Seeking Arrangements

**SAVet2019** · 01-26-19 11:31

I had married in my profile for a while, and it wasn't really an issue. Many SB's on the site who don't want to deal with married men put it right up front in their profile. One woman volunteered, "You shouldn't put married, as you're inviting blackmail. " I don't think that she is right. It's more of a problem to lie about not being married, especially to a woman who really cares about that issue. If / when you get outed, she'll take it poorly.

Now a days my profile says "separated. " I don't even get questions about marital status 95% of the time.

All in all, the worse thing you can, for your own protection, is lie about not being married to someone who really cares. Best for married men to just avoid them no matter how hot etc.

Originally Posted by Joe1223 [View Original Post]

For those who have a significant other. What is your reply when your "date" asks if your married or attached? Do you lie and say no or are you up front and tell her the truth? The drawbacks with being truthful is that maybe some of the non pros on SA may have a standard that they don't want any drama that may follow a spouse or GF. If you say no and they want to come to your house how do you say they can't?

I deny, deny, deny and blame my make believe roommate for not being able to host.

**Spill** · 01-26-19 09:46

Originally Posted by DogBert77 [View Original Post]

At first, I would let the VPN assign a country automatically. But I use Google Voice for texts and GV didn't like it when I tried to login from some other country. It would ask for two-factor authentication, which is a pain, because my burner usually isn't handy, and keep sending me emails about attempted hacking. So now I always set VPN to US and its been working very smoothly.

Thanks. I appreciate the response.

**MikeJohns** · 01-25-19 17:41

Originally Posted by Joe1223 [View Original Post]

For those who have a significant other. What is your reply when your "date" asks if your married or attached? Do you lie and say no or are you up front and tell her the truth? The drawbacks with being truthful is that maybe some of the non pros on SA may have a standard that they don't want any drama that may follow a spouse or GF. If you say no and they want to come to your house how do you say they can't?

I deny, deny, deny and blame my make believe roommate for not being able to host.

I put it right in my profile that I am married, that way they and you know exactly what you are looking for. A low key hookup. No wasting time with women who want a comittment. They know I can not host and am only available on a limited basis. It works and there are women out there looking for similar arrangements. I see 2 women monthly and we have a nice thing going. They know my limits and I theirs. It's pretty cool, we text, talk and have a sort of trust and understanding.

**AsianBob** · 01-25-19 16:22

Anyone had any luck with this one?

https://www.seeking.com/member/29c63...3-4b105329fe0d

Does respond, agreed to meet, conversation seems to stop there. Constantly updating pictures as well.

**DogBert77** · 01-25-19 13:55

Originally Posted by Spill [View Original Post]

When you select a country for VPN, are you always consistent with the selection?

At first, I would let the VPN assign a country automatically. But I use Google Voice for texts and GV didn't like it when I tried to login from some other country. It would ask for two-factor authentication, which is a pain, because my burner usually isn't handy, and keep sending me emails about attempted hacking. So now I always set VPN to US and its been working very smoothly.

**PaulRew** · 01-25-19 09:00

Originally Posted by PaulRew [View Original Post]

Few inquries for info.

Coralinedevine.

Hot latin girl from Worcester. Responds to messages and then doesn't for days even when she is on site very often. Seems like I am spinning my wheels.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a9ff2...9-95208c1579ad

Sugarbaby104927.

Young hot girl from Natick.

https://www.seeking.com/member/68128...a-016866374769

And.

Ri_ma_si

Hot latin girl from Boston.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f3ec5...1-3f40bdcd2a95

First girl, Coral (priv pics below). She is exactly what I seek on the site, on all the time but only occasionally opens messages and even more rare is a response. Complete failure on my part to move her off site in terms of convo.

Natick girl.

Wants lunch or dinner AND an allowance just to meet. Sure, I'll be in touch.

**SendItHere** · 01-25-19 08:44

Julie?

https://www.seeking.com/member/224bc...8-1bd4384009a0

I really feel like I have seen these pics before from backpage or somewhere.

Any lightbulbs?

**SAVet2019** · 01-25-19 07:40

I'm happy to TOFTT. I'll see if I can make it happen.

Originally Posted by Pmess [View Original Post]

Adding link, and seconding. Has anyone had any luck with this one? Body looks amazing.

https://www.seeking.com/member/82a09...d-f1dc6feee11f

**SAVet2019** · 01-24-19 21:33

The word search function works:

https://www.seeking.com/member/82a09...d-f1dc6feee11f

Originally Posted by PaulRew [View Original Post]

Do you have a link for her? I seem to recall chasing after her at one point.

**Pmess** · 01-24-19 16:29

Originally Posted by Attwater [View Original Post]

Has anyone had any contact or luck with Lyndseylynn?

Adding link, and seconding. Has anyone had any luck with this one? Body looks amazing.

https://www.seeking.com/member/82a09...d-f1dc6feee11f

**SwimSays** · 01-24-19 14:59

Tatted Curvy MILF type out of Assonet area. Comes off semi pro and gets straight to the point. Curious if anyone has TOFTT and can report back?

Sets off my spidey sense but she's my guilty pleasure type so I may pull trigger.

Any info is appreciated!

**Aardvarks** · 01-24-19 13:57

Originally Posted by Joe1223 [View Original Post]

For those who have a significant other. What is your reply when your "date" asks if your married or attached? Do you lie and say no or are you up front and tell her the truth? The drawbacks with being truthful is that maybe some of the non pros on SA may have a standard that they don't want any drama that may follow a spouse or GF. If you say no and they want to come to your house how do you say they can't?

I deny, deny, deny and blame my make believe roommate for not being able to host.

I'm upfront with the long term ones because they're going to figure it out eventually. With the one offs they usually don't give a shit. I've gotten rejected for being married which is fine. There's such a good ratio of ladies to guys on SA that I just play the numbers (10000+ of them 3000 of us). Block all the ones I'm not attracted to or want platonic and then favorite the ones I'd like to meet.

Current roster:

23 yr old stripper who is rinsing the shit out of me but she's the hottest piece I've ever met. She likes dating married men.

29 yr old grad student who DTs better than anyone I've ever had. She asks about my wife all the time which is annoying.

31 yr old cosmetologist who's kind of a b* but does everything bare. Has never even asked about my home life.

So I guess it depends in the situation.

**Joe1223** · 01-24-19 12:57

For those who have a significant other. What is your reply when your "date" asks if your married or attached? Do you lie and say no or are you up front and tell her the truth? The drawbacks with being truthful is that maybe some of the non pros on SA may have a standard that they don't want any drama that may follow a spouse or GF. If you say no and they want to come to your house how do you say they can't?

I deny, deny, deny and blame my make believe roommate for not being able to host.