Safe Sex Information and Advice

[DR Monger II]

Dekkyo, what is the truth? How many of these girls that do BBFS have hiv or some other std? No one can know the exact percentages. Does it happen often that a girl with HIV or some other std will provide BBFS knowing that she has the disease?

[Dekkyo]

Thanks for the info. I'm not concerned or criticizing another mans choice for BBFS. I'm just asking how it's done with piece of mind. How you're comfortable enough with the provider, if there is something special you know that makes you feel safe. Believe me, I have the sexual addiction also, or I wouldn't be here. I can't tell you how many times I've been offered BBFS, and I stick it in for a minute then get scared and put in the cover. I hear some providers and clients are getting something called Prep. I think it's a new drug to help prevent HIV and the othe H virus that I can't think of now. So not criticizing, just looking for info.

Thanks.

I have been going often to the Russian spots in Brooklyn and latin / mix in queens. Meet well enough some of them, who told me how those „houses" and they works. Girls work 6 - 7 days a week (in one location or 2, 3 around the city), they have 8 – 25 clients a day! Depends how busy it is. Which give you about 50 – 100 guys a week. In one month about 300 clients. Girls usually stay in one house up to 6 months which is 1800 clients LOL. Seams a lot, but ones on this forum who had experienced those kinds of houses know that that's the way those spots work.

I talk about those cheap houses where for 120 – 300 you got bare service.

Now do your math how many chances you have to get HIV and STD.

Of course, lady of the house, pimp, the more experienced girl would lie to you. But new girls sometimes tell the truth. I do not talk about Asian places, because girls there don't understand and talk much in English, so I don't know what they even think of.

[DR Monger II]

109000/8623000=1. 2640612315% people have HIV in NYC.

[Bxjp7]

A question for you brave gentlemen. Aren't you guys concerned of STD's, especially those you can't rid of, like HIV, ETC. I would love to give this a try but scared to death of that. How are you sure they are clean?

Lisa does allow CIP.

[AnonymousDude1]

My understanding of the way PREP works is that it's effective in preventing transmission whether or not you're HIV+. So not only is meant to be taken by those who are positive, but also to be taken as a preventative measure for those who aren't, and that it would be most effective in a situation where both partners are taking it correctly (not missing doses, etc.).

So it's possible that if a provider is taking PREP, she's merely doing so as a safety precaution.

PREP is only for individuals without HIV, as the regular treatment for HIV is already nearly fully effective at preventing the spread of HIV (at least via sex).

[UncleThrax]

I was wondering if any of these providers who offer BBFS would admit to being on PREP? I think it would be more safe for us clients if we knew. I heard that Gina Rollins uses PREP.

My understanding of the way PREP works is that it's effective in preventing transmission whether or not you're HIV+. So not only is meant to be taken by those who are positive, but also to be taken as a preventative measure for those who aren't, and that it would be most effective in a situation where both partners are taking it correctly (not missing doses, etc.).

So it's possible that if a provider is taking PREP, she's merely doing so as a safety precaution.

[BigPete1975]

Out of a city of 8 million. You might have a greater chance of being arrested.

If the numbers as right it is actually more than 1%. Pretty high odds!

They are way higher if you consider that you are dealing with a high risk group.

Just saying.

[DR Monger II]

I was wondering if any of these providers who offer BBFS would admit to being on PREP? I think it would be more safe for us clients if we knew. I heard that Gina Rollins uses PREP.

[Not From Here]

There are 109,000 people with HIV in NYC. Just remember that.

Out of a city of 8 million. You might have a greater chance of being arrested.

[Tanatloc]

Thanks for the info. I'm not concerned or criticizing another mans choice for BBFS. I'm just asking how it's done with piece of mind. How you're comfortable enough with the provider, if there is something special you know that makes you feel safe. Believe me, I have the sexual addiction also, or I wouldn't be here. I can't tell you how many times I've been offered BBFS, and I stick it in for a minute then get scared and put in the cover. I hear some providers and clients are getting something called Prep. I think it's a new drug to help prevent HIV and the othe H virus that I can't think of now. So not criticizing, just looking for info.

Thanks.

I remember many, many years ago getting scared shitless just because cover broke mid session. Then I've realized not every provider has stds. In fact very few of them have and pretty much same rule applies for civilian girls. While there are no absolute guarantees in this business (unless everyone gets regularly tested, etc.) there are few things you can do to help yourself. Here are my basic guidelines:

1. Avoid BB anal. Risk of transmission is simply much greater and I'm restrictive with this activity even with civilians.

2. Avoid SW and providers suspectible of using drugs. Aside from the more obvious concerns I find those providers often lacking basic hygiene and that's a problem of it's own.

3. Avoid providers openly advertising BBFS. Those providers would be simply less selective (if selective at all) and their exposure is simply greater. Admittedly 98 Mott is an exception for me in those terms and I would still bareback Gina Rollins if I ever had a chance in the future. Otherwise it's just something ti keep in mind.

4. If it looks and / or smells funky there it is probably not kosher. This one is self explanatory.

5. Take care of yourself. Clean your tool with alcohol after session (hand sanitizer works as well) and get hepatitis vaccination if you did not thus far. Hepatitis is actually more common than you may think.

[VanillaStick]

Thats why we are all here. Too test the water and report back. Its rare but members do report if they unfortunately contact something from a providers but some time its just bacteria from unclean providers and others will just say stories about when they did contact something and give members advice. Its a shameful thing to contact something and its not easy to always report back if member criticize you

Most of us wear our rain coats so we mainly discuss service but since this section is mixed the BBFS members should be more informative but for the most part everyone that BBFS at Mott has not said anything bad so up until now everything seems ok.

We all take risk in the hobby why worry about the next man doing BBFS when you should be greatful he taking the risk to report back us on the forum.( thats how i see it)

Thanks for the info. I'm not concerned or criticizing another mans choice for BBFS. I'm just asking how it's done with piece of mind. How you're comfortable enough with the provider, if there is something special you know that makes you feel safe. Believe me, I have the sexual addiction also, or I wouldn't be here. I can't tell you how many times I've been offered BBFS, and I stick it in for a minute then get scared and put in the cover. I hear some providers and clients are getting something called Prep. I think it's a new drug to help prevent HIV and the othe H virus that I can't think of now. So not criticizing, just looking for info.

Thanks.

[BigPete1975]

I rmember being a naive kid who started out never expecting BBFS because it always seemed like a forbidden thing that was impossible to have. Then years later I find this forum and I've been almost exclusively been doing BBFS with providers. I'm starting to lose track of the women I've inseminated and I pray to God or whoever is answering to not give me a std or a kid. I sometimes wish I never found this forum but then I'm sticking my dick inside a nice warm pussy and all my worries go away till later that night. I can't get enough it's like my addiction while others have booze or drugs I bare fuck these chicks.

How often do you test yourself for STDs?

[Veql2]

Hypothetical situation here.

Lets say someone goes to an Asian massage parlor. Pays 50 for a massage and tips 100. Pretending the masseuse comes in to the room in a very sexy outfit, takes it off, puts a condom on the guy. Sucks and rides him with a condom. Then finishes him with a hand and no condom. What are the std risk levels here? Is it safe for her to wash you down in rubbing alcohol too?

Risk is low. Not zero of course, but very close. Absent symptoms, personally I would not worry. If you have hypochondriac tendencies and can't get the worry out of your mind, Chlamydia and Gonorrhea tests can be done after 1 week or more. The rest (4th gen HIV test, syphilis, Hepatitis. Herpes) can be done after 42 days. At that point your odds are probably 1 in millions against. You could test again at 6 months if you need to get rid of that 1 in millions chance.

[MelloDobot]

Thats why we are all here. Too test the water and report back. Its rare but members do report if they unfortunately contact something from a providers but some time its just bacteria from unclean providers and others will just say stories about when they did contact something and give members advice. Its a shameful thing to contact something and its not easy to always report back if member criticize you

Most of us wear our rain coats so we mainly discuss service but since this section is mixed the BBFS members should be more informative but for the most part everyone that BBFS at Mott has not said anything bad so up until now everything seems ok.

We all take risk in the hobby why worry about the next man doing BBFS when you should be greatful he taking the risk to report back us on the forum.( thats how i see it)

I rmember being a naive kid who started out never expecting BBFS because it always seemed like a forbidden thing that was impossible to have. Then years later I find this forum and I've been almost exclusively been doing BBFS with providers. I'm starting to lose track of the women I've inseminated and I pray to God or whoever is answering to not give me a std or a kid. I sometimes wish I never found this forum but then I'm sticking my dick inside a nice warm pussy and all my worries go away till later that night. I can't get enough it's like my addiction while others have booze or drugs I bare fuck these chicks.

[Chris93]

A question for you brave gentlemen. Aren't you guys concerned of STD's, especially those you can't rid of, like HIV, ETC. I would love to give this a try but scared to death of that. How are you sure they are clean?

I rmember being a naive kid who started out never expecting BBFS because it always seemed like a forbidden thing that was impossible to have. Then years later I find this forum and I've been almost exclusively been doing BBFS with providers. I'm starting to lose track of the women I've inseminated and I pray to God or whoever is answering to not give me a std or a kid. I sometimes wish I never found this forum but then I'm sticking my dick inside a nice warm pussy and all my worries go away till later that night. I can't get enough it's like my addiction while others have booze or drugs I bare fuck these chicks.