Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[XxMarkXx]

Sorry to hear you were banned. That sucks.

I wonder what it will take to get around the ban. Is it as simple as changing your email address? Or do you need to use a whole different payment method, with a different billing address? I wonder how sophisticated their ban process is? Have you made any effort to circumvent the ban, and if so, what? By your post, it seems anything you've done so far has been unsuccessful.

If anyone has any insights, it would be great to hear.

The moral of the story is, of course, to not get banned in the first place. I have "trust issues" with all internet companies, and therefore have always moved conversations with a POT to text before discussing $, or even better yet, to the meet & greet if possible. So far this practice has done well by me. I'm not surprised to hear that they're reading member's chats, especially in the wake of FOSTA / SESTA. Even though they probably couldn't care less what you do or say to others on the site, they need to be able to show that they have a history of actively banning blatant behavior if ever they were to be investigated.

Actually, I got banned a few months ago. Was contacted by an obvious spammer and was goofing on "her" a bit too much and mentioned $ in the process. A grw days later, the ban notice came. No warning or anything.

So, in January, I made a new account with a new email. I think the mistake I made was that I paid through google play and used the same account to pay. As well, I primarily use the app on my phone, so they could also be checking the device info.

I am getting a new phone soon, so, I may start over woth a new google play account to pay through, new phone, new email, etc.

I typically do the arrangement discussion over text on google voice. Most girls will give out their number. This works for me because I hate using my free time to buy them drinks or dinner only to hear they feel they are worth 2 k a month and move on. Everyone in the bar knows my 50 year old ass is paying the hot 25 year old, but I prefer not to feed the eavesdroppers.

[MyHobby]

This one said she wasn't interested in anything sexual so I tried to inquire as to how she thought that would work. Right after admitting she never had a sugar daddy she made up a fantastic lie about meeting some guy at the mall to hand out that gave her $500 and bought a "fuzzy jacket". Of course I challemged her on it and she made up more BS about other things he bought with no sexual exchanges.

Living in a fantasy land.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f331b...e-94480aad396a

[Swm11]

Please repost their links. These links are to your Messages.

Safe mongering and sugaring!

Sorry about that was trying to post from my phone.

[Swm11]

Can you share the link to the profiles?

Fizzle 800.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e7219...c-a854784e7813

"Expecting close to around 800".

[Swm11]

Can you share the link to the profiles?

Oceansview 500-1000

https://www.seeking.com/member/ad2b6...a-a1c86f5c9c89

Told me she was into some Kink, wanted 500-1000 per meet depending on activity. When I declined she eventually came down to 350.

[Kwagmire]

My SA account was permanently banned. Apparently they really do look at your chats! So, I am seeking other sites for now:

Sorry to hear you were banned. That sucks.

I wonder what it will take to get around the ban. Is it as simple as changing your email address? Or do you need to use a whole different payment method, with a different billing address? I wonder how sophisticated their ban process is? Have you made any effort to circumvent the ban, and if so, what? By your post, it seems anything you've done so far has been unsuccessful.

If anyone has any insights, it would be great to hear.

The moral of the story is, of course, to not get banned in the first place. I have "trust issues" with all internet companies, and therefore have always moved conversations with a POT to text before discussing $, or even better yet, to the meet & greet if possible. So far this practice has done well by me. I'm not surprised to hear that they're reading member's chats, especially in the wake of FOSTA / SESTA. Even though they probably couldn't care less what you do or say to others on the site, they need to be able to show that they have a history of actively banning blatant behavior if ever they were to be investigated.

[XxMarkXx]

Has anyone had success with other sites, like secret benefits? Seems like SA has the most active users.

My SA account was permanently banned. Apparently they really do look at your chats! So, I am seeking other sites for now:

[BigBoss203]

Can you share the link to the profiles?

https://www.seeking.com/messages/arc...c-6045d6c8dc69

Into some Kink, wanted 500-1000 per meet depending on activity. When I declined she eventually came down to 350.

I'm not looking kinky stuff.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...2-7d559b7efea5

"Expecting close to around 800".

[RWarNmsn69]

https://www.seeking.com/messages/arc...c-6045d6c8dc69

Into some Kink, wanted 500-1000 per meet depending on activity. When I declined she eventually came down to 350.

I'm not looking kinky stuff.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...2-7d559b7efea5

"Expecting close to around 800".

Please repost their links. These links are to your Messages.

Safe mongering and sugaring!

[Swm11]

https://www.seeking.com/messages/arc...c-6045d6c8dc69

Into some Kink, wanted 500-1000 per meet depending on activity. When I declined she eventually came down to 350.

I'm not looking kinky stuff.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...2-7d559b7efea5

"Expecting close to around 800".

[BoPhoenix]

Homegirl is dtf. Just got her on SA, but don't feel like driving to Bridgeport.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b8eeb...7-a746f152658f

Might have a handler. Looks good. She's cheap though. May take less than $100 for meet. She seems nice too. Wants a motel. Cant host at home, but wants you to pay for motel and take amount out from what you were gonna give her.

If up for it, go for it. SA has me lazy. I only wanna search for chicks near to me.

I was near the area so I reached out on SA. She replied extremely quickly. Messaged a few times and it was off to the races (or dumpy motel). She's a good time, open minded and GFE. For $ plus a short stay, I'll definitely repeat.

[DozerDude]

Jeez She is pushing like crazy to meet me. Message message message. She does look good but Stratford is to far for me She is on SA BTW. Someone close to there should try her out.

She reached out to me as well. I may have to sample even though its a little out of the way. I will report if I do.

[Swm11]

Here's another one asking for $500-600.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a2e5d...f-28085f42ae2b

Indeed, talked to her when she first joined, asked for 600, so maybe she's starting to soften a little, LOL.

[ArchitexOne]

Jeez She is pushing like crazy to meet me. Message message message. She does look good but Stratford is to far for me She is on SA BTW. Someone close to there should try her out.

I live in Southington and she said she would come to me. Not sure I am going to try or not but will let you know if I do.

[Member #6108]

Homegirl is dtf. Just got her on SA, but don't feel like driving to Bridgeport.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b8eeb...7-a746f152658f

Might have a handler. Looks good. She's cheap though. May take less than $100 for meet. She seems nice too. Wants a motel. Cant host at home, but wants you to pay for motel and take amount out from what you were gonna give her.

If up for it, go for it. SA has me lazy. I only wanna search for chicks near to me.

Jeez She is pushing like crazy to meet me. Message message message. She does look good but Stratford is to far for me She is on SA BTW. Someone close to there should try her out.