Arrangement Reports

[SugarDaddyX]

This one wants you to give her an allowance for the "privilege" of taking her out on dates and spending even more money on her. She will give ambiguous answers about sex to string you along, but she has no intention of putting out. She is fatter than she leads you to believe with her pictures. Remember the old adage: if the pictures cut off everything below the boobs, she is hiding something.

https://www.seeking.com/member/eaed8...0-df81de37c971

Here is another one that is all games. She messages me first and when I reply, she tells me she is looking for an online arrangement. I make it clear on my profile I'm not looking for anything online. She keeps reactivating and deactivating her profile. Just a time waster.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f0cae...f-21a2b5d05851

These two would never believe I banged a 19 year old college student / gymnast for $100 after lunch three weeks ago. It never ceases to amaze me how delusional, marginally attractive women think we are going to send them the Brinks truck for nothing.

Get that sex.

SDX.

[GoldenGreek]

Did you meet with qny of these three?

The Dominican looks gorgeous and so does the mixed girl.

Getting ready to pull the trigger on these ladies.

Anybody have any experience with them.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c5ad1...4-ca38548c9e51

https://www.seeking.com/member/3ce3a...6-42fdb8259aaf

https://www.seeking.com/member/75291...3-d951c9eabe17

Thank you!

[RJohnson114]

Very curious to hear more takes on this. I feel like its changed a lot over the last couple of years. My first go-round on SA was also two years ago, and back then it seemed like an efficient 'nice guy' approach was gold. I went into it skeptical, but I found a pattern of a relaxed coffee date followed by some friendly but persistent texting very often led to getting down to business anywhere from a few hours to a few days after the M&G. And this was with cute, clean, girls in the 20-25 range. Most of them were willing to do the no-pressure coffee meet, and then after seeing the 'nice guy' most of those were willing to take a chance on more intimate time, and most of them really let loose once it got started. The disarming face-to-face meet also made negotiating a reasonable donation much, much easier.

Back on SA now after finally getting a little more schedule and financial freedom, and finding it hard to even get that old process started. That 20-25 range seems almost completely filled with 'need money now' hustlers on one end and 'platonic' jittery girls who waffle endlessly about whether or not to even meet for coffee on the other. Yes there are times where its not the worst thing in the world to find a girl ready to go for money with no preliminaries but it wasn't what SA was really originally about, and the BCD experiences have left me flat. The best experiences from my first round pretty accurately captured the old college hook-up feeling and it was quite a thrill. The only real bites have been on the MILF / semi-bbw part of the spectrum. Again not awful if they have a good attitude and are usually happy with any small donation, but still not what SA really was supposed to be about.

But, still holding out hope that maybe the time of year has been a part of it and hoping warmer weather will bring out a new wave SBs with a more fun attitude.

Thank you, I'm new to SA and was planning a similar approach. Roughly what donation have the girls been seeking recently and how does it compare to what they were asking for a few years ago when you had success with the 20-25 range?

[GoodVibesAll]

Same here, 3 months into it I was in deep financially but was just killing it on autopilot. Luckily I got banned so I didn't have to make the choice for myself, which I may not have. Spent a couple of months with the girls I had already connected with, which was about half the monthly costs, so I justified to myself getting back on the site (surprisingly easy after being banned for life) Hopefully can keep up the month on / month off routine or something similar otherwise going to have to sell my condo.

Yeah, last year I had to take out a loan to pay off my credit cards because if SA. Got the loan paid off, and now I'm back again. The good thing though, is, I'm smarter and wiser. I stick to what I can afford and that's it. I'll do 3 if it gets me in the door, but only if she is really, really hot. When we meet, I negotiate subsequent dates for 2. I'm a nice guy and my dates tell me that they feel comfortable with me, and I've never had an issue. A lot of times, like when their funds go dry, they start to text 3-4 x a day. I'll tel them I can only do x amount, and they need cash for whatever, and they agree. I also have found that the older women are not only a better bargain, but way better in bed compared to the twentysomethings.

I'm also only planning to be on for one month this time and collect as many digits as I can. Problem with that is if you don't connect right away, it's not likely you ever will.

Back in May, I had a date set up with an ex Maxim model, she had a great body, at least in her pictures. I worked my ass of in the gym, going before work and after. I worked so hard it gave me a hernia, had to take a month off of work. Then she sent me recent pics and wow, nothing like she used to look like. She still owes me money. Lesson learned.

[JustPlay02]

Exactly. And it seems like there shouldn't be enough stupid men out there to keep falling for this scam. But just using this forum as an example. There are five guys a week who, without reading a single post ask "do you have to pay for SA?" or "tell me about SA" which shows how many guys are unwilling to do the tiniest amount of research and just want to jump in lazily thinking it's an easy avenue to cheap tail. Those are the guys who the scammers feed on and it's kinda ok with me.

I clicked her profile link posted earlier and in seconds had a message from her. No doubt this is a scam.

[Looking4692]

They seem willing to do that.

Let me know if you need a wingman to help I would be more than willing to keep one of them busy while you work the other.

[Eternalchaoz]

That's a good idea. Ask if they'll meet you for a drink or dinner first.

They seem willing to do that.

[FeldSpot]

I saw her a couple of years ago. She is as skinny as she looks in her photos. She hardly talked and basically just laid there. I can't recommend her unless she has changed, which I hope she has.

I saw her twice a few months ago. Picked her up at home since she didn't have a car, had coffee, readily agreed to what I offered, and spent like three hours together, BBFS, anal on the table, but didn't partake. She's quiet but not non-responsive. Had a good time, and scheduled again. This time she was in a hotel in Schaumburg supposedly staying there since family was nearby (first time was New Lenox, where I'm at), and after dinner went back to her room where she had a couple of hats on the bedside table. Didn't peg her for a pro from the first visit, but that second one, especially making me use protection seemed to make things evident.

[GoodVibesAll]

You sent the link to your message, not her profile page.

Here she is;.

https://www.seeking.com/member/dc6d1...4-03720e8c5da3

[KingForAMonth]

I've had so much luck there I had to let my account expire. I was going broke!

Same here, 3 months into it I was in deep financially but was just killing it on autopilot. Luckily I got banned so I didn't have to make the choice for myself, which I may not have. Spent a couple of months with the girls I had already connected with, which was about half the monthly costs, so I justified to myself getting back on the site (surprisingly easy after being banned for life) Hopefully can keep up the month on / month off routine or something similar otherwise going to have to sell my condo.

[ChitownGuy321]

Anyone have any experience with her? Trying to set something up for this afternoon or tomorrow. She's in Ukrainian Village.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...5-4905609a26ce

Scott.

You sent the link to your message, not her profile page.

[Chicago41]

Would you feel comfortable if they are willing to meet for dinner first? These girls are fine meeting for coffee or dinner to discuss arrangement.

That's a good idea. Ask if they'll meet you for a drink or dinner first.

[ChitownGuy321]

I had some message interaction with her. When it got down to setting the meet she said she wants to date / dinner / travel. Sorry dear. Not for me. Time to move along.

Randolph.

I saw her a couple of years ago. She is as skinny as she looks in her photos. She hardly talked and basically just laid there. I can't recommend her unless she has changed, which I hope she has.

[Chicago41]

SA is definitely a hassle. But to say there's little or no reward would be 100% untrue.

I've had so much luck there I had to let my account expire. I was going broke!

[GoodVibesAll]

This is a much delayed post.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e3f9a...4-2a5c4aa7845d

Jenny is the best lay I have had in years. BBFS, no rush, true GFE. Fucked the hell out of me, and when she was done, did it again and again. Incredible. I bought a vibrator sampler package off amazon, with beads and other stuff, and used it on her too. She was really into it, and loud, too.

But she is batshit crazy. Nuts. I had to block her form my phone. After spending four or five hours at a hot tub suite on 95th street in Evergreen Park, we left for the evening and continued to text and sext and whatever. Within a day or two she wanted her and her kid and her cats (yuck) to move into my house. That's when she got blocked. 300 was the damage, well worth every cent, but damn, she's looney toons. You have been warned.

This was right before Christmas BTW.