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[IrishGuy1977]

I never saw her but it does look like the same Bella.

I did not see her either but the Danny Boy tattoo is a dead give away. I have never seen anyone with the same tattoo.

[SeattleSi]

I never saw her but it does look like the same Bella.

I lost her number, otherwise I'd try and touch base with her and see if I can get a feel of what she's been up to. I know a bit about her past.

[Twister100]

Have been chatting with this one.

https://www.seeking.com/member/8c4fe...9-69e37b3dfd5a

She said her name is Bella.

She does resemble a bit the Bella that has been reported numerous times under different usernames.

Any of you gentleman that had had the unfortunate displeasure of meeting her, could please confirm if it is her.

I never saw her but it does look like the same Bella.

[DelToro]

Have been chatting with this one.

https://www.seeking.com/member/8c4fe...9-69e37b3dfd5a

She said her name is Bella.

She does resemble a bit the Bella that has been reported numerous times under different usernames.

Any of you gentleman that had had the unfortunate displeasure of meeting her, could please confirm if it is her.

[Michael1967]

https://twitter.com/SeattleSugarDad/...010019328?s=20

This Twitter porn guy seems to be sending girls out to have sex with any dudes that come to this location. If I was in Seattle I'd try it.

I've been watching this guy for a few months. He's full of shit. Everything he post or says seems to fantastic to be real. If women were that stupid, I would never pay.

[Router911]

Awesome!! Anyone with cumqueen in her name has got to be fun. Goiing to sign up for fetlife today. I think it may be where I need to be. .

I've been playing fetlife for a couple days. Its been difficult getting laid but I've been able to talk with some sexy milfs.

Most can't host or are available like providers. But I like my chances.

[Diver6390]

https://twitter.com/SeattleSugarDad/...010019328?s=20

This Twitter porn guy seems to be sending girls out to have sex with any dudes that come to this location. If I was in Seattle I'd try it.

You mean the "Odegaard" reference? I am not a UW student, never have been, but a quick Google search came up with an "Odegaard Undergraduate Library & Learning Commons". Not sure us 50+ folks would exactly fit in there.

[SometimeMonger]

https://twitter.com/SeattleSugarDad/...010019328?s=20

This Twitter porn guy seems to be sending girls out to have sex with any dudes that come to this location. If I was in Seattle I'd try it.

[Mojo567]

JessCumQueen on fetlife.

Fuck Yeah.

Rawdog 200 $.

Awesome!! Anyone with cumqueen in her name has got to be fun. Goiing to sign up for fetlife today. I think it may be where I need to be. .

[LetsGoBB]

It is not your mojo but your approach. Stop approaching it as a dating site. It is an arrangement you have a need, she has a need, and needs are time bound. A simple "hello" should suffice. If you are looking for a canned opener (fucking serious?) then you are very much wasting your hard earned money. May sound cliched but there are plenty fishes out there. Keep trying.

I think you are right if your target demographics are young twenty somethings that just want to fuck, get paid and leave. If your target is like in my case, early 30's, attention depraved, single mothers, the lets have a date and then fuck approach I think works better.

This is true for me as well, babies who I have targeted are in the 30's and I had better luck with them. They are just looking for attention and fun. Recently, I have been reaching out to twenty-something crowd, with mixed result. A few of them wanted allowance up front (cash app), some wanted 500-1 k for meet and greet, which I kindly decline. Some actually come back and offers less, but then they tell me they won't do certain things. So I politely decline again.

Just be up front with what you want, and if it doesn't work out for you, let them know what your comfortable with and tell them to get back to you if they want to have some fun. A few of the GPS, twenty-somethings would reply back with a "LOL" and "Good Luck". As along you are up front with what you want and what your willing do, you'll know then if it's going to work, you won't have to text, email for days or weeks to see if it's going to work.

I was lucky last night, was chatting with an early 20's baby the past few nights. Told her what I wanted, she told me what she want in return (500) for the first initial meet up and then negotiated for anything after the first time. Told her I would pass, saying that, if she was already okay with negotiated allowance, why want the 500 up front? She was in a tough spot, so she finally agreed to the future meets up allowance for the first time.

Went to pick up this hot little thing and came back to my place. We agreed on BBFS, no cip in our prior exchanges, which was fine. When we finally got to playing, and I was ready to pop and pull out, she said "no, you can finish inside" and that's what I did. Definitely going to see this one again

I'd asked later why she allowed me to finish inside, she said I made her feel comfortable all night, and she was cool with it. It's best to make them feel comfortable, not treat them like an escort or a piece of meat during the initial meet. You'll be able to go along way with it. This has been true for many other cases for me.

As far as getting them to connect with me, I give them my number (burner) and have them text me, after reading my profile, so they know what I am looking for.

Don't be set on one girl, or girls who you have heard offer BBFS, cip, cia and all that. You can be the one to report that you gotten that from someone who is unknown to us.

[DelToro]

It is not your mojo but your approach. Stop approaching it as a dating site.

I think you are right if your target demographics are young twenty somethings that just want to fuck, get paid and leave. If your target is like in my case, early 30's, attention depraved, single mothers, the lets have a date and then fuck approach I think works better.

[BuckNaked123]

Interesting, I've found that many of the women posted here have contacted me at some point. My profile uses all of the appropriate words and phrases like "discreet", "once or twice per month", "no monthly allowance" and other things like that. Only an idiot would not know what I'm looking for. So, if I just write a quick note saying I like their profile and to respond if they are interested. If they are interested, I know they are looking for Pay for play. I have a picture that's blurry, but I'm not like fat and ugly (so if you are, that may be a turn-off), at the same time, I'm not attractive either. Remember, the women have to pay to use the site also (only less), so they are probably about as hesitant to pay as we are. Shit, right now, I have 20 messages that I'm not responding to because I'm not willing to pay $89.95 (I'm not looking right now).

I think these ladies have a lot of choices if they are good looking and seem cool. They probably get 10 -30 new messages a day when they are active. And contrary to what Michael says, they are on their without having to pay at all. I know because I made an account as a female to see what the competition (meaning you guys) were saying and writing in their profile. LOL Who knows, maybe you already favorited me!

I also am on a break from SA because I am tired of the SA and have several go to girls I am still content with.

[IrishGuy1977]

Thank you. I tried. Maybe because I am using mobile browser. But no hits. Definitely not in the app. Very helpful. Thanks again.

Still have not tried from a PC. But mobile search for sure only searches profile text. User name searches do not return results. Unless of course they include it in the profile text.

[Dink9873]

Hey guys,

This is a bit off topic, but I've been falling FLAT when messaging girls mentioned in this forum. IE girls who have given BBFS, cia, cip, just simply not responding to me. It's the same for SA as well as SDM. I've lost my mojo. Could you guys give me a couple of canned openers, or general feedback of what opening messages are working for you? I'd really appreciate any help here.

I do the 7 day trial when I want new girls. This last time I had plenty of messages, and already met up with three girls. All under 300 bucks, all bareback. Stand your ground, some will say they don't do bareback in person. Most won't walk without money and do it anyways. The into provided on here is gold. Christmas time was awesome, all the single moms taking it raw to pay for gifts LOL.

[Michael1967]

It is not your mojo but your approach. Stop approaching it as a dating site. It is an arrangement you have a need, she has a need, and needs are time bound. A simple "hello" should suffice. If you are looking for a canned opener (fucking serious?) then you are very much wasting your hard earned money. May sound cliched but there are plenty fishes out there. Keep trying.

Interesting, I've found that many of the women posted here have contacted me at some point. My profile uses all of the appropriate words and phrases like "discreet", "once or twice per month", "no monthly allowance" and other things like that. Only an idiot would not know what I'm looking for. So, if I just write a quick note saying I like their profile and to respond if they are interested. If they are interested, I know they are looking for Pay for play. I have a picture that's blurry, but I'm not like fat and ugly (so if you are, that may be a turn-off), at the same time, I'm not attractive either. Remember, the women have to pay to use the site also (only less), so they are probably about as hesitant to pay as we are. Shit, right now, I have 20 messages that I'm not responding to because I'm not willing to pay $89.95 (I'm not looking right now). It could simply be the women are not looking for money now (try the first of the month) and aren't responding.