"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[Tidad]

Bingo, word of mouth.

There is a sorority at VCU that happens to have a lot of SBs, they all know each other and talk.

Why all the mystery? Why not say which sorority?

[Taylor Taste]

Total waste of time. She wanted to know details of my past arrangements and how "compensation" for her time would be provided per activity.

She is on and off SA so much that she won't be much of a lawyer if she can't negotiate a long term deal for herself.

Yes. I'm quite sure there's a pretty clear and direct relationship between setting clear expectations as to compensation for her work and failure in the many varied career paths she may take with her JD.

[DWinthrop]

I had one tell me last summer I had a reputation of moving on after a few dates. She blocked me before I could reply to that. I have unknowingly been out with SA roomates and ones that had friends on SA. So that reputation may be word of mouth not from a list somewhere.

Bingo, word of mouth.

There is a sorority at VCU that happens to have a lot of SBs, they all know each other and talk.

[DWinthrop]

Don't underestimate these girls. They suck at adulting maybe but theyre on top of their game when it comes to texting & social media.

I've also seen them post notes, both positive & negative using the Mr Number app. I check my play & real cell number from time to time. Nothing on my real number but my play number has a comment, "Bell Road Guy, very nice & tips". Was left a few years ago from a regular traveling escort I use to see when she came to town. She also White Listed me on TER, which was nice of her.

Another reason for using a burner or second number texting app. A few times fellow Mongers have texted me & must have been using their work phones. The company or organization they worked for automatically showed instead of the number they were texting me from. I let one Monger know to give him a heads up & I think he flipped out. Never heard from him again.

I downloaded the app when it was free to know when telemarketers were calling my cell. Now you can download a paid version that will give you the name of anyone texting or calling from a land line or cell. Of course no info from a burner or texting app, so far.

I think there is definitely a word of mouth reputation thing. But the college / amateur SBs don't keep a communally updated "list" The UTR / escorts types, certainly have some more formal ratings etc.

However, I get a new profile every time I pay for a month of SA, specifically so I don't run into these issues.

I have been with two 18 yo VCU students who are roommates and on the site, they obviously communicate. Turns out there are about 10 girls in a sorority who do this, and they obviously compare notes. But the idea of them sharing an organized "List" with their friends at other colleges is silly.

A daily list would be an awful of of work, and most of 18-21 college girls I'm banging from SA aren't on it because they like to work hard.

[DoggieFan]

I'd like to know more about the list? Is it on facebook, or instagram? Email?

To be honest, it sounds a little more organized than these ****** are capable of.

Don't underestimate these girls. They suck at adulting maybe but theyre on top of their game when it comes to texting & social media.

I've also seen them post notes, both positive & negative using the Mr Number app. I check my play & real cell number from time to time. Nothing on my real number but my play number has a comment, "Bell Road Guy, very nice & tips". Was left a few years ago from a regular traveling escort I use to see when she came to town. She also White Listed me on TER, which was nice of her.

Another reason for using a burner or second number texting app. A few times fellow Mongers have texted me & must have been using their work phones. The company or organization they worked for automatically showed instead of the number they were texting me from. I let one Monger know to give him a heads up & I think he flipped out. Never heard from him again.

I downloaded the app when it was free to know when telemarketers were calling my cell. Now you can download a paid version that will give you the name of anyone texting or calling from a land line or cell. Of course no info from a burner or texting app, so far.

[JustLonely]

I'd like to know more about the list? Is it on facebook, or instagram? Email?

To be honest, it sounds a little more organized than these ****** are capable of.

I had one tell me last summer I had a reputation of moving on after a few dates. She blocked me before I could reply to that. I have unknowingly been out with SA roomates and ones that had friends on SA. So that reputation may be word of mouth not from a list somewhere.

[JustLonely]

How about this one? https://www.seeking.com/member/0c9e1...f-880a293b2414.

Messaged with her a little bit, seems to have a very high opinion of herself. Anyone have any experience?

Total waste of time. She wanted to know details of my past arrangements and how "compensation" for her time would be provided per activity.

She is on and off SA so much that she won't be much of a lawyer if she can't negotiate a long term deal for herself.

[DWinthrop]

If you wind up on "The List," the girls will band together to get you kicked off. An updated list goes out daily through social media. I had to go back and make it up to the original girl who put me on there in order to get off of it. It involves the SA girls from VCU, you of are, UVA, and Tech. Have you ever gotten blocked before even talking to a girl? That's why.

I'd like to know more about the list? Is it on facebook, or instagram? Email?

To be honest, it sounds a little more organized than these ****** are capable of.

[Tidad]

If you wind up on "The List," the girls will band together to get you kicked off. An updated list goes out daily through social media. I had to go back and make it up to the original girl who put me on there in order to get off of it. It involves the SA girls from VCU, you of are, UVA, and Tech. Have you ever gotten blocked before even talking to a girl? That's why.

Where have you seen this list?

[Truncated]

I have a pic, so that gave me the ability to message. I sent out a msg to some old SB's with my new phone # so that was probably it. Guess I need to sign up again with a new email.

Check out the SugarLifestyleForum reddit. They have some good tips on how not to get banned, or how to get back on if banned.

Be aware that it's moderated by sugar babies with GPS.

[Spiderrva]

I just went to sign into my SA account, I am not premium, and got messaged that my account has been deleted. Anyone else ever have this happen?

If you wind up on "The List," the girls will band together to get you kicked off. An updated list goes out daily through social media. I had to go back and make it up to the original girl who put me on there in order to get off of it. It involves the SA girls from VCU, you of are, UVA, and Tech. Have you ever gotten blocked before even talking to a girl? That's why.

[ErkTheOne]

How about this one? https://www.seeking.com/member/0c9e1...f-880a293b2414.

Messaged with her a little bit, seems to have a very high opinion of herself. Anyone have any experience?

[ErkTheOne]

Anyone know anything about this one? https://www.seeking.com/member/0abe3...9-b6a2dea815b3.

Have tried talking with her a few times and she will message back once or twice but then go dark.

[Truncated]

OK, many of you SDs presumably have a reputation you care about, now and in the hereafter. What provisions have you made to have everything associated w / the bowl purged should you meet your maker in an untimely and unexpected way. I have a trusted colleague who has received a sealed envelope from me, w / instructions to open it and do what it says if I buy the farm.

If you're dead, what does it matter?

Your family (or the state, if you have no family) are going to sort through your crap and throw away anything that they don't want. Other than that, you will quickly become a distant memory.

Who cares if they get a chuckle out of your porn or mongering habit? Own it. Again, you'll be dead.

There is no shame or embarrassment within a casket.

[Truncated]

A few thoughts.

Trying to hide your identity in 2019 is pretty-much pointless. Sooner or later, you will slip up. Your phone will give you up, or the hotel, or something else. You'll forget a receipt or other paperwork somewhere, at some time.

Personally, I don't hide my real name from girls I meet on the site. I don't see the point.

Realize that most hotels use a database that links to your real identity at check-in, regardless of what information you provide on the reservation. You can book the room under John Doe. But if your real name is John Smith, the hotel is going to figure that out at check in when you show your I'd or present your CC. Even if you provide a fake address on the reservation, the hotel can grab your real address from the CC or another database, then cross-reference to sign you up for their points program, and you'll start getting crap in the mail or via email even if you didn't expressly sign up for the program.

That's a good point.

So since making my first outcall, I was wondering if.

Using Hotwire is okay since I need to provide name and address as it appears on DL and a valid CC. CC is okay as I don't have SO looking at that.

OR.

Should I just book the room on site and provide my DL and CC? In this case, the girl is in my car, so I'll need to remove all paperwork from glove compartment.

Still thinking what's the best way to book the room so that apart from the above I can leave without having to checkout at desk.

Anything else I should look for as I go about my first outcall. .