NoVA SugarBabies

[PeteMc]

Hey Guys,

I'm a long-time SD (long before the days of SA and such actually) -- and also long-time occasional reader of this forum, but never posted before. I have a chance to spend a couple of weeks in the DC / NoVA area doing some work but will have plenty of "recreational time". Problem is, I know nothing about the area, either where to stay or what the expectations of the girls are like.

I'm a relatively frugal SD, I try not to spend more than $. 5 to $$ per night (often ends in sleepover), and after a date or two a surprising number of them offer to just be an unpaid GF (charm and decent looks working in my favor I guess), or offer to move in with me. In other words, I'm not used to paying hundreds of dollars, but, then again, I know that in areas with a higher cost of living, allowance expectations might be different.

So my question: Where would be a good area to stay that would be accessible by a large portion of the area? Doesn't have to be NoVA necessarily, could be MD or whatever. I posted to the NoVA thread because it seemed the most active.

Also, what is the typical per-night allowance expectation of the girls in that area? Mostly interested in the 18-30 age range, love Asian and Latina girls, but I date all races.

Thanks for all advice!

[CoolPix]

I've seen this happen. It's usually a traveling pro. When they head to a new area they will send out a shit load of unsolicited messages. Some of them delete the unanswered messages when they depart the area.

That makes sense, on a couple of levels, not least of which the pictures were of a very attractive gal who seemingly didn't mind putting her face out there which to me screams either pro or scam. I appreciate the response. It's only happened a couple of times but each time it surprises me. Plus, I didn't realize they can delete messages that way.

[KrishKrish]

Can any of you tell me what it means if the girl has a premium membership on seeking.com ? Did they pay for the membership? Have any of you used secretbenefits.com? They appear to have more girls in my search but many of them have not logged on in months. Maybe they found what they were looking for? I'm trying to decide which one to use.

Premium sugar babies have more control on their dashboard in terms what parameters they can choose for their searches, saving searches, hiding how many times and when they viewed you etc.

[KrishKrish]

Chatting with this girl. Says has a place in downtown DC.

https://www.seeking.com/member/62b4c...5-bcbcc53c77bc

Since het pics fall in the TGTBT category. Was wondering if its real and anyone seen her.

[Secret2]

Can any of you tell me what it means if the girl has a premium membership on seeking.com ? Did they pay for the membership? Have any of you used secretbenefits.com? They appear to have more girls in my search but many of them have not logged on in months. Maybe they found what they were looking for? I'm trying to decide which one to use.

[Ernest Ll]

This girl is DTF. Wanted to see if anyone has been with her and if so would appreciate feedback.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c54f2...f-470004026b33

She looks like fun.

[KrishKrish]

This girl is DTF. Wanted to see if anyone has been with her and if so would appreciate feedback.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c54f2...f-470004026b33

[Telcova]

Jim Rob, while this hasn't happened to me, it easily could have. There have been a number of times where I have started to forget that most SA girls are as much in it for the money as the former BP girls. It is awfully easy to start getting complacent and forget that you need to protect your privacy, especially when you start seeing the same girl several times.

Agreed, if you're seeing them again, things went well the first time. If you start seeing them several times, they become familiar and get to know them deeper and they you. Personally, I like that aspect, but agree with the need to protect. It's a double edge sword.

[Jge096]

To get back on topic, I'm currently in talks with a nova SB. College athlete, dtf. Readily aware of the nature of the site but not a pro vibe. I'm her first arrangement and we'll be meeting very shortly. If all goes well I'll be looking to taking trades. I like them 18-20, blonde, and fit. I know that's asking a lot so I'll play it by ear.

[OldPilot71]

Jim Rob, while this hasn't happened to me, it easily could have. There have been a number of times where I have started to forget that most SA girls are as much in it for the money as the former BP girls. It is awfully easy to start getting complacent and forget that you need to protect your privacy, especially when you start seeing the same girl several times.

[OldPilot71]

My membership on SA expired several weeks ago but I go on the site every once in awhile just to see if there's been any activity. Oddly, I was on there last week and I had a message from a smoking hot thing from RVA. I found it suspicious because of the multiple face shots, including pictures of her with other equally good looking girls.

But I logged on this weekend to check messages and that message was gone. Poof. No hint at all it was ever even there. Oftentimes, when someone sends me a message but then blocks me or deletes the account, the message remains in the inbox. But this was is completely gone. It's happened a couple of other times. Anybody else experience this?

I've seen this happen. It's usually a traveling pro. When they head to a new area they will send out a shit load of unsolicited messages. Some of them delete the unanswered messages when they depart the area.

[Sexingit]

I'm not stupid, I got played from to SA girls. I said in my post keep your shit private and don't let what happen to me happen to you. That's it.

On this board we post the good, bad and the ugly. In two years I probably had 30 good meetings and two bad. But I'm not going to continue with this.

Scared of police? I think every monger who has a lot of lose is scared of police, but I got enough sense from reading this board over the years that you keep your mouth shut when dealing with the cops and trust your gut.

I apologize for being rude. The most important rules that I follow are the ones you broke. Make it a lesson learned and thanks for the warning. Happy mongering!

[CoolPix]

My membership on SA expired several weeks ago but I go on the site every once in awhile just to see if there's been any activity. Oddly, I was on there last week and I had a message from a smoking hot thing from RVA. I found it suspicious because of the multiple face shots, including pictures of her with other equally good looking girls.

But I logged on this weekend to check messages and that message was gone. Poof. No hint at all it was ever even there. Oftentimes, when someone sends me a message but then blocks me or deletes the account, the message remains in the inbox. But this was is completely gone. It's happened a couple of other times. Anybody else experience this?

[CoolPix]

I'm not stupid, I got played from to SA girls. I said in my post keep your shit private and don't let what happen to me happen to you. That's it.

On this board we post the good, bad and the ugly. In two years I probably had 30 good meetings and two bad. But I'm not going to continue with this.

Scared of police? I think every monger who has a lot of lose is scared of police, but I got enough sense from reading this board over the years that you keep your mouth shut when dealing with the cops and trust your gut.

Hey man, it's happened to more of us than many will admit to. But thanks for sharing your experiences. I'll post no judgment whatsoever as I've done some incredibly stupid things in my 40 plus years of mongering. This forum is what it is because of dudes like you who share.

[KrishKrish]

Appreciate the headsup on the bad girls on SA. But a link or pic would help so we don't fall for the same girl again.

I'm not stupid, I got played from to SA girls. I said in my post keep your shit private and don't let what happen to me happen to you. That's it.

On this board we post the good, bad and the ugly. In two years I probably had 30 good meetings and two bad. But I'm not going to continue with this.

Scared of police? I think every monger who has a lot of lose is scared of police, but I got enough sense from reading this board over the years that you keep your mouth shut when dealing with the cops and trust your gut.