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**Telcova** · 01-30-19 23:11

Originally Posted by OldPilot71 [View Original Post]

Jim Rob, while this hasn't happened to me, it easily could have. There have been a number of times where I have started to forget that most SA girls are as much in it for the money as the former BP girls. It is awfully easy to start getting complacent and forget that you need to protect your privacy, especially when you start seeing the same girl several times.

Agreed, if you're seeing them again, things went well the first time. If you start seeing them several times, they become familiar and get to know them deeper and they you. Personally, I like that aspect, but agree with the need to protect. It's a double edge sword.

**Jge096** · 01-28-19 21:01

To get back on topic, I'm currently in talks with a nova SB. College athlete, dtf. Readily aware of the nature of the site but not a pro vibe. I'm her first arrangement and we'll be meeting very shortly. If all goes well I'll be looking to taking trades. I like them 18-20, blonde, and fit. I know that's asking a lot so I'll play it by ear.

**OldPilot71** · 01-28-19 20:57

Jim Rob, while this hasn't happened to me, it easily could have. There have been a number of times where I have started to forget that most SA girls are as much in it for the money as the former BP girls. It is awfully easy to start getting complacent and forget that you need to protect your privacy, especially when you start seeing the same girl several times.

**OldPilot71** · 01-28-19 20:53

Originally Posted by CoolPix [View Original Post]

My membership on SA expired several weeks ago but I go on the site every once in awhile just to see if there's been any activity. Oddly, I was on there last week and I had a message from a smoking hot thing from RVA. I found it suspicious because of the multiple face shots, including pictures of her with other equally good looking girls.

But I logged on this weekend to check messages and that message was gone. Poof. No hint at all it was ever even there. Oftentimes, when someone sends me a message but then blocks me or deletes the account, the message remains in the inbox. But this was is completely gone. It's happened a couple of other times. Anybody else experience this?

I've seen this happen. It's usually a traveling pro. When they head to a new area they will send out a shit load of unsolicited messages. Some of them delete the unanswered messages when they depart the area.

**Sexingit** · 01-28-19 20:42

Originally Posted by JimRob [View Original Post]

I'm not stupid, I got played from to SA girls. I said in my post keep your shit private and don't let what happen to me happen to you. That's it.

On this board we post the good, bad and the ugly. In two years I probably had 30 good meetings and two bad. But I'm not going to continue with this.

Scared of police? I think every monger who has a lot of lose is scared of police, but I got enough sense from reading this board over the years that you keep your mouth shut when dealing with the cops and trust your gut.

I apologize for being rude. The most important rules that I follow are the ones you broke. Make it a lesson learned and thanks for the warning. Happy mongering!

**CoolPix** · 01-28-19 19:22

My membership on SA expired several weeks ago but I go on the site every once in awhile just to see if there's been any activity. Oddly, I was on there last week and I had a message from a smoking hot thing from RVA. I found it suspicious because of the multiple face shots, including pictures of her with other equally good looking girls.

But I logged on this weekend to check messages and that message was gone. Poof. No hint at all it was ever even there. Oftentimes, when someone sends me a message but then blocks me or deletes the account, the message remains in the inbox. But this was is completely gone. It's happened a couple of other times. Anybody else experience this?

**CoolPix** · 01-28-19 19:19

Originally Posted by JimRob [View Original Post]

I'm not stupid, I got played from to SA girls. I said in my post keep your shit private and don't let what happen to me happen to you. That's it.

On this board we post the good, bad and the ugly. In two years I probably had 30 good meetings and two bad. But I'm not going to continue with this.

Scared of police? I think every monger who has a lot of lose is scared of police, but I got enough sense from reading this board over the years that you keep your mouth shut when dealing with the cops and trust your gut.

Hey man, it's happened to more of us than many will admit to. But thanks for sharing your experiences. I'll post no judgment whatsoever as I've done some incredibly stupid things in my 40 plus years of mongering. This forum is what it is because of dudes like you who share.

**KrishKrish** · 01-28-19 17:59

Appreciate the headsup on the bad girls on SA. But a link or pic would help so we don't fall for the same girl again.

Originally Posted by JimRob [View Original Post]

I'm not stupid, I got played from to SA girls. I said in my post keep your shit private and don't let what happen to me happen to you. That's it.

On this board we post the good, bad and the ugly. In two years I probably had 30 good meetings and two bad. But I'm not going to continue with this.

Scared of police? I think every monger who has a lot of lose is scared of police, but I got enough sense from reading this board over the years that you keep your mouth shut when dealing with the cops and trust your gut.

**Jim Rob** · 01-28-19 17:00

I'm not stupid, I got played from to SA girls. I said in my post keep your shit private and don't let what happen to me happen to you. That's it.

On this board we post the good, bad and the ugly. In two years I probably had 30 good meetings and two bad. But I'm not going to continue with this.

Scared of police? I think every monger who has a lot of lose is scared of police, but I got enough sense from reading this board over the years that you keep your mouth shut when dealing with the cops and trust your gut.

**Sexingit** · 01-28-19 15:56

Originally Posted by JimRob [View Original Post]

I don't know who the F you think you are. But first the crazy ho with the room. I met her on seeking. I didn't know she was a Ho and let myself get tricked because I have a good heart.

Second girl? I never told her where I work, she googled my phone number. You're a judgemental prick. I could monger around you with 1 arm tird behind my back. Been in the game since the 90's. I'm just trying to help my brothers. STFU.

I did prefaced my statement with "sorry it happened to you" *shrug*.

I'm also sorry if you are naive enough to continue trusting hookers / prostitutes / girls down on their luck / druggies after mongering for 20 plus years. Get a burner / voice app and stop trusting girls that turn tricks for money / drugs / shelter.

After that, you can focus on the deadliest monger-hunter and that's ULE. If these girls scared you, ULE will make you shit yourself. Good luck with the future!

**Jim Rob** · 01-28-19 12:43

I don't know who the F you think you are. But first the crazy ho with the room. I met her on seeking. I didn't know she was a Ho and let myself get tricked because I have a good heart.

Second girl? I never told her where I work, she googled my phone number. You're a judgemental prick. I could monger around you with 1 arm tird behind my back. Been in the game since the 90's. I'm just trying to help my brothers. STFU.

Originally Posted by Sexingit [View Original Post]

I'm sorry that you experienced these issues but it's all of your doing.

Let a hooker borrow your hotel room under your name? That's plain crazy to me.

Giving your work information to prostitutes? You must be high.

I suggest sticking to incalls with established girls with reviews and not seeking out unicorns. Unicorns can be found but at the cost of getting blackmailed or potentially losing more money after getting fucked.

**Sexingit** · 01-28-19 12:25

Originally Posted by JimRob [View Original Post]

I gave away too much personal information

I'm sorry that you experienced these issues but it's all of your doing.

Let a hooker borrow your hotel room under your name? That's plain crazy to me.

Giving your work information to prostitutes? You must be high.

I suggest sticking to incalls with established girls with reviews and not seeking out unicorns. Unicorns can be found but at the cost of getting blackmailed or potentially losing more money after getting fucked.

**Jim Rob** · 01-28-19 11:35

If you're going to use SA, you must use a burner phone or messaging app. I have been messing with SA for about two years and have hooked up with amazing beautiful girls. But I want to share with you two bad experiences to warns others.

I recently meat someone that I didn't get a good vibe about at all, but didn't trust my judgement. I was weak. She was eager to meet and desperate for funds. Looked good, but could tell a pro.

We got a room and after we finished she gave me a hard luck story that she needed the room. Bs about no place to live or bed to sleep on. First time I'm finding out she's in this situation. She promises me no drama and she's not crazy.

Stupidly I gave her the room and told her not to smoke. She said she only smokes outside anyway. Leaving her in the room I kept imagining her having dudes over and getting arrested for being a hooker.

I was freaking out about getting that phone call and it being the police and asking me about my room being used for prostitution, I had a horrible night sleep asking myself why am I so stupid. At first I said no about the room, but my good nature felt bad for her.

Next day the hotel calls me. I'm think fuuuucc% They told she smoked all over the room and they found cigarettes and cigars All over the room and they're going to charge me $250 for clean up. She then blocked me when I confronted her on text. Only good thing was a few days later I sent her. A text under a fake number and talked her into meeting me for a all night at $650. I made her get a room at wolftrap and made her wait all night for me never showing up. I played that pos so well. I even told her to come to the bar next door to meet for drinks after giving her the run around all night. In the end almost midnight, I was like I met someone else and you're trash. She was livid!!

Second story to share. I met this incredible young hot girl from seeking and hooked up in a hotel she was good, but I didn't want to see her anymore at 500 everytime so I just ignored her and moved on. So two months later I get a text that reads. You got me pregnant you busted in me and didn't tell me. (I never did cum inside her) she said I know where you work and live. You owe me 500 for an abortion. She told me she wanted the money. Being scared I paid the ransom to her.

I'm done with SA. But if you're going to mess with it. Trust nobody and keep your stuff private.

**Member #6203** · 01-27-19 22:28

I noticed that maggie luv, https://www.seeking.com/member/0cd23...a-4bf9ec58b8e8.

Is also listed on escort babylon and she was on slixa. Good reviews as a professional, cute as a button.

**WalterKovacs** · 01-26-19 05:54

Originally Posted by KevinCalormis [View Original Post]

Saw her this week, very petite and enthusiastic. She said she's a stripper who is looking to make some money on the side. Cute Indian girl, from what I gather she grew up in a good family but something went wrong upstairs so now us mongers get to enjoy her.

Picked her up because she doesn't drive and she gave me BBBJ all the way to the FC. I opted to cover up for her because I was concerned about her mileage with the stripper thing and the face that she acts like a UTR. Overall had a lot of fun, really tiny thing who does not look her age. She talks a big game about being a kinky sub but when I started pushing her limits she quickly clammed up and was visibly shaken.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e2518...4-01e5c3e02a88

Are mongers expected to use real profile info / pics on Seeking?