Posted by Ronhere32 [View Original Post]

Wife created a profile to see what it was like. Everyday girl not a professional. Had a few good experiences but most guys on there are lunatics.

What's the profile link?

**BigBoss203** · 04-19-19 10:33

Originally Posted by TopGun9 [View Original Post]

This girl goes by Kandice, and is a straight up BP girl. Immediately asking to "meet today" and quoted 150 for her time. Told her to look elsewhere.

https://www.seeking.com/member/2fde3...c-ee166fbc1b11

Yes same here. She also told me she records all her dates.

Be warned.

**Diapason** · 04-19-19 01:12

Originally Posted by Troutman [View Original Post]

1) after I make the offer and they accept it, I initiate contact. Keep contact very simple, offer to meet over lunch, dinner, drinks, whatever.

2) my opening offer is always $100.90% of the time that is accepted. Sometimes they counter higher, say $200, then I come back with $150. Always accepted.

3) no, they are all more interested in making sure your breath is fresh, you have no open sores, and you're no out to cheat them. I have NEVER been ripped off by one of these girls.

4) most of the repeats are at NO ADDITIONAL CHARGE. Some of them want to maintain an ongoing financial arrangement, but most of them seem to be happy with my desire to help them explore a woman's limitless capacity for orgasm.

In my experience this is fantasy. Most WYP girls are expecting to get wined and dined and then paid for wasting your time. Congrats if this is what your experience is like.

**TopGun9** · 04-18-19 19:16

This girl goes by Kandice, and is a straight up BP girl. Immediately asking to "meet today" and quoted 150 for her time. Told her to look elsewhere.

https://www.seeking.com/member/2fde3...c-ee166fbc1b11

**TopGun9** · 04-18-19 18:59

Originally Posted by M9999 [View Original Post]

I just logged into SA today and was able to read messages that I received. You used to need a premium membership to be able to read your messages. I was able to get a few phone numbers that were sent to me after my premium membership had expired.

Unfortunately you still need a premium membership to send messages.

You know that there's a trick to read messages without Premium right? By using the "Inspect" page function.

Do a search for it, someone did a whole page manual on this topic.

**Big Mac Daddy** · 04-18-19 13:33

Originally Posted by Swm11 [View Original Post]

I can't see the profile.

Did you spell the name right?

The link is correct. She has hidden or deactivated her account.

Lydiiaa.

36 • Female • Hartford, Connecticut, United States.

**Swm11** · 04-18-19 12:00

Originally Posted by TheClamSnack [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/58a39...1-29dbc5ebed61

I met with liidia today and not really worth it. Not into it.

150 for s half hour and I was just disappointed. Ok person maybe.

We just didn't hit it off. Not real fresh down stairs and didn't really want to give head.

I can't see the profile.

Did you spell the name right?

**M9999** · 04-18-19 05:45

Looks like the software bug that let you read messages without a premium membership yesterday was fixed. Now you see "upgrade to read".

Originally Posted by M9999 [View Original Post]

I just logged into SA today and was able to read messages that I received. You used to need a premium membership to be able to read your messages. I was able to get a few phone numbers that were sent to me after my premium membership had expired.

Unfortunately you still need a premium membership to send messages.

**M9999** · 04-17-19 22:05

I just logged into SA today and was able to read messages that I received. You used to need a premium membership to be able to read your messages. I was able to get a few phone numbers that were sent to me after my premium membership had expired.

Unfortunately you still need a premium membership to send messages.

**TopGun9** · 04-17-19 20:25

Originally Posted by Ilsw203 [View Original Post]

She was talked about on the waterbury section. She sets up hidden cameras to record you. She also brags about it on her site.

This is one of the reasons I never go to a girl's place. Too easy to set up.

I think I went to the girl's apartment exactly once in my many years in this hobby. Always do hotel, motel, or car dates. And NEVER ever bring them back to your home.