Sugar Daddy Sites

[PussyPumper]

My only concern with sugar babes is that they are not true professionals. This might be good until things work well, but I wonder whether the lack of professionalism might come and bit you in the ass once the relationship is over, or if the sugar babe is not happy about the treatment you are giving her. Any experience with sugar babes blackmailing you after the relationship is over? Or calling you to get more money or telling you "I'll spill the beans with your wife or girlfriend"?

I don't worry about that, as I never use my real name, phone no. Or email.

[PussyPumper]

Any way to identify or seek out girls who are open to or willing to try anal?

I have only come across one girl open to this in 3 years. I must be doing something wrong!

[TomDickNHarry]

Agree with most.

Let me add what's going on in my area:

31. "Buy a few pics and videos until we can meet," or "I want to meet but like to start out online until I'm comfortable. " Translation, they have no intention of meeting but dangling a carrot to you about that possibility to get you to buy something you can get for free on the internet. Why in the hell would they ever meet in person when they can find retards to send them money for a pic.

21. There are a huge number of very short girls on SA. I can't believe how many 4'11" and under chicks are listed. I've seen 4'6" for fuck's sake. Maybe it's because I'm searching a lot of Asians but, Lordy. - AWESOME. RIGHT?

22. There is a rising tide of tranny listings and two-girls-at-once listings on SA. - AGREED.

23. There is a small percentage of girls whose profiles keep disappearing and re-appearing under different names with the same photos and profile info. Either they are scammers and want to avoid the blocks which they are getting or they're getting shut down for breaking the rules and need to come back in under a different name. - I NEVER SEEM TO RUN INTO THIS.

24. When a girl posts a photo of herself in a bathroom mirror and there is an open toilet in the shot, she is completely self-obsessed. She literally doesn't notice that she's featuring a shit bucket in her photo because she only sees herself. - MAYBE.

25. There are an annoying number of SB profiles with "Platonic" tags and it's impossible to tell without spending valuable time questioning whether the tag is just there to give them plausible deniability if they are ever charged or whether it's genuine. The genuine ones irritate the shit out of me. You want me to pay you a monthly fee to take you to lunch? Are you out of your fucking mind? - HAVING SPOKEN TO A FEW, MY ADVICE IS JUST HIDE THEIR PROFILES.

26. There is a small but annoying number of accounts who DM you from a distant location and then try to sell you nude photos. Who would fall for that? - ONCE IN A GREAT WHILE I GET THIS.

27. There is a Venmo scam where an account with pix of a hot-looking local girl quickly agrees to see you and claims to be pretty close to you. She says that she needs a token of good will so please Venmo her a few dollars for gas money. She doesn't specify how much, so it seems like a harmless ask, but the "girl" rakes in $5-20 per sucker and then disappears. It's a volume business for the guy running the scam. - EVERYONES ENTITLED TO MAKE A LIVING.

28. If a chick only has one profile pic and it doesn't show her face, she is either surprisingly ugly or surprisingly pretty. The ugly ones do it for obvious reasons. The pretty ones do it because they are genuinely afraid of being recognized and are trying to keep what they're doing on the DL. - I WON'T MESSAGE A GIRL WITH NO FACE PIC IN HER PROFILE (AND A GOOD BODY SHOT).

29. If a chick's profile has a picture of her doing the splits, it's a very good sign. - IF YOU LIKE CHEERLEADERS OR BALLERINA'S

30. An annoyingly large number of accounts show L. A. As the location of the SB when they actually live somewhere else. They claim to want to move to L. A. Or they just moved away from L. A. , but what they're really trying to do is get you to fly them to L. A. And they sucker you in with the L. A. Tag. I instantly block anyone who pulls this shit. - VERY COMMON.

[FarFarAway]

At this point, my paid subscription to Seeking has lapsed and I'm still getting a bunch of messages, but can't read any of them. Finding that it's frankly easier to monger since that's on demand and you don't have to worry as much about the blackmail (although you never know, eg, Robert Kraft), at least for now. Have some other pans in the fire but no SBs for now, unless she happens to fall in my lap literally.

You *can read messages, there is a how-to on the Richmond thread. You just can't send any. If you are lucky, a girl will put her email or phone # in the message. Those tend to be more UTR or outright pros, though.

[HollywoodGuy]

So I signed up for seeking arrangements and I set up a meet and greet with a black gal. She is a second year at USC majoring in Computational Linguistics (B. A.). I told her that I was new to this and she said she was new to this as well. I said how do we work this. She quoted me $400 for a session which would be agreed to at a meet and greet. She said we would meet at a starbucks that she uses for meetings. I said, wait, you said this was your first time, and she said, oh, I have one other guy who is trying to meet me, so I said, OK, but she said "meeting" and she said, oh, she might have met some other guys, I just left it alone because she is a nonpro.

I asked her if she offered a promotional discount and she said, OK, she can go as low as $250.00 which would be a start rate if I become a regular.

I said "regular" I thought you were a non pro. She said, oh, I heard that guys can be regulars.

Anyhow, I show up at the starbucks and recognized her and texted her, she was with a guy so she texted me to hold off for a few minutes.

He left, he was a white dude in like his 50's and he gave her his card.

We talked and she agreed to go to my place (I had to send her an uber and she used her account, so it was just added to the bill) that very night, except she said she had to leave early for other appointments (weird, because she said she was a nonpro).

So, later that day, she came to my place with a few different types of condoms. She had a nice figure and we were in the FC for at most 25 minutes and she got some texts and had to go.

She was really sweet and said that I was nicer than the other guys on seeking arrangements. That was weird, I thougth she was a non pro.

If you keep looking, you will find one. And if the NP is your goal, just walk the moment you see a red flag. Its a numbers game. You will hear that over and over if you keep reading this thread. Every pro starts out as an NP. So some one has to be the first. Right? Just like every LTR starts out as a one night stand.

Once I stopped chasing NP's as my mission in life I turned to a new pursuit. It started out as a financial reality. Suddenly I just didnt have the funds I used to have. So the only way I could stay in the game was to cut my donation to a $ a date. A fair number of the girls I get today are either going to only be worth that, but then there are the ones that routinely get $$ to $$$$ that I talk down to a $. Most of them ditch me pretty fast once it sinks in that it will never go up. But sometimes I get lucky and find a girl that just likes me and becomes a regular.

[HollywoodGuy]

Going to Palm Desert tomorrow on my clients dime for a couple of days, and I get to bring my SB / GF along for the ride. That's probably about 5 bills comped. Nothing better than getting to fuck my baby on someone else's tab.

[MidnightDabber]

I can't go on SA anymore but it was the most active. Any one have any ideas? I didn't even necessarily want to do anything myself but I did want one to help out with uh certain fantasies etc.

[Yoyo8899]

I'd never heard of Dayuse, but I just looked at it and it seems like an amazing game-changing tool for the Sugar Bowl. I have turned down so many bitches because they are (1) an hour away from me; (2) don't drive; and (3) can't host. But with Dayuse (if it's for real and works), that opens up a whole new world to me of girls who live out in the boonies.

Has anyone here used Dayuse and have any pointers?

Amazing.

There's also HotelsbyDay and other types of hotel apps. Have used both Dayuse and HBD and they are legit.

[HollywoodGuy]

I'd never heard of Dayuse, but I just looked at it and it seems like an amazing game-changing tool for the Sugar Bowl. I have turned down so many bitches because they are (1) an hour away from me; (2) don't drive; and (3) can't host. But with Dayuse (if it's for real and works), that opens up a whole new world to me of girls who live out in the boonies.

Has anyone here used Dayuse and have any pointers?

Amazing.

Never used it. But obviously legit. Just saw the boneventure in DTLA for 109. And you get 6 hours or more. Pretty cool. Still doesn't beat the no-tel 2 hour rate of .4. But if you got the coin seems like a great deal.

[HollywoodGuy]

I appreciate the feedback. Will see if I can manage to safely get a FC setup.

Look for a short stay no-tel or better if you can afford it. Its become my lifeline the last year or so.

[CummingUndone]

https://www.seeking.com/member/27a10...c-6af3d6ffefdb

ME
I pay $100 a date once we decide to start an arrangement (for an hour or more of your time).

Violetgotthesauce
That sounds amazing babe and I'm cool with the 100 to go get coffee or something to get to know each other but I also don't want to lead you on because my allowance for an arrangement is 5-600.

Violetgotthesauce
But I'm well worth it I'm a porn star babe.

ME
Out of my league. But thanks for the info and being polite about it.

Do you think she would have let you go bareback?

[PriscillaM]

So I signed up for seeking arrangements and I set up a meet and greet with a black gal. She is a second year at USC majoring in Computational Linguistics (B. A.). I told her that I was new to this and she said she was new to this as well. I said how do we work this. She quoted me $400 for a session which would be agreed to at a meet and greet. She said we would meet at a starbucks that she uses for meetings. I said, wait, you said this was your first time, and she said, oh, I have one other guy who is trying to meet me, so I said, OK, but she said "meeting" and she said, oh, she might have met some other guys, I just left it alone because she is a nonpro.

I asked her if she offered a promotional discount and she said, OK, she can go as low as $250.00 which would be a start rate if I become a regular.

I said "regular" I thought you were a non pro. She said, oh, I heard that guys can be regulars.

Anyhow, I show up at the starbucks and recognized her and texted her, she was with a guy so she texted me to hold off for a few minutes.

He left, he was a white dude in like his 50's and he gave her his card.

We talked and she agreed to go to my place (I had to send her an uber and she used her account, so it was just added to the bill) that very night, except she said she had to leave early for other appointments (weird, because she said she was a nonpro).

So, later that day, she came to my place with a few different types of condoms. She had a nice figure and we were in the FC for at most 25 minutes and she got some texts and had to go.

She was really sweet and said that I was nicer than the other guys on seeking arrangements. That was weird, I thougth she was a non pro.

[HollywoodGuy]

I wouldn't date this one if she paid me!! LOL.

Membership is free for girls for life. So what have they got to lose. My GF watches reality TV, and when I see those aging but trying to look hot not MILFS, I think who are the crazy rich guys supporting these psycho (you fill in the blank). With their money they could have 10's everyday. But such is life.

[Madaboutmax]

I wouldn't date this one if she paid me!! LOL.

I've shared before my theory that a SB's level of insanity directly correlates with how much text she includes in her profile. Well, behold this completely insane baby.

https://www.seeking.com/member/94a81...3-415a6c157314

[HollywoodGuy]

25. There are an annoying number of SB profiles with "Platonic" tags and it's impossible to tell without spending valuable time questioning whether the tag is just there to give them plausible deniability if they are ever charged or whether it's genuine. The genuine ones irritate the shit out of me. You want me to pay you a monthly fee to take you to lunch? Are you out of your fucking mind?

Platonic = Moronic.