"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**Johnny Mapalo** · 03-06-19 14:28

https://www.seeking.com/member/94637...1-fa567fce6909

This chic or broski just messaged me out of the blue wanting to know if I wanted an arrangement. WTF! What's going on in the world today when I have to question whether it's a male or a female. You be the judge. Smdh.

**DogBert77** · 03-06-19 13:59

Originally Posted by Ripvan12 [View Original Post]

I have read some posts here where mongers say don't put married in your SA profile and in my opinion that is cruising for a bruising. Sure it opens you up to more poon tang but if they discover the lie there could be hell to pay. Ripper.

I am married and have it in my profile. Aside from the risk of getting yourself into a "Fatal Attraction" or blackmail scenario, you also have to think about who your profile is going to attract. I can mostly only play in the daytime, and that is hard to explain if you aren't married. Lots of girls on SA want to go on regular dates. If you are married and can go out that in the evening, great, maybe you can conceal your status from them. But if you can't and you try to act like you aren't married, you are just going to waste a lot of time.

There are some girls, although a minority, on SA that actually prefer married men because they know you will keep the arrangement limited and not turn into a "real boyfriend" on them. Putting married in your profile helps you connect with those women.

**DogBert77** · 03-06-19 13:44

Originally Posted by PlayerOne [View Original Post]

Stay the fuck away. You've been warned. She gave me 2 STIs and stole 7 grand from me.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3b8c1...f-2bdfa30af5ef

You are doing us all a public service by warning and should be commended. But the SA link is dead. Can you post a picture so we know who to stay away from?

**NewAnonymousName** · 03-06-19 13:14

Originally Posted by PlayerOne [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/b793f...5-2da8d7ab1b29

She took me for 7 grand. You've been warned.

Her new profile is gone too. Do you have a picture you can post? Or, if she creates a new profile yet again, can you copy one of her pictures from SA and post it here?

**DRickGiver5** · 03-06-19 12:36

Originally Posted by 2me4Looking2 [View Original Post]

If I'm not mistaken, this is her. https://milfy.com.atlanta.listcrawle...29498385/phats I think she has had some good reviews, but she is definitely a pro.

That's not Phats and still don't see why you would think that. Those are two different women.

**Member #5932** · 03-06-19 11:13

Originally Posted by Ripvan12 [View Original Post]

Sorry you lost your marriage man. Sucks. I am also married and tearing it up on SA. This leads to another question. Do you guys lie and tell these women you aren't married? I am very upfront about it. I get plenty of responses from chicks on the site that reject my overtures after reading my profile because I am straight up about being hitched.

I have read some posts here where mongers say don't put married in your SA profile and in my opinion that is cruising for a bruising. Sure it opens you up to more poon tang but if they discover the lie there could be hell to pay. I also don't sell these women dreams and keep things on a per meet basis. I don't think I have ever advanced money for one these chicks crisis situations in between meets. Once again this isn't about blame and I appreciate you having the courage to tell the board you got rinsed for $7 k and putting the skank on blast.

Ripper.

You are right. I learned a hard lesson. I will never give any of these women money outside of an agreed meet. She knew I was married it was on my SA profile and we discussed it prior to meeting. I honestly think she's just looking for any info on the men she sees so she can leverage it later to increase her payout.

**Ripvan12** · 03-06-19 11:10

Sorry you lost your marriage man. Sucks. I am also married and tearing it up on SA. This leads to another question. Do you guys lie and tell these women you aren't married? I am very upfront about it. I get plenty of responses from chicks on the site that reject my overtures after reading my profile because I am straight up about being hitched.

I have read some posts here where mongers say don't put married in your SA profile and in my opinion that is cruising for a bruising. Sure it opens you up to more poon tang but if they discover the lie there could be hell to pay. I also don't sell these women dreams and keep things on a per meet basis. I don't think I have ever advanced money for one these chicks crisis situations in between meets. Once again this isn't about blame and I appreciate you having the courage to tell the board you got rinsed for $7 k and putting the skank on blast.

Ripper.

**Member #5932** · 03-06-19 10:10

https://www.seeking.com/member/b793f...5-2da8d7ab1b29

She took me for 7 grand. You've been warned.

**NewAnonymousName** · 03-06-19 09:35

I never, ever, ever give my last name to a SB no matter how long I've seen her or how well it seems to be going. If they need more verification to screen me, I move on. I've missed out on many smoking hot sugar babies with this approach, but I'm not willing to take the risk for so long as I have minor children at home. I bumped into a SB at Home Depot one time back when I lived in a different area of Metro Atlanta. She gave a knowing look but said nothing, thank goodness. One of my kids was with me, which probably caused her to pause, or maybe she was just cool. In any event, I learned my lesson and now I don't monger in the area where I live, only near where I work. I work far from where I live, so it works well.

**NGASugarMan** · 03-06-19 09:09

That completely sucks. I've been on SA three times (for a month each) over the past year. I ran into two really, really good sharks. Out of sheer luck, the one only got the PPM money (and a nice dinner out) and the other just wasted a ton of my time. But, there are women on the site just as good as there are guys on our side tearing it up.

On the losing your wife and kids. That also sucks, and I'm also a married dude tearing up SA. But, you got to kind of assume the wife / kids are gone if you are tearing it up on SA. I mean at some point, even the best monger, something is going to slip. I'm about as good as it gets (IT guy who knows how to hide shit, job that allows me flexibility to meet girls, and a non-tech wifey). And I've had two close calls. I was walking back to the car with the wifey two weeks ago on a date night in Athens, and one of the chicks I first hooked up with waved to me from the one glass windowed brewery, LOL Luckily, she was with a dude her age, and I joked it off, but it's going to happen at some point. The wifey made some snarkey comment of why is some 20 year old blonde chick smiling and waving at you.

I already have my emergency "I got caught" fund ready, and I've been done with my marriage. I'm just hanging around because I like double dipping (wifey is a nympho, not attractive, but loves to fuck) and I know I'm going to get ass raped getting divorced (would have if I didn't monger anyways).

Did you give your wife, ex-wife, an STI? I've been kind of careful, but that's always a threat too. That's a good divorce lawyers wet dream here in Georgia. About the only thing worse, is if you wife was a stay-at-home mom your entire marriage. Good luck man.

Originally Posted by PlayerOne [View Original Post]

Yeah man. I am so fucking pissed off right now. I lost 7 grand and got some STIs, which whatever, Cost of being stupid as far as I'm concerned but I lost my wife and kid too. Crazy shit is, she was cool to blow up my life if it meant more money. I'm real angry.

**Atlanta John** · 03-06-19 07:05

Originally Posted by CuriousInquir [View Original Post]

How much did she want?

Started with $400. I countered with $175 and have not heard back.

**Member #5932** · 03-06-19 01:18

Originally Posted by Plisknoob1 [View Original Post]

So what's her name?

https://www.seeking.com/member/3b8c1...f-2bdfa30af5ef

**ElPerron** · 03-05-19 23:57

This one was pimped at Wesley chapel, then jump to SA independly, she makes a profile now and then, no she is in Lawrenceville area, money hustler.

**TheLife1** · 03-05-19 23:04

Originally Posted by PlayerOne [View Original Post]

Yeah man. I am so fucking pissed off right now. I lost 7 grand and got some STIs, which whatever, Cost of being stupid as far as I'm concerned but I lost my wife and kid too. Crazy shit is, she was cool to blow up my life if it meant more money. I'm real angry.

Wondering how she can blackmail you. Did you not use a burner phone # and always meet at a hotel with a fake name? All my girls never know what I do or my real name. Glad I take extra precautions to prevent moments like this.

**FlyGuyEddie007** · 03-05-19 22:21

Originally Posted by PlayerOne [View Original Post]

Yeah man. I am so fucking pissed off right now. I lost 7 grand and got some STIs, which whatever, Cost of being stupid as far as I'm concerned but I lost my wife and kid too. Crazy shit is, she was cool to blow up my life if it meant more money. I'm real angry.

Burner phone is a must! Never bring to your house! Hotel or car dates!! Have a alt fb if she has for fb no bills in your car with your address hell get s p. O. Box for your bills so if they do find one in your car no address if your going to play they game and your married act like your in the cia and have duel live for the hobbie.